Chapter 341: I don't want to compromise
Bai Qingshuang sweat, this is the sequelae of being restrained since childhood, they are all married, but they don't even have their own ideas, no wonder they are not favored in their husband's family!
"Does the eldest sister like her brother-in-law?"
"Like?" Bai Qingdie's face was dazed, and she gradually became a hint of redness, "Second sister, how can you ask so casually?" β
Well, she forgot the subtlety and obscurity of the ancients, and under the orders of her parents, the words of the matchmaker, how many people are united because of their mutual affection, she asked a stupid question.
After thinking about it for a while, she asked again: "Then the eldest sister just let you and her brother-in-law be so indifferent, or do you want to grow old together like a normal couple!" β
"Of course it'sβthe latter!"
Marrying a chicken with a chicken, marrying a dog with a dog, although there were precedents of reconciliation and divorce in ancient times, but after all, there are still a minority, and it is absolutely impossible for ordinary serious people to allow such a thing to happen, unless it is a man's unilateral divorce.
"Then let me ask the eldest sister again, do you think that even if you really marry a few more shops from your mother's family, the relationship between you and your brother-in-law will definitely be eased?" Bai Qingshuang asked seriously.
This question is very important, if Bai Qingdie's answer is "yes", then she feels that this cowardly person is hopeless, it is her idea, and it is not worth giving.
Bai Qingdie suddenly showed a dazed look, her eyes revealed the confusion of not being able to find a sense of direction, and said, "I don't know!" My mother said that since they disliked my small dowry, they begged my sister to make up for it, and they would definitely not look down on me anymore! β
Sure enough, it was Bai Zhang's wishful thinking.
"I don't ask my aunt's thoughts and opinions, I only look at your own, eldest sister!" Bai Qingshuang said quietly. "Eldest sister, it's not that I want to say that the eldest aunt is not, it's just that I want to sue you. After you marry into the Zhang family, you have to live by yourself and run your own business! If you don't have a little idea of your own, then you have to go with the flow. If they can kick you back today despite the fact that you have been married for less than half a year, there may be a next time. Do you have to fill it with money next time? The eldest sister has been reading poetry and books at home since she was a child, and you must have heard the word "difficult to fill". Think about it, do you want to endlessly compromise and fill the hole that you will never be satisfied with, or take advantage of this first time. Anti-general army. From now on, take the initiative? β
"Anti-general?" Bai Qingdie's confused eyes seemed to flash an expectation, but it quickly disappeared again, "But, second sister." I'm not as smart as you. Nor is you capable. How can this be done? β
"Does the eldest sister want to choose to compromise, or choose to resist?"
"......" hesitated, but Bai Qingdie, who was not there with Bai Zhang, still whispered his wishes. I don't want to compromise! β
Clearly talking about resistance, she can't do it, but it is only this small change, which also makes Bai Qingshuang feel that this girl and child are teachable and worth saving.
"Then the eldest sister is willing to listen to my idea, no matter what, if I don't speak, you will never go back?"
"If I don't go back to Zhang's house, then they ......"
"Big sister is afraid that they will divorce you?"
"I ......"
"Don't worry, they don't dare to divorce you, and they won't be willing to divorce you in the future, as long as the eldest sister herself knows how to change and grasp the opportunity!"
As if seeing some kind of powerful hope in the eyes of the confident Bai Qingshuang, Bai Qingdie hesitated for a moment, and finally made the first decision in history: "Then I will listen to the second sister!" β
"Good! Starting tomorrow, you will go to work in the beauty salon with me! β
"Going to work?"
"Hehe, it's workmanship!" Bai Qingshuang immediately laughed dryly and explained, and got carried away, Bai Qingdie is not a bellflower, they are used to their occasional new terms, "Oh, yes, eldest sister, Cousin Qin Ruo also works in my shop!" β
"Cousin Ruo'er? Didn't she also say that she should get married at the end of this year? How could it be ......"
"Therefore, men are not good things, you must first strengthen yourself, self-esteem and self-improvement, before you can be on an equal footing with men, so that they no longer dare to treat women as shoe, come and go, without their own dignity!"
"On an equal footing!" Bai Qingdie is speechless, is this possible?
"Of course, if a woman is powerful, she can also be the emperor!"
"Ah, let's just talk about this second sister in the boudoir, but we can't spread it, otherwise it will lead to death!"
Well, it's limited, this time and space is not her original time and space, and there is no domineering existence like Wu Zetian.
"In short, as long as the eldest sister listens to my arrangement, no matter what happens, don't make your own decisions, my sister will definitely be able to find a way to make your status in the Zhang family rise!"
"Really?" Bai Qingdie looked at Bai Qingshuang with joy and worry, and after coming into contact with her disapproving gaze, she immediately waved her hand and said, "I don't doubt the meaning of the second sister, it's just that I couldn't think of such a thing before!" β
"Then start thinking about it from now on, imagine the life you want to live in the future, and you can have a bright future at all!" It's not that she wants to provoke other people's blessings, but she really experienced a small experience in her previous life. After the three incidents, even if she knew that three wives and four concubines in ancient times were a common thing and a normal social atmosphere, she couldn't accept it.
Biting her lower lip, although Bai Qingdie still hesitated, she still nodded and said, "Okay!" I listen to my sister! β
"Hmm!"
The two sisters chatted for a while, and the dinner in the side hall was over, and the maid was ordered to call Bai Qingdie back.
In fact, originally Bai Zhang's family wanted to come to Bai Qingshuang's courtyard by himself, and personally asked the two sisters how they were talking, whether Bai Qingshuang was willing to give up some silver to help Bai Qingdie buy a shop, it was Mrs. Bai who shrewdly thought that Bai Qingshuang would eat soft and not hard, and she couldn't be too eager, otherwise she was afraid that she wouldn't get anything, so she only let the maid come and invite Bai Qingdie back.
As soon as he left the Bai family's house, Bai Zhang's couldn't wait to ask: "How is it, did Bai Qingshuang's girl agree to buy you a shop?" β
"Mother! The second sister only agreed to help me and let me work in her shop, but she didn't say that she would help me open a shop! Bai Qingdie didn't dare to look at Bai Zhang's eyes, lowered her head and whispered.
"What?" Bai Zhang immediately shouted, "She didn't open a shop for you, and let a woman who became a relative go to work in her shop, what kind of heart did she have?" I want to ruin your reputation! Yes? No, I'm going to go back and make it clear to her, we're asking her for help, not to let her add fuel to the fire and ruin your life! (To be continued......)