In the past, even in the years when she was in the mountains, she had no problem communicating with others, let alone the more than sixty years she had been with His Highness, and it was no problem at all. However, Xu Qinglong now knows that there are difficulties in communication, so he naturally begins to think about why she had no difficulties in communicating before

Grandpa Xu is still saying, "Then let's talk about satisfying other people's wishes."

Xu Qinglong continued to be embarrassed, she was hungry, she still had to say that grandpa has been talking more and more recently, it seems that she is more nervous because, is she going to that mansion for the New Year? Xu Qinglong suddenly laughed, and found that his grandfather would be worried about being nervous about himself to this kind of journey, Xu Qinglong was really happy~~~~

"Well, you say, I'm listening~~~"

Grandpa Xu actually felt that he was a little too nervous, and after saying so many words, his mouth was dry, but he always felt that there were a lot of things he didn't say to his children, and he was always worried that he would forget to say something important

Well, "After you know whether your help is good or evil, you can choose whether to do it or not." As for self-interest, it is necessary to start from one's own interests and only do what is beneficial to oneself, which is actually not wrong, but this is not the original intention of helping others after all. But it seems to be the best of both worlds to help others and satisfy one's own spiritual and material resources. But you have to remember that in this world, the better you have both worlds, the more beautiful you are. Be focused. Do what you do, just do it, don't be half-hearted and opportunistic. ”

"Your sincerity and hard work will not disappoint you. However, the key to helping others is not in this help, but in this person. The same two people, tired of walking, you drive a two-seater car, but can only carry one more person. What about these two people, one is tired of walking with a child, the other is a bad leg, whoever you help is to let him take a ride, but the two people you help are in completely different situations, and the same help you provide will also get different results and gratitude. ”

Grandpa Xu took a sip of tea, "In this case, you have to think about who you should help according to the situation of the person being helped." Helping others and doing good deeds is not a kind of psychological satisfaction, but your cautious and thoughtful thinking, how to maximize your help to be used and benefit more, this is what makes help done, and your help becomes a meaningful thing. So that your kindness is not wasted. ”

"Every donation from our family has been carefully investigated and calculated by many people, and there will never be a single waste. It's not because we're stingy, it's because it's not like waste. A careless waste of yours may be someone else's life-saving money. Let every penny and every kindness be used to the maximum extent is the basic criterion for goodness. Do you understand? ”

Xu Qinglong nodded, and Grandpa Xu put down the empty teacup and drank it all

Therefore, when someone needs your help in the future, after judging good and evil, you must think carefully about what to do so that your help is not wasted. But there may be all kinds of complicated situations and things, and you can't distinguish between good and evil, so you just think about what will happen if you help, and what will happen if you don't help. You have to judge the specific things yourself, Sugar Candy is very smart, grandpa won't say more."

Xu Qinglong helped Grandpa Xu to stand up, your voice is hoarse, don't say more

The result of today's incident is that the Xu family, including Xu Qinglong, began to worry about Grandpa Xu - going to the mansion for the New Year actually made the old man so stressed. Then when eating, Xu Qinglong was very well-behaved, and it was not obvious that he was picky and picky, and Grandpa Xu was also angry and funny about his tense feelings, so that the juniors would worry about him, it was really unbelievable, he was not old yet!!

After Xu Qinglong returned to school, because Liu Sisi's mother and Xue Zimei's mother came to school, no one was paying attention to her. It's not that I don't pay attention, after all, Xu Qinglong can't run, and it's important to see the two angry mothers scolding and fighting first!! Xu Qinglong, Liu Xiaona, Xue Nan, and Chu Jun stayed in the class.

Xue Nan glanced at Liu Xiaona and was glared at by Liu Xiaona, and then Liu Xiaona and Xu Qinglong explained, "It's not that my mother doesn't want to come, it's that my father didn't let her come, I also think, I didn't suffer a loss, let my mother come, Liu Sisi and they all think they suffered a loss, and their mother came."

Xu Qinglong sighed, she didn't want to hear it, Liu Xiaona said again, "The people are forcing you to help them drive Teacher Bai away?" Qinglong was not allowed to speak, and continued to take care of himself, "If you listen to them, they are just afraid of failing and being bullied by Teacher Bai!" What's wrong with being counted out a few words? There won't be a piece of meat missing, just say it, what a big deal"

Xu Qinglong and Xue Nan and Chu Jun all looked up at her, and this sentence came out of Liu Xiaona's mouth, it was so funny - she often fought with others because others said a word about her, you are so persuasive, it is really not convincing at all

Xue Nan suddenly became curious, "Liu Xiaona, what kind of person do you think you are?" "Don't you think you're very polite and good?

"Of course I'm fine!" Liu Xiaona said very confidently, "I'm a person, just follow my father, my mouth is not good, but in fact, I am the most righteous!" "I've been messing with Xu Qinglong for a long time, and my mouth is neat.

Xue Nan didn't answer, such a person who had no self-knowledge, he really didn't want to talk to her. Xue Nan now feels that the idiom of self-knowledge is really a golden word in life!! In the past, his mother always asked him to find a golden and jade good word in life to encourage and educate him, but he never looked for it, and now he feels that his golden and jade good words are these four words.

Xu Qinglong listened to the increasingly fierce quarrel outside, turned his head and asked Liu Xiaona, "Aren't you from the same village?" Why are you still arguing so much? "It turns out that the people of a village will also scold each other, not only for outsiders.

Liu Xiaona didn't care, "There are a lot of quarrels in a village, what is this?" and didn't answer the point at all.

Chu Jun added, "My mother has a unit and a quarrel, and it will be fine in a few days."

Xu Qinglong nodded, but Liu Xiaona cut her voice, "If you quarrel, you won't get along with each other, and it will be fine in a few days, do you think adults are like us?" Xue Nan agreed. Chu Jun's face turned red and he didn't speak again. Xu Qinglong heard the deputy principal's voice at this time

Xue Nan also heard it later, and looked out, "Teacher Bai should really leave now" Liu Xiaona didn't answer, and Chu Jun didn't speak.

Xu Qinglong looked at Xue Nan, "Do you also hate Teacher Bai?" Why? "She wants to hear it.

Xue Nan thought for a moment, "Teacher Bai is not suitable to be a teacher. She's like this, there's nothing in the factory, there are a lot of people like her, here, give us a lesson, it's not good" Xue Nan couldn't say exactly what was not suitable, anyway, Xue Nan thought so. Factories and schools are not the same.

Xu Qinglong smiled and said, "Why not? It's all the same" everywhere, if the teacher can't do it well, the worker will also do it badly

Xue Nan was stunned and didn't speak for a long time.

Teacher Bai soon disappeared from the kindergarten, and at the same time, the kindergarten also set a rule that teachers were not allowed to accept a stitch from the parents of the students. Supervise and report to each other, and once discovered, resolutely expel each other. Xu Qinglong actually has a kind of demon suppression effect

The Xu family's influence on Xuefang Village has been great, because Liu Wenchang went to prison, the pattern of the entire Xuefang Village has changed, and the future of the village has changed. Then the future of the adults and children in the village has also changed dramatically. And Xu Qinglong is also tirelessly influencing the classmates around him in school. One counts as one, and all the children who fell in love with her have deviated from the original life trajectory, including Xue Zimei, who was reborn. These are not to be counted one by one, you can see everything.

But for the Xu family and Xu Qinglong, their days have not changed, but, the effect of force is mutual, they are influencing and changing others, and others are also influencing and changing them, but Xu Qinglong and the Xu family are strong after all, and the strong ones are not so easy to change. However, life is full of surprises~~~~

Soon, on New Year's Day, there will be a party in the morning, and there will be a holiday in the afternoon, and the New Year will be over at the beginning of school. Kindergarten children and preschool children have a party together. The teacher chose a small choir, and when he picked Xu Qinglong, he struggled for a long time, reluctant to Xu Qinglong's face, but he couldn't stand her out-of-tune, and in the end, he still didn't choose Xu Qinglong. Liu Sisi and Xue Zimei were both selected.

In the family of these two children, the women are making enemies, so that the relationship between them is also the kind that snorts at each other when they meet. is even more exaggerated than Liu Sisi and Liu Xiaona at the beginning. But these two were arranged in the choir, and because of their height, they stood side by side Liu Xiaona laughed for a long time, saying that the two of them looked like they had stepped on shit

Xu Qinglong looked at the children who had been put on by the teachers and his eyes were round. That red face is redder than the buttocks of the great sages, and the blush is not like that

"Makeup, okay, I heard that the powder is very fragrant," Xue Ran said with envy.

Xu Qinglong was speechless. Liu Xiaona sneered, "It's like a ghost, where does it look good?" Look at Chu Jun and Xue Nan, they are still boys, they are also smeared like Liu Sisi and their girls, they are ugly!! Xue Ran also laughed, "Xue Nan and Chu Jun are better looking than girls~~~"

Xu Qinglong felt that it was good that she was fortunate that she was not selected. There is a small game of rings on the party, and a lot of small gifts are placed in front of it, as long as you throw the traps, you can take them. Xu Qinglong basically took all the small gifts, and the teacher next to him was even green, but he was still speechless - because Xu Qinglong didn't ask for any of them, they all gave them to other children. It's also very fair, and if you give it, you won't give it

Originally, these small gifts were for children, the cheap ones were pencil erasers, and the expensive ones were cups and winding frogs. Xu Qinglong didn't ask for any of them, they were all fairly distributed to other children, and the teacher really had nothing to say. Although I couldn't take the rest home, the teacher was very satisfied to see that the children were happy.

After an embarrassing and happy New Year's Day party, I don't know if it is happy and sad, after Xu Qinglong was taken home by Xu Xiantong, he found that his mother was gone

Xu Qinglong suddenly withered, and went to the study without saying a word with Huahua in his arms.

Xu Shantong went home this time, and he really stayed for a long time. The Xu family had never seen her rest for so long. I thought we could celebrate the New Year together, but after last night's New Year's Eve, Xu Shantong was picked up in the morning. Xu Qinglong has been sleeping with Xu Shantong and playing together during this time, and the mother and daughter get along very well, just like playmates. Xu Shantong also let go a lot, and was more considerate to Xu Qinglong.

It was such a good time for honey to mix oil, Xu Shantong was picked up. In addition to being depressed and disgusted with the concept that the West did not celebrate the Spring Festival, the Xu family did not know how to comfort Xu Qinglong. After all, those people actually really have a conscience, and they let Xu Shantong spend all the big festivals in the West, such as Christmas, Thanksgiving and New Year's Day, at home. But this is the place of depression, your festival is not our holiday!!

When Xu Mengtong sent Xu Shantong away, she was asked to protest with Western leaders and respect the customs of various countries!! Xu Shantong also cried a lot, and felt pity in her heart. But fortunately, she made a lot of remote-controlled planes for Xu Qinglong, enough for her to play for a while, and embroidered a lot of handkerchiefs, which are also enough for children, Xu Shantong left this time, and she was in a much better mood than the last few times, but it was even more uncomfortable - I miss my daughter~~~~

Even if Xu Qinglong was depressed, after writing three hours of big characters, he could still come out with a smile. But as soon as he entered the house, before he could speak to Xu Xiantong, he heard a faint sound of a gong. At the same time, an inaudible howl came from the brigade's loudspeaker. It was really howling, screaming so badly that I couldn't hear what it was saying at all.

Xu Xiantong picked up Xu Qinglong and stood in the courtyard, but Grandpa Xu and Mrs. Xu had a little experience, "Gong, what happened to you, right?" Xu Mengtong laughed, "What age is this, and you still knock on the gong if you have something?" Mrs. Xu said slowly, "Don't underestimate this gong, it buzzes and buzzes, and it can be heard far away, otherwise we can hear it here?" What's the matter, this phone call is not as fast as this gong."

Xu Mengtong nodded in agreement, smiled and didn't say anything else. After the howling in the loudspeaker stopped, Xu Xiantong carried Xu Qinglong into the house, Xu Qinglong was very curious, "Is it a wolf?" "When the beast enters the village, it will ring the gong to warn you. R1152