Chapter 13 Home Visits (Ask for Recommended Collections)
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It's been almost a semester since he arrived at Shuling Middle School, but Zhu Daidong hasn't made a home visit yet, not because he doesn't want to go, but because he doesn't want to disturb the students' families. Zhu Daidong is also a child of a peasant family, and he knows very well what it means for his child's teacher to visit the school, and whether the student's grades are good or bad, the student's parents will have a certain amount of pressure.
Many of the parents of the students in his class are farmers who work at home, and they are very simple, but they are very clumsy in their eloquence. Zhu Daidong once heard from other teachers that he went to visit students' homes, but the parents stammered and couldn't even say a word. Zhu Daidong also has a personal experience of this, thinking that when his teacher came to visit the writer, his parents were also nervous, for fear of saying something wrong. Therefore, Zhu Daidong generally uses the method of writing letters, asking students to take them back to their parents, and let them sign or seal them before taking them back.
And the content of the letter is also concise and to the point, try not to use rare words, but also try to use italics, most of the parents of students do not read much, as long as they can understand their own meaning.
In fact, there is another reason why Zhu Daidong is reluctant to do home visits, that is, teachers go to home visits, which will bring a burden to students' families. Rural people are very hospitable, not to mention that the children's teachers are here, so as long as they go to visit their homes, they must stay to eat, and if they don't stay, they look down on people. In order to entertain the teacher, they will kill the hen that is laying eggs without hesitation, and catch the fish that is waiting to be raised and sold for money. Zhu Daidong asked himself if he couldn't eat such a meal, so if there was no special reason, he would never visit home, even if it was a last resort, he would choose the evening, at least he didn't need others to entertain him.
But this time it was different, Hou Tianming went to his office early in the morning to tell Zhu Daidong, saying that his father, Hou Yong, had asked Mr. Zhu to visit his home today, and that he must have dinner at his house.
For the parents of students to take the initiative to invite home visits, this kind of thing is not easy to refuse. Zhu Daidong left Hou Tianming behind and asked him about the situation at home, it turned out that Hou Tianming's father Hou Yong was the deputy director of the Shuling Township Police Station, and his mother Ye Lijuan was an officer of the Township Family Planning Commission. The reason why he took the initiative to invite Zhu Daidong to do a home visit this time is because Hou Tianming has recently undergone a significant change in both his academic performance and learning attitude, although his grades are still at the bottom of the class, but now at least every subject can be passed, to do this, for Hou Tianming, it is already commendable.
Because Zhu Daidong was going to do a home visit, Hou Yong and Ye Lijuan returned home early today, of course, Ye Lijuan bought enough vegetables, as soon as Zhu Daidong arrived at Hou Tianming's house, she had been busy in the kitchen except for the first time she came out to meet.
Hou Yong is a demobilized soldier who worked in the Yumuling Township Police Station for more than ten years, and was not promoted to deputy director until five years ago. Although he has been in the local area for more than ten years, he still maintains the style of a soldier, speaks boldly, and likes to go straight. Although Zhu Daidong has only participated in the work for less than half a year, after talking with him, he vaguely knows why he has been working in the police station for more than ten years. Such a character is only suitable for being a soldier, not a general.
Since it is a home visit, the theme is of course Hou Tianming, his parents are at home, Hou Tianming is as obedient as a kitten, after leading Zhu Daidong to his home, he has been hiding in his room, and he is doing homework until dinner.
"In fact, any student can be educated well, there is no student who can't teach well, only a teacher who can't teach. Of course, the cooperation of parents is also important. Zhu Daidong maintains such a mentality for any student in the class, as long as he has the opportunity, he will praise the students, and praise them without capital, why not do it? Sometimes an unintentional word can increase students' confidence, and sometimes it is not uncommon to change their fate with a single sentence.
"We will definitely cooperate with the teacher." Hou Yong hurriedly said that as long as the child can learn well and improve his grades, no matter what he wants them to do, he is willing.
"I heard that you often beat and scolded Hou Tianming?" Zhu Daidong asked with a smile.
"Well, filial piety under the stick, if Tianming is disobedient at school, Teacher Zhu will also beat him, and you don't want to be responsible if he is killed." Hou Yong said with a smile.
"Scolding a child doesn't necessarily make him take the initiative to learn, in fact, I think encouragement and praise are the best means. You should always be good at discovering his strengths, and often praise him from time to time, I believe that Hou Tianming's student grades will definitely be able to catch up. Zhu Daidong said.
"Encouragement and praise? Teacher Zhu, you may already know, I am a retired soldier and like to speak with my fists, if I often praise him, this kid's tail will not reach the sky? Hou Yong's face was puzzled, he may be a good hand at solving the case, but when it comes to educating children, he is in front of Zhu Daidong, that is, the level of a primary school student.
"You can try to do it, if you don't believe it, you can give yourself a deadline, three months or a month, maybe then Tianming's change will surprise you." Zhu Daidong said with a smile that in addition to exchanging information about students, home visits also require parents to cooperate with them to educate students.
"Maybe I was really wrong before, since he was in elementary school, he likes to be naughty and mischievous, and the more he fights, the more naughty he becomes, if he is not afraid of blushing, he will go to junior high school or leave the relationship with Principal Liu, otherwise I am afraid that he will have to repeat the sixth grade." Hou Yong himself only graduated from junior high school, he did not expect that now his son will not even be able to finish primary school, although the state implements nine-year compulsory education, but middle schools can also reject unqualified primary school graduates.
Hearing that Hou Yong was willing to change his approach, Zhu Daidong was also very pleased. A person like Hou Yong, what he says must count, as long as he agrees to something, it is a spit and a nail, and there is no possibility of repentance.
"It's eaten, it's eaten, it's dawn, hurry up and come out to help." Ye Lijuan has been busy in the kitchen for so long, and finally made all the dishes, although she was stir-frying in the kitchen, she also paid attention to the conversation between Zhu Daidong and Hou Yong in her ears, she could see that this Teacher Zhu had no prejudice against her son, not to mention anything else, for this alone, she was very grateful to Zhu Daidong.
"Teacher Zhu can have a drink?" Hou Yong took out a bottle of 38-degree Xixing wine, which was produced by the city distillery, which was already considered high-grade for ordinary people.
"You can drink a little." Zhu Daidong nodded, he can drink two catties of fifty-two degrees of Lao Baigan, and he can drink three catties of this thirty-eight degrees of West Star.
Hearing that Zhu Daidong can drink liquor, Hou Yongxi is overjoyed, he has no other hobbies, just this wine. In the office, he also drank one of the best, and sometimes there were leaders in the bureau, and he was the only one to accompany the wine. In the unit, drinking is sometimes like a battle, and the relationship between winning and losing is important, and Hou Yong has made great achievements for the police station in this regard.
But when he met Zhu Daidong today, Hou Yong was destined to encounter Waterloo, silently, and two bottles of Xixing wine were swallowed. Zhu Daidong acted like a nobody, and Hou Yong knew that Mr. Zhu was definitely a master of wine. He built yƬ to change the old white gan produced in the township, and Zhu Daidong had no arbitrary opinions.
Hou Yong's amount of wine is about one and a half catties, this time he met Zhu Daidong, he was sacrificing his life to accompany the gentleman, and after drinking a bottle of Xixing wine in a catty, he drank a bottle of Lao Baigan again, and now he couldn't support it. After drinking, he talked a lot, and he called Zhu Daidong a brother and brother, and he didn't know how affectionate he was. It's just that in the end, he didn't know how he got into bed, only that he woke up the next day with a splitting headache.
"Lijuan, Teacher Zhu wasn't drunk yesterday, right?" The first thing Hou Yong did when he woke up the next day was to ask Zhu Daidong, he drank too much yesterday, and it doesn't matter if he drank unconscious, don't let Mr. Zhu make a fool of himself.
"No, what else are you talking about, I think it's better to change the name to a wine barrel, Mr. Zhu drank two bottles, his face was not red and his heart was not beating, and finally he chatted with Tianming for a while before going back, which is like you, drunk like a pile of mud." Ye Lijuan was also secretly frightened by Zhu Daidong's drinking.
"It's better to be young, if I'm twenty years younger, it's no problem to drink another bottle of Lao Baigan." Hou Yong said unconvinced, a man can't say no, especially for drinking, he has never served anyone. He has already decided that he will definitely have a good drink with Zhu Daidong next time, and then he will win or lose.
Hou Yong and Zhu Daidong fight for wine, pay attention to failure, since Zhu Daidong fell and injured the back of his head outside the county education bureau, his alcohol consumption has been rising, until now even Zhu Daidong knows how much he can drink, only knows that two bottles of Lao Bai dry drinking, just can stop the addiction to alcohol......