Most people in this era are still patriarchal, as soon as they heard that Shen Lan gave birth to a big fat boy in her first child, the people in the village were full of praise for Shen Lan, and they all said that the seventh princess finally had a queen, and naturally there was a joke of Song Ruhai behind him, so he gave away the big fat grandson.

Said the next day is to wash three, early in the morning Shen Zhao burned the Huai strip mugwort water, just waiting for Zhao Xipo to come to wash the child three, before the morning Shen Xiaoquan drove the ox cart to come, wash the three Niang's family is to give gifts, there is a chicken coop on the ox cart, more than ten chickens are locked in the cage for the mother to replenish the body, and then there is a basket of oil noodles, a basket of eggs, two packs of brown sugar, and a sheep is also bolted, how to look at this wash three rites are very thick.

In fact, this is what Shen Zhao specially instructed Shen Xiaoquan to buy, because Shen Lan has passed over, and her in-laws are even more like her not saving zài, even giving birth to such a big thing, Song Wang's family did not take a look, it can be seen that if the Shen family does not give a thicker gift, I am afraid that Shen Lan will be bullied by the villagers, so Shen Zhao ordered her husband to buy more things, so that everyone in the village knows that their family is a family that loves their daughter, and no one wants to bully their daughter.

Naturally, there were Shen Yunting and several other children of the Shen family, and Shen Yunting took a lot of pills, saying that it was for Shen Lan's body, and some for the children, which were packed in a wooden box, and the porcelain bottles one by one were very exquisite.

In addition to the people of the Shen family, the Shen Zhao family also invited the Song Sange family and the patriarch, originally the Shen Zhao family was angry, and did not want to invite Song Ruhai's family, but after thinking about it, she still invited, but in her heart she wished that Song Ruhai could not fall and not come, but it was a pity that she underestimated the cheekiness of others. Even if he doesn't give anything, and even when Shen Lan gives birth, she doesn't even look at it, people can still drag their families to eat white food.

Washing three is not a formal ceremony, and it generally does not alarm relatives, mainly because the mother's family and close people eat a meal of pasta together, after all, it is the official full moon ceremony when Shen Lan is full moon, but the mother's family will still come to send congratulatory gifts, and when the full moon is over, they will send utensils such as cribs.

After lunch, the three washes began, mainly presided over by the delivery of the sipo. Set incense in the hall. Enshrine Bixia Yuanjun, Qiongxiao Niangniang, Yunxiao Niangniang, give birth to Niangniang, send the child Niangniang, bean rash Niangniang, vision Niangniang and other thirteen gods, the incense burner contains millet, as incense ash incense. A pair of "small double bags" are inserted on the wax skewers, and all godly money and food such as yellow coins, ingots, and thousands of pieces are pressed below.

At the head of the bed in the mother's bedroom is the idol of "father-in-law and mother-in-law". All use three to five bowls of osmanthus pot stove or oil cake as offerings. As usual, the old woman prostrates on incense. Xi Po also bowed three times. However, because the Song Wang family refused to recognize Shen Lan, in the end, it was Shen Zhao's incense and kowtow, and Xi Po followed.

And then. The bathtub filled with acacia strips and mugwort leaves was placed in the middle of the room, and another qiē ritual supplies were placed on the bed, at this time Xi Po hugged the small stone, and the patriarch of the Song clan took the lead in adding a small spoonful of water to the basin, and then put a few copper coins, followed by Shen Yunting, Shen Xiaoquan, Song Ruhai, Song Wenyou, Shen Zhao, Song Wang, and Song San's sister-in-law came in turn, this is the so-called "adding a basin".

The things that add pots are not the same, the patriarch gave copper coins, so did the Shen family, Song Sange and Song San's sister-in-law also threw one in, but Shi's grandfather and grandmother just threw some peanuts and chestnuts into the tea tray, and Zhao Xipo also followed and said auspicious words, but there was no face for everyone.

After adding a pot, Zhao Xipo took a mallet and stirred it into the basin and said, "One stir, two stirs, three stirs, my brother leads my younger brother to run." Seventy, eighty, crooked, naughty, sighing and snoring! ”

After speaking, he began to bathe the stone, but as soon as he took off his swaddling clothes and clothes, the stone cried "wow", and Zhao Xipo smiled and said, "It's ringing." ”

Then he carried the stone to the top of the wooden basin, gently sprinkled some water on the thin hair of the stone with his hand, and muttered: "Wash your hair first, and be a prince; After washing the waist, one generation is taller than the other; Wash the eggs, as the county; Wash the ditch and do Zhizhou. ”

After washing, I lit the mugwort leaf ball, supported it with ginger slices, put it on the stone head door, and symbolically burned it, and then took the number to comb the stone symbolically, and chanted while combing: "Three combs, two bunches, grow up and wear an official hat; Draw eyebrows on the left, sideburns on the right, and find a daughter-in-law in the four villages; Brush your teeth, rinse your mouth, and talk to people so as not to be embarrassed. After finishing that, he rolled the egg on the face of the stone, and then said: "The egg is rolling on the face, the face is like egg skin, the willow is red and white, and it is really a lover." ”

Only then did he wash the child and wrap it in swaddling clothes, and then took a bunch of shallots tied with red thread and gently hit the stone three times, and said while beating: "One dozen smart, two dozen smart." ”

After beating and handing over the green onion to Shen Xiaoquan, Shen Xiaoquan turned around and walked out of the house, throwing the green onion on the roof, which is the meaning of wishing the stone to be extremely smart.

When Shen Xiaoquan went to throw green onions, Zhao Xipo was not idle, and took the scale and made a few gestures on the stone and said, "When you grow up, your head is tight, your feet are tight, and your hands are tight." ”

Then he took a small bronze mirror and took a picture of it on the buttocks of the stone, and said, "Use the treasure mirror to shine on the belly, and shit and shit black during the day." ”

At this point, the part about the stone is over, the people who watched the ceremony have retreated, and the stone has been stuffed into Shen Lan's quilt, and Zhao Xipo took everyone out of the house, and Shen Zhao hurriedly invited the statue of the god, the money and food to worship the gods, and sent them to the drying field outside to be burned.

Zhao Xipo used copper chopsticks to hold the statue of "bedside father-in-law, bedside mother-in-law" and said: "Bedside father-in-law and bedside mother-in-law are surnamed Li, and adults and children will hand them over to you; Send more men and less women. ”

Then put a bag of ash in red paper and pressed it under the kang mat, saying that he would always stay on the kang head to bless the adults and children with peace and security, and then report the good news to Shen Xiaoquan and Shen Zhao, naturally Shen Xiaoquan and Shen Zhao had to wrap a red envelope for her.

In addition, the money and dried fruits, eggs and sacrifices of the pot were unified so that Shen Zhao wrapped them in a wrapper and gave them to Zhao Xipo, naturally this is also the rule, and then Shen Xiaoquan left Shen Hailing and drove the others back, and he went back with a basket of red eggs, which was to be sent to a relative's house, indicating the meaning of his own family.

Naturally, at the same time as sending red eggs, he also informed his relatives when to do the full moon wine, and when the time comes, everyone will come to the door to drink a cup of happy wine, originally this matter of distributing red eggs should be the work of Song Ruhai and Song Wenxiang, Song Wenxiang is impossible to do this when he is a soldier outside, Song Ruhai is having trouble with Shen Lan's family, and because of the succession, Song Ruhai thinks that he is no longer Shen Lan's serious father-in-law, and he has no responsibility to do this, so he doesn't care about it at all.

Since Song Ruhai's attitude, Shen Lan doesn't plan to care about Song Ruhai's relatives here, and directly prepared the red eggs of her mother's family and some villagers' red eggs, as for Song Ruhai's relatives, Shen Lan is a red egg and has no preparation, anyway, she has amnesia, who knows what relatives are over there, and she is a successor, so naturally she shouldn't have any more dealings with that side.

After washing three, Shen Lan had nothing to do here, but Shen Zhao still stayed, planning to help Shen Lan go back after serving the confinement, and Shen Lian stayed with her, and the others went back in Shen Xiaoquan's ox cart, after all, Shen Zhao is experienced, so he naturally knows how to serve his daughter's confinement, and Shen Lian stays to help, mainly to wash Shen Lan's clothes, and to wash diapers for Xiaoshi.

The woman can't see the wind or bask in the sun during the confinement, so most of the time Shen Lan can't even go out of her own room, the only thing that is gratifying is that Shen Lan can at least take a bath, because of the medicinal bath formula left by Shen Yunting, Shen Lan got rid of the pain of not being able to bathe, but she couldn't wash her hair or comb her hair, making herself unkempt all day long, which was very uncomfortable.

The days passed, and the little stone was growing up day by day, from the original sound to the first laughter, it was all memorized by Shen Lan, and he was slowly able to speak Martian "Yi, Yi, Yi", for Shen Lan, it was a new discovery and a new surprise, and the days passed slowly in these surprises and discoveries.

Finally came to the first day of Shen Lan's confinement, although she had not yet been confined, but Shen Lan had fully recovered, but she was still detained by Shen Zhao's family, but this did not prevent Shen Lan from handling the full moon wine, after all, she didn't need to do it herself on the first day, mainly to buy materials and rice, the reason why she wanted to make rice was for tomorrow's staple food, this matter naturally couldn't fall on Shen Lan's head, mainly because Shen Zhao and Shen Lian did it.

Early in the morning, Shen Zhao took the soaked bucket of sorghum rice to the rice, and Shen Lan took out a tael of silver and handed it to Song Sange, asking him to help buy five boy chickens from the village, and then went to Song's shop to buy five big hooves, five catties of pork and eight silver carp, Song Sange is also a sincere person, not only bought everything Shen Lan needed, but also sent two pairs of pig offal as an add-on from the butcher shop, and the fish seller also sent a net of small fish and shrimp to Shen Lan to take back.

In addition to these meat dishes, Shen Lan also instructed Song Sange to buy five jars of sorghum wine and come back, presumably there will be a lot of male guests tomorrow, and there will naturally be no wine at the banquet, cigarettes have not appeared in this era, so most people are particularly fond of wine, Shen Lan naturally will not be stingy with wine, so she told Song Sange to buy more wine.

Shen Lan can't afford good wine, but sorghum wine can still afford it, this wine costs almost five pounds and one catty, Shen Lan bought five jars of five catties and one jar of wine in one breath and came back to prepare.

In addition to the vegetables she bought, Shen Lan also asked Song Sange to help catch half a bucket of yellow eels in advance, originally Shen Lan wanted to give money, but Song Sange said that this thing was worthless, and he refused to accept it, so Shen Lan had to accept it and raise it in a wooden basin first, and wait for the full moon to kill and add a dish. (To be continued......)

ps: There is another one that is sent at night, do you really not give pink monthly passes? Give it, it's all three watches, it can be regarded as a reward for Xiao Wu's diligence. R1292