Chapter 522: Spoiled (The first is to ask for a monthly pass!) )
"Well, then you think it's natural for you to exchange your own family affairs for benefits? Not aggrieved at all? Xie Dongli asked with a calm face, without any accusatory tone or appreciative tone, as plain as asking if you like to eat sweet bean curd or salty bean curd.
But Xiao Lei still hesitated for a moment before nodding.
"In that case, why didn't you make it clear to your sister earlier? She's not an unreasonable person, but she doesn't see things from the same perspective as you. Xie Dongli said calmly, his gaze was unfathomable, as dark as the canopy of the night, without revealing his intentions at all.
Two fingers tapped lightly on the bookcase, and the ticking sound gave Xiao Lei a lot of psychological pressure, so that he could only say the most honest thoughts in his heart without hesitation, and he couldn't spare the energy to turn around.
Xiao Lei sighed, didn't dare to look at Xie Dongli's gaze, and said, "I hesitated for two days, because I can see that my sister can't accept the possibility of Zhan Suyue being a side concubine at all." But ......"
"But what? But do you need a fighter? Xie Donglian's fingers tapping on the bookcase stopped, and his eyes flashed to the Kanyu map hanging on the wall behind Xiao Lei.
There are thousands of miles of rivers and mountains, such as poetic beauty.
It is a man who sees that map, and he will have a passion for making achievements and making a sword.
Xiao Lei nodded heavily, raised his head, and said with excitement hoping to be recognized by Xie Dongli: "The power of the Zhan family in the army, my brother-in-law knows better than me. ”
But Xie Dongli shook his head, "Xiao Lei, you say so." I'm a little disappointed in you. ”
Xiao Lei was stunned for a moment, he didn't expect that he would rather pay such a big sacrifice. But it's still not enough?
"Do you know how much your sister loves you? What you want to do, what you want to get, will she not know? She didn't want you to never take a concubine. She just can't accept Zhan Suyue as a side concubine for you. Xie Dongli tied his hands in front of his chest, leaned back on the circle chair, and narrowed his narrow eyes, blocking the starlight in his eyes.
"Why?!" Xiao Lei's uneasiness in his heart became even more obvious, "Just because Zhan Suyue offended her?" She can't accept Zhan Suyue as her brother-in-law? But the power of the warriors is here. She can't bear it......"
Xie Dongli raised his arm to stop Xiao Lei from continuing, and said solemnly: "Xiao Lei." You can think of interests first, and you don't use your own preferences to affect the overall interests, which is what you should do. But that's not all you have to say. ”
"Can't?! You say I'm wrong? Xiao Lei stood up and propped his hands on the bookcase. looked down at Xie Dongli, who was sitting solemnly. With a little ridicule, he said: "Then brother-in-law, tell me, what am I wrong?" I can change it if I point it out. ”
"You're not convinced? Okay, let me ask you, have you thought about it, what is your interest first? ”
"For my sister, of course! My mother! And all those who cling to me! Xiao Lei roared loudly, his forehead was bruised, and even the tips of his ears were red.
Xie Dongli raised his head. His voice was not high, but his momentum overwhelmed Xiao Lei's roar: "Yes." You still remember that your interests come first, for the people you want to protect. But if marrying Zhan Suyue as a side concubine will damage your sister's interests, and even make her unhappy for the rest of her life, you will also marry? ”
Xiao Lei's pupils shrank suddenly, and he subconsciously asked, "How much can it damage?" She's just my side concubine, my sister will always be on her head, and she still dares to be disrespectful to my sister?! But why can't my sister tolerate her? Doesn't she know that if there is a warrior on our side, our road will be much easier! ”
Xie Dongli looked at Xiao Lei steadily, and said sharply for a long time: "Xiao Lei, I am very disappointed when you say this. Now you're still young, I'm not thinking about it when you're not, but not under an example. ”
Xiao Lei was at a loss, "Brother-in-law, am I wrong to set out for the sake of the overall situation?" I even gave up on my favorite girl! ”
Seeing that Xiao Lei still didn't understand, Xie Dongli closed his eyes, took a deep breath, and said: "I also said, what is your overall situation, have you thought clearly?" As you said, you want that position because it protects the people you care about. But what you're doing now is to hurt the people you care about the most to achieve your goals. If you continue to develop, sooner or later, you will ask these people you want to protect, for your benefit and the overall situation, sacrifice them to fulfill you! ”
"Nope! I won't! My sister and mother have suffered so much for me, how could I let them sacrifice for me to take care of the overall situation! Xiao Lei roared out, his eyes were split, and he was extremely angry.
"Won't? Do you really know where you will go in the future? Do you care about what the power can help you achieve, or the power itself? Xie Dongli pointed out the wrong path that Xiao Lei might take, like a basin of cold water, pouring it on Xiao Lei's head.
"Of course I do! All I care about is my sister and mother-in-law! Xiao Lei clenched his fists, maybe he used the wrong method, but he could swear to God that he had never thought of sacrificing his sister and mother to achieve his goals. He wanted that position so that he could better protect his sister and mother.
"Then why don't you ask your sister, why does she object to Zhan Suyue being your side concubine?" Xie Dongli rounded the question back again.
Xiao Lei was silent for a long time, sat down, held his head in his hands, and said distressedly: "It's just a side concubine...... I don't dare to ask, my sister won't let my brother-in-law take a concubine, she doesn't look like a person who can accept this kind of thing......"
"You really don't know your sister." Xie Dongli lowered his eyes, "She's not against you taking a concubine, it's just that she can't accept Zhan Suyue marrying into your family." Besides, when marrying a wife, what is wrong with asking for 'one heart and one heart, and the white head will not be separated'? Even if you value your family background, you should treat them with some sincerity, so that people will be determined to help you. Or what do you think? If you give away the position of the main concubine and the side concubine, others will be your lackeys? If your heart is not in others, can't others feel it? When the time comes, you will be a grudge, and you are not afraid that people will turn against you? A stab in the back? Are you marrying a family, or are you pulling enemies? ”
Xiao Lei was stunned. "Sister really just doesn't like Zhan Suyue? Anyone else does? ”
"Your sister is soft-hearted, but not confused. You're really talking too much today. - You have to apologize to your sister. Xie Dongli stood up, "Tell your sister what you think." Ask your sister what she thinks. If you brothers and sisters don't talk about it, it's not good to always go in the opposite direction. ”
Xiao Lei thought about it for a long time, but he was always a little unconvinced, he planned well, and he also felt that he was doing it for the overall situation, but when he was told by his brother-in-law, it seemed to be his own fault. He hesitated for a while and smiled: "Brother-in-law, in your eyes, will my sister never be wrong?" ”
"Of course. I married her, and I definitely won't let others find fault with her. If she has shortcomings, I can help her fill in the gaps. People who say that she is wrong actually do not see her on the right side. This is when I need to help those who find fault recognize their narrow-mindedness and short-sightedness. Xie Dongli put his hands behind his back. said without hesitation, his eyes shimmering, which could be called righteous and awe-inspiring.
Xiao Lei was dumbfounded, and said in a lost voice: "Brother-in-law, how can you protect your sister like this?!" You're going to spoil your sister like that! ”
Xie Dongli gave him a "it's about your" look.
In Xie Dongli's heart, Ying Sleeve is not only his cherished wife, but also the apprentice he raised. She was at fault, and he had to teach her. What is someone else? Worthy of her?
If the wife does not teach, the husband is at fault. To say that his wife is not good is to say that he is not good, and he is simply looking for a beating.
If he doesn't teach, the teacher is wrong, saying that his apprentice is not good, and he is also scolding him for being a master, which is simply a double search.
Today, he said that Xiao Lei had already seen Ying's face and left some affection.
If it had been someone else, he would have been hanging himself by now after crying and repenting......
Xiao Lei was said to be sweating. - Who has the ability to argue with Xie Dongli?!
This man's eloquence can say that the black is white, and the dead are alive, and at any time you will feel that you are heinous, and you want to apologize for your sins with death!
“…… I'm ...... I was wrong, and I immediately went to apologize to my sister. Xiao Lei walked out from behind the bookcase, stood beside Xie Dongli, and said dejectedly.
Xie Dongli patted him on the shoulder, "That's right, your sister loves you so much, as long as you apologize, she will definitely forgive you." ”
Xiao Lei felt guilty, followed Xie Dongli to the door, and asked again: "Why doesn't my sister let Zhan Suyue marry into my family?" ”
"Ask yourself." Xie Dongli got into the car, and when Xiao Lei also got in the car, Xie Dongli educated him again: "Your problem is that you are too hesitant and not decisive enough." You don't have a clear understanding of what is most important and how to do it to maximize your goals. ”
"But Zhan Jia ......" Xiao Lei is still a little resentful, the accumulation of so many years of accumulation by the imperial grandson Yuan Yingjia, could it be that he said that he could catch up with him?
"What kind of thing is a warrior?" Xie Dongli squinted at him, "Instead of making your sister sad for a Zhan Su Yue, it's better to find an alliance that is more powerful than the Zhan family, such as the Wanning Marquis Mansion, aren't they much stronger than the Zhan family?" ”
Xiao Lei was stunned by Xie Donglian's words, "Wanning Hou Mansion? Is the girl in their family willing to be a side concubine? ”
If Murong Zi, who was born in the Marquis Mansion of Changxing, was a concubine, then the Marquis of Wanning, which was ranked alongside the Marquis of Changxing, would he be willing to be subservient?
Xie Dongli clasped his arms and closed his eyes, "I'm just making an analogy, and I didn't really ask you to go to the Wanning Marquis Mansion to say goodbye?" I don't understand this reason, and I still want to learn from others to exchange interests? Have you forgotten how Zheng Cheng, the former prince of Nan Zheng Guo, died? ”
Using family affairs to exchange interests is a double-edged sword in itself, and there is always the possibility of backlash at any time after the matter is completed.
As far as Xie Dongli is concerned, he is completely disapproving of this approach.
But he also knows that this Dongyuan Kingdom belongs to Xiao Lei, what does Xiao Lei do, he, as a brother-in-law, can only help him correct his possible mistakes, but he can't make decisions for him.
Xiao Lei lowered his head and pondered Xie Dongli's words in his heart.
The carriage gurgled along the long street, and the night fell, the sky was full of stars, and the occasional crow swept across the night sky, making a quacking sound.
"Your sister is not without her shortcomings. Her shortcomings are that she loves you too much, wants to give you the best in everything, and worries that you will be wronged. You are a debt to her that will not be paid off for a lifetime. Xie Dongli sighed, closed his eyes and said lightly.
At this time, Xiao Lei had already admired Xie Dongli again.
He looked at Xie Dongli enviously and said, "Brother-in-law, when will I be as wise as you and have no shortcomings at all?" ”
"Of course I have shortcomings." Xie Dongli opened his eyes, dusted off his robe, and said casually.
"Brother-in-law also has shortcomings?!" Xiao Lei couldn't close his mouth in surprise, "Why don't I know?" ”
"My shortcoming is that I spoil your sister too much." Xie Dongli paused, and his lips curled in a pleasant arc, "But I don't plan to change it." A perfect person will be jealous and will not live long. And I want to be married to your sister for a long time, and grow old together. ”
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This is the first update!! Asked for a commuter pass!!
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Click, this is called strength to protect the short, I am my own mother~~~...... (To be continued.) )