Chapter 246: The Beginning of Spring I
Mrs. Ding is rare to spend the New Year in Guangling City, the second lady is a good preparation, she is the prefect's wife, but not in Guangling for a long time, this more than half a year, and Guangling a place of the ladies to deal well, but also the children and relatives are all set, the rest is to marry a daughter-in-law, after the daughters-in-law enter the door, take them to learn housekeeping, if the son is admitted to the official with his own ability, it is the best, no, we can also shadow an official body to seek an official and a half-job, try to strive for the daughters-in-law to give birth to a fat grandson to her, well, it is best to enter the door on the door to be happy.
The daughters also have to teach, and remember that before Ding Xiaoxiang got married, she could remember to tell her how to deal with the matter of the concubine's room, the second lady seized the opportunity to take the matter of the second lady Su and her cousin as an example to teach the daughters, and did not forget to bring Ding Xiaolou to listen to the class, of course, one sheep is put, two sheep are also put! Even Wang Jinyun and Fan Anyang also came to listen to the lecture.
Wang Jinyun's mother is strong, her father's brain is still clear, Aunt Qu made her own assertion that time, and she carried him behind her back, she can't count it all his fault, the aunts of the Wang family dare not be on the bar, they tear each other very excitingly, and the fierceness of Fan Anyang's aunt is well known to everyone!
extended from the aunt to the upbringing of the children, and then, it was said that Yun Dufei and his wife, Yun Dufei was a son-in-law, but Mo'er, he was spoiled by his mother since he was a child, and he was so spoiled that he only had himself in his heart, no parents, no brothers, and no family.
Mrs. Yun is a concubine, her mother is a favorite concubine, she was born in a declining family, and the phoenix that fell on the shelf is not as good as a chicken, and she never forgets the scenery of the past.
"A few years ago, when your father was still in Beijing, Yun Dufei eloped with Mrs. Yun, and it was a storm all over the city, some people said that Mrs. Huang didn't teach her concubine well, and deliberately picked an unsatisfactory marriage for her, so she took risks and eloped with others."
"Not to mention that her aunt is favored, if her mother-in-law really chooses an unsatisfactory marriage for her, her father will agree?" Ding Xiaozhen asked.
"If this is unsatisfactory, it depends on what she is asking for. The sisters who came out may not be able to marry well, let alone her daughter? However, using this as a reason to elope with someone, this is her personal upbringing. ”
Ding Xiaoyan said thoughtfully: "So the ones you picked for your brothers are all concubines?"
"Marriage is a good marriage with two surnames, what is a concubine? It's a thing, it's a man's plaything, but the child they give birth to is the master, everyone has selfish intentions, and the aunts give birth to sons, so they naturally think. Why can a son born to a wife or wife inherit the family business? I won't be able to give birth to a son? Is it all the blood of the master's son? Why do you want to divide the high and the low?"
"That's not right. Marriage is a good marriage between two surnames, and the wife marrying into her husband's family brings not only tangible wealth, but also intangible personal relationships. There is mutual help in case of trouble, but the concubine wants her son to be the same as her son-in-law, and the concubine's own son is still the property of the husband's family! "Ding Xiao said.
"So you have to remember, after getting married, you must not underestimate these aunts who have sex with them, they have the leisure and heart to think about how to fight for their children all day long, but the housewife does not have that leisure, like your four sisters, there are two layers of mothers-in-law. Although her mother-in-law is not a relative, she is a hands-off shopkeeper, and she does not take special care of her husband and wife, but she has never blocked her. The mother-in-law is old and a kind person, otherwise she would be tired! ”
The second lady paused and said back to Yundu Fei and his wife, "Yundu Fei is good, he is not satisfied with the Zhao family, he can talk to the family directly, or he wants to withdraw from the family, it is better than eloping with someone directly and slapping others in the face, but it can also be seen that this person is not sophisticated, so he will take his wife and daughter and concubine to visit Mr. Yan directly, instead of sending a greeting post first, if his wife is the Zhao family, he will never let him make such a mistake." ”
Fan Anyang thought that Yan Yun had also said the same thing to them, and said bluntly that Mrs. Yun was either bad, or after becoming the main room, she still clung to her identity as a concubine, "You know, her current identity is Yun Dufei's main room match, regardless of whether she eloped or not, the Yun family admits that she is Yun Dufei's identity and she is the head of Yun Dufei's house, so she should set up the rules that should be there."
"That day, the Yun family came, and it was rude to come directly to the door without sending the post first, and they blocked the door when they came, not to mention that even the concubine also brought it, saying that they would ask me to take his daughters under the door, and they also had a kind face. No matter how much he loves his daughter, he shouldn't meddle in this matter, he doesn't care about his reputation, I care about my reputation. ”
"Then ......" Wang Jinyun's eyes flashed, he wanted to ask something, but he felt that the answer was already obvious, and he didn't need to ask again.
Fan Anyang stepped forward and replied with a smile, "He should let his wife come forward, isn't our apprentice the grandmother and the second aunt?"
"I thought my dad was too busy to take care of us!" Ding Xiaoyan said.
came back to her senses, the second lady had already changed the topic, when it came to the art of the royal family, in one sentence, whether the aunt was favored or not could not change the fact that they were not wives, and taking them too seriously was asking for hardship.
After the second lady was invited away by the housekeeper's daughters-in-law, Wang Jinyun asked Fan Anyang in a low voice, "What does the second aunt mean by this, your mother takes Aunt Zhou too seriously?"
"Hmm." Fan Anyang stood up, "Actually, I think what the second aunt and Senior Sister Yan said is very good, but there is a very important key that they didn't mention. ”
"What?"
"That is, a man's brain must be clear, otherwise no matter how generous he is as a wife, he can't afford to have a person with a clear mind for three days, and he will be pouted by someone in a few words, and he will rush to himself and shout indiscriminately, right?"
The girls thought about it and felt something.
Wang Jinyun said energetically: "My father's mind is very clear, those aunts have taken eye medicine in front of my father, but my father has said a word, and the lady will fan them back."
The three girls of the Ding family have no aunts in their fathers, and they are allowed to have children, so they are released after waiting for a few years, and the second lady will give a dowry. As for the third lady, she didn't give her husband a maid at all, so the girls of the two families had never seen the methods of these women.
The second master went to the countryside to inspect the disaster, the two sons followed him, the father and son went back to Tanglin to worship their ancestors, and then rushed back to Guangling for the New Year, Ding Xiaoxiang was still in the confinement, and it was inconvenient for the married daughter to go back to her parents' house for the New Year, Ding Xiaoming was different, she was raised at home, and this is not her mother's family, it is her uncle's house.
Mrs. Wang Si was very unhappy, and sent someone to pick up her son and grandson home for the New Year, but Wang Jinkun suffered a heavy blow in his life, and he had not eased his breath, he couldn't believe that he had always thought that he was a talented person, and he couldn't even beat a child, he felt that his mother had deceived him, and he didn't want to go back to face it, and the third lady's anger at her daughter-in-law was still unsubsided, and the mother-in-law who came to ask Wang Jinkun to go back was beaten by her and went home in disgrace.
After going back, of course, she had to sue, but when Mrs. Wang heard the anger, she put on her shoes and went out, wanting to go to Guangling to find her son.
As a result, before she could go out, she was stopped by her mother-in-law, "Where are you going?"
"Daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law is going to pick up Kun'er back, it's going to be the New Year, and the in-laws still refuse to let go, so if you detain your son-in-law and grandson at home and don't let them back, I'll go and take them back."
Old Mrs. Wang Liu snorted coldly, raised her hand, and several young and strong daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law on the left and right surrounded her, "Mother-in-law?"
"You give me a good stay at home, don't go there, I could have had a good year this year, but Brother Kun has added a son, the family is harmonious, and it couldn't be more lively!"
"My daughter-in-law knows, that's why I want to go to ......"
"You still don't think about anything, Brother Kun's daughter-in-law hasn't entered the door yet, and you don't like it, isn't it because this granddaughter-in-law was set by the Lord that I did, you are not convinced and uncomfortable, so you have to pick your ideal everywhere to pinch her." The sixth old lady directly broke her daughter-in-law's heart in front of her subordinates, which made Mrs. Wang feel that she couldn't get off the stage.
"People are well-educated, follow you, and you will do it? Relatives don't let them go back, let the Ding family lose face in front of relatives and friends, are you quite proud? People don't care about you, but you're shaking! I tried my best to release people into my brother's room, I was afraid that I would miss a little bit of news, and even the silk sisters and sisters also learned the same, and the married aunt and grandmother went to the mother's brother's room, is there such a rule? Then why don't you stuff people into your brother's room?"
Mrs. Wang Si slandered, so it's no wonder that my sister-in-law and younger siblings didn't kill me!
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, but if you dare not do it, let your daughter do it all!" Didn't you think that if Brother Kun didn't grow up, his two sisters would be able to get good in her in-law's house?"
"Then, it's not just to send him two concubines, it's worth making such a fuss?" Mrs. Wang Si murmured and complained, isn't it just that she has bad luck, picking up two troublemakers, and blames her daughter-in-law for not having the ability! Even her own dowry maid stepped on her, didn't she?
The sixth old lady seemed to see what she was thinking, "Kill your own grandson 9, don't you take it seriously?" What's in your head? The crutches in his hand poked against the floor and clanged, like a hammer hitting the heart of Mrs. Wang's fourth wife.
Oh, yes! She's got a grandson dead! Mrs. Wang Si suddenly remembered at this time, because the child was small, she went directly to the temple, and it was the fourth lady Wang who went to do it personally, and the sixth old lady did not remind her, and Mrs. Wang Si forgot that there was such a thing!
When the sixth old lady saw her expression, she couldn't help but shake her head in her heart, this daughter-in-law has been the same for decades, how easy is it to ask her to change? I'm getting old and I don't have the strength to pipe! If Brother Kun can grow after this incident, then the sixth room will not be defeated, the sixth old lady ignored what Mrs. Wang Si was scolding with her head down, and only ordered someone to invite her back to the house.
The sixth old lady watched her daughter-in-law being surrounded by servants and left, and the fourth old man came out of her house, "She is really cold, that is her own grandson!" "Forgot that my little grandson died less than a few days after he was born?
"Don't say it! You just said that Brother Kun went to Guangling Academy with his uncles and brothers, and then what?
"Whew! He's been hit hard this time! Sit down, I'll tell you slowly......"
In the silence of the garden, only the low voice of the fourth old man Wang was heard, the six old ladies responded to the harmony from time to time, and the servants waiting in the old lady's courtyard looked at each other and sighed, if it wasn't for the fourth wife's consumption, how could this year be so deserted?
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