Grandpa Xu thought about it for a while, but decided not to say anything, just told Xu Qinglong, "Grandpa doesn't know why your classmate is angry and angry, otherwise, you can observe and see for yourself, think about it yourself, and when you think of something, come and ask grandpa again, okay?" ”

But he still added, "Actually, grandpa doesn't think you need to think about why she's angry, she's angry not necessarily because of you, maybe she won't be angry tomorrow?" Many times, people get angry because they can't figure it out, they are confused, and this confusion makes them feel powerless, helpless and irritable, and they get angry. So when someone else is angry, you can't actually help her, and you can't help her solve it. It's all a personal problem, and it's up to the individual to solve it."

In Grandpa Xu's opinion, Tangtang's anger has nothing to do with Tangtang. Because first of all, in terms of sugar sugar, this matter is completely over, completely over. Whether it's a thief or a good child, it's not something that Tangtang cares about. She didn't care from start to finish. How can a person who is simple-minded and complex-minded not be a person of the same world, how can they understand each other? This is actually relative. Tangtang's classmate is actually a simple child, but in front of Tangtang, he is not at all.

It is because of this premise that Tangtang can't understand why her classmates are angry - the thief is my sister, my sister is a good child, you should forgive her, you and I should be good with my sister, if you don't get along with us, you are angry, you just look down on us.

This is the logic of her classmates, and this is a very normal concern of a well-hearted little girl. also because she thinks that Tangtang is good, and her sister is also good, so everyone should be together. It's a simple idea. The child's mind seems to be like this. Because of his young age, he is overly self-conscious. But this is indeed difficult for strong people.

This kind of robber logic, in fact, is not a minority among adults. I just want everyone to be okay, as long as you are generous and tolerant, isn't it? Seems to be a kind mind. But this kindness is dirty. Grandpa Xu thinks. He would never let Sugar Candy accept this kindness in his life.

In the case of sugar sugar. In fact, the fundamental reason is that she is completely ununderstood, she doesn't care about thieves at all, this matter is for her. It's a pleasure. And the source of fun is to lure the snake out of the hole. Nothing else, sugar candy doesn't care. Her reactions were simple and heartfelt. What she said was also from the heart. Literally.

It's that simple, but no one understands. Sugar Candy told the truth, no one believed it, and even misinterpreted her for not being angry. was treated as unforgiven, her not to play, and was treated as looked down upon. The source of Sugar Sugar's doubts. That's what she said very clearly, but why didn't anyone understand? And she couldn't understand what others were saying.

This is a not-so-small problem with the existence of zài. This is the reason why Grandpa Xu doesn't want to say more - Tangtang is being rejected by this world.

Although Grandpa Xu is worried that Tangtang will become an isolated person in the future. But more worried that she will feel depressed and sad later. Qu Gao and Widow and the intolerable world are two concepts. The status of the Xu family is high enough, and Tangtang itself is full of queens, and it will definitely be a storage zài standing on a high place in the future. But it should be because of being looked up to, not because of being ostracized. Grandpa Xu decided to take a look first, if Tangtang couldn't solve this problem by himself, open an opening by himself, and let her enter the human world, then he would make a move

Xu Qinglong is actually not very interested in this matter, but since grandpa said let her observe and let her think, then she will do it. Xu Qinglong, who got an answer for the time being, went to the door to wait for his brothers to get out of school, and by the way, he teased the dog. Leaving Grandpa Xu alone was very worried.

Mrs. Xu knocked on the door and came in, "Tangtang doesn't understand if you don't understand, there are so many people in this world, do you want her to see through this person's heart, liver and lungs?" It's better if no one understands her, otherwise Tangtang wouldn't have to be remembered and calculated all the time? Everything in this world is inevitable, and there is no coincidence. Sugar candy is such a child, then she must be like this, otherwise it is still sugar candy? You want her to be able to keep her simple mind and understand the world, which is inherently contradictory."

Grandpa Xu poured a cup of tea for Mrs. Xu, "I just hope that this child's good can be cherished, instead of being ruined and misinterpreted" He was uncomfortable when he listened. But what's funny and helpless is that Tangtang herself didn't realize that she was misinterpreted and misunderstood, is this a blessing?

Mrs. Xu hummed, "It's normal for you to be worried, but you haven't thought about it, is it because Tangtang doesn't want those classmates to understand her?" ”

Grandpa Xu was stunned for a moment, and then closed his eyes and let out a long breath, it's true!! While the world is rejecting sugar candy, sugar candy is also rejecting the world, otherwise why do your family know sugar sugar so well? It's because she opened herself up and let them get to know her!!

However, in this way, the problem seems to be more serious

Mrs. Xu stood up, the dog barked outside, the children were back, it was time to eat, "Sugar Candy is very smart, you look at it, the person who misunderstood Sugar Candy and was sad will definitely not be Sugar Candy" This is obviously not it

Grandpa Xu wanted to laugh, but he couldn't. The root of the problem, in fact, is still the same, to make Tangtang realize that this world, she can really have, not be isolated from the world, if only the child could be the queen and grab the territory

Eh, in fact, this is still the same, thinking too much, Xu Qinglong really just doesn't care. But Grandpa Xu's understanding of Xu Qinglong's rejection of the world is indeed correct. It's not because she's timid, but because she doesn't realize it at all, and the Xu family, in accordance with the decided education policy, step by step, little by little, is really feeding the domineering charm and exclusivity in Xu Qinglong's bones, but as a result, it is not Xu Qinglong's simple heart that is destroyed, but her beliefs and past.

At that time, Xu Qinglong himself hoped that she would be a queen who could grab territory

In addition to junior high school, elementary school will also go to see the big drama in the afternoon. However, elementary school has to start with one lesson. Xu Zinuo couldn't see anything on his face, but Xu Qinglong still dug a spoonful of beef for him, the most tender and delicious place. Xu Zinuo felt better. Originally, his younger brothers and sisters went, but he didn't go, how could he think about it and be depressed, that big drama had already been performed in middle school, before the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, although Xu Zipromise didn't care about the big play, he also wanted to be with his younger brothers and sisters

At the dinner table, Grandpa Xu and Mrs. Xu still have four children, and they both eat when they are hungry. Grandpa Xu didn't care about them. But now that he sees the eldest grandson, who has always been cold, he is so depressed that he needs to use beef to coax him, Grandpa Xu really thinks that he should call those two out to see the excitement, it's a pity not to watch it

After Xu Ziliang had dinner, he hurriedly said to Xu Qinglong, "We have to go to the last class, do you want to come to the primary school to find us and go over together?" "If you can find an opportunity to make your eldest brother even more depressed, how could Xu Ziliang let it go, tell you to scare people with a straight face all day long!!

Xu Qinglong hesitated rarely, shook his head, and chewed the fruit in his mouth without speaking.

"Elf ghost!!

Xu Zipromise hugged Xu Qinglong and kissed him, ah, it's not in vain that the eldest brother hurts you

woke up, no need to go to school early, after Xu Qinglong got up, he changed his clothes, took Huahua, and quietly came to the door of Xu Mengtong's room, listened to it, and there was no movement. She didn't want to eavesdrop on anything, but she was worried that she would disturb her aunt. But there was no movement inside, Xu Qinglong didn't dare to knock on the door, so he took Huahua and quietly came to the root of the window of the east house, this is Xu Xiantong's room, there is a jingle inside, and there is a faint fragrance, Xu Qinglong didn't dare to disturb, so he quietly walked to his study again.

Liu Sisi said that she wasted pen water, and Xu Qinglong didn't plan to go to school to paint with paper and brushes, but she still had a lot of paintings of mountains and forests that she wanted to paint, so she could only speed up. And she wanted to draw something

The study is now empty long gone. Xu Weitong drove, took her and Xu Ziyu to the three, and searched for books several times. Both the old and the new. Xu Qinglong picked a lot of miscellaneous things, there were many aspects, Grandpa Xu gave her a lot of picture albums, and others also gave her a lot of books, but even if there were so many books, Xu Qinglong read them all, and he didn't fill all the bookcases. Xu Qinglong felt that what the second brother said was that going to the book market once a week was really a good idea

But grandpa said that although it was their own car to let them go by themselves, without Grandpa Xu following, Xu Qinglong was still not interested in going out

Looking at the few empty bookshelves, Xu Qinglong was a little worried. At this time, Huahua suddenly stood up, and the big black outside also began to call, Huahua began to circle around Xu Qinglong, and without waiting for Xu Qinglong to talk to her, she bit her skirt and pulled it out. Xu Qinglong walked with it without resisting at all, except for the study, Huahua went over and untied the chain of Da Hei, and Da Hei was chained during the day, because it would climb over the wall Since it went out for a walk by itself, Uncle Wei tied it up.

Xu Qinglong noticed the anxiety of Huahua and Da Hei, and as they ran forward, Huahua was in front of Da Hei and behind, protecting her one after the other. Just when Xu Qinglong ran to Beifangfang Mountain, she heard the sound of breaking wind

Da Hei pounced forward, and Xu Qinglong fell down to protect him, and Huahua ran behind Da Hei and blocked one of Xu Qinglong's exposed feet. This cat and dog protect Xu Qinglong tightly. After a few loud bangs, Xu Qinglong smelled the smell of burning

The home was attacked. This was the first thought in Xu Qinglong's head. (To be continued) R655