She went to the folk to collect old embroidery and their embroidery methods, in order to excavate and pass on these folk arts that were about to be lost...... Most of the places I visited were rural towns. Ning Changqing said.

"The people are also very chaotic, and in some places it is even more chaotic than the city." Ning Hao said.

"She went dressed as a man." Ning Changqing said busily.

He knew what Ning Hao was worried about.

"This experience ......," Ning Hao shook his head.

"I think this experience of hers is what makes her superior to ordinary people." Yan Jinxuan said with a smile.

"Yes, she has seen the world and knows how the world works, so her thinking will not be confined to a house, so she can better understand her cousin's hardships in officialdom. Moreover, her insights will also help in the education of future generations. Su Shanyun also said.

A mother with a big universe in her heart and a sense of mission will naturally educate her children better than a mother who only pays attention to her inner house and selfishness all day long.

Seeing that Yan Jinxuan and Su Shanyun were both helping Tan Yingyue speak, Ning Hao's attitude eased slightly. But he still felt that such a woman was not suitable to be a good wife and mother. In his heart, this kind of woman who walks through the rivers and lakes will inevitably have the smell of wind and dust, and he is the person who hates the smell of wind and dust the most, so Ning Hao said: "It's one thing to appreciate her, and it's another thing to marry her." ”

It is difficult for a woman who is too individual to play the role of a good wife and mother. At least that's what Ning Hao thinks.

Naturally, the people understood what he meant.

They know that Ning Hao is actually quite traditional in his bones.

"It's not absolute. Take Shanyun as an example, she also has a lot of personality. But she is also a good wife and mother. Moreover, taking a step back, if the other party only conforms to the characteristics of a good wife and mother and has no personality, I don't think Changqing will necessarily like it. Yan Jinxuan said.

This is a fact, everyone knows Ning Changqing's character.

"Yes, if a girl meets all your qualifications but just doesn't meet me, will you be happy if I marry such a person?" Ning Changqing asked.

Ning Hao and Su Huiying exchanged glances and did not answer.

"After all, marrying a wife is not just about procreation." Ning Changqing said again.

"When the second master married me, he told me that his purpose was never to marry a good wife and mother, he wanted me to keep my own personality, and that's why. We were happily married. Su Shanyun continued with Ning Changqing's topic.

Are these people here today? Ning Hao sighed.

Ning Hao looked at Su Huiying. I want to hear her opinion.

Su Huiying was hesitating, so she shook her head gently towards Ning Hao.

Ning Hao thought that she didn't support herself, and her expression was a little lost.

Ning Changqing knew that what they cared about most was Tan Yingyue's name/festival, so he said, "Although Miss Tan has been walking the rivers and lakes for a few years. But because she was a woman dressed as a man, she traveled. So nothing detrimental happened. ”

"It's just her own side of the story." Ning Hao said.

This kind of thing can't be verified until you get married. And if you really find out when you get married, it will be too late.

Ning Changqing saw Ning Hao's thoughts, and said in a firm tone: "Daddy, take 10,000 steps back." Assuming she's really as you fear, I don't care. ”

Ning Changqing really never thought that a woman's chastity was so important, besides, shouldn't loving someone mean accepting all of her? What's more, Tan Invite Yue did not lose his knots, which was very rare in his opinion.

The more Ning Hao objected, the stronger his determination to marry Tan Yingyue. But he hid that determination well. He knew it had to be done one step at a time. Otherwise, there is a good chance that you will do more with less.

He knew Ning Hao's temperament.

Su Huiying looked at the stalemate in front of her, and finally asked, "Qing'er, is her words and deeds dignified and decent?" ”

"Very dignified and decent." Ning Changqing replied.

Su Huiying looked at Yan Jinxuan and Su Shanyun.

The two men nodded as well.

"Auntie, if my cousin marries her, there should be no dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this family." Su Shanyun added.

"Is her temperament as good as yours?" Su Huiying asked.

"Better than me." Su Shanyun said with a smile.

"Really?"

"I don't dare to deceive you in the slightest."

Su Huiying immediately breathed a sigh of relief.

After all, if the other party is a knowledgeable, polite, generous and decent person, she won't have to be angry with her in the future, so Su Huiying's thoughts in her heart have changed a little after listening to Su Shanyun's words.

"Changqing's father, there are not many girls who are well-informed and knowledgeable, and the most important thing is that Changqing likes her very much, why not consider it?" Su Huiying looked at Ning Hao and asked.

Although she had always respected his opinion on major matters, she felt the need to be involved in this matter.

Ning Hao lowered his head and pondered for a while before saying, "Wait until I send someone to inquire before making a decision." ”

Ning Changqing wanted to speak and stopped.

Actually, there's not much to inquire about.

There are no bad rumors in the market, which proves that Tan Yinyue has not left a handle for others in the past few years.

This is enough in Ning Changqing's opinion.

But obviously, Ning Hao wanted to inquire to see if she had a good relationship outside.

As a father, it is understandable for him to do this, so Ning Changqing nodded and said, "Okay." ”

"I'll get back to you in a month." Ning Hao said.

Ning Changqing picked up the teacup and put it down suddenly, looked at Ning Hao and asked, "There's no need for so long, right?" ”

"How can you know clearly without taking the time to inquire?" Ning Hao asked rhetorically.

Ning Changqing frowned and thought for a while, and said faintly: "Okay, it's just that I'm still the same sentence-I really don't care about her past." ”

But then he realized that he was being a little selfish in what he was saying. Just because he doesn't care doesn't mean that his parents don't care, after all, his parents care very much about the family's reputation.

But a month is too long.

A day can change a lot of things, let alone a month, so he said, "Why don't you give me a reply during the Mid-Autumn Festival?" ”

He will come back during the Mid-Autumn Festival.

Ning Hao didn't respond.

"Just promise him, he will come back at that time, and it will be more convenient to make the next step." Su Huiying helped Ning Changqing speak.

Ning Hao glanced at them helplessly, and then nodded almost invisibly.

"Thank you, Daddy!" Ning Changqing said busily.

Yan Jinxuan and Su Shanyun both smiled in unison when they saw that Ning Hao's attitude had eased.

They knew that as long as Ning Hao was willing to get to know Tan Yingyue, it would prove that this matter was more than half successful.

"It's not too early, so I won't bother you." Yan Jinxuan said.

"Okay, then you will come here for dinner tomorrow at noon, right?" Su Huiying said busily.

She knew that they would have to take a boat back to the capital tomorrow afternoon.

Yan Jinxuan looked at Su Shanyun, and when she saw Su Shanyun smiling and nodding, she smiled and said, "Okay, then it's hard aunt!" ”

"It's fine."

"At that time, we will come with our luggage, and after lunch, we will leave for Beijing." Su Shanyun said.

"Uh-huh." Su Huiying nodded. (To be continued.) )

PS: Dear friends, the first shift is coming, and the second shift is about 6 o'clock. Thank you Brother Jun for not rewarding the coin└(^o^)┘