The second is to ask for pink.

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After listening to Daliangzi's daughter-in-law talk about the family affairs of Yingzi's family for a while, Lian Man'er pulled Zhang Caiyun out of the study. They did not go back to the front hall to accompany the guests, but walked to the backyard, moved a small bench by themselves, and sat in the middle of the flowers and trees in the courtyard to bask in the sun.

In the early summer weather, the sun is not scorching, and there is a breeze blowing on the body, which is very comfortable.

"Hey......" Lian Man'er sighed.

"Hey......" Zhang Caiyun also sighed.

The two little girls looked at each other and smiled.

Zhang Caiyun has a straightforward temper, so he opened his mouth first.

"My grandmother and my mother said at home that Zhi'er's sister's life is good. …… I suffered when I was a child, and I brought out all my life's share, and in the future, I will be able to manage and protect everything in Chapter 499. ”

suddenly mentioned Lian Zhi'er's good life, and Lian Man'er somewhat understood what Zhang Caiyun was thinking. It was in the kitchen just now that I heard about the family affairs of the Yingzi family, which made Zhang Caiyun feel emotional, and I am afraid that she also thought of herself.

Even if he is broad-hearted and spicy like Zhang Caiyun, there is some uncertainty and panic about the future, that is to say, relatives and marriages. And even Man'er has a lot of emotion at the moment.

It's hard to be a woman, especially in this day and age. Look at Yingzi's mother, who has been beaten and scolded by men for most of her life, in front of her man, her status is similar to that of a domestic dog. The cowering look and the arched back all spoke of her suffering. And to this man who beat and scolded her, she behaved like a dog. There doesn't seem to be a grudge. Only fear, obedience.

Yingzi's mother bumped into Lianhua'er when Yingzi's father was at a disadvantage in the tearing of Lian Hua'er. When he was kicked down by Yingzi's father on the official road, he got up silently and continued to follow Yingzi's father.

Lian Man'er thought of her two little milk dogs. I don't think it's appropriate to compare Yingzi's mother to a dog. At least in their house, no one would kick and beat the two little milk dogs. Those two little ones are very favored.

And Ying Chapter 499 Reiko grew up in such a family environment. It's no wonder that he has formed such a shameless character.

You Yingzi's mother, Lian Man'er thought of Zhang's and Zhao's again. One of the reasons why the Lian family has the reputation of a kind-hearted family in Shili Eight Village is that the men of the Lian family never beat their daughters-in-law. Let's just say that even the old man, even if he was angry with Zhou and wanted to vomit blood, he never moved a finger of Zhou.

Zhou scolded his daughter-in-law and treated her harshly in life. But she didn't hit her daughter-in-law.

Even being trustworthy and filial, seeing that the Zhang family was wronged, did not dare to defend the Zhang family in front of the Zhou family. However, behind the backs of the two couples, Lian Shouxin was willing to lower his body and coax the Zhang family. The husband and wife are very affectionate. And the Zhao family. was also abused by the Zhou family, but she did not give birth to a son, and even Shouli never blamed the Zhao family for this, and the two lived in great harmony.

Like Zhang Qingshan's family, the Li family has a good temperament as a mother-in-law, and never deliberately makes things difficult for her daughter-in-law, there are not many families with a harmonious family, and people like Lianjia are even good people in the mouth.

If it weren't for Lian Shouren, he would have sold her to be martyred. The Zhang family was pushed down by Lian Xiu'er and almost killed two corpses, and she made so many efforts to separate the family, so in the lifetime of the old man Lian and the Zhou family, it is impossible for the family to be separated. Zhang, Zhao, and their children will continue to live in the shadow of the Zhou family. also has to "carry a long life" for Lian Shouren's group, living without self, without dignity, numb and pathetic.

And the saddest thing is that they live such a miserable life, but they don't know it at all, and even have a sense of happiness or belonging, and they are loyal to the people who caused their tragedy and constantly oppressed them.

For example, Yingzi's mother, and the former Lian Shouxin and Zhang's family.

Now sitting in the yard of his house, surrounded by flowers and trees, and comfortably basking in the sun, as long as he thinks of that possibility, he feels creepy.

However, even in such social conditions, is it inevitable that women will be unhappy?

Not really.

"It's man-made, Sister Caiyun, no matter what happens, it depends on the individual." Lian Man'er said slowly, "Let's give an example. I don't have a son, look at my third uncle, I have a nest, even with Ye'er, it's like a little angry bag. …… In the past two years, Ye'er has grown a little older, and it is better than before. But the old Wang's car shop in Taicang is the family where my brother Sanlang joined the family, and the people are different. …… People live their lives, they know what they want, and they know what they plan for. I don't have a son who is afraid of anything, and I don't think I'm inferior to others. People can raise their daughters as sons, and now that I have recruited Brother Sanlang, I will be supported in the future or something, and it will be no worse than those who have sons. ”

"And my sister-in-law, who has been married for many years, and gave birth to a daughter, that family is still the most decent daughter-in-law, and no good thing can be missing her."

"Yingzi's mother has been beaten all her life, and her children have not been educated well, is it just because Yingzi's father lacks heart and is out of tune? You see my milk is amazing, my second uncle and my second aunt, that's not easy to mess with, but my sister-in-law Xiu'e entered the door, and she surrendered my second uncle and my second aunt, choking on my milk, and never suffered a loss. I went home and lived a few times, what should I do when I come back, who dares to underestimate her? Now that I have given birth to a girl, I still have to do what I should be. ”

"I'm just giving an example, and it's not that my sister-in-law in the lobby and sister-in-law Xiu'e are doing everything right."

"Anyway, it's man-made, different people, when they encounter the same thing, that person's life is different. The key is that we have to fight for ourselves! Lian Man'er finally said to Zhang Caiyun.

"Yes, Man'er, you're so right." Zhang Caiyun originally had such a little sadness, but when Lian Man'er said this, it suddenly disappeared.

Lian Man'er smiled, her words were not only to explain Zhang Caiyun, but also to herself.

In this era, men are inferior to women, and all kinds of oppression and injustice are imposed on women, but so what, if you have to fight for yourself, work hard by yourself, and make up your mind, you can live a wonderful and happy life.

Lian Man'er and Zhang Caiyun sat in the backyard for a while, and Zhang and Wulang came over.

"Come into the house, let's discuss something. Caiyun also comes, this is not behind your back. Zhang said.

Zhang Caiyun said with a smile that he went to play with Xiao Qi, and ran to the front yard, where Zhang, Wulang and Lian Man'er, mother and son, entered the landlord's house and sat on the kang.

"Both families have given gifts, this is the May Festival soon, let's discuss what to give back to these two families?" Zhang said, "I really don't want to accept your aunt's gift." She's not ordinary. This time and again, if it were on us, we would have no face to come again. ”

"My aunt, we didn't open the bag anyway, so let's just give it back to her in a while." Lian Man'er thought about it and said.

"This ......" Zhang didn't respond immediately, she has a gentle temperament, and she always wants to save face in everything.

"That's fine." Gorou nodded.

"That's—that's it." The eldest son and the youngest girl with the most ideas all said this, and Zhang also nodded.

"What about the Song family?" Zhang asked his son and daughter's opinion again.

Regarding the dealings with the Song family, Lian Man'er's family has actually communicated for a long time.

It turned out that the Song family had set up Lian Hua'er, but there was very little contact with the Lian family, and even the basic etiquette was extremely perfunctory. That's still for the upper room, let alone for them.

The Song family gave gifts and showed goodwill, or after Shen Liu came to Lianji. Then, with the archway of the imperial gift, the Song family's rites became thick and frequent. Now, Wulang has won the child, and the Song family immediately sent a generous gift, from the attitude of Song Hailong and Lian Hua'er, you can see the attitude of the old lady of the Song family towards them.

The Song family treated them so politely, firstly because of the Shen family, and secondly because of Wulang.

And they don't need to keep in touch with the Song family just because of the relationship with the flowers. The old lady of the Song family may not understand this, but it is a matter of course to send Lian Hua'er every time, and of course, there is no hope that the two families will be closer and closer by virtue of the blood relationship between Lian Hua'er and their family.

In short, the relationship with the Song family does not need to be intimate, if the Song family comes, they will have a future.

The three of them discussed the return gift to the Song family, and then returned to the front.

The meals in the kitchen are all done, the table is placed in the front hall, there is a table of male guests on the ground, a table of female guests on the kang, after eating and drinking, Song Hailong first proposed to say goodbye.

Lian Shouxin and Wulang stayed a little, so they gave up, took out the return gifts one by one, let people move into the car from the Song family, and asked Song Hailong and Lian Hua'er to ask the old lady of the Song family how she was, and then sent people away.

Outside the door, when Song Hailong, Lian Hua'er and Lian Lan'er were about to get into the car, a small episode occurred.

When she came, Lian Lan'er was in a car with Song Hailong and Lian Hua'er, and followed Aunt Sun and Xiaohong, who were waiting, in another car with gifts. And this time, Lian Lan'er naturally still wanted to share the car with Lian Hua'er.

Then Lian Hua'er asked Aunt Sun to invite Lian Lan'er to sit in a car behind on the grounds that she had broken her foot.

Lian Man'er saw everything in her eyes and smiled secretly in her heart.

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On the official road leading to Jinyang County, the two carriages of the Song family galloped one after the other. In the car in front, Lian Hua'er's gaze swirled around Song Hailong, and then let out a sigh.

"It's all my fault this time, if you can't make a face, you shouldn't agree to let my aunt come with us." Even the flowers are quiet and authentic.

Song Hailong snorted and did not speak.

"You haven't seen it yet, my aunt has offended my fourth uncle's family. didn't let us go to the backyard to sit, we were affected by my aunt......" Lian Hua'er said to herself.

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