Xu Qinglong looked around, they had walked here, and there were footprints on the ground, but the maze, "Then do you think there will be any treasures here?" ”

Shan Jingyan's eyes lit up, "Yes, yes, there will be treasures here, let's go again, look for them, find the treasures are all yours, I want to guard the treasure of the dragon~~~~"

Giant dragon, Xu Qinglong also has shining eyes, "The dragon is brutal and can eat people, you can't raise it, eat meat~~~" added, "Eating dragon meat should be able to live forever~~~"

Shan Jingyan was puzzled, "If you eat immortality, it's Tang monk meat, and our school sells Tang monk meat, and the sour one is plum meat."

Xu Qinglong was even more puzzled, "Sour? What is sour is bad."

"It's not broken."

The two of them discussed and continued walking. Let Huahua and the bodyguards hidden in the shadows listen to the black line, how did such an inexplicable conversation come about? Young masters, come on, they can't stand it anymore!! If you laugh out loud and are detected, you will be derelict in your duty

When Xu Qinglong and Shan Jingyan finally got tired and went into a big tree hole to rest, Xu Zinuo and the old housekeeper of the Shan family finally arrived

The old housekeeper of the Shan family is a middle-aged man in a black suit and dress in the hot spring playground, looking like an iron-faced and selfless judge. After respectfully and simply pulling out Shan Jingyan, he bent down and said, "Little Master, your snacks today have been canceled." ”

"Xu Zipromise hugged Xu Qinglong, and he couldn't imagine that he couldn't think of it, why did this child get together with his sister again? He must have been playing in the beach over there, right? Why did you come here? With such a large forest on both sides, they can actually get together

Shan Jingyan first mourned his snacks today, and then struggled to find Xu Qinglong. The old butler hesitated and let go. Shan Jingyan gave Xu Qinglong a large handful of flowers that he picked just now, "Here you go, I'll play with you again tomorrow, and I'll take you to the top of the mountain to see the snake cave~~~" The dragon didn't find it, and it was also done to see the snake cave.

Xu Qinglong took it and held it in his arms, "Hmm~~~"

Shan Jingyan turned his head to leave, suddenly remembered, and turned around, "You haven't told me yet, what is your name?" and, "Why is your head purple?" Are you an alien? "Aliens are bald, but they seem to be silver or green.

"You just asked, how long is the reflex arc, how wide is the heart!!

"I'm Xu Qinglong." After saying that, he touched his bare head, "I'm not an alien" and was a little hurt

"Oh, it's a pity," Shan Jingyan said very regretfully, "I still want you to make a spaceship with you if you're an alien," he wanted to drive the spaceship.

Xu Qinglong tilted his head, spaceship, mom seems to build a spaceship, right? Could it be that she is really an alien? Can you come back to life after death? But she's human

The old housekeeper couldn't bear it anymore, and before Xu Qinglong opened his mouth and Shan Jingyan spoke again, he picked up his little master in time and stopped him from continuing to be rude, bending over Xu Qinglong apologetically, and bending down apologetically to Xu Zinuo, before leaving with Shan Jingyan, who kept waving. The little master finally found a child to play with, if he said the wrong thing because he was stupid and left this playmate, it would be a huge injury and blow to the little master

Xu Zinuo didn't have the heart to pay attention to Shan Jingyan now, he found a new problem. Holding Xu Qinglong and walking back, the worry and anger about Xu Qinglong running around were gone at this time.

"Sugar Candy, do you feel lonely?"

Qinglong was so close to that stupid boy that he couldn't stop talking when he saw it. Although it was a difficult conversation to understand, the more she spoke, the happier she became. Let's not talk about what kind of strange thinking Qinglong said from those words, just to say that she was so close and happy to a strange child, just because he could pick up what she said, all of which repeatedly showed that Qinglong was lonely.

As soon as such a thought came to him, Xu Zinuo recalled it, and then a layer of cold sweat broke out on his back - because Qinglong rarely spoke at home and between his family. Unless she has some problems, she really rarely takes the initiative to talk to them. Although there are times when there are many words, most of them are because of doubts.

This realization made Xu Zinuo very frightened. Such an important thing was actually ignored by them. This is also because Qinglong usually has too many problems and can make a fuss, so they always feel that the house is lively. But now looking at the relationship between Qinglong and the silly boy, the problem is obvious - they are speechless in the face of the strange thinking that Qinglong will have from time to time. Part of it was because I didn't dare to answer casually, and the other part was because I couldn't answer it

If communication is difficult, where does intimacy come from?

The more Xu Zipromise thought about it, the more he regretted it, the more he thought about it, the more scared he became, and the more he thought about it, the more guilty he became. But in fact, the same problem, in the Shan family, is Shan Jingyan's child's problem.

The Shan family all felt that Shan Jingyan's thinking was too strange, no one knew what he was thinking all day long, he was obviously a kind and simple good child, but he always did some strange and dangerous things, such as driving and climbing mountains, these thoughts and behaviors made Shan Jingyan unable to make friends, was bullied and isolated in school, grew up to nine years old, and was only close to his eldest brother who was twelve years older than him. The Shan family taught Shan Jingyan, and only hoped that he could become normal, integrate into society, integrate into his peers, make friends, and live a lively and happy life.

And in the Xu family, no matter what Xu Qinglong said, the Xu family was silent and completely accepted. Even if she thinks Xu Qinglong thinks strangely, she won't dislike it, and she won't let her change. The Xu family will only adapt, accept it unconditionally, and follow Xu Qinglong's thinking to talk to her, even if they can't catch her words, they won't say to her, you talk a lot, you can make friends if you talk less.

Two children with basically the same characteristics, although they are both deeply loved by their families, but one love is negative and the other love is acceptable, which will naturally have different effects and results on the two children. Shan Jingyan is eager to find someone who affirms himself and shows off with his family, you see, there are people who like me to talk a lot~~~ Xu Qinglong is indeed lonely as Xu Zipromise said.

She tried to communicate with her classmates, but she understood. I even figured out how to deal with it if I didn't understand. But in the end, it still failed. Especially after Liu Xiaona was inexplicably angry with her. While Xu Qinglong was frightened, he also knew that his original plan would not work. Then she was brought here and didn't have to go to school. To be honest, Xu Qinglong was really relieved.

With such a mood, when he met Shan Jingyan, who was eager to be understood, Xu Qinglong was naturally pleasantly surprised. Although she is not so eager to be understood, someone can understand her words, and she can understand the other party's words, which is really a wonderful thing for Xu Qinglong

It's all wonderful, can you not be happy As soon as she was happy, she was naturally noticed by Xu Zinuo about her previous sense of loss and loneliness. Therefore, it is not so much that Xu Qinglong feels lonely, it is better to say that she is lost or temporary. Shan Jingyan just appeared at the right time and at the right time.

But the common problem of the Xu family is that it will infinitely magnify Xu Qinglong's affairs. For a very small matter, the Xu family will also over-make up for it. Anyway, this time again, it's too much to think about

This also explains Shan Jingtang's question about why the Xu family can stand at the top.

When there is a problem with the child's personality, they are all families who love the child deeply, and the family chooses to deny the teaching and try their best to protect and guide the child, but the Xu family chooses to affirm. After Xu Zinuo noticed Xu Qinglong's loneliness, his first thought was not to question Xu Qinglong's personality, but to blame himself.

The same is true for the rest of the Xu family. None of them would feel that this was Xu Qinglong's problem. Let's not talk about whether other children are worthy of being friends with Xu Qinglong, from Xu Zipromise to Mrs. Xu, they will only regret and feel guilty, reflect on themselves, and will never push the problem on Xu Qinglong. Xu Qinglong is still a child, smart, naïve, simple, what she thinks and does is right. If there is a problem, it is also a problem for adults like them. It's their fault that they didn't get along well with Xu Qinglong, it's that they didn't adapt well. Xu Qinglong just needs to be himself, and he doesn't need to change.

After Grandpa Xu realized that Xu Qinglong was not allowed to be in the world, he just waited and watched the changes, hoping that Xu Qinglong would find a solution by himself. He was also worried that Xu Qinglong would not be able to make friends and not be able to save well in society, but Grandpa Xu didn't think it was a big problem. The Xu family is ready to create an isolated source for Xu Qinglong. And for Xu Xiantong and others, it's nothing if they don't call them friends, and they don't have friends themselves

In the eyes of outsiders, I am afraid that most people support the education policy of individual families. There is also a distinction between boys and girls here. When boys grow up, social responsibility is heavier than that of girls, but girls receive much more harm than boys in the process of assuming social responsibility. A very intuitive practical example is that a divorced second-married man can easily find a first-married woman to remarry, but a second-married woman wants to find a first-married man, which is a matter of luck.

Aside from that, when it comes to education policy, it is generally accepted that the education of individual families is right. The process of people growing up is the process of changing themselves to adapt to society and others. If you don't change the good part of yourself, you will be successful. And the Xu family, from some angles, is actually harming children. But Xu Qinglong is obviously happier than Shan Jingyan. The Xu family also has a higher status than the single family.

Maybe the Xu family is really escorted by immortals and monsters, and if Shan Jingyan hadn't met Xu Qinglong, the Shan family would have been successful, and Shan Jingyan would have become a restrained and sophisticated successful person, but they met

The next day, Xu Qinglong got up early in the morning, ran and jumped in the backyard, ate breakfast in advance, changed his clothes, put on hiking shoes, and sat at the gate with Huahua in his arms, waiting for Shan Jingyan to come to her. But she waited and waited until noon, and Shan Jingyan did not appear

Xu Qinglong wilted, slammed his chin on Huahua's back, and shrunk into a ball as if he was pitiful, sitting on the steps in front of the door. Xu Zinuo held back his anger, but looking at Xu Qinglong's small back, he was even more distressed. Xu Xiantong kept pressing Xu Ziliang, otherwise he would rush out to find that stupid boy. Song Wenrang was also very angry, so he could only be upstairs, with Mrs. Xu, but he was still walking around angrily, and he couldn't sit still.

Xu Xiantong sighed and said to Xu Zinuo, "Bring Tangtang back, the silly boy won't come." His brother should have taken him away. Prepare the car, let's also change places to live, let's go to the mountains, if there are small animals, sugar candy will be happy"

The problem of loneliness, yesterday the Xu family had a small meeting, and they also called to communicate with Grandpa Xu. To sum up, they can only care about Tangtang as much as possible, cultivate her to have a greater interest in the world, and then produce more hobbies. According to Xu Mengtong's original words, people feel lonely and idle

Think about other children at the age of sugar candy, they are all bear children who are not welcome to dogs, and they can't be quiet for a moment. And their sugar candy is smart and sensible, except for what they are fascinated by, everything else is well-behaved and obedient. Let you read books and write, let you write and write, although there is a lot of trouble for her, but that is not a problem that ordinary children will have. On the contrary, compared to ordinary children, Tangtang is really a quiet and obedient super good child.

Occasionally doing something that a bear child should do, it's also a small thing. For example, yesterday, knowing that the rainforest was fake, I still wanted to go on an adventure. When you think about it, Sugar Candy is really pitiful. There is no childhood fun that ordinary children should have. But she is not pitiful, because her mind and talent allow her to do things that ordinary children can't do at all, such as sports and drawing. So all in all, Tangtang still has a lot of potential to cultivate his various hobbies.

Generally, children have a kind of talent, and they are very remarkable. Their children have countless talents, and the more they think about it, the more excited and proud they become

The Xu family's discussion changed from introspection and self-blame to Xu Qinglong's commendation meeting. Thinking about it, it is also kneeling, and only the Xu family can be so optimistic and proud

Xu Zipromise sat next to Xu Qinglong, "Look, you've been waiting until now, and you haven't eaten snacks and fruits, but Shan Jingyan still doesn't come, what do you want to do?" ”R1152