Chapter 21: Two Extremes
The homeroom teacher estimated that he was very angry with Wu Xuehai back then, so as soon as he mentioned him, he had a feeling that he was angry, and after a few words of complaining, he also realized that Dai Xu and Fang Yuan came over, in addition to asking Ke Xiaowen who had already had an accident, they actually inquired about Wu Xuehai, there must be some reason.
"What is this Wu Xuehai...... What about the matter? Still is......? "The homeroom teacher was afraid that she would say the wrong thing, so she asked cautiously and didn't dare to say it too bluntly.
Dai Xu shook his head: "Only Ke Xiaowen was the one who had the accident, but as you know, Ke Xiaowen's family situation is more complicated, but as a senior high school student, his social scope of life is actually relatively narrow, and his interpersonal relationships are relatively simple, so we want to start from the perspective of his family members first." This kind of thing, it is not appropriate to ask Ke Xiaowen's father or Wu Xuehai's mother to ask, we think that if we understand the situation from the school, the information we get will be more objective and fair, and it will be more valuable. ”
The homeroom teacher nodded solemnly and solemnly: "Then do you want me to provide you with Ke Xiaowen's situation first, or Wu Xuehai's situation first?" ”
"It's still Wu Xuehai, Ke Xiaowen's situation, we also heard about it from his high school teacher, basically from junior high school to high school, he is a good student who makes teachers worry about it." Dai Xu made a decision without hesitation, "Wu Xuehai went to a vocational high school after graduating from junior high school, and he is not in the same school as Ke Xiaowen, so it is not easy for us to understand how the two of them get along every day." You also need help from a teacher. ”
"Okay, this is no problem, it is a human life. That's a big deal. The homeroom teacher sighed again, "Pity Ke Xiaowen for such a good child, I'm not saying that anyone deserves to have an accident, as far as I'm concerned, I hope everyone is well, but Ke Xiaowen is really the kind of student who I think will not have an accident if anyone has an accident, and his academic performance is good." Usually people are also honest, don't say much, and don't contradict teachers. I don't mess with my classmates, let's put it this way, I don't know what happened to him after he went to high school, but when he was in junior high school. The whole class doesn't care about the children who are good at learning. is still the one who is not good at learning to be naughty and mischievous, the only one who has nothing to provoke Ke Xiaowen is really Wu Xuehai alone, no matter how naughty others are, no matter how mixed the students are, Ke Xiaowen is also in the state of being in a state where well water does not violate river water, alas, something happened to him. It's a little hard to imagine. ”
"yes, we've got the situation. I also feel very sorry, "Fang Yuan followed the words of the homeroom teacher, of course, this is indeed the true feeling of her and Dai Xu, like Ke Xiaowen, a decent and good student, why he was poisoned, it is still a little puzzling, according to ordinary theories and laws, like Ke Xiaowen's state, it should be a low-risk group threatened by crime, but unfortunately, low risk does not equal zero risk, when bad luck befalls the head, Ke Xiaowen is also difficult to avoid.
The most important thing is that only Wu Xuehai provoked Ke Xiaowen, which immediately attracted Fang Yuan's attention: "Are you saying that Wu Xuehai has been bullying Ke Xiaowen since he was in junior high school?" ”
"Yes," the homeroom teacher replied firmly, "and this incident has also made me angry. I don't know if you have an understanding of this, people from childhood to adulthood, let's not count college, from primary school to high school graduation, a total of 12 years, here is actually the most difficult to discipline, is junior high school these three years, forward, primary school after all, after all, is still young, nothing more than naughty, the nature is relatively simple, in the future, to high school, in fact, on the one hand, a little bigger, the character can be a little calmer, on the other hand, the crowd differentiation has almost been completed, is to study hard in school, is still skipping school and skipping school all day long to go to Internet cafes outside, and they all already have their own small groups, and no one is too likely to provoke anyone. The three years of junior high school in the middle are the most troublesome, just in adolescence, impulsive, and rebellious, and if you are not careful, you will easily get into trouble and take the wrong path. ”
"You're absolutely right, it was really a chaotic three years in junior high school." Dai Xu nodded.
The head teacher saw that his views were supported, and he was very pleased, he sighed and said: "My class, basically the largest number of students in each class in each class, what about our junior high school, when we entered the school, we were not divided into classes according to the grades of the junior high school, basically immediately disrupted, the situation of our class, I probably mentioned it to you before, so there are many good students, and there are many naughty mischievous people who don't study, to be honest, I am not afraid of your jokes, and my experience alone is limited, Let me take charge of the seventy or even eighty people, and take care of each of them, and I really can't be so comprehensive, so basically the students in the class, I am the top student before the grade test, the most naughty junior student, and the middle student...... I really can't take care of it, I can only rely on their own self-consciousness, and if they work hard to get results, I can take care of it a little more. You say Ke Xiaowen and Wu Xuehai, these two are more coincidental, just one of the most well-behaved top students, and one of the most headache junior students. ”
"It's a coincidence, these two people happen to be two extremes." Dai Xu nodded.
"Isn't it, it's not an exaggeration to say that Ke Xiaowen is worry-free, Wu Xuehai is worry-free!" The homeroom teacher looked helpless, "I didn't know at first that the two of them were brothers in the kind of remarried family, and I thought they were uncles and relatives, so I didn't have the same surname, and said that they were brothers, and they had to be in the same class. After knowing that the two of them are the kind of brothers who reorganize the family, I am still quite angry, because Wu Xuehai has been messing with Ke Xiaowen, I can't be angry about this, if someone else stirs up the top students in my class, so that people can't devote themselves to studying, I will definitely be angry, not to mention whether it is close or not, Ke Xiaowen is also Wu Xuehai's younger brother, how can there be a reason to be an elder brother who secretly makes a bad mistake and bullies his younger brother with others, for this matter, I have not looked for parents. Wu Xuehai's mother has come to school many times, apologizing and pleading, and each time she can restrain for a few days. Then it was revealed again, and he didn't even want to pretend to be me for a few more days. ”
The homeroom teacher said angrily, although he hadn't mentioned the specific situation of the matter, but he had already let Fang Yuan, who was listening, hear a little clue, Wu Xuehai bullied Ke Xiaowen correctly, from the mention in Ke Xiaowen's diary, Wu Xuehai robbed him of his New Year's money in front of him. But the homeroom teacher said that he was secretly doing bad things and bullying Ke Xiaowen with others, which made Fang Yuan feel a little strange.
Wu Xuehai teamed up with others to bully Ke Xiaowen. Is it just that he doesn't like him, or is it for some other reason, or is there some other behavior? She asked the homeroom teacher.
"It's not just a disagreeable look, it's a money grab." The homeroom teacher said. "It's not uncommon to see that kind of situation around junior high school. However, it is relatively secretive, and it is not easy for teachers to find out. Wu Xuehai's incident was poked out, and he was not very lucky, originally he himself was not promising, instigating others to rob Ke Xiaowen, and after robbing it, he went back and shared the money together, but one day, the people who stopped Ke Xiaowen from robbing the money happened to be bumped into by a teacher passing by. I'm also a physical education teacher, and my physique is very good. The homeroom teacher asked, Ke Xiaowen had been asked by the student several times, and the head teacher asked him why he was staring at Ke Xiaowen to find trouble, no matter how mixed the student was, after all, he was also a fourteen or fifteen-year-old child, and he told the truth when he was nervous, saying that Wu Xuehai told them that Ke Xiaowen's father would give him money one day, how much money he had in his pocket, and then they were responsible for robbing it, and several people shared it together after the robbery. At this moment, Wu Xuehai was exposed. ”
"And how did you deal with it?"
"I called Wu Xuehai and asked, as soon as he was scared, he admitted it, and after admitting it, I called his mother and told her about the good things Wu Xuehai did, alas, being a teacher is not shirking responsibility, family education is really much greater than school education has a much greater impact on children, school education fails or is not in place, children are at most not solid enough in cultural knowledge, and parents' words and deeds determine whether a child's personality is sound, and whether the worldview values are right." When the homeroom teacher mentioned Wu Shuqin, she also disagreed, "As a result, after I told Wu Xuehai what he did, what did his mother say?" His mother smiled and said to me, it's okay, the child's pranks, petty fights, this time I criticized, I will definitely not dare next time. I couldn't find the words to say it all of a sudden, and then I told her, don't take the evil as a small thing, regardless of whether the adults think it's a prank, but after all, he instigated others to rob Ke Xiaowen. Do you know what Wu Xuehai's mother told me? She said that the brothers had no grudges, and she went home to deal with housework. ”
Such an answer actually sounded to Fang Yuan and Dai Xu, they were not surprised at all, if Wu Shuqin would teach Wu Xuehai a lesson categorically, and attach great importance to this matter, then it would really be strange, this woman's connivance with her own son had already opened Fang Yuan's eyes.
"Then after looking for Wu Xuehai's mother, did Wu Xuehai have any other troublesome behaviors towards Ke Xiaowen?" Although Dai Xu used a question, judging from his expression, he obviously didn't have much hope.
The homeroom teacher also smiled bitterly: "I said that you don't believe it?" For a child like Wu Xuehai, it is impossible to have any effect if he is not disciplined harshly. Didn't I say it before, I called a parent for two days, and then it returned to its original appearance, and then it was torn up anyway, and he simply didn't pretend to be anything, and he had nothing to do to stir up Ke Xiaowen, take his things, pull his rolls, pick up his stationery, schoolbag, and run to the women's toilet, push the door and throw it in, alas, just these things, I really brought so many students, and I didn't find one better than Wu Xuehai to block me! If he makes trouble, I have to call his mother over again, I have called him more times, Wu Xuehai's mother has a lot of opinions about me, saying that she is very busy with work, and thinks that I am targeting her son, saying that if Ke Xiaowen has conflicts with others, can I also find parents so often, I said that if Ke Xiaowen bullied your son, then I will call his father, and she has nothing to say. ”
"What is Ke Xiaowen's attitude? He has been bullied by Wu Xuehai? Fang Yuan asked.
The homeroom teacher nodded: "Ke Xiaowen is too honest, if you let me have to say that this child has any shortcomings, then it is estimated that this honest thing can be counted, this child is too honest, honest is a bit of a wretch, let alone dare not resist after being bullied, he didn't even dare to react to me, he endured it silently alone, which made people really angry and distressed, he later told me, let me not hold grievances for him, after all, he and Wu Xuehai are still living under the same roof, and Wu Xuehai does not dare to do things at school, He may dare to go home, even if he lives on campus, he still has to go home on weekends and holidays. I heard this at the time, don't mention how uncomfortable it was, go home and tell my daughter-in-law that it's so important for the two of them to live a good life and run a family well, you said, if it weren't for Ke Xiaowen's parents who divorced and remarried Wu Xuehai's mother, Ke Xiaowen is such a child, at the age of fourteen or fifteen, how can he learn so much forbearance, it's very sad to think about it. ”
Dai Xu sighed, he had been understanding the situation around Ke Xiaowen for the past two days, he also felt the same way about the homeroom teacher's feelings, but he never showed it, after all, although Fang Yuan was not in the same situation as Ke Xiaowen, she also had a certain similar state of mind, although she was now much more open-minded than she was at the beginning, it seemed that she had seen it and let it go, but Dai Xu also understood that some wounds were scabbed, and they didn't hurt anymore, and they didn't touch it, it didn't mean that they didn't exist, so he had been paying attention to Fang Yuan's state for the past two days.
"Then have you told Ke Xiaowen's father about this?" Fang Yuan asked.
The homeroom teacher said: "I told Ke Xiaowen's father, in order to let him have a number, I specially asked Ke Xiaowen to inform his father and come over to attend the parent-teacher meeting, after the parent-teacher meeting, I left him behind and told him, because I don't know what Wu Xuehai's mother will say about this, whether the two have communicated, although I am a teacher, but after all, I am also an outsider, so the reminder will be more tactful, Ke Xiaowen's father just smiled at the time, saying that between boys, it is normal to have a little fighting, It's good to grow up. (To be continued......)