Xue Ran's mother hugged Xue Ran and quietly walked away, and also told Xue Ran not to play with Liu Xiaoyue, but she didn't say anything else. But she was thinking in her heart, Wang Ying deliberately dropped those bracelets, right? Sure enough, he and the fifth daughter-in-law came out of the same place, and they were not good things, and I thought she was a good person

Xue Nan's mother squatted down, circled her son, and looked at Liu Xiaoyue's mother and daughter with her son, "Did you see it?" Be smart, but you can't be smart. Your classmate's heart is not right, because her mother's heart is not right, and the upper beam is not right, and the lower beam is crooked and chooses friends like this, you are with a righteous person, you will not embark on a crooked path, and if you want to be friends with a person with a bad heart, then you will also have a bad heart, this is called the red who is close to Zhu and the black who is close to the ink."

Several mothers are seizing the opportunity to educate their children. But not every child is Liu Sisi. The children themselves are not unassertive. Instead, it will be very stubborn. It will be difficult for them to understand their mother's advice, and they may even feel that it is wrong for her to say this. Because they feel that only children understand children's affairs.

Xue Ran had very little contact with Liu Xiaoyue, and she didn't have the opportunity to play with Liu Xiaoyue at all. Although she thinks it's wrong for Liu Xiaoyue to steal things, Xue Ran thinks that there should be a reason why she steals, right? If you find out the reason, it's like an adult on TV judging the case, then she won't steal things in the future, this has nothing to do with whether she plays with her, and besides, Xu Qinglong should be unhappy today, Liu Xiaona is so towards Liu Xiaoyue, but that's her sister, her sister is more important than catching a thief, if her sister is a thief, she won't catch her, but she doesn't have a sister.

Xue Nan's endless teaching of his mother is really calloused. A lot of the time, he's half-listening, half-forgetting. Regarding her mother's words that Liu Xiaoyue's heart is not right, Xue Nan disagrees. He felt that Liu Xiaoyue was not a bad boy when he looked at it, compared to Xue Tao and Liu Xiaona. She's a good boy. Her mother beat her like that, and she probably had a bad life

Children think differently from adults. Xu Mengtong only has this idea in his mind now. In other words, the perspective of their own children is unique in the world

"I asked her several times if she liked my bracelet. She said she didn't like it, she didn't see it. I originally thought, if she likes it, give it to her, you don't have to give it back to me, it's really hard for her to steal the bracelet Liu Xiaoyue is very smart and calm, it's very good~~~~"

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"She said she didn't like it, she didn't want it, so I asked her to give it back to me. She didn't return Liu Xiaona and said that she was her sister and a good child, and I also thought she was very good, they were really sisters, and the names were the same~~~ But ah, if you don't like my bracelet, you should return it to me, I'll let Liu Xiaona ask for it, Liu Xiaona is angry" Xu Qinglong shook Xu Mengtong's hand, "Auntie." Does she think I shouldn't have asked for the bracelet back? "It's a bit tangled.

The silence continued. Xu Mengtong has no anger at all now.

Xue Ran found the little bag, and the bracelets were all inside. I originally wanted to give it to Xiaona Liu. But she ignored me, just lay on her stomach, I asked her if she had a stomachache, and she ignored me. I put it on myself. Xu Qinglong said this, a little depressed, "She ignored me." Isn't that rude? Why did she ignore me? I talk to her, and she wants to ignore me, "Why don't you ignore me?"

Xu Mengtong pinched Xu Qinglong's tender paws, "She just has a stomachache, she can't speak, so she ignores you." We have medicine. You bring it to her on Monday, and if she still ignores you, you give her medicine" until she speaks!!

Xu Qinglong tilted his head, is that so? "Okay~~~" but, "I still think that she doesn't want me to get the bracelet back from her sister, she keeps saying that her sister is not a thief, but her sister is a thief, why does she say that her sister is not a thief?" ”

Xu Mengtong thought for a while, "Her sister is not only a thief, but also a liar, disguised and deceived her, so she didn't know that her sister was a thief."

In this way, Xu Qinglong's brows moved, "Liu Xiaoyue is really smart, but she is still too weak"

"Why is it so weak?" Xu Mengtong asked. The thief is indeed very smart, and he is so calm when he is exposed, and it is not surprising that Tangtang admires her so much. Do you remember the little children in the place where she used to take her? Oh, children like Tangtang are difficult to compare with ordinary children. But it's good to have such a child, and Tangtang won't be so abrupt

How are such young children educated? Looking at her mother like that, it will be a pity that she will definitely be blue in the future, a person who is calculating and dark-minded, Xu Mengtong, who can't go far, thinks of this, and deeply feels that women have a bad heart, and they have really ruined three generations

"If she stole something, she should have left with the bracelet or hid it somewhere no one knew. won't be found, without evidence, she's not a thief, and then she keeps crying and crying, others should pity her, believe her, the teacher and Xue Nan are very pitiful to her, Xue Zimei hates her, "

So, "If you steal, you're going to keep the stolen goods away from you?"

Xu Qinglong shook his head, "I won't steal." ”

"I'm sorry," my aunt was wrong.

Xu Qinglong finally said, "I think the teacher disrespects me. This made Xu Qinglong a little unhappy. I said it was my business, and I solved it myself, but she kept interfering. I thanked the teacher for helping me find the bracelet, but I said I found it myself."

Xu Mengtong patted Xu Qinglong's hat, "The teacher is your top leader in the preschool class, of course you have to listen to her." But it doesn't matter if you don't listen."

Xu Qinglong raised his head and asked, "Grandpa said that people are born free, and this freedom does not include going to school in preschool?" When you become a student, you are not free? ”

This is a profound question. Although Xu Mengtong wanted to help Xu Qinglong answer. But this kind of problem with too much influence, she didn't dare to say it casually. Let's leave it to my father, "Well, my aunt doesn't know, let's go back and ask grandpa, okay?" Xu Qinglong smiled and nodded, and really wanted to ask grandpa~~~

Grandpa Xu was full of black lines, couldn't he wait for him to finish drinking this cup of tea and ask such a difficult question to answer earlier, so he reluctantly put down the teacup.

"It's not that being a student isn't free, but in the position of a student, you have to learn knowledge first. To learn knowledge, you naturally need a teacher who teaches knowledge, and the old saying is that one day is a teacher and a father is a father for life, and among the ten clans, the tenth clan refers to teachers and students. Think about how important the relationship between teachers and students is. Now, it's a new society. In a person's life, from kindergarten to university, and even out of society, there will be countless teachers, although there will no longer be the meaning of a half-father, but the necessary respect should still be there. ”

Grandpa Xu poured Xu Qinglong a cup of tea, "The teacher has this kind of respect." Just in status, higher than the students. Students have the right to discipline. The starting point of this kind of discipline is for the good of the student, generally speaking. And the granting of this right is because of the composition of the teacher-student relationship. Well, the place that constitutes the teacher-student relationship, the school. They have greater rights than the pupil and the teacher -- the right to bind both the teacher and the pupil."

"The classroom code of conduct that you have read is the rules and requirements that you should abide by in school, as a student, and it is the school's constraint on you. And the teacher. There is also a code of conduct for being a teacher, and in addition to complying with his requirements, he can also supervise and punish his students who abide by the student norms. Grandpa told you that restraint is not to restrict freedom, but to protect it. ”

"So you, your teacher, are not disrespectful to you, but within her duties, she has the right to discipline you and handle your affairs on your behalf. Her starting point is also to help you take care of you. You listen to her, mostly because you are in the teacher-student relationship, and partly, because you should respect her, and as for whether she disrespects her, that's another concept."

Xu Qinglong held the teacup, and poured a cup for Grandpa Xu after drinking, "Then, if I don't let the teacher interfere, won't I respect the teacher?" ”

Grandpa Xu thanked him with a smile, and then said, "In the eyes of others, this is indeed the case. Xu Qinglong was a little entangled, "But I didn't disrespect the teacher, I really want to solve it myself, I can solve it by myself, don't let the teacher help, isn't it easier for the teacher?" ”

Grandpa Xu shook his head again, "In the school, it is her responsibility for the teacher to solve the problem when the student has a problem." You want the teacher to respect you, you have to respect the teacher's identity and position first, as a student, in the face of the teacher whose power is above you, you have to understand that you respect her and listen to her, in school, it should be, this is the school's rules. Conversely, the teacher should respect the students, but because she has to perform the classroom function, she must do something disrespectful to the students."

"This is the reason for the unequal status." Grandpa Xu smiled, "Respect for others is a virtue. This virtue is more likely to be valued and magnified when the status is not equal. But it doesn't apply to all relationships. Especially the teacher-student relationship. You see, in the past, teachers beat students all day long, which is a kind of teaching, but is this kind of beating disrespectful? But this kind of disrespectful behavior makes students appreciate the teacher and make a high apprentice, then, in this case, can you say that the teacher does not respect you, is it wrong? ”

Grandpa Xu touched Xu Qinglong's tender little face, "In any position, in any matter, you must be open-minded." Don't dwell on these bad thoughts. To judge the quality of an idea, you must first think about what the idea will bring to most people if it is realized. Bringing good results is naturally a good idea, and bringing a bad result is naturally a bad idea. In particular, what will bring you to yourself"

"You see, if you really verify it, the teacher really doesn't respect you. Are you going to be even more upset? If you're not happy, I'm not happy, your wife, aunt, uncle, and your brother should also be unhappy. Look at it, your momentary depression has made us all unhappy, you say, is it worth it? ”

Xu Qinglong shook his head, "It's not worth it." "But," I thought the teacher would be happy if I said I'd fix it myself. She said to help me find the bracelet, but I didn't find it for several days, I didn't let her find it, I thought the teacher would be happy" Speaking of this, Xu Qinglong felt that "it's not so much that I think the teacher doesn't respect me, but I feel that the teacher rejected my kind help"

This makes sense~~~ Grandpa Xu laughed, knowing that this kid would not complain about others for no reason. This is the word that I just learned to respect, and it's so cute to use it now~~~

Grandpa Xu, who was in his head, pulled Xu Qinglong to the restaurant, and Xu Ziliang probed his brain outside for a long time, "Next time, if you meet something you want to solve by yourself and don't want the teacher to interfere, you can sincerely explain it to the teacher, and the teacher agrees, and you will do it again." If the teacher doesn't agree, you have to ask why the teacher didn't say yes, and then convince the teacher to agree. There is no such thing in this world that you can't understand, only people who can't understand. ”

Xu Qinglong nodded, shook his head and smiled, pulling Grandpa Xu's trouser leg in a circle, cheerful like a puppy, "I know~~~I know~~~ Grandpa is so great~~~"

Grandpa Xu was so angry by her that he didn't have a temper at all, bent down to pick him up, and kissed him fiercely, "Little ponyft ~~"

Led by Mrs. Xu, the rest of the Xu family members are all very red-the old man has a higher and higher status in Tangtang's heart, how can he be jealous, how can he break it, and compete for favor!! But just after they had made a lot of effort, Grandpa Xu suddenly announced, "I'll go out tomorrow and have a physical examination."

"This location, how to compete for favor!!

When Xu Ziliang wrote big characters after dinner, he asked Xu Qinglong, "Do you know what a physical examination is for?" "Won't this remind Sugar Candy of bad memories?

Who knew that Xu Qinglong waved the brush and said with a calm smile, "I know, do a check-up, check the health index"

Health index? Well, about the same. Song Wenrang asked, "Aren't you afraid?" Children are scared to go to the hospital."

Yes? Do you want to be afraid? Xu Qinglong shook his head, "Why are you afraid?" Third brother, are you afraid? Song Wenrang's face stiffened, and he said stiffly, "Of course I'm not afraid!" I'm afraid you're scared!! Xu Qinglong Kabakaba blinked, the third brother was scared

However, "Okay, then I'm afraid, third brother, you will accompany me tomorrow, and I will accompany you, so neither of us will be afraid~~~"

So considerate and touched, Song Wenrang put down the brush and pulled Xu Qinglong to kiss him. (To be continued......)

PS: It's a little early today.,Three thousand or four thousand in the next chapter.,And then the tile is going to sleep...... Drug reactions are too strong...... Now go forage