Chapter 50: Fang Ran
Xu Fangran was in a relaxed mood, and couldn't help but laugh in the face of Xu Qinglong's warm and lovely smile, "What I believe in is that life is in the world, be happy in time, do what you want, and leave no regrets." Sugar candy, life is short, if I can live for 200 years, I will learn more things, love more women, and have more children. But because I can't live that long, I can only cherish my time now and live every minute and every second. This is the life and happiness I want. Some people think I'm tossing and thinking I'm wrong, but they're not me, so how can they know my fun? Your own life, your own judgment, your own control. ”
"And the premise of my freewheeling is to concentrate on learning one thing at a time, love someone, and do my best to achieve the best." Xu Fangran touched Xu Qinglong's head, "People must not be half-hearted when they live." You can't do anything half-heartedly. Focus, perseverance, never give up until the end, and do the best you can. The ultimate of my love is expressed in the birth of my children. So although they are not the same mothers, they are born as a family. ”
Xu Fangran never thinks that he is ** by nature, playing with women, he treats every woman and every relationship with sincerity. But his feelings will never last long, and there will always be a time when they dry up. This is his character, but it is not a bad root. He believes that it is better to gather and disperse than to deceive hypocritically. He had never been in a relationship with two women at the same stage, even physically. It's respect for women and respect for yourself.
In fact, he spends very little time on women. It was only when he was young that he was obsessed with love that he had these older children. Later, Xu Xiantong and Xu Mengtong and Xu Weitong's three older brothers and sisters were more than ten years apart, because he began to look for love impulses again in those two years. Counting together, it was only seven years, which seemed to be a short time at the age of fifty, but Xu Fangran felt that it was too much.
After Xu Mengtong was born, he no longer had heartfelt feelings for women. Only seek the comfort of relaxation. For him, there are too many things, all of which are in front of women, and he has also had beautiful love, which is fine. Xu Fangran can say with certainty that no woman resents him.
This kind of outlook on life, Xu Fangran tried her best to use a very subjective and practical way to tell Xu Qinglong. It's not that he can beautify himself, but in his life, there are really no negative things in his life because of this lifestyle and character. That's how he lived, he lived very well and happily, and he didn't bring pain to anyone. Let him say something negative, he really can't say.
The woman who is now in a physical relationship with him is a dance teacher who has been unmarried in her thirties. The physical relationship he has with any woman is to ensure that the other party is single and accepts the physical relationship, and you are willing to do it, and it is not mixed with money and material benefits. This is the essential difference between physical comfort and prostitution.
And these, Xu Fangran didn't want to talk to Xu Qinglong for the time being, it was too adult-oriented. After the child's outlook on life, love and values are fixed, it is safe to sue her about these. Of course, if the child knew in advance, Xu Fangran also planned to tell the truth.
But in fact, Xu Qinglong's little pot friends all understand that her brain is spinning fast, ah, it turns out that grandpa and His Royal Highness are the same, His Royal Highness has also learned a lot of things, and there are many women, but His Royal Highness has no children, and he is not as free as his grandfather, and the point is that Xu Qinglong really remembered what Grandpa Xu said, don't live half-heartedly. As for what Grandpa Xu was worried about, Xu Qinglong couldn't accept it, his outlook on life was accepted meaninglessly because of His Royal Highness
This is a very normal thing for Xu Qinglong, not to mention the country where His Royal Highness is located, polygamy is allowed, so Grandpa Xu's matter, in Xu Qinglong's case, it really doesn't matter, besides, on that genealogy, mother, father, uncle, and behind their names, there are three words called mother, and Xu Zinuo's detailed records are completely different. This is the root of Xu Qinglong's discovery that they are not the same mother. She's so smart!!
Grandpa Xu saw that Xu Qinglong's eyes were still smiling, and his heart was still high, "Grandpa is living like this, can you accept Tangtang?" "That's the key.
Xu Qinglong was a little confused, why can't he accept it? "Grandpa's life, it's good if grandpa is happy by himself~~~" Isn't this just finished?
Grandpa Xu was a little depressed, didn't he ask in vain, "So, do you have any thoughts about Grandpa's life?" ”
Xu Qinglong shook his head, "Big brother said, we can't comment on the affairs of the elders." ”
"Why do you keep answering questions that are not asked!! Grandpa Xu was sweating anxiously, so he simply said directly, "Then do you think it's not good for grandpa to go out and relax?" Is it a broken shoe? "He's never been so ashamed in his life!!!
Xu Qinglong shook his head vigorously, "Grandpa is unmarried, it doesn't match what the eldest brother said~~~" Not to mention, "Grandpa is so good, how can there be an improper relationship between men and women~~~" After speaking, he lowered his head very guiltily, "I'm sorry, grandpa, I'm sorry, Tangtang is either scolding grandpa, or just learned a word, use it indiscriminately, I'm sorry" She said it very casually at the time.
Grandpa Xu touched Xu Qinglong's head, although he was still not satisfied with the answer to this dogma, but he also knew what Tangtang's heart was. It's like those people who were learning to swear at the bottom of the slope for a while, curiosity and playfulness accounted for most of it, "Grandpa is not angry, but what you have to learn about today's affairs is to be cautious." We must be cautious in what we say and do, and we must be even more cautious when dealing with those close to us. ”
Xu Qinglong also realized this, stood up and obediently kowtowed to Grandpa Xu, "I remember." ”
Grandpa Xu stretched out his hand and hugged her, "You have started school now, and it is time to prepare a study room for you, tomorrow when we come back from an outing, we will go to the bookstore, okay?" You go to find the books, find the books that are placed in your study, and you want to read them yourself" Xu Qinglong didn't feel anything about the study, but what Grandpa gave was good, but, "Grandpa, I still don't know a lot of words, what should I do?" ”
"If you know how to read, you will naturally know if you read more. This comes from accumulation, so there's no need to rush. "Grandpa Xu doesn't care about this, a normal six-year-old child, can know a few words, his own baby is already very strong, now the key is, "You have to take the pen well, start writing, you can't be lazy, you have to read, you have to write, you write it, you write it, this word belongs to you"
According to the child's domineering personality, as soon as he hears this, he will naturally want to write
Sure enough, Xu Qinglong's eyes lit up, and he hurriedly shook Grandpa Xu coquettishly, "I want to write, I want to write!" Grandpa Xu responded, and planned in his heart, let's start with the brush first, Sugar Candy has great strength, writing a hard pen first is not good for her little hands, and a soft pen can also allow her to control her strength well, and by the way, she sharpens her temperament
After that, Xu Qinglong always thought that calligraphy was the introduction to writing, and was coaxed by Grandpa Xu, until there was such a thing as a calligraphy competition in elementary school, and he didn't understand what was going on, but at that time, her soft and hard calligraphy, and the teacher was no problem, and she had no temper at all
In fact, think about it, between the Xu family and Xu Qinglong, it is completely a mutual pit
Because of the supply and marketing cooperatives incident, Xu Qinglong's incident in preschool was covered up. The family began to rejoice in the matter of going on an outing tomorrow. As everyone knows, what awaits them will be Xu Qinglong's withdrawal talk on Monday
After dinner, even if Xu Weitong's children had something to say in their hearts, no one dared to ask Xu Qinglong a word. Grandpa Xu asked Xu Weitong to find Uncle Wei and build a warm house for Xu Qinglong in the backyard as a study, which means that today's matter is over
Xu Zinuo was still a little trembling, but Grandpa Xu's expression was as usual, and Xu Zinuo looked at Xu Qinglong who was running around with Huahua, and knew that Grandpa didn't mean to blame them, and while he was relieved, he also let the two brothers breathe a sigh of relief. Mainly, when Qinglong heard that kind of thing today, it was still their mistake.
After more than a year, the first official outing, Xu Qinglong looked very much forward to it, Mrs. Xu said that the child was not nervous or afraid, and the family began to prepare things by hand, including lunches. The Xu family has never been in the kitchen, and the things they can do are limited, most of them are still left to the chef to do, they just sit together, stack things, peel fruits, and make juice.
Xu Weitong's saber flew up and down, and the people who watched it were dazzled. Xu Qinglong was held in Xu Zinuo's arms, and he still wanted to get next to Xu Weitong. In the end, it was Mrs. Xu who spoke, not letting Xu Weitong cut the fruit, and Xu Qinglong stopped. But as soon as she let go of her and turned her face, she took Xu Weitong's saber and went to peel the apple
was so frightened that the Xu family's hearts were raised in their throats, and Grandpa Xu glared, so Xu Qinglong apologized and returned the saber to Xu Weitong. On the one hand, Xu Weitong was entangled in how the child took the knife from his pocket unconsciously, and on the other hand, he felt sorry for the child's wrinkled smile, looking at this pitiful, Xu Weitong thought for a while, "Tangtang, when you grow up, is it okay for the uncle to send a saber?" And engrave your name, okay? ”
Xu Qinglong Monkey was on Xu Weitong's back, and said yes vigorously, and then asked, "How old am I going to grow?" ”
"Xu Weitong is stuck, he really plans to give, he counts when he talks, but how old is this" fourteen years old!" Fourteen years old is considered a big girl, and it's okay to put a knife on her. Although it is illegal to control knives, it is good to let Xiaoshan modify it then
The character of the Xu family is about to come out, in fact, my Qinglong is really an angel, and he is compared to them...... Saturday and Sunday may be two thousand more on Monday, exams and hospitals, I really can't get up at three o'clock in winter, I can't watch Monday early and delay a day to get medicine, the doctor is too handsome, there are too many people to see him, and it's only Sunday one day, it's really crowded...... Known as Master Li...... Sooner or later, he will worship him...... Infinite resentment...... Remind again, you really need to pay attention to anti-theft, if there are unknown marks on the door, such as a semicircle or a circle or something, you must quickly wipe it off!!
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