Liu Sisi said something annoying, but she thought about Xu Qinglong's actions of picking up the bracelet, which was very good-looking, and she would learn to be her mother in the future and not understand anything!! Thinking about it, she remembered that when Xu Qinglong took off the bracelet, there seemed to be a person standing behind her, wearing a green skirt and short hair

Xue Ran's mother was also talking to Xue Ran about it, "Didn't you see who stole it?" When I saw it, I quietly told Xu Qinglong to go" Xue Ran shook his head, "I didn't see anything, we were all drinking water at the back of the classroom at that time" Xue Ran's mother listened to it and sighed, "Wealth is so attractive, Xu Qinglong is always so good at dressing, adults are red when they look at it, don't talk about you children"

Speaking of this, he told Xue Ran, "You remember, people can't be short-minded, and things that aren't your own will have to be thrown away if they fall into your hands." And you can't steal things to go, do you remember not? Xue Ran nodded vigorously, "Liu Xiaona said to steal things and cut off her hands, I don't steal things, Mom, I remember"

Chen Hong is also quite correct with Liu Xiaona's words, but she hopes that her daughter can learn Liu Xiaona's momentum that day without being afraid. But this is what her father said, not that someone else slaughtered pigs and set up a stall in the early years, and a lot of money was stolen, not once, her father hated thieves and should be. However, it was later discovered that it was actually his brother who stole the money and stole the pork

If it weren't for his eldest brother to stop him, he would have cut his brother, that Liu Wengui's eldest brother did it, it's really good, now he has become a secretary, and he also has the ability to say that a good eye is really a good heart, and if he says that his heart is black, he is really a black heart, and he doesn't know what news the secretary can bring back when he comes back this time, and Chen Hong's thoughts diverged far away.

Xu Qinglong went home at noon. Before her brothers got out of school, she sat on the stone platform outside the door with a big mouth and waited, and Uncle Wei fanned her beside her.

Xu Xiantong felt that he was not in a good position, so he first asked Grandpa Xu to admit his mistake. The new teacher was not found. Grandpa Xu waited for him to finish, asked again, and then fell silent. It was Xu Mengtong who laughed after hearing it. "Teacher Renjie is also good at heart, and if you go up, you will split your head and cover your face, and you are too wronged by Renjie, right?" What virtue does Xu Xiantong have, Xu Mengtong will not know? He felt that the right thing was right, even if 10,000 people said it was wrong, he still insisted that it was right. The truth is always in His hands.

To put it bluntly, he is justified.

Mrs. Xu asked, "What does the child think?" Xu Xiantong was stuck, and Xu Qinglong only said to find grandpa. I haven't said anything!! was slapped by Xu Mengtong, "You still have the face to say others, look at yourself!" Be careful that the sugar candy is also starting to mess around with you!! Xu Xiantong was not convinced, "Why am I messing around?" I'm right!! Then the teacher's idea is that there is a problem!! ”

said and pointed out, "This is really good, beautiful and something like that, just act on TV, I really plan to let Tangtang learn, she is heartless enough now" can't say that her child lacks heart" was slapped on the left cheek. I also sent the right side of my face over to hit again, that's two hundred and five!! ”

Xu Xiantong strongly disagrees with the views and practices of the new teacher. Xu Mengtong also understood. However, "Do you think Sugar Candy is the kind of character that will suffer?" What suffers in the eyes of ordinary people is nothing to her. This happened among the children, and the teacher did the right thing. Calm things down, the child didn't have the intention to steal things on purpose, it was a big fuss, in this rural place where the wind was moving, the child was scared of his family. Sensei went out, and he wasn't poked to death by someone in the back? ”

"If you are wrong, you will be punished, otherwise you will not have a long memory." Xu Xiantong drank saliva, "Do you think children don't understand anything when they're young?" The more children are, the more they rely on instinct to live, okay? It's okay to steal once, but I'm sure I'm going to steal the second time, and if I don't cut off this third hand all at once, this kid will be crooked from the roots!! What if Tangtang learns this kind of evil spirit? ”

Xu Mengtong was still about to refute, but he was stopped by Grandpa Xu, "Okay, call Tangtang back first, the sun is big at noon" Xu Mengtong went out to find Xu Qinglong. Xu Xiantong stood up, "I'm not saying that this teacher is particularly bad, but this kind of education method, I don't think it's suitable for Tangtang." Our children are pure in their hearts and eyes, and if they learn this pedantic and excessive kindness, how can they be good in the future? It's not kindness, it's cowardice!! ”

Grandpa Xu nodded, "I see." Teacher's business, you are doing a good job, don't care. Child, I have me here, you go to see lunch and make a soup for Tangtang, this autumn tiger is too strong" What the son and daughter said all have their own senses, but the key is to see what Tangtang thinks. Tangtang is not the kind of child who has no opinions, Xu Xiantong, who is obedient and time-sharing, breathed a sigh of relief and turned around and went out.

Mrs. Xu shook her head, "The most cowardly child in the family is Xiaoxian."

Grandpa Xu understood this, and nodded helplessly. In fact, on the other hand, this absolute self is afraid to face the world outside of itself. It seems to be powerful, but it is actually very timid. Now Xiaoxian is not facing this reality, it's not that he doesn't understand, but he doesn't dare. Or rather, he simply didn't want to. Otherwise, he wouldn't have been out of the house for eighteen years. The world he knew was too subjective, and he trapped himself in his own world.

Xu Qinglong came in, was fed a glass of water by Mrs. Xu, and then was taken to her study by Grandpa Xu. Da Hei has always guarded the backyard, which is completely contrary to the virtue of the big mouth, and he is a reliable guard at first glance. Xu Qinglong played with Da Hei for a while, and then was patted into the study by Huahua, and Grandpa Xu was already sitting on the mat and began to make tea. Xu Qinglong slipped his slippers, sat down obediently, and took the initiative to ask, "Grandpa, I lost something, is it related to me?" ”

This is the source of Xu Qinglong's doubts. Her Highness said that what was lost was not hers. Xu Qinglong's understanding of these words is that those things have nothing to do with her. In other words, everything outside of her body has nothing to do with her. Coming and going, it doesn't matter. Judging from the reactions of teachers, classmates and little uncles, this is actually a very big deal

Grandpa Xu paused his hand and reacted. Only then did I understand the meaning of Xu Qinglong's words. Co-authored, this child didn't take the loss of the bracelet seriously at all, this is another problem of the child's unique domineering personality. She never felt that anything belonged to her, only to tell her that it belonged to you. She'll see it firmly. If it was something that was given to her casually, like bracelets and clothes, shoes and food, she would not have this concept of mine at all.

After pondering for a while, Grandpa Xu said. "So what do you think has to do with you?"

Xu Qinglong thought for a while, "If Huahua is bullied, it has something to do with me." Grandpa, Mrs., Mom, Uncle, Auntie, Little Uncle. Big brother, second brother, third brother, all related to me, as well as Grandpa Wei and Big Black Mouth, as well as my study~~~" Grandpa Xu smiled, "Then your clothes and bracelets are also related to you, they are all your belongings."

Property? Xu Qinglong tilted his head, my possessions? I'm supposed to be a possession, right? She is the property of His Highness, and she has no possessions

Xu Qinglong fell into confusion and even more contradictions, and now these words are completely challenging her life for the past 60 years. If it weren't for what Grandpa Xu said. She didn't listen at all. It's just the wind in your ears. Now, she listened. Here's the problem.

His Highness is right. Grandpa was right. So, what's wrong? Xu Qinglong couldn't figure it out, so he turned the page decisively

"Grandpa, what should I do about losing the bracelet?" That's the point, anyway.

Grandpa Xu can see her confusion and contradictions, and even more can see her evasion and perfunctory. Why is this happening? Grandpa Xu is sure that it must be some point of view in the child's heart. It wasn't what they said, but she couldn't tell it was right. Or, subconsciously, she doesn't want to judge. She's sticking to her original view of being taught

What kind of person is he, who has such a deep influence on Tangtang Grandpa Xu is very frustrated. can only be depressed about his status, and the fact that he is still not high in the hearts of children. No hurry, no hurry

Grandpa Xu sighed in his heart, and educated Xu Qinglong with kindness on his face, "Grandpa tells you a word, your things, even if you don't like them and don't want them, you have to take care of it and treat it well." It's a way of life. Treat everything equally and inclusively. And, of course, the things you've used. Each of us is born with our own treasury, my wife and I, lost a lot, there is not much left, your mother theirs, from their birth to the present, the things used, from the big bed quilt, to the small ear digging spoon, are all intact collection. The most thing in your mother's treasury is calculus paper, which is also a kind of life attitude, serious, responsible, and persistent"

Speaking of this, he touched Xu Qinglong's head, "Your warehouse, the least things, we have put everything that can be put in, this year, the clothes and shoes you don't wear, the dishes and chopsticks you don't use, and the toys you don't play with have all been put in." But after all, our ability is limited, your warehouse, you want to put your things, you have to put your own inside, grandpa is telling you now, in the future, you have to rely on your own efforts to fill your warehouse."

Xu Qinglong's eyes are shining, she also has a warehouse? Your Highness has a lot of things, and they are all well kept, does she have them now? Xu Qinglong became excited, pulling Grandpa Xu's clothes, "Grandpa, grandpa, how am I going to fill my warehouse?" ”

Grandpa Xu smiled and hugged her, "Use the things you have used to fill up, fill one, and the next one, fill one, and, let Grandpa see the next one, how many warehouses can we fill in the future" nodded Xu Qinglong's nose, "So, your bracelet is related to you, belongs to your belongings, and is what you are using." You give them to someone else, and that's the only way your possessions can leave you intact. Anything else, such as being stolen, lost, sold, donated, etc., is not okay. The things that belong to you can only be yours until they are destroyed."

So, "if they leave you in any other way, then even if you destroy them, you can't let them fall into the hands of others." This is the temperament. An absolute insistence on responsibility. It is what the Xu family must do. "The ancestors of the Xu family have experienced hundreds of years of turbulent changes in their generations, and except for the things they carry with them, there is nothing that belongs to the Xu family anywhere in the world. What you can't take away, you're ruined. It's not that it's not heartbroken, but it's better to let them all return to dust than to see things that belong to the Xu family in museums around the world

Xu Qinglong's whole mind was on the warehouse, and he had forgotten about losing things. pulled Grandpa Xu vigorously and said. It was Grandpa Xu who mentioned it again, and she remembered, "Oh, then I understand, I shouldn't be irresponsible for my bracelets, and I won't get them back if I lose them" Grandpa Xu nodded, "So, tell Grandpa, how do you want to get it back?" This question stopped Xu Qinglong again.

How do I get it back? Xu Qinglong pondered, there are no escorts, no palace maids and guards, and no royal police and royal security guards, so how can she get it back? Xu Qinglong wanted to break his head, but he didn't come up with it. She finally said, "Why don't you arrest the whole class."

Grandpa Xu was speechless, "Children have another judicial system, even if they commit particularly severe crimes, they will not be punished like adults." Can't catch it. Xu Qinglong gave up decisively, "Grandpa sue me, I don't know." ”

Giving up was really simple, Grandpa Xu took a sip of tea, "Do you think the person who stole your bracelet was a temporary intention or a long-term plan?" ”

Xu Qinglong thought for a while, "Temporary." Quickly explained, "I used to wear silver bracelets, and no one stole them when I washed my hands and picked them off, but today I wore crystal bracelets, and they were all stolen, which is a temporary idea, right?" ”

That's the right analysis. Grandpa Xu educated Xu Qinglong, "Look, if you want to solve one thing, you must first solve the person who caused this incident." This is called the bottom of the kettle. Don't waste time and energy on unnecessary things, hit the nail on the head and get to the root of it. It's like finding the bracelet, the key is not how the bracelet was lost, but the person who can steal it. You have to analyze her motives first, know her psychology, and then combine the time she stole the bracelet, ask more questions, and you can find the suspect."

Grandpa Xu continued, "It seems to be a temporary idea, but the thief knows your habit of washing your hands and picking up your bracelets, and he knows that you will definitely wash your hands when you drink water, so you must have been observing you for a long time before starting." If you want to do it on the fly, you won't steal it all. The improvised thief is mostly scared and worried, she just wants to take the one she wants quickly, so as not to be discovered by others, so she will only take one in order to be fast" (to be continued......