Dai Xu listened to Fang Yuan's words, he didn't react immediately, but was silent for a while, for his silence, Fang Yuan also felt that it was understandable, these troubles in his own family, after all, were private matters, even if outsiders persuaded them, they could only persuade them, and they couldn't fundamentally solve the problem, not to mention that Qing officials could cut off family affairs, whether Dai Xu was his predecessor, at the same time, even from the perspective of his roommates, I am afraid he would not praise and say too much.

After being silent for a while, Dai Xu suddenly sighed and said, "Actually, your emotional reaction is also normal, but I was a little unrealistic and whimsical before. I thought that after graduation, you officially came to work in the public security bureau, you were financially independent, and there were no longer many things that you needed to turn to your parents for, and maybe your emotions would slowly be freed from what the two of them did, and you would no longer continue to be affected, but now that I think about it, my idea itself is quite idealistic. The blood bond between parents and children will not disappear because of the failure of both parties or one of them, or whether they are dependent on each other, such as today's incident, the matter that you just feel wronged can be regarded as an example. ”

"And what do you mean?" Fang Yuan asked, "Because the blood bond cannot be erased, do my parents have the right to influence my choice, or do I have the obligation to obey them against my will?" ”

"That's what I want to say to you, blood is a bond, but not a bondage, you are not willing to sacrifice your will to cater to others, this is a kind of maintenance of your own interests, they want to use you as a bet. Isn't it also a kind of protection of one's own interests to protect oneself? Dai Xu smiled at Fang Yuan and persuaded her. So everyone actually puts it bluntly, every word and deed is out of selfishness, but the difference is that some people's selfishness will not affect or damage others, but some people. They will put their selfishness above everyone else, and we can only regret to say that your mother is the second kind of person. But do you know the difference between bondage and bondage? If it's a bundle. Then you have no choice, no matter what your subjective will is, you can only submit, but fetters are not. The fetters just can't be shaken off. You may not be able to realize your dream of pure ears, but the final decision is still in your hands. Having said all this nonsense, in fact, I just want to tell you that I feel that since the end of your internship, you have had your own life trajectory with an independent attitude, and I can see it. If you're happy with where you are, stick to your path. Live according to your own wishes, since your parents have chosen their own interests first, then you must take care of yourself, because your personal interests are only you have the right to grasp and maintain. ”

After Fang Yuan heard what he said, the knots in his heart that were originally stubborn seemed to be loosened a lot by what he said. Maybe the sentence "people don't kill the heavens and the earth for themselves" seems a bit extreme, but in fact, anyone in this world, who can really have no selfishness, but the strength of selfishness is different, just because he has a pair of selfish parents, so he must be kind to himself and follow his own wishes.

Seeing Fang Yuan's thoughtful look, Dai Xu added: "Actually, you have already recognized the facts before you are financially independent, since you have recognized the facts, you shouldn't still have any illusions, I don't want to pour cold water on you, but sometimes the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, it's better to see through it, see it away, so you can still be a little free, you can't let go, the sad person is still yourself in the final analysis." ”

Fang Yuan nodded: "You're right, I actually always thought that I was quite open-minded, but in the past few days, dealing with Ke Xiaowen's affairs was originally a bit touching, but coincidentally, my mother added another block to me at this time, and I realized that I still had unrealistic fantasies, so I felt very disappointed after figuring out the truth that my mother suddenly showed favor to me and expressed affection." You can rest assured, I am not the kind of person who will give up even his own principles for the so-called filial piety of his children, what is my bottom line, I know in my heart, my parents have not lived their lives clearly, I don't want to follow their old path. ”

When Dai Xu heard her say this, he smiled: "Confidence, self, this is the Fang Yuan in my impression." ”

Fang Yuan smiled a little embarrassedly, picked up the Coke and took two sips, suddenly felt that Dai Xu's words were smacking, it seemed to have something else, after thinking about it, she remembered that Dai Xu said that the two of them had already intersected, this time was busy, He Ning was still making the final decision about whether she wanted to transfer jobs and leave City C, so Fang Yuan was embarrassed to make trouble for He Ning at this juncture, and secondly, she herself almost forgot about this matter again, and now she heard Dai Xu say such a sentence, Only then did they get hooked.

"Didn't you say the two of us had already met? So when exactly? She asked Dai Xu directly, although she had forgotten this question before, it didn't mean that she wouldn't be curious when she thought about it now.

"Can you remember?" Dai Xu didn't answer, but asked Fang Yuan rhetorically.

Fang Yuan quickly searched in his memory again, but he still couldn't remember, so he could only shake his head honestly: "Listen to what you said before, you must have seen me when I was in college, but the age difference between the two of us seems unlikely to have dealt with each other as senior brothers and sisters in school, when I entered the school, you should have already graduated for a year or two, right?" I've never had a very good memory, and sometimes I have face blindness, so ...... Can you give me a hint? ”

Dai Xu smiled bitterly and shook his head: "No, I hope you can remember it yourself." ”

Fang Yuan was a little embarrassed, she thought about it, she felt that she and Dai Xu should not have a particularly serious intersection, otherwise no matter how bad her memory was, she would not be completely unimpressed, after all, a big man like Dai Xu, no matter where he went, his recognition was still quite high, but if there was no special intersection, why would Dai Xu look very familiar with him? The more she thought about it, the more confused she became. If you pretend to think of something, you can't lie and make up nonsense, and if you tell the truth, you can't remember it anyway. She couldn't bear to disappoint Dai Xu. From the internship to the present, how much help and encouragement Dai Xu has given him, Fang Yuan himself is almost unclear, if it weren't for him, I'm afraid he wouldn't be in such a state now.

Thinking about it like this, she couldn't help but blame herself in her heart, why can't her memory be better? If only I had a better memory. There is no need to be like this, which makes Dai Xu a little disappointed.

Dai Xu looked a little embarrassed and tried to meditate hard. Finally, he was still amused, patted Fang Yuan, and said to her, "It's okay, I'll tease you." You think slowly. It's not a big deal if I can't think of it, and when the time comes, I'll tell you if I can't think of it. ”

Fang Yuan's curiosity was raised even higher by him saying this, but he was embarrassed to ask when Dai Xu thought it was the right time, so he had to nod. Keep eating her pizza.

I don't know if I ate something delicious that soothed my emotions, or if Dai Xu had a role in persuading me. After dinner, although Fang Yuan couldn't be completely relieved of the other party's mother's words and deeds, she also felt that her mood had improved a lot, she chatted with Dai Xu about the case again, it was not too early, so they washed up, went back to their rooms to rest, and continued to devote themselves to the investigation the next day.

The next day, the two of them also had a little understanding of Hong Qing's current situation, as well as some of Wu Shuqin's past, Hong Qing's personal economic situation, I'm afraid it is even less ideal than she seems on the surface, Ke Li left her arrears when she divorced her, basically she was lost during the period when her business was not doing well, and then she also frequently went on blind dates a few times, but because the economic conditions of the blind date object are relatively high, so after several times there was no result, there was no follow-up, I don't know if she turned her target to her ex-husband Ke Lili, whether it was also related to the fact that she had failed to go on a blind date with other people.

And Wu Shuqin's side, although the time point when she bought a lot of sleeping pills was a little sensitive, it was not so easy to understand the specific situation, after all, the sleeping pills were brought home by Wu Shuqin, and what was the purpose of the matter, except for the parties, no one could say why.

However, Fang Yuan and Dai Xu learned some information about Wu Shuqin's divorce from her ex-husband.

Wu Shuqin's ex-husband is a truck driver, running long distances, the two are junior high school classmates, it is said that when you go to school, you come and go, have feelings, the other party began to follow others after graduating from junior high school, Wu Shuqin studied secondary school nursing, after graduation, was assigned to a hospital in City A, became a nurse, after the two reached the legal age, they got married, and Wu Xuehai was born soon after marriage.

Of course, Wu Xuehai was not surnamed Wu, but followed his biological father's surname, and the surname Wu was that after the tragic divorce war between Wu Shuqin and her ex-husband, she successfully obtained the custody of her son, so she went to the police station to change Wu Xuehai's surname before the child did not get an ID card, intending to completely break off the relationship with her ex-husband.

And the reason why Wu Shuqin divorced her ex-husband is also very complicated.

First of all, Wu Shuqin's ex-husband is an alcoholic, except for running long distances, he doesn't dare to drink, as long as he finishes a trip and rests at home, he gets drunk almost every day, and walks staggeringly, the most important thing is that Wu Shuqin's ex-husband's wine is not very good, and he has a great temper after getting drunk, and if he is a little uncomfortable at home, he will pull Wu Xuehai and beat him inexplicably, if Wu Shuqin blocks or abuses, he will also be beaten, and wait until he sobers up the next day, and then apologize for beating him. After the Tao Guoqian, it may be less than a day later, and the next war will break out again.

Secondly, Wu Shuqin's ex-husband's private life is not clean. In the first few years after Wu Shuqin and her ex-husband got married, life was quite stable, even if her ex-husband was drunk and troublesome, it was a troublesome matter, but Wu Shuqin seemed to be more patient with this, and it didn't cause much trouble, and it didn't make life unbearable. What really affected their lives was when Wu Shuqin's ex-husband went out to run long distances with other people in the team, because sometimes a car needs to be delivered to many stations along the way, and a round trip is almost a month or even longer, and there will inevitably be more boring and lonely times on the road, and the long-distance freight driver has a relatively considerable income among other job types at the same level at that time, so some people in the team began to have a lot of flowers, and when the night was long, they started to have the idea of going out. And Wu Shuqin's ex-husband actually came and went, and he couldn't bear the loneliness, so he went into the water with him.

Wu Shuqin didn't know about it at first, until her ex-husband got sick and even brought it home to infect her, that she understood what good things her ex-husband had done outside.

So the war between the two people gradually heated up with the embarrassment and shame brought about by the treatment, from the original fight only when drunk to fight no matter whether they were sober or drunk.

Of course, this fight is also limited to Wu Shuqin's ex-husband beating Wu Shuqin, although Wu Shuqin is unforgiving, but after all, she is a woman, and she does not have the advantage of fighting with her ex-husband in terms of physical strength. In the face of such a request, Wu Shuqin's ex-husband also gave a clear answer - another beating.

The fight between the two changed from drinking to cheating, and from cheating to divorce.

As long as Wu Shuqin mentions a divorce, her ex-husband will beat her and Wu Xuehai in turn, beating her with a blue nose and swollen face, embarrassed, it is said that Wu Xuehai does not look fierce and domineering outside, in front of his biological father, he will always look like a mouse seeing a cat, and he only dares to use the violence he learned from his biological father to bully others.

I don't know how many times I was beaten, and after still failing to get a divorce, Wu Shuqin began to solve the problem with her own methods, she put diuretics in the wine that her ex-husband drank every day, and her ex-husband didn't find anything abnormal at first, and she still scolded Wu Shuqin from time to time, Wu Shuqin still repeatedly proposed to divorce, and every time she raised it, it would attract another beating and scolding, and then Wu Shuqin's ex-husband slowly felt that something was not quite right in her body, and went to the hospital for examination, and found that her body had electrolyte disorders, elevated blood uric acid and other adverse reactions. According to the doctor's judgment, it should be an adverse reaction after taking a large amount of diuretics.

Wu Shuqin's ex-husband was furious, and decided that Wu Shuqin was to blame, and went home and beat her again, but Wu Shuqin did not have any fear this time, and said coldly to her ex-husband while being beaten: "Otherwise, you will simply beat me to death this time, or you will divorce me, otherwise, next time it will not be a diuretic." (To be continued......)