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"Do you know who our Captain Wu is? What qualifications do you have to point fingers here? ”

Finally found an opportunity to attack Li Mengnan, and Nanlihe's taunts were extremely mean.

Wu Yingying didn't think it was wrong for Li Mengnan to stop him, waved his hand to stop Nanli River, and said politely: "Classmate, why do you think it's inappropriate for me to go up?" ”

As a negotiator in the bureau, Wu Yingying often takes on such cases of persuading the suicide, knowing that the success or failure of such cases does not mean that you are capable and will be successful, in fact, every success is accompanied by great randomness.

For example, a person who is seriously ill and has no money for medical treatment may not have the will to die, and as long as he promises to help him solve the problem of treatment costs, it is very likely to dispel the other party's thoughts of suicide;

However, if the reason for the other party's death is because of a serious illness and being abandoned by relatives, then the cost of treatment is not the key, so it is necessary to play the family card to make the other party feel that there is no love and rekindle hope for life.

Negotiators can only rely on their professional knowledge and experience to make a certain judgment on the psychological tendencies of the suicide victim, but the actual persuasion effect varies from person to person, and sometimes it may not be more effective than the classmates and friends around the suicide victim.

Choosing the right people at the right time and in the right way is the key to successful negotiations.

There is no such thing as a trump card in the profession of negotiator...... Unlike many peers who have fluttering achievements, Wu Yingying has always been very correct about his own positioning.

Li Mengnan had seen too much of the high-minded bureaucracy of the government's public power department, and he didn't expect Wu Yingying to really take his reminder seriously, but the other party's shameless low posture couldn't help but make him look at it a few times.

From the available information, it can be known that this girl named Ju Xiaoxing is an introverted, even conservative, and not good at communicating with others...... People with such a personality tend to have a certain degree of autism, and because of their sensual thinking, women will be more strict than men when they have this symptom. ”

As soon as Li Mengnan spoke, Wu Yingying immediately became serious, although Li Mengnan's analysis was almost vernacular, without any professional terms, obviously he had not systematically studied psychology, but his judgment of the other party's personality tendency was still quite accurate.

This kind of person has a very weak sense of existence, and is often a group of people who are easily ignored in the circle of friends, and over time they will develop a rather inferiority complex, and they will become extremely sensitive to the views of others...... Even once there is any deviation in thinking, it will quickly develop in the extreme direction, and it will not be able to get out of the horns of its own imagination. ”

Wu Yingying nodded again in agreement, Li Mengnan's description of this kind of people is quite common, especially among teenagers, the more cowardly and inferior the child on weekdays, once there is a psychological problem, the stricter it will be.

In contrast, this kind of suicide is relatively socially dangerous, and he once took on a vicious case of a college student who stabbed and killed three roommates in his entire dormitory, simply because the student thought that one of them had said bad things about him behind his back.

"Is there anything that has been overlooked about the girl on the roof?" At this time, Wu Yingying no longer regarded Li Mengnan as an ordinary student, but a colleague who could talk to him on an equal footing.

Li Mengnan smoked the cigarette to the last bit of cigarette butt, threw it on the ground and stepped on it, and said: "I believe in Officer Wu's negotiation ability, but you have overlooked one point - the negotiation partner you have to face is an introverted and conservative girl, and her biggest knot is a ** thing that even ordinary girls are ashamed to talk about." Please put yourself in their shoes and think about it, is it really appropriate for you to go up? ”

"Now saving people is the most important thing, what are you inking here? It's not appropriate for Team Wu to go up, is it possible for you to go up? Nanlihe was angry when he saw Li Mengnan's villainous appearance.

"No, this classmate is right." Wu Yingying originally felt that he seemed to be missing something, but after Li Mengnan's reminder, he suddenly realized, "The heart knot of this suicide is a woman's ** problem, and an old man like me in my thirties and forties goes up to talk to her about the child in her belly, which is no different from going up directly to push her......"

"Won't it?"

"Really?"

Several police officers around couldn't help but be stunned, they didn't expect that the ace negotiator in the bureau would actually listen to a college student's analysis, but after thinking about it carefully, it seemed to make some sense.

"In this way, you need to find a woman who is completely unknown to the suicide, has a certain age of convincing, and cannot have a generation gap, and it is best to have a certain ability to act to deal with emergencies."

In the end, it is a professional, Wu Yingying thought for a moment and came up with the conditions required for the best candidate.

"Team Wu, why is that?"

The choice of women is still within the understanding of the police officers, after all, it involves **, it is easier to talk between women and women, but the limitations of other conditions make them a little confused.

Wu Yingying just wanted to explain to these trainee police officers, but suddenly saw that Li Mengnan beside him did not show any doubtful expression, so he guessed that the other party should have understood his intentions, and couldn't help laughing: "Classmate Li, you can explain." ”

It's not that Wu Yingying wants to be lazy, he just wants to free his mind to think about whether there is a suitable candidate, and by the way, he also wants to know what kind of Cheng Dù this young man named Li Mengnan can analyze human psychology.

In the police system of Sanshan City, there are a lot of police officers who can charge into battle and fight tough battles, but few people can do such delicate work as negotiators, this is not a job that can be done well according to the script, which requires extremely keen insight and accurate judgment, witty and flexible emergency handling ability, excellent eloquence, and even requires a certain amount of performance skills.

In a way, negotiators are similar to charlatans who walk the streets, except that one fools the smart people and the other fools the stupid people.

Wu Yingying has always wanted to find a disciple who can inherit his mantle in the police station, but some things are unattainable, many young police officers who follow him for internship work hard enough, but they are never enough in terms of talent, I didn't expect to meet a good seedling here, he couldn't help but immediately love talent.

Li Mengnan didn't have the word modesty in his dictionary at all, and since Wu Yingying had named him, he didn't shirk hypocritically, and said in a casual tone: "It's actually very simple...... If you don't know someone who has committed suicide, you can give the other party a psychological hint that they will not leak secrets, relax their minds, and make it easier to confide in them; Have a certain age convincing, and at the same time there can be no generation gap, that is, to talk as friends of the same age, in order to avoid the sense of preaching brought by too old age, and the sense of distrust brought by low age; It's better to understand if you have a certain ability to act, in case you get close to the suicide by luck, the other party suddenly struggles at this time, even if you don't have the strength to subdue her, at least you can't be dragged down by her to cushion your back, right? ”