Xu Weitong stretched out his hand to him, "I'm Xu Weitong, a soldier, this is what I should do." Although I was presumptuous to speak just now, I am really thinking about Brother Ling, and I hope you can reflect deeply."

Liu Wengui nodded, "Yes, yes, I understand, I only thank you, you are a kind and understanding person, so you can persuade people so hard and conscience" Soldiers, the Xu family is so rich, how can they still be soldiers? That's definitely not an ordinary soldier, if he could survive back then, I don't know if he can become a big officer now

"Why didn't your mom and dad get divorced?"

“”

Xu Weitong quickly picked up Xu Qinglong and quickly apologized embarrassedly, "I'm sorry, I'm really sorry, the child didn't speak properly, I'm sorry, I'm sorry" Xu Weitong won't say that Xu Qinglong is a child's words, because he knows that every word Tangtang said, she herself knows very clearly and clearly what she is talking about

Xu Qinglong was talking to Liu Xiaona, and was suddenly picked up by Xu Weitong, and looked at him questioningly, but after Xu Weitong apologized, although Xu Qinglong didn't know where he was wrong, he didn't speak anymore - her family wouldn't hurt her. Since the uncle apologized for her and said that she spoke inappropriately, then she should really speak inappropriately.

Xu Weitong looked at Xu Qinglong, who was quietly nesting in his arms, and his heart softened, Tangtang is obedient, this kind of trust that does not resist at all, it really makes people want to cry and kiss Xu Qinglong, Xu Weitong handed her to Xu Xiantong, he was still wet, "I'm sorry"

Liu Wengui was actually not angry at all, the child of the Xu family really said what he had always wanted to say. But. As the old saying goes, it is better to demolish a temple than destroy a marriage, but imagine how big the sin of persuading people to break up with husband and wife is, even worse than offending the Buddha. Besides, there has never been a divorce in the village. The words of divorce are just talking about trouble, and no one is really going to do it. This is a big scandal that has been poked in the back.

"It's okay, it's okay, it's a good thing that a child understands so much at such a young age, it's so smart" Liu Wengui hurriedly praised Qinglong. Xu Weitong thanked him embarrassedly, and took the Xu family to lead the two large and small horses, and left with a da. It would be embarrassing to stay any longer

Xu Qinglong lay on Xu Xiantong's shoulder, looking back at Liu Xiaona, who was suddenly sitting there silently because of her question, and her mother stopped coughing. also sat up and looked at Liu Xiaona's father blankly, Liu Xiaona's father kept his head down and smoked, and no one paid attention to it

"Little uncle, can't you get divorced if you get married in this country?" If you can't get a divorce, it's still monogamous, and this country is really special

Xu Xiantong put her on the pony and asked her to do a good job, "How can you not get a divorce?" Freedom to marry. The clutch is all free. But ah, divorce is not an easy matter," although he was never married. But just thinking about the marriage style of the big family, how many of the same bed and different dreams are still hand in hand until they are old

Isn't it a simple matter? Xu Qinglong tilted his head, "Do you want to take an exam?" ”

"Poof!" Xu Weitong took the lead in laughing, and was cute, but looking at Tangtang's serious thinking, they didn't dare to laugh too exaggeratedly. "It's not an exam," Xu Xiantong couldn't help laughing. But I am also worried, how to say this kind of thing? He doesn't have this kind of experience, he only knows the practical problem of property division, but this can't answer Tangtang's question Song Wenrang interjected, "Women all want to get married." I don't want to get a divorce! It's hard to find a man who can marry him, and until she finds a better family, a woman won't divorce lightly! ”

"You can't say it's so scary!! Xu Xiantong patted him, knowing that after he went home to see his father, he felt uncomfortable again, but this kind of negative feelings not only should you not have, let alone say that it is okay to give sugar candy?

Xu Ziliang hurriedly followed, "Women are a vulnerable group" seems to be unhelpful. Xu Zinuo came over to help Xu Qinglong hold the reins of the horse, "Why do you say that kind of thing to your classmates?" ”

Xu Qinglong blinked, "Her mother wants to elope with someone else, this is to leave her father, then she has to divorce first, if you are monogamous, you have to divorce first" Polygamy is not used, "Liu Xiaona cried so much because her mother eloped without divorce, she was abandoning her."

Xu Xiantong sighed in her heart, this child still sees the problem so simply and sharply, her mother doesn't really want to leave, let alone divorce, her mother did abandon Liu Xiaona, she is an irresponsible wife and mother

Including Xu Weitong, these five big and small men couldn't answer Xu Qinglong's question. The three children are not so good at the concept of marriage, Xu Weitong was widowed early, and he was more righteous than his wife, Xu Xiantong never thought about marriage at all, let alone divorce. After being stuck for a long time, Song Wen let him speak.

"Flowey and the magpie fight, it's not because it wants to eat the magpie, it's just fun. Many people do things, in fact, they don't have the kind of purpose that can be seen by others" Song Wen made him grow a little taller, looked a lot thinner, with his gloomy face, he was extremely lonely, "If you have a child, you must love your child deeply?" Actually, I don't love it at all. Is there really a lot of suffering after talking about it? Actually, there isn't at all. Can this be called duplicity? No. Because this is sincere, sincere, sincere, hypocritical and hateful!! ”

Xu Weitong knew that the child was uncomfortable, and was about to speak, but Xu Qinglong took the lead, "Third brother, did someone bully you?" Sue me, I'll take revenge on you!! Snatched the reins from Xu Zinuo's hand and patted the pony's buttocks, "Come up!" Let's find your enemy!! ”

In a short period of time when everyone was stunned, Song Wenrang suddenly laughed, and then jumped on the horse's back and hugged Xu Qinglong, "Go!" Revenge goes!! ”

Xu Weitong and the others looked at the mini horse, which was very cute carrying the two children. It's a bumpy trot all the way, and it's really slow

The two most uneasy children left, and Xu Xiantong asked Xu Weitong with a look of disgust, "What happened to the Song family?" Want more? Really treat Xiaowen as a cash cow, don't you?!! Shameless!! ”

Xu Weitong also frowned, "Song Zhixian's third wife gave birth to a son. Song Jing named Song Wenxin, on the day of the full moon, Song Wenli scalded the child with boiling water, and was told by Song Wenqian, Song Jing asked Song Zhixian to invite me over, hoping that I could also bring Song Wenli back. Xiaowen refused on the spot, Song Jing said that he ate inside and out, and pigs and dogs were not as good as "He has tried to say it as simple and gentle as possible, but the conspiracy behind these words is bleak, and it really sounds cold."

Xu Zinuo sneered. "Song Wenli is a mongrel, if it weren't for him and his mother, how could Xiaowen's mother die? Now even the child who has just completed the moon has been poisoned, he is not as good as a pig and a dog!! Didn't Song Zhixian cry bitterly at that time and wanted to keep him? How? Now that you have a new love, you don't even want your old beloved son? That's right, the old love may be sold to him now."

Xu Xiantong is also very disdainful, "What do you think of our Xu family?" Throw everything over!! Can the children of the Song family compare with Xiaowen? Xiaowen's mother entrusted you with her on her deathbed and asked you to leave the Song family with Xiaowen. It's just to see through the Song family's dirty face and dirty thoughts!! Xiaowen has not stayed in the Song family for a day since he was born. Xiaowen is our child!! If you want to dominate Xiaowen and threaten us, you really eat dog guts!! Those people in the Song family, their hearts are getting bigger and bigger, and they are dizzy by those inferior people, and they can't find the north, right? I really thought that his Song family was here in the Xu family, and he could be regarded as a thing!! ”

Xu Weitong comforted his two angry sons. said to the younger brother again, "Of course Xiaowen won't let them scare him, but the attitude of that family did hurt him." Disgust is also a kind of feeling, and it will hurt himself in turn, I am worried that Xiaowen will do stupid things. You should pay attention, though, it should be much better if there is sugar candy."

Xu Xiantong nodded, "In the more than half a year that Tangtang has been away from home, Xiaowen's personality has become gloomy again. But what if Tangtang is also affected by Xiaowen? If those two children are all in bad water and want to do something, no one in our family can stop the eldest sister now, who is responsive to Tangtang's needs, if in a few days, the Song family is attacked by some UFO, I really don't feel surprised"

Xu Ziliang thought for a while and looked at the uncle speechlessly, "Don't scare us, okay?" ”

Xu Xiantong was very happy to be made up by his own brain, "Am I scaring you?" I'm telling the truth!! Sugar Candy is now building a small plane, it's not a problem."

Xu Weitong thought about it embarrassedly, and looked at his eldest son, "Dad handed over all the younger brothers and sisters to you, you must take care of them" He should return to the team in a few days

Xu Zinuo instantly felt that his dark clouds were over, but he originally regarded taking care of his younger brothers and sisters as a major thing he should do, but now he was officially asked by his father, and he didn't feel helpless - it wasn't a day or two for his father to be the shopkeeper. This is the tradition of the Xu family, except for the green dragon, the children of the Xu family all grow up like weeds, of course, weeds are also alternative weeds, how can the family really not teach them

By the time the family came home, dinner had already been set. Xu Qinglong was chattering with Song Wenrang about elopement, divorce, women, men, and other topics that are inappropriate for children. Grandpa Xu has never taken much care of it, where do I come from, Grandpa Xu doesn't stop the child from talking, let alone talking about these topics. However, Grandpa Xu also understands that the children's questions are only the ones they have when they were young.

If the affairs of men and women can really be explained clearly and clearly, then they will not be expressed and depicted in various ways for thousands of years

"So, grandpa, am I right? I've seen it with my own eyes!! Song Wenrang finally asked. He knew his background since he was a child, knew what kind of virtue his father was, and watched his father evolve from shameless to even more shameless. So Song Wenrang felt that what he said was absolutely correct.

Xu Qinglong's questions all focused on why he did something to separate, but he didn't really want to separate. She listened to Song Wenrang's explanation, and although she understood it, she didn't understand it anymore. Do people do things for purposes that are not the kind of purpose that others have guessed it is? Is it hypocritical?

Grandpa Xu felt that he was not dizzy by the two children, which was a miracle. Grabbed the two children, "Shall we eat first?" After eating, grandpa is talking to you, "The child is not at home, and the child is back, and he is also worried, but of course it is better to be at home!"

Xu Shantong pulled Xu Qinglong to sit down. "Eat and eat" Eat is important.

Grandpa Xu secretly glanced at the eldest daughter, since she came back with Tangtang, this eldest daughter seems to have lost half of her soul, although she is not so nervous about Tangtang, but she cares more about the child, as long as Tangtang is there, she looks at it well, as if she is afraid that the child will be gone. Grandpa Xu can understand this mentality, but the eldest daughter is obviously a little sick. The children are all right, even better, what are you afraid of?

But although the eldest daughter is sensitive, she is not the kind of person who has no reason, and something must have happened. But, Grandpa Xu's stomach is full of depression, this eldest daughter belongs to the kind of person who can't remember to talk about it without asking her. That's how Sugar Candy's hair was back then. Originally, it was said on the phone that the child's hair was like instant noodles, and they really imagined that Tangtang had instant noodles all over their heads - not only rolls but also brittle, and they were still uncomfortable for a long time. It shatters when you touch it, and it's not as long as it doesn't last.

You can wait for the child to come back. Seeing her full of curly hair, they realized that it was indeed the kind of curls that grew out of instant noodles, but then it grew long, and it was not convenient noodles!! But when you came to tell us again, it scared the family, and most of the surprises were shocked. And also. Obviously, I said that I was going home, and I went to travel halfway, and I called to say that I was shopping and eating, and if I said that, it would be nothing. But then suddenly another sentence was added, and he might be arrested

Why was he arrested?!! How he said this until now, Grandpa Xu doesn't know. My daughter looks so tired, he doesn't want to ask her now, he just wants to let her rest first, but if there is really something important, you are not too tired to speak, so you have to say it, let the family know and know, have a preparation, right?

Oops.

After eating, Grandpa Xu took the two to Xu Qinglong's study to write, Xu Zipromise and Xu Ziliang also silently chased in, and Grandpa Xu didn't care about them.

After patiently writing half of the big characters, Song Wenrang put down his pen and looked at Grandpa Xu. And Xu Qinglong has not practiced calligraphy for more than half a year, so he is a lot unfamiliar with the pen, and now he is trying to run in with the brush again. She has always been single-minded in her work, so she has completely forgotten about the problems before the meal for the time being.

Grandpa Xu ignored Song Wenrang, and didn't put down his pen until he finished writing the last stroke of his own words, and sat down with Song Wenrang and Xu Qinglong, who had finally finished half of the writing.

"If grandpa said that the questions you want to know, grandpa actually doesn't know, and besides, when you are older, you will naturally know, what will you think of these two sentences?"

Song Wenrang frowned, and said decisively, "I will think that I am right, and I will think the same when I am older!" ”

Xu Qinglong thought for a while, "Grandpa, I'm ahead of my time again, right?" She remembered that her grandfather had told her about where the child was coming from, and that what she said was not what she should say at her age. So, the question she is asking now is not the question she should be asking at her age?

Grandpa Xu touched Xu Qinglong's fluffy little head, "It's not that you're ahead of your time this time, it's your questions that are ahead of your time." Because of this kind of problem, even grandpa can't explain it clearly. Everyone has their own emotional experience and emotional understanding, and what suits others may not be suitable for you. Grandpa's concept of love belongs only to grandpa's own, my love, just my love, it is the treasure I once had, I don't want to use my treasure as an example, to answer your questions, this is my decision and choice. And when I talk about others, I am objective and blind, I can't explain it clearly, and I can't explain other people's views of love to you. That's why I said, your questions are ahead of your time. ”

And I said, when you are older, there will be an answer, because at that time, maybe you have already found your emotional path. That path belongs to you, and you have to walk it by yourself, and other people's suggestions and answers may not necessarily help you. Now, it is even more useless for you. Just as you can't explain the beauty and coldness of snowflakes to someone who has never seen snow, you can only have the ability to explain and question if you have experienced it yourself. ”

Song Wenrang's eyes were still firm, "The emotions I saw are also real, and they are also what I have experienced, I have seen them with my own eyes, what I said, why is it not right?" ”

Grandpa Xu touched Song Wenrang, "Someone else fell on his heels, you saw it, you heard him cry out in pain, but will you also hurt?" You won't. You just feel that it hurts, but that kind of pain, you don't feel it, you don't know what that pain is. People live in this world, they will see many people and many things, do you want to take all the cries of pain that you see as your own? What about yourself? What is truly your own, and where do you put it? (To be continued......)