Chapter 862: Pressing the Burden
Tonight, Lian Shouxin set up a banquet and invited a lot of people to eat, but Zhang's and Lian Man'er sent someone to deliver good food to the old mansion!
Zhou specially instructed her to only cook rice and boil cabbage at night, she should have planned for a long time, and she should have waited to eat the dishes sent by Lian Shouxin.
Thinking about the meaning of Zhou's actions, Jiang only sighed silently.
Speaking of which, since the four-room company was trustworthy and separated, in terms of filial piety to the old man Lian and the Zhou family, he really did something to make the people in the village praise each other"" The novel chapter is updated the fastest. Just after the separation, everyone still lives in the shihou of the old house. That shihou, even the trustworthy family is not rich, and it is even worse than the average villager's family, let alone compared to the upper house.
But even in that shihou, whenever he made meat dishes, wrapped dumplings, or even boiled big bones, the Zhang family would pick them out before his family ate, send the children to the upper room and send a copy to the upper room, and honor the old man and the Zhou family.
Even now, some of the old people in Thirty Liyingzi who have been separated from each other often say that if their sons and daughters-in-law have half of the same as the Shouxin and Zhang families, even if it is a percent filial piety, they will be satisfied. Not to mention anything else, it's Shihou who has just separated from Xuelian Shouxin, who has made delicious food, and can remember to send a copy to his parents, so that's it.
These old people said with emotion that they were not greedy for a bite to eat, but greedy for that heart. was put in the heart by his son and daughter-in-law, and he was honored in his head.
In the village, there are not a few sons and daughters-in-law who live separately, and there are many things like sending food. For the general elderly, ruguo made shime delicious at home. will also give a copy to the children and grandchildren who have gone out of the family, so that the children and grandchildren can also have a bite, and they can feel comfortable. There is such an old man in the back street. If you make something delicious at home, you must first send one to your son who lives in the front yard, otherwise, he will not eat it.
Compared with these people, Jiang's zhidào, the old mansion is really not particular about this.
Ruguo was at the beginning, shihou who was still poor in the fourth room. They can do a good job, even if it's just to be courteous and reciprocal, the current situation. I'm afraid it's still a different story.
It is a pity that the person who is primarily responsible for this situation has no remorse for it.
"It's not necessarily that you don't really regret it," Jiang said. While thinking to himself. "It's just that her temperament is too stubborn, and she is used to being high, so she thinks that people can't do anything to her anyway, so she runs all the way to the dark."
However, living with a person with such a temperament is really who suffers and who suffers.
Thinking so in Jiang's heart, he heard the sound of Zhou and Old Man Lian talking from the house.
“…… Lose my conscience, I pulled him up with a handful of and urine. When he came out, he forgot about my mother behind his head. …… Isn't it always said that virtue and filial piety are spoken? She eats with a big mouth, forgetting that there is still an old man here? She's virtuous and filial! ”
"Say less, you'll be able to say it." Even the old man interrupted Zhou's complaints and curses in a deep voice, "When people send it to you, you say that you don't have a good heart, you do it for outsiders to see, and you pick the fat and thin." This time, people won't send it to you, and you say that you lose your conscience. What the hell do you want? ”
"You say this, you talk about it on the street, if you don't have a meal, you will make a fuss, you see if people are talking about you, or the fourth daughter-in-law. You don't have a face, I still have a face. ”
"Besides, this time it's not the matter of the fourth family, it's the matter of the old Zhang family. What contribution do you have to the old Zhang family? Why should the old Zhang family respect you? ”
Xu Shi also felt that it was indeed a loss, and even the old man reprimanded Zhou like this, but Zhou did not collide with Old Man Lian.
The room was quiet for a while, and then Zhou's voice came out again.
"Am I the one who cares about it? I'm not complaining that she doesn't bring me food, but how much do you think I've eaten as much as she did? I haven't eaten it all for you, and I'm going to follow suit. …… It's her who does this, and she méiyou reason. ”
Hearing that Zhou Shi actually said reason, Jiang Shi couldn't help but put her hands and feet more lightly, she was really curious about what kind of reason Zhou could say.
"The old Zhang family hires a daughter, why do you marry in the old Lian's family? Why do you go to Lao Lian's house to eat and drink? There is no one in his old Zhang family, or is he too poor to open the pot? He doesn't like to stumble, I stumble for him. …… That's my son's house, and I haven't gone up to lie down on the kang yet, so why do they come here again and again. If you don't catch up with Ming'er, just let the fourth child change his surname and give his old Zhang family a son-in-law! ”
"You don't need to touch the ground when you say this." Even the old man's tone revealed some impatience and anger. He is also in a bad mood now, but Zhou not only did not speak to relieve him, but added fuel to the fire and added more troubles to him. "These relatives, haven't you offended enough? You just give up, and if no one comes to the door, you will be happy. ”
"Why is the fourth child good to the old Zhang family, that is the old Zhang family used to be worthy of the fourth child!"
"Let's not talk about anything else, you listen to how people talk to the fourth child, can you listen to you again? Who can you get along with, not to mention your daughter-in-law, even your son wants to take a detour when he sees you! And your last sentence, what is it called, is that a human word? ”
"If you say one more thing later, you will go, and you will go wherever you fall in love. Our old family has a small temple, and we can't live in your big Buddha! ”
Even the old man said heavy things to Zhou, because what Zhou said was really outrageous, even if he connived at Zhou, he couldn't let Zhou say such things again. Don't say that this is spread outside, even on your own kang, you can't say it.
"Why are you going to divorce me?" Zhou's eyes narrowed, "I just said it casually, what can I do?" I'm gone, what do you think you can do with a good life? Without me serving you like this, can you be human? ”
The old couple stabbed each other, and then they both fell silent.
"His third aunt also asked me about it, saying that she would give two gifts if she didn't need it, saying that she heard that the old Wu family gave two gifts. I told her no. She has nothing to do with the old Zhang family, and she is in a hurry to follow the ceremony, and people still think that she is in a hurry, so it should be even more crazy. We sisters, we can't be looked down upon! ”
"What are you doing there? If they want to do it, let them do it. What else can they lose? They just follow two copies, and that is also looking at the fourth share. ”
"Then don't follow it, we sisters, we can't be looked down upon!" Zhou stubbornly repeated again.
Even the old man snorted and stopped talking.
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The sixth day of the first month of February is the first day of Zhang Caiyun's marriage. Early in the morning, everyone got up early and went about their work. Yijing has handled Lian Zhi'er's affairs, and everyone has jingyàn, which can be said to be busy but not chaotic.
Men don't get involved in this kind of thing.
Zhang Qingshan and Zhang Qingnian were in the courtyard of the front yard, standing and walking, and the expression on their faces was the kind of calm that tèbié pretended.
"It's a good day!" Zhang Qingshan carefully looked at the eastern sky and said.
"Well, it's a good day!" Zhang Qingnian also followed and looked at the sky and said.
Lian Shouxin came out of the house and saw such a scene, and he couldn't help but smile on his face. As a father, he was deeply touched by the feeling of hiring his daughter for the first time. As for the grandfather, it will be a shime-like mood......
Lian Shouxin's thoughts paused here for a moment, but mǎshàng bypassed, grandfather's mood, I think it is similar to that of a father, just look at Zhang Qingshan's appearance.
When Zhang Caiyun was almost dressed up, Zhang Yannian, Hu Shi and other people who gathered from Shaoguotun this morning to drink the wedding wine also arrived. The Zhang family came to a total of three cars, all of which were ordinary carts of the Zhuang family pulled by two mules. The car is on the méiyou carport, which is covered with futon, and everyone sits in a crowd, and a car can seat about a dozen people. There are the Zhang family's own family, the villagers who have good friendships in Tunzi, and the people from Zhang Caiyun's grandfather's family, and Zhang Caiyun's aunt Hu's mother's family also came.
Soon, the team of the Lu family to welcome the relatives also arrived.
Because of the proximity, the Lu family also prepared a sedan chair to welcome the family, and the groom Lu Bingwu was dressed in new clothes, with a large red silk flower on his chest, and rode a big green mule to walk in front of the team. On both sides of the road, it has long been crowded with adults and children watching the excitement, and they are full of praise for Lu Bingwu and the Lu family's welcoming family.
Shihou, who sent Zhang Caiyun to the sedan chair, everyone who drank the wine also got into the car and went to Qingyang Town.
There was a special big car in the team, and on the car was Zhang Caiyun's fine and soft dowry, mostly boxes and clothes wrapped in baggage. In this car, Yishui is full of happy children dressed up.
There is such a custom of marrying in Shaoguotun, that is, a few boys and girls are selected from the bride's family and relatives and sat on the dowry car, commonly known as "pressing the burden". The meaning of this custom is very rich, healthy and lively children are a symbol of auspiciousness and happiness, and people hope that this practice of tongguo will bring wealth and happiness to the newlyweds.
There are generally both boys and girls who press the burden, which means that the newlyweds will flourish in the future and have both children and daughters.
Pressing the burden can be said to be a beauty difference. Because after arriving at the man's house, the man's family wants to give red envelopes to these children who are burdened!
Red envelopes, that's a good thing that only Shihou can get for the New Year! Of course the little ones love it.
Of course, this kind of beauty is not something that everyone can get their turn in. It has to be the guānxitèbié iron of the bride's family, which is highly valued by the bride's family. Moreover, there are generally not many children who are burdened, and you have to take into account the mood of the man who gives the red envelope. Or the family conditions are not very good, or the family conditions are good, but people are stingy, and some people even only have two children who are burdened.
Zhang Caiyun and Lu Bingwu became married, and naturally méiyou these problems.
… Ask for pink
I still remember the little shihou pressing the burden, good star lake (≥◇≤)
That shihou,Just tongguo, this zhidào, who is the best with my parents.,Haha.。 (To be continued......)