Re-evaluate Qingning by winter

Dear, if the following content is interpreted as the smell of gunpowder, it is aimed at Ye Qingning, not yours, please bear with me.

I don't want to watch this part of Qinglan and Ye Qingning again, in case there are any details that are overlooked, don't blame, everyone communicates, the following is just my personal opinion.

It's not that "Ye Qingning cried and shouted and asked everyone to treat Ye Qinglan equally, just like the most favored concubine in the family", not that Ye Qingning asked others to treat Qinglan, but because of Ye Qingning's own attitude, Ye Qingning's series of friendship expressions to Ye Qinglan were all "charity" after she was coaxed comfortable and happy, without damaging her hair.

Whether it is modern or ancient, friendship should at least be considerate of each other, tolerate each other, and be generally equal, otherwise where is the best friend? This cliff is not a friendship. I didn't see the word "mutual" in them, it was all Qinglan coaxing, letting.

Where is she unhappy, she immediately loses her temper and gives her face, and she must be "coaxed". said that her own best friend and her crush Prince Charming got along, but she herself was already engaged, and she already had an ambiguous affection for each other with the object of the marriage (I forgot what the name of this product is). She blames Qinglan for not being limited to sΓΉ (I agree with this), envy and jealousy have neither qualifications nor positions, and there is no reason for it, provided that she is married??? If she hadn't decided to marry, I would definitely blame Qinglan in turn, which I had already written in the comments.

Qinglan did have an impure purpose from the beginning, in this "friendship" between the two of them, she and Qingning were half a catty, and the angry person got the benefits, and the people who lost their temper at least gave the benefits, which was fair. But Qinglan at least has high emotional intelligence, is gentle and does not lose her temper, and aside from the fact that she has a purpose to please Qingning, generally speaking, I would rather make a friend like Qinglan than Qingning, she is not my grandmother, why should I admit and coax her if she is unsatisfactory? And every time it's like this, every time you lose your temper? If this is tsundere, then I can't appreciate it. Her so-called "atmosphere" is nothing more than the atmosphere set off in many "stinginess".

It's true that the sisters in the family are not good, but she is a high-ranking daughter, and her mother doesn't take her out to socialize? But so far, she hasn't had a girlfriend, and a female character who can be called a good relationship has not appeared, which is not enough to explain the problem? This girl has lived to be married, and she doesn't even have a friend, hehe.

The character is quite real, I didn't say she's unreal, she's a high-ranking daughter, it's normal for her to be pampered, I'm just saying that she's quite unbearable to be a friend, this kind of arrogant lady, her mind is on the surface, and it's really not everyone can afford it. Maybe she will indeed grow up in the future and slowly learn to give, but I didn't like her from the beginning, and it's hard to change the established impression. From the perspective of choosing friends, without the purpose of profit, who wants to raise this eldest child, wait for her to grow up, learn to give, and learn to make friends? From this point of view, she and Qinglan are really the same pot with a lid.

ps: The above is only for Ye Qingning's evaluation, about her friendship with Qinglan, it is already right or wrong, a mess that cannot be examined, and both of them are responsible. I don't mean to excuse Qinglan.

Of course, the role of Ye Qingning has caused such a big controversy, which also shows that Xiaoqing has successfully created this role.

Then ps:I originally wanted to post it under your post.,Press submit and there's no response.,So I opened another post.,It's a long comment anyway.,Contribute to the little love.。