Some readers in the buckle group asked me, why did the Qin family choose a concubine, there was a problem with vision, etc., I heard this idea is quite strange, and then many people asked me this, I realized that this is a problem, maybe now some novels emphasize the issue of concubines too much, then go back to ancient times, first read a paragraph of "Dream of Red Mansions" Wang Xifeng's evaluation of Tanchun: "Good, good, good!" What a third girl, I said yes, but it's a pity that he has a thin life and didn't give birth to his wife. Although it is the same as being out of the house, a girl is not as good as a son. When you are married in the future, there is now a kind of frivolous person, who first asks whether the girl is out of the right or the concubine, and there are many who don't want to be a concubine. As everyone knows, as long as the person is good, it is a hundred times stronger than the positive one. In the future, I don't know that there is no creation, in order to pick the right Shu made a mistake, and I don't know that there is a creation, and there is only one of the three girls left, and the heart and mouth are also coming, and it is a righteous person in our family, and the wife hurts him again, although the face is faint, because it is Aunt Zhao's old thing that makes trouble, but the heart is the same as Baoyu. Now that he has this idea, he should cooperate with him, everyone is an arm, and I am not alone, although he is a girl, he understands everything in his heart, but he is cautious in his words. He is more literate than me. "Did you see it, first said "the right ones are the same", and then commented that those who have to evaluate the concubines as "a kind of frivolous person", which is a table without vision. In addition, he commented that "in the future, I don't know that the one who has not been created, I have made a mistake in order to pick the right one, and I don't know that the one who has been created and the one who does not pick the right one can go", it can be seen that people with vision should first pick the father's family, and then look at the girl's character, and focus on the problem of the concubine will "miss something". In fact, the more high-ranking the family, the more unclear the concubine, the more equal and equal treatment must be. This is especially true in the main room, so the girls are all educated the same, and the degree of food, clothing, and division is also the same, to show her virtuousness (of course, if she wants to give her children more preferential treatment, she will give it behind her back, and will never get it on the surface). Because the father is the head of the family, and the palms and backs of his hands are full of meat, how can he treat his children lightly. And the girl marries out by virtue of her husband, and the girl who comes out of the future will soar, because the young concubine was treated slowly by the family, but refused to help her mother's family, wouldn't it be a very embarrassing situation. On the contrary, it was a small family that opened and closed its mouth to hang on the concubine's mouth, and forcibly made a special distinction for the concubine, which was ridiculed by Yan zhòng in the ancient high society, and would also be impeached by the imperial historian. Of course, you can't spoil your concubine and kill your wife, and the differential treatment of your righteous concubine is also a lack of strict governance of the family. When being a parent, of course, there are families who choose the right family, just like now someone picks whether the other party is in a foreign country or whether the parents are single parents, but it is by no means a necessary condition for everyone to take it as a golden rule, and think that the concubine will definitely be how it is. Of course, the heirs still have an advantage over the concubines, and the men enjoy the absolute right of inheritance in the succession of the title, and there is basically nothing to do with the concubines. In addition, if the girl is very strong in the maternal line, she is more divided in choosing relatives, and it is easy to marry better. But if the maternal line is more ordinary, and the conditions of the concubine are mediocre, then there are many people who are not as good as the beautiful and smart concubines. In the Ming and Qing dynasties, the distinction between the concubines and the concubines was even more diluted, in the "Three Words and Two Beats" in the "Two Moments of Shooting Surprise" volume 10 "Zhao Wuhu Totally Provoking the Family to provoke Mo Dalang to scatter the rape" In the story, the old man came to the old ** and gave birth to an illegitimate child with the maid, the main room was fierce, and he did not dare to take it home, and put it outside to raise, the old man kicked his legs and closed his eyes on the day, the illegitimate son was instigated by the bad people to come to the house to mourn and fight for the family property, and the main room of the family gave birth to two sons, and the eldest son was broad-minded. And the family property will be divided into three equal parts, regardless of the main family, the family property is equal. And because of this open-mindedness, he thwarted the bad man's plan to seek his family property, which made the illegitimate child and everyone admire him very much. In the Ming Dynasty's "Mengshui Zhai Cun", it is clearly recorded that the case of the Ming Dynasty's concubines fighting for family property is written, "Regardless of the concubine, the property is equal, the son has the concubine, and the wealth is not thick or thin", but if you make a big contribution to the family, you can share more. From these, it can also be vaguely seen that the difference between the descendants and the descendants has gradually faded in the continuous progress of society.

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