Chapter 32: Communication Failure
Fang Yuan waited for Dai Xu and Zhao Yinghua's sister to leave, then took out the folded white paper from the drawer, opened it and saw that there were only a few lines of words on it, it turned out to be a familiar modern poem copied from the Internet, and the name of Yang Zhiyuan was clearly signed underneath.
After Yang Zhiyuan contacted Fang Yuan last time, Fang Yuan had a long memory, in order to facilitate anything to contact in the future, she honestly stored Yang Zhiyuan's mobile phone number in her own phone, so this time there was no trouble of contacting the other party and not being able to contact him, Fang Yuan took advantage of the convenience of the current space, hurriedly took the mobile phone, found out Yang Zhiyuan's number, and dialed him.
The phone rang a few times, and Yang Zhiyuan answered, he had always had Fang Yuan's number, so he was not surprised that she called him, and the first thing he said was: "Something received, right?" ”
"yes, why did you send me something again?" Fang Yuan's tone was full of helplessness.
When Yang Zhiyuan answered this question, he looked very confident: "Because last time I dragged the flower shop to send flowers, you said you didn't like it, so this time I inquired, girls don't like flowers, what else can they like, others told me that girls like cosmetics, and I don't know how to buy these, so I specially asked my former female classmates to help me pick that one, this time you shouldn't like it, right?" ”
"It's not about liking or disliking, it's about not being suitable." Fang Yuan sighed, trying to make his tone sound patient, after all, this matter. Although it was against his will, the other party did not have any malicious intentions, "It's not just that the thing is not suitable. People are also not suitable. I'm a police officer, and I'm unlikely to wear heavy makeup due to the nature of my work, so cosmetics are just a casual look for me, occasionally fiddling with them, and I think I told you about it last time. I don't think the two of us are suitable, I don't think there's any need to waste each other's time and energy, I appreciate your kindness. But I really can't accept things, I'm not the kind of person who knows that there is no possibility of development with the other party, and still accepts the other party's gifts. ”
"If you don't like it, just give it to whomever you want. Anyway, that thing changed hands and gave it away. It shouldn't be out of reach. Yang Zhiyuan's attitude was also a little stubborn, "I'm not the kind of person who sends things out and asks for them back, it's impossible to give you the address for you to return the things." I also told you, I have a good impression of you, and I didn't expect you to take a fancy to me as soon as you came up, I know that I have a stupid mouth, and people are a little wooden, not the type that particularly pleasing girls. But I think if the two of us try it, it may not be fruitless. ”
Fang Yuan didn't want to say it too bluntly. Everything is clear, I think it is a bit shameless, some things can be pointed, everyone knows it, this is a better ending, but now Yang Zhiyuan looks like she can't listen to it, and the oil and salt don't enter, so she really has no other way but to simply pick out the words and say it clearly, so as not to delay for a long time, the more difficult it is to solve the problem easily.
"Then let me be honest with you, the situation of our family, the last time the two of us met, we made it very clear, the person who had business dealings with your father was my mother's husband who remarried, and I actually didn't have any blood relationship, the reason why they tried their best to promote this matter, in fact, you should be able to guess a little bit in your heart," Fang Yuan sighed and said bluntly, "This matter is not aimed at you, of course, after we met, I do think that you are not the type I like, In addition, I personally don't want to be a tool for any interests, so I really don't have the will to continue to understand and associate with you. Even from your side, I think it's the right decision to stop here. When we met, you said that your parents in your family have expectations and requirements for their future daughter-in-law, I am still relatively self-aware, and I think I can't meet that standard, and I have never thought about changing myself in order to cater to anyone, so I hope you can respect my choice, and don't waste more energy in this matter, let alone waste more money, if you can, we should know one more friend, but the rest, forget it, whether it is subjective or objective, None of us are a good fit. ”
"I know what you mean, and I know these things in my heart. But I don't think you can just listen to your attitude, I also have my attitude, and you have to listen to what I have to say. Yang Zhiyuan listened to Fang Yuan's words, but he didn't give up, and he didn't even show a little surprise or surprise because of Fang Yuan's words, "I thought about what you said, I think you may have a little misunderstanding about me, or you still don't know enough, many of my things in the past were my parents who were in charge of everything, mainly because I didn't particularly care about those things, it didn't matter, I didn't bother to fight with them, so I followed them and didn't insist, but if there was something I recognized myself, I'm definitely not the kind of person who will compromise casually, I will definitely work hard, and I can't compromise with my family casually. Who I will live with in the future, that is my life's business, it is impossible to follow my parents' wishes, even if they are unhappy, I will definitely do it according to my own wishes, you can rest assured. ”
"It's not something I'm at ease with, but you're really not the type I like, if you meet a girl who is in love with you, you can stick to your position and assertion, this is a good thing, and I also wish you to meet someone destined soon, but the two of us are really not suitable, I'm not the type to be able to understand and contact and reluctantly be together, so forget about it." Fang Yuan's tone was a little colder, "You give me your address, and I'll send you something back, I don't think there's any need to discuss this topic anymore." ”
"I can't give you the address, I don't think you can ask anyone else, your mother should know, but I don't think she'll want to tell you. So if you really don't like that makeup, you can give it to whoever you want. You don't have to give it back to me, or you'll find a time when we're both free. Make an appointment to meet me and give it to me in person. That's it, you're busy, I still have something to do, so I won't talk about it much, and I'll contact you at any time if you have anything else. After Yang Zhiyuan finished speaking, it was the same as last time. Hung up directly.
Fang Yuan didn't give up, and dialed it again, but Yang Zhiyuan seemed to have an iron heart. I just won't answer.
Even if Fang Yuan had great ability, it was impossible to control a person who was unwilling to answer the phone to answer a phone call, she took out the cardboard box under the table and flipped through it, there was no shopping receipt. Then carefully open the package of the makeup box. There was still nothing she was looking for. I don't know which mall this cosmetics were bought from, whether there is a shopping receipt, it is impossible to return it, I don't want to take advantage of Yang Zhiyuan, and naturally it is impossible for such an expensive thing to give away or keep it by myself.
The return method proposed by Yang Zhiyuan can be heard by fools, it is just an excuse, and the purpose is needless to say. Isn't there a reason to ask Fang Yuan out to meet? Fang Yuan didn't think it was a good idea, since she hadn't planned to have any further development with Yang Zhiyuan from beginning to end. It is useless to meet more than once, some words are too straightforward to say in person, but it hurts face, and it is easy to give people unnecessary hope if they don't say it clearly, wasting other people's feelings and time, which is very bad, not Fang Yuan's style.
Left is not, right is not, Fang Yuan thought about it, there was only one stupid way, take the time to go to the counter of this brand in any shopping mall to inquire, what is the specific price of this makeup box, anyway, she knows Yang Zhiyuan's mobile phone number, through his mobile phone number, you should be able to find out what his payment software account is, in this way, she first determined that it was his account, and directly transferred the money to the other party. Although it is said that for no reason to pay out of his own pocket to buy a cosmetics that is not very useful on weekdays, this is really a little distressing and painful for Fang Yuan, who is still living a very frugal life, but there is no way, this is the most helpless and no choice to deal with it. In any case, she has to repay this account, since she doesn't plan to give Yang Zhiyuan any chance or development at all, then she can't be entangled with the other party because of the gift, which is tantamount to adding trouble in the future.
After making up his mind, Fang Yuan first checked according to Yang Zhiyuan's mobile phone number, and found that he really had an account for that payment software, and even the avatar was a photo of himself, so it was more secure, all that was left was to find a time to go to the mall to inquire, and then send him the money.
After a while, Dai Xu came back and told Fang Yuan that Zhao Yinghua's sister had settled down and that there was nothing to do, and that she might want to stay for a few days before deciding whether to return as soon as possible.
Zhao Yinghua's sister's current situation, Fang Yuan is also understandable, it is estimated that it will not be too easy to change who is at this time, there is nothing more embarrassing than playing a role that informs other family members of bad news.
Dai Xu also noticed that Fang Yuan had flipped out the things he had received before, he didn't wonder who the person who sent them was, and he didn't go out of his way to ask, he just glanced at those boxes and the like a few times. However, Fang Yuan always felt that it was necessary to say something to Dai Xu about this matter, so he said the general content of the call between himself and Yang Zhiyuan, and by the way, he emphasized that he might need to find time to go to a nearby shopping mall to inquire about the specific price of cosmetics in the past few days, so that he could deal with this matter as soon as possible.
When Dai Xu heard her say this, he didn't interject, let alone express his position, he seemed a little silent, a little distracted, as if he was thinking about something, Fang Yuan finished speaking, seeing his reaction, he didn't say anything, and looked at him silently, waiting for him to come back to his senses and say something. After almost half a minute, Dai Xu suddenly opened his mouth and asked Fang Yuan: "If our previous speculations are correct, Zhao Yinghua's bags and shoes are all gifts from others, then she can be regarded as receiving a lot of gifts from others, and the total value is not a small amount, so do you think she has given the other party her due return, or rather, the other party has paid so much to her, what is the return she wants?" ”
"It's hard to say, after all, everyone's pursuit is different, some people may pursue it for a long time, and some people may pursue a temporary thrill." Fang Yuan shook his head, indicating that he couldn't answer either.
Dai Xu nodded slightly: "Yes, the goals pursued are different, and the expected results are naturally different, and only by seeking benevolence will the other party be satisfied, otherwise no matter what Zhao Yinghua's reaction is, as long as it does not meet the needs of the other party, it is equivalent to never satisfying the other party." As outsiders, it may be difficult for us to guess what the purpose of the courteous party wants to achieve, but this does not mean that Zhao Yinghua must be very clear, or it depends on whether the other party's intention is straightforward enough, if it is a single-knife straight approach, it is better, if the other party's attitude is always more ambiguous, only hinting at the unclear, then whether Zhao Yinghua can understand it is also unknown. If the other party has always been dissatisfied with Zhao Yinghua's feedback, it would be interesting. ”
"Yes, there is another possibility, which will also create a contradiction between the giving and receiving of these two people. The first is the kind you just said, Zhao Yinghua will be wrong, or Zhao Yinghua will not be able to meet the other party's requirements at all, but still accept all the gifts, then the other party will inevitably be dissatisfied," Fang Yuan followed Dai Xu's train of thought, and put forward another hypothesis, "The other is that Zhao Yinghua may not have failed to meet the other party's initial need for her hospitality, but will it be that after the other party satisfies it, Zhao Yinghua himself will eat the marrow and put forward higher requirements to the other party, What caused them to be at odds with each other? Zhao Yinghua's sister also mentioned it just now, whether it's lipstick or powder, Zhao Yinghua didn't care much about it and gave it to her sister casually, the price of these things should have been carefully regarded as good things for her income level and living situation, what gave her the confidence to give it away, and also said that as long as she likes it, there will be it again? (To be continued......)