84_84925Jiang Ru belongs to the more quiet, introverted type, after a few days of getting along, when she and Lin Fan talked, most of them were Guo Xiaoman present, and then occasionally interjected a few words on the side, and the rest of the time, she was watching TV or reading a magazine.

Today she asked for leave, Lin Fan also came back early, and it was rare for the two of them to get along alone in the room, a bit of a lonely man and widow. Maybe Jiang Ru was thinking about being looked at by Lin Fan when she was drunk, and at this time, her wrist was grabbed by Lin Fan's hand, and her cheeks were flushed.

But fortunately, after Lin Fan's finger was on that wrist, he closed his eyes and didn't show any expression of eating tofu, which made Jiang Ru's pounding heart slowly calm down.

Lin Fan's finger was on Jiang Ru's wrist for a long time, nearly two minutes, because in the first minute, he didn't say anything, for fear of embarrassment, just waiting for Jiang Ru, whose heart rate was increasing, to calm down, and the next minute to really take the pulse.

In the end, Lin Fan let go of his hand and said, "It's not a big problem, it's just that Sister Xiaoru hasn't slept well recently, which has caused her brain to be tired, just pay more attention to rest, and besides, if Sister Xiaoru is willing, I'll give you a massage to relax." ”

"Massage?" Jiang Ru was stunned.

"Massage your head." Lin Fan hurriedly explained.

"That'll do!"

"Yes!" Lin Fan came behind Jiang Ru, gently pressed his hands on Jiang Ru's temples, and gently massaged them.

This kind of massage technique was learned by Lin Fan from a psychology professor when he was in college, and the professor is not only a professor in the school, but also a psychologist and a physiotherapist in a provincial hospital.

Lin Fan gently massaged, his movements were very gentle, and he said softly: "Try to relax, imagine you riding a horse galloping on the prairie, looking at the endless prairie, looking at the turquoise sky......"

Jiang Ru slowly closed her eyes, leaned back in her chair, and according to Lin Fan's words, she imagined that she was in the endless grassland, really riding a tall horse, galloping on the grassland.

Just a few minutes later, Lin Fan could hear Jiang Ru's steady breathing, he stopped the massage, and looked at Jiang Ru's face, the warm slanting sun in the afternoon shone on Jiang Ru's face, reflecting the smile on the corner of her mouth, a very beautiful picture.

Since the last time she drank alcohol, Jiang Ru has suffered from selective amnesia, and she almost has nightmares every night, it can be said that this time is really exhausting, and she also works very hard, and there is not much rest time at all.

Lin Fan didn't dare to disturb Jiang Ru's rare rest, lowered his pace, came to the living room, picked up the books Jiang Ru put in the living room, Jiang Ru's work seemed to be doing graphic design in the company, there were many creative magazines on the table, Lin Fan was not much interested in these, he went to get a medical book and read it.

Until about six o'clock in the afternoon, Guo Xiaoman opened the door, walked in with a big grin, and said, "You're back early, you don't cook yet?" I want to starve my aunt and grandmother. ”

"Shh

Lin Fan made a gesture of silence, and then pointed to Jiang Ru, who was sleeping on the balcony.

Guo Xiaoman hurriedly covered his mouth, put down the dishes in his hand, tiptoed to the balcony, looked at Jiang Ru who was sleeping, she was a little surprised, came to sit down next to Lin Fan, and asked in a low voice: "Xiaoru is a workaholic, even if she can't sleep well at night, she won't sleep during the day, why is she sleeping so well now?" ”

"I'm a doctor, too." Lin Fan laughed in a low voice.

"You can't be doing something bad, right?"

"Can you stop thinking about those dirty things in your head!"

"Hurry up and cook."

"You're going to wash the vegetables."

"I won't." Guo Xiaoman pursed his lips.

"You'll only eat!" Lin Fan said angrily.

"Thanks for the compliment!"

"Thick-skinned!"

"Humble!"

“……”

"Ah......h

Jiang Ru on the balcony suddenly got up, stretched a big lazy waist, and looked at the sunset that was about to set, she was a little surprised, turned to look at Lin Fan and Guo Xiaoman, and asked, "How long have I been sleeping?" ”

Lin Fan looked at the time and replied, "About two hours." ”

"So long?" Jiang Ru was even more surprised.

"It's okay to sleep a little longer." Guo Xiaoman smiled, walked up to look at Jiang Ru's face, and pinched Jiang Ru's face by the way, and quipped: "Look, take a rest more, this little face is a lot smoother, I didn't come back just now, you didn't do anything bad, right?" ”

"......" Lin Fan's face was black, this Guo Xiaoman really dared to say anything.

Jiang Ru's cheeks flushed, then slapped Guo Xiaoman's hand away, and replied: "It's just that Lin Fan helped me massage my head, how can I do anything bad?" ”

"Massage? Wow! It's a show, I've lived with that guy for so long, even if his head hurts and he faints, he won't care, you see how much he cares about you now. ”

"You used to live with Lin Fan for so long, if you want to do bad things, you should have done it a long time ago."

"As long as he is cowardly, he has to dare!" Guo Xiaoman replied playfully.

You put a pistol under your pillow, what man would dare touch you?

Lin Fan scolded in his heart and replied: "You said yes, can you not involve me in it?" ”

"Cook your food!" Guo Xiaoman said viciously.

"I'm not hungry!" Lin Fan grinned.

"You ......" Guo Xiaoman was angry, but immediately laughed again, and said: "Then you starve our Xiaoru to death, you will have no daughter-in-law." ”

“……”

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"Today we are going to talk about the topic of the fifty-two laws of psychology, which are the famous research results of various masters of psychology, such as the Jensen effect, the Rosenthal effect, the Wallenda mentality, the threshold effect, the first cause effect, the proximate cause effect, etc. These psychological laws are closely related to people's lives, covering all areas of daily life and work, and I will give some examples and say them one by one. ”

Lin Fan stood on the podium, already comfortable with this course, and continued: "The first one, the hedgehog rule: hedgehogs are full of thorns, even in the cold winter, they can't stay close together like humans or other animals to keep warm, the closer they are, the less effective they are, but they will hurt each other." ”

This means that everyone needs a self-space that can be grasped, it is like an invisible "bubble" that divides a certain "field" for themselves, and when this "field" is violated by others, people will feel uncomfortable, unsafe, and even begin to get angry. ”。