Chapter 62: The Question
But it's such a place where all kinds of things are not unusual, and I can't wait for the maggots to rot inside, but the face is still simple, pure, kind and kind.
When Acropolis thought of this, he was also impressed that Grandpa Xu could find such a village.
Ten days later, the Xu family returned. As soon as Xu Qinglong walked into the open space, he was pounced on by a Saint Bernard dog and fell to the ground. Xu Zinuo's face turned white with fright, and he hurriedly ran over, Song Wenrang kicked the big dog away, Xu Ziliang picked up Xu Qinglong, "Don't you be afraid, don't you hurt?" Second brother blows"
Xu Zinuo was just about to open his mouth to coax, when he saw the stunned Xu Qinglong suddenly giggled, and stretched out his hand to the aggrieved big dog lying on the side, "It's fun, it's fun."
"Grandpa Xu, a few adults have also come over, and when he heard Xu Qinglong's words, he didn't know what to say, but he looked at Uncle Wei a little depressedly, why did he get such a big dog, although the training is good, but this is too big."
Thinking so, he called Uncle Wei to come out of a big black dog, pure black, without a single miscellaneous hair, with pointed ears standing upright, majestic. Xu Qinglong blinked, looked at St. Bernard, and then at the big black bear dog, and then went to find Huahua
"Didn't you just say it was fun?
Xu Mengtong looked at the two dogs, "Such a big one, obedient?" Don't bite. "She's a round-haired brute who doesn't want to see her, and she's shedding too much.
Uncle Wei whistled, and the two dogs stood behind him obediently, "It took several days to pick them up, and they smelled at home, and they were trained very well." Very obedient. One is called Big Black and the other is Big Mouth. ”
Xu Xiantong was disgusted by these two names, he didn't bother to change them, let this Grandpa Xu and Mrs. Xu go in, and beckoned Xu Zi to promise a few, "Okay, okay." Let's go back to the house and clean up, take a bath, and leave these two dogs alone."
Here, Xu Qinglong hugged Huahua and laughed, "Big mouth, hahahaha"
"The laughter is really getting lower and lower, this kid. Xu Ziliang pulled his sister, "Sugar candy doesn't like two big dogs? Xu Qinglong shook his head, "I like it~~~"
"Then why did you see Da Hei and look for flowers again?" Xu Ziliang asked.
Xu Qinglong hugged Huahua, "I'm afraid that Huahua is afraid, Da Hei just whined"
Why didn't they hear it? Look at the majestic big black. Looking at Huahua who was dragged by Tangtang, these two actually fought, and it was really hard to say who could win Grandpa Xu called Xu Qinglong, "Put Huahua down, let it be familiar with the new partner" Although Xu Qinglong was reluctant, he was still obedient as always, and obediently put Huahua on the ground - in fact, Huahua's hind legs have always been on the ground, who made Xu Qinglong too short.
"It's all right, if they fight. You can't go to the rack either, you know? "Grandpa Xu led Xu Qinglong to the house." If you don't fight, you don't know each other, and if you fight, the relationship will be close. If you get involved, it will destroy their relationship" Grandpa Xu said nonsense, and Xu Qinglong listened very seriously
Traveling is really the best way to test relationships. The Xu family went out this time. Well, the result is quite satisfying. But still found a lot of problems. Of course, it's all on Xu Qinglong.
The first big problem is that Xu Qinglong is really too domineering. The dividing line is particularly stark. From her own family and outsiders, she can distinguish clearly. Even Huahua was enclosed by her domineering into her personal private range. She didn't agree to anyone else taking pictures. Although she didn't come out, but others were about to take pictures, she threw out a piece of meat, asked Huahua to take it back, adjusted Huahua, and didn't give others a chance to take pictures
The expression of her dividing line is that when strangers talk to her, she just laughs and doesn't say a word, so that others think she is dumb. Calling her rude, no, she laughed and listened seriously, and said that she was right, but it was not true, because she obviously did not care in the slightest about the strangers who saw her cuteness and teased her.
Children who are usually teased will always feel like they are being sent to a zoo. Some people actually really like cute children, and they like it when they see it, and they want to tease, play, and talk. But it is easy to give people the feeling of despising children. Disrespect for children. It can only be said that children are always vulnerable in the face of adults. From any point of view.
And this situation, in Tangtang, is not at all. On the contrary, the strangers who teased Candy Candy were like clowns who put on a show for Sugar Candy, dancing in front of her and amusing her, but she just smiled slightly, unattainable. But those neglected strangers don't know this at all, and that's where the sugar cow doesn't work
In the same way, if the Xu family said it, her reaction would suddenly be different, and she couldn't cooperate much, Xu Xiantong had a bad magic trick, she laughed and applauded vigorously, it can be clearly seen that she is really happy.
This kind of domineering is obviously different from selfishness, and it is also different from domineering in the general sense. The focus of her attention is mine, and this concept is not only for her. the concept. Mrs., grandpa, aunt, little uncle, brothers, Huahua, these titles have all been turned into by her, her wife, her grandfather, her aunt, her little uncle, her brothers, her Huahua. And she doesn't ask the Xu family to be good to her alone, such as Xu Zi promising three, or Mrs. Xu and Grandpa Xu hugging other children, she doesn't care.
Ordinary domineering children, even if they have the same father and mother, are prone to such things as jealousy, as small as a piece of meat, a big house. And sugar candy doesn't care about these at all. Even if Grandpa Xu gave meat to a strange child from her bowl, she was happy. This result made Grandpa Xu, who had a heart, very frustrated. This domineering one doesn't seem to care about the part she was given, and more, she doesn't even have the idea of scrambling.
To put it bluntly, the root cause is still her concept of "my", which is not right.
The original judgment was that she was oppressed and lacking in character, had no self, and would not express her joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but would only laugh. It was found out later. She also has likes and dislikes, but she doesn't know it herself. Avoiding eating food she doesn't like is a pleasure for her. She didn't know what she hated to eat. Besides, her kind of table must be full of the kind of momentum that I like to eat. There are really very few foods she doesn't like at the dinner table.
Now when I come back from traveling, I find that Tangtang has no self, but the problem is not in her. Or rather, most of the problem is not with her. Some of Tangtang's personality has been stereotyped, but most of his mind is still curious and unfamiliar with the world. It's just a blank slate.
They talked to her. I'm your grandfather, she remembers, it's my grandfather. They said to her, this is Flowey, your pet, and she remembered, this is my pet, Flowey. Sugar candy will only remember. They sue her for something she will only think. What they give her is what belongs to her. And this kind of endowment is not unique.
You give, I want, you don't give, I don't ask. This kind of mind. In fact, it is very rare, it is a mature person with great wisdom to have the thoughts. However, when it comes to six-year-old Tangtang, nothing is right. Not to mention. She's still so domineering.
She was only in the part she was given, domineering. She was conscientious and sensible, enclosed herself in a circle, encircled them as well, and allowed them to enter and exit freely with the identity she recognized. Her grandfather listened to everything she said, and her wife agreed to whatever she asked her to do. Her aunt, her little uncle, and her brothers are all her happy save, her family.
Family, with this identity, they can choose to love her or not. I don't know what it would be like if I didn't love her, but she gave them this freedom. Sugar Candy, this child, is treating them with her domineering and gentleness.
It took Grandpa Xu and the others ten days to figure out these thoughts. It's complicated, it's a thousand turns, and it's hard and sad. Obviously the sugar candy is all smiling, facing a qiē. But in her heart, in those places that she didn't even know, there were so many feelings stored. How embarrassing it must have been
After figuring out this, the Xu family once spoke, all like this, "Sugar candy, this is the tea made by your wife brought to you by your grandfather" "Sugar candy, this is your aunt brought it to you, your eldest brother bought it back from your favorite lollipop" "Sugar candy, this is given to you by the second brother, picked up by the second brother, the shells on the beach of our house"
Xu Qinglong was in a daze, but he still responded with a smile. Fortunately, Mrs. Xu stopped this stupid way of speaking, but the Xu family began to understand how to guide and cultivate Xu Qinglong to achieve a deeper domineering behavior towards them and the world.
Even if they raise a selfish child, they admit it. But they also knew that it was absolutely impossible for Xu Qinglong to be a selfish person. She has her persistence. So their goal is to make Xu Qinglong understand what it means to be truly domineering. More importantly, they wanted to repay Xu Qinglong's gentleness.
You are not the only one who can be so gentle, we are not a title, we are not giving, we are loving you
Okay, the first question is finished, so the second one, it's not too small - it's so easy to trust people!!
That's not accurate. It is accurate to say that she can distinguish between true and false feelings, but she cannot see worldly evil thoughts. She didn't know that not all promises could be kept. The cause of the incident was that a little boy exchanged a conch for Xu Qinglong's silver bracelet.
Of course Grandpa Xu didn't believe it, Tangtang didn't know which was more valuable, the silver bracelet or the conch. When Grandpa Xu asked her why she wanted to exchange with the little boy, Tangtang said that he liked it because the little boy said he liked it, and he really liked it, so Tangtang exchanged it with him.
This logic is not difficult to understand, the difficult thing is, why does he want to exchange if he likes you? Sugar Candy said that his feet were cut in order to pick up the conch, which he had worked so hard to find. This conch is worth the same to him as my silver bracelet. The same thing, why can't it be exchanged? I want that conch too~~~
Again, it doesn't make sense. Grandpa Xu's focus is on the little boy, and Tangtang's focus is on the conch. In the case of conch, the reason for sugar candy is right. The little boy's conch and the silver bracelet of sugar candy are not equal in terms of worldly values. But for the two children, it is equal. Something reciprocal, each other is willing, so exchanged, which is normal. What is ridiculous in the eyes of adults is so normal in the world of children.
Adults don't think about how the conch came from, adults only think about what the boy who exchanged the conch for a silver bracelet thinks. Is he trying to take advantage, is he very treacherous, is he very cunning. But these thoughts, for Tangtang, are not in existence. All she saw was the conch that the little boy had worked so hard to find and his sincere words.
After Grandpa Xu realized this, he began to reflect on himself guiltily. He can't judge children's behavior with the thinking of adults.
But before this introspection was finished, the little boy's brother, another little boy who was not much older than the little boy, came to apologize with a silver bracelet and a basket of flowers.
The little boy first thanked Sugar Candy for agreeing to his brother's rude request, then criticized his brother for his shameful behavior, and finally returned the silver bracelet, hoping that Sugar Candy would forgive his brother.
Grandpa Xu's heart sank, he really didn't need to reflect.
Candy Candy couldn't understand it, she didn't know where her brother was ashamed or sorry for her. Instead of taking the silver bracelet, she looked up and asked her brother, "You really don't want it?" The younger brother hesitated and nodded. Tangtang naturally saw that her brother was lying, so she still didn't take the silver bracelet, "You obviously want it very much" The younger brother was probably annoyed and angry, but also vented, knocked the silver bracelet to the ground, and yelled at Tangtang to let you take care of it and ran away.
The elder brother apologized again, and his words were still old-fashioned. But Tangtang just picked up the silver bracelet, handed it to him, and asked him to return it to his younger brother, "It's already been replaced" The elder brother hesitated and put it away. Then he said to Grandpa Xu, "Your granddaughter is such a good boy" and then said to Tangtang, "I will definitely give you an identical silver bracelet in a few days."
Whether he doesn't want to owe favors or doesn't want to give them another chance to live right and wrong, my brother is so cautious and vigilant, he will definitely do what he says. Grandpa Xu saw it very clearly. Tangtang probably saw it, so she said, "You don't have to be exactly the same" But two days later, the family left, and what was sent to Tangtang was an identical silver bracelet
But Sugar Candy had long forgotten about it by then, and she had already put on a new pair of bracelets, and the silver bracelet was casually thrown aside by her
Grandpa Xu, who watched this whole process, was just happy except for a sigh. I'm glad that Tangtang is so domineering, and she really never surprises people. Otherwise, how disappointed she should be in this world (to be continued......
PS: Continue to be the male protagonist candidate, be sure to find the best drip for Qinglong!!