"It has long been an indisputable fact that we live in a society where affection is everywhere. In this case, the best way to deal with it is to standardize human feelings. My brother still settles the accounts, isn't he afraid that the accounts will be rotten, and in the end, he won't even be able to do it?

The same is true of human affection, there is no account book, and it is bound to be a sparse one. Rather than getting to the end to say that the public is reasonable, the mother says that the mother is reasonable, turns against each other, or dies and does not get along, it is better to keep an account as early as possible. When the time comes, it's clear who is right and who is wrong, isn't it? ”

Pan Le never worries that he will become the one who made a mistake in terms of human sophistication, and in this regard, Pan Le is quite confident! Because of this, he insisted on standardizing human feelings. When the time comes, no one will be able to rely on him, and the value of his personality and character will be ruined.

This is the second criterion thrown out by Pan Le after continuing the principle of 'mutual benefit and win-win', that is, 'standardization of human feelings'.

If it weren't for the appearance of such a guy as Xiao Linzi, Pan Le would not have thrown out this stalk now. Because this kind of human standard hinders the development of human networking.

People who like this principle will naturally like to associate with Pan Le more and more; But if you don't like this principle, you're bound to drift away.

For example, the perceptual existence corresponding to rationalization is less willing to accept this principle. In the eyes of this kind of person, the standardization of human feelings is tantamount to a kind of transaction, which cannot be accepted.

But Pan Le can't continue to hide his own code of conduct, because Xiao Linzi is too good at camping. No matter who he meets, he greets him with a smile on his face, and his mouth is like smearing honey. In the long run, few people can escape this elaborate web of social networking.

As a human being in two lives, how could Pan Le not have seen the difficulties of this kind of person? Their greatest ability is that when you explicitly refuse, they can still put down all their dignity and beg you until you make concessions or turn your face from now on.

In terms of Xiao Linzi's identity and background, Pan Le does not intend to leave him a chance to reach that point and leave trouble for himself in the future. Even if it will cause some people in this circle to drift away because of this, they will not hesitate to do so.

It is difficult to prevent house thieves day and night, and thousands of miles of embankments collapsed in anthills, for Pan Le, Xiao Linzi is running for the identity of a house thief. For Pan Le, if he didn't express his attitude to this guy in advance, he would inevitably become an anthill that caused the embankment to burst.

Of course, all that Pan Le is doing now is based on his confidence that Momo and Ye will not go away from him because of this. Otherwise, he would just wait for a better opportunity.

The environment, which had already shown signs of easing, became heavy again because of Pan Le's addition.

Some people, because they don't understand, just find the topic boring and completely uninteresting, but intuitively reject and resist it.

Some people, because they understand a little, feel that the topic is too calm and heavy, and become very uncomfortable.

Some of the remaining people, because they can understand a lot, are even more speechless and reluctant to answer.

However, the feelings and attitudes of these people are of little use, and Pan Le has clearly expressed his attitude. Whether it is accepted, resisted or not, it has nothing to do with Pan Le.

Some memes are used to hit and even kill opponents at critical moments! There is an old saying called "Don't be unpredictable with words", this is a preventive shot, and when the evil disease strikes, it will not be lethal and destructive at all.

Maybe I don't like this atmosphere, seeing that everyone has lost the interest in enlivening the atmosphere again, Ye Zi took the lead in standing up, shouting at Han Ling and saying, "Let's go, let's go, Lele, this guy is getting more and more boring, stay here and listen to him teach and instill his set of theories about how to behave in the world, it's better to go back to sleep!" ”

"That's true, a little bit of young people's elegance and vigor are all woody, it's really a good time for nothing!" When Chen Li got up, she didn't forget to make up for the knife: "I'm just waiting to see if you can live the vicissitudes of seventy or eighty when you are thirty or forty years old, otherwise everything you do today is pretending to be pretending!" When the time comes, we don't mind calling you 'pretending to be a 13 peddler'! ”

Pan Le didn't like to listen to it: "Can't I be thirty years old forever?" ”

Han Ling asked curiously, "Why is it thirty years old?" Not twenty, eighteen or something? ”

"Because by the time we are 30 years old, we all have an independent financial system, a more complete and mature three views, as well as determined our own interests and hobbies, and found our favorite opposite-sex partner. The real wonderful life only begins at this time! ”

Pan Le explained casually, but unexpectedly, the meaning revealed in this sentence completely aroused the deep thought and interest of everyone present.

As a result, this group of 15, 6, 78 would-be young men and women had a heated discussion on this topic. There are supporters, but not many, and outright opponents, but there are also not many, and more are opinionated.

The funniest thing is that Pan Le didn't participate in the debate of this group of guys. He just kept a faint smile on his face all the time, and sat back and watched them pull their calves here.

After being discovered, Pan Le naturally became the focus of everyone's attack.

Faced with the accusations of this group of guys, Pan Ledan said bitterly: "The reason why I don't get involved is because everyone has their own position on this matter. For example, my position is that I want to be thirty years old forever. Do you need to argue about this matter?

Whether I win or lose, I will not change my position on hunger. In the same way, I never expected others to think the same way as I did, so why should I get involved in an argument? You say, knowing that this matter has no meaning other than passing the time, why should I get involved and see it like you? ”

There is no doubt that Pan Le's statement once again made all the friends here understand a truth: the highest level of awesome is not to participate in the debate and win the final victory, but to disdain the argument.

This incident fully proves that Pan Le is more mature and stable than the big guys.

In this case, Momo couldn't help but sigh: "I really miss the time when Brother Xiaowu was there, at that time, Lele was just as funny as us." Since Brother Xiao Wu left, you have become different from us, and we have lost our group of teases as role models......"

"You said it all, those things are all when Brother Xiaowu is here. Now that Brother Xiaowu is gone, someone has to mature, right? Unfortunately, that person is me! ”

"Whew, it looks like it's true! I don't see you doing Brother Xiaowu's three points well! ”

"Then I can't help it! Brother Xiaowu's approach of carefully caring for your growth, I don't agree with it, and I won't adopt it. My way is to survive the fittest. This is not only the law of the jungle of nature, but also the law of human society. Look at you, all of them have extraordinary identity backgrounds, but none of them are ambitious, how can you become giants without beating you? ”