Chapter 60: The Full-Time Wife Controversy
"But I see that your husband is not a fuel-efficient lamp, a man is handsome like that, very peachy, you know? You can't relax even more. Hu Mingliang sighed deeply and said earnestly.
Ji Qingling snorted, sure enough, in the eyes of everyone, she was not worthy of Fu Zijun, he was indeed very peachy, but she didn't have the heart to deal with those wild bees and butterflies.
Hu Mingliang saw that she looked disapproving, and hated that iron could not become steel, "Don't be so confident, if you don't keep your figure and get fat back to the way you were back then, he will definitely get rid of you, marry such a man, you can't slack off for a second, you can't buy those junk food, you know?" No matter what big thing you do, you have to come to the gym tomorrow. β
Ji Qingling thought it was funny, but thanks to her kindness, she had to nod her head frequently, "I'll introduce you to each other." β
"No need," Hu Mingliang waved his hand resolutely, "I'm so beautiful, if your husband takes a fancy to me and gets rid of you, then I will become a sinner who robs my friend's man, so I still have to cut this possibility in the cradle." β
Ji Qingling was so troubled by her righteous and awe-inspiring appearance that she almost choked on her own saliva, she was also a little too confident, "Ahem, thank you for not robbing the woman!" β
Hu Mingliang nodded very helpfully, "I'll go first, you remember, you are not allowed to buy those junk food, you can't relax, come on!" β
She was laughed at by Hu Mingming's pyramid scheme-like tone, and when she returned to Fu Zijun, he was seriously putting the boxes of instant noodles in the shopping cart back into place.
"What are you doing?" She looked at him in amazement.
"You're definitely not going to buy these things." He said calmly, "Although I don't approve of your weight loss, there is some truth in what your friend said. β
"What makes sense to what my friend said? Weight loss? Fitness? Don't eat junk food? β
"Your husband is handsome like that, he is very peachy, and if you marry such a man, you can't slack off for a second." He lightly threw down a sentence and pushed the car away, leaving Ji Qingling alone in place, his face flushed, he actually heard it!
After being stupid for a few seconds, she reacted, what was her blushing about? Whether he recruits Peach Blossom or not, what does it matter to her? Does this man want to be so narcissistic?
She hurried to catch up with him, wanting to refute a few words, but suddenly felt that such a rebuttal seemed to care about him very much, deliberately concealing her weakness, and she had to swallow it silently.
Angry is angry, she didn't buy junk food anymore, but bought a cart of serious food decently, she learned cooking skills for a long time in her previous life in order to please him, whether it is Chinese or Western food or home-cooked fast food, it is difficult for her, even buying vegetables is a good hand.
What kind of eggs are fresh, what kind of vegetables are tender, what kind of fruits are sweet, her X-ray eyes can distinguish one or two as long as they sweep it, and her neat appearance when buying vegetables is simply a housewife who has been tempered by the years.
"You often buy groceries at home?" Her skilled Cheng dΓΉ impressed him, and he was more curious, didn't the Ji family invite several servants? Is it all decoration? Even buying vegetables has to be done by her eldest lady?
"That's not true, although I also help with some housework at home, I started to learn to buy groceries after I married you." Of course, it didn't take her a short year, but also the accumulation of ten years in her previous life.
"At this time, the vegetables in the supermarket are no longer fresh." She sighed, "If you want to eat really good things, you have to go to the morning market early tomorrow morning to buy them, and you can only go for a moment tonight." β
"You're quite talented."
Is that a compliment? Do I have the talent to be a housewife? She couldn't laugh or cry, and it was really hard to make people happy with such a compliment.
"Is it a grievance to be a stay-at-home wife?" He wondered, his mother had always been a stay-at-home wife and seemed to live a leisurely life, and when she first married him, hadn't she always been willing to be a full-time wife at home?
She thought for a moment, "It's not aggrieved to be a full-time wife, but it's quite aggrieved to be a full-time wife for you." β
This is the truth of not considering his feelings at all, his face is really ugly, except for the two months after the wedding, she seems to have been facing him with such a hostile attitude, even if he has a good temper, it is difficult to accept.
"Although I don't dare to say that I am a good husband, I have worked very hard to adapt to this role after I got married, and I have done my best to fulfill the obligations of a husband, but why do you always treat me with such an attitude?" At this time, Fu Zijun was already angry, he was a proud son of the sky, and he put down the shelf for her again and again, but she never appreciated it, and his male self-esteem was extremely hurt.
"I'm not talking about you, but I'm actually grateful for your help in the past few days." But she didn't get angry, and said softly as she pushed the car to the checkout counter and lined up.
She has to slowly learn to come out of the resentment of the past, "You also know that there is no emotional foundation between us, we are completely united because of interests, my status in the family is not high, and I can't count on my dad and my brother in the future, so I can't help but think about myself, I hope I can have the ability to support myself, have my own life and my own pursuit, just take it as my spiritual sustenance." You always focus on your work, if I focus all my attention on you and give up my self to be a full-time wife for you, not only will I be very hard, but you will also be stressed. β
Her words made him still a little disappointed, but his thoughts about her were understandable, he didn't expect much from her from the beginning, she was just a good wife candidate he thought was good, as for her preferences and thoughts, he really didn't bother to understand, if it wasn't for the feeling that she faintly wanted to get rid of his control soon after marriage, which made him feel a feeling similar to fear and anxiety, he wouldn't have started to pay attention to her.
She said the pressure, in fact, he had already felt it, he knew that she loved him very much, he was very grateful for this strong feeling, but there was no way to give the same effort, after getting married, her care and eager eyes would always make him feel breathless, so he subconsciously ignored her and ignored the pressure she bringed.
In marriage, ignoring does not solve the problem, she is really a smart woman, as soon as she finds a problem, she immediately looks for a solution, unlike him who just wishful thinking follows his own ideas, he is not as good as her at this point, Fu Zijun has a faint appreciation for her in his heart, an independent woman often gets the respect and other eyes of men.
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