Chapter 321: "Don't Have Children!"

While the cousin was talking, there was a sound of "purring" and "purring" in the hall.

"Your mother-in-law is snoring when she sleeps?" Tian Qingqing asked.

Yi Fengjiao: "Well, it's a loud fight. ”

Tian Qingqing: "Can you sleep in the same room with her?" ”

Yi Fengjiao: "She knows that she snores, and every time she sleeps, she waits for me to fall asleep." I may have been tired today, and I wasn't in the same room with us, so I fell asleep early. ”

Hearing the sound of "snoring", she knew that she had fallen asleep, and Tian Qingqing relaxed a lot. The content of the speech also slowly led to the main topic.

"Sister Jiao, you've been married for more than a year, haven't you?! Why don't you want children? Auntie can't wait. She is wholeheartedly looking forward to you having a child, and wants to show you that she is older, so that she can continue to watch over your trustworthy cousin.

Speaking of children, Yi Fengjiao blushed. However, the conversation box also opened:

"I didn't have a baby so early! When you are young, it is a good time to dry leather ~ life, and you should use your energy to work.

"My highest ~ highest ideal and ultimate goal is to realize gongchan ~ righteousness. You must not let your child drag yourself down. Qingqing, I have already made up my mind, if I don't realize gongchan ~ righteousness, I don't want children. ”

Tian Qingqing has a black line: It seems that she still adheres to her pre-marital point of view, and puts this sentence in her words and puts it into action.

Tian Qingqing: "Do you know when Gongchan ~ righteousness will be realized?" ”

Yi Fengjiao: "I don't know. But I know that as long as Tong Guò works hard, he will definitely achieve it. Didn't Lord Mao ~ Xi say: 'The world is yours and ours, but in the final analysis, it is yours. You young people are full of vigor and are in a period of prosperity, like the sun at eight ~ nine o'clock in the morning. Hope is in you. 'Chairman Mao has placed so much hope on us, how can we not work hard for our own selfish interests, for the sake of having children? ”

Tian Qingqing: "What if it can't be achieved in 30 or 50 years?" By then, you'll be an old woman, and what more children do you want?! ”

Yi Fengjiao: "Impossible, I definitely can't wait that long." As long as everyone works together, it will definitely be achieved soon. ”

After speaking, he firmly added: "I don't care what others do, anyway, I firmly believe that the realization of gongchan ~ righteousness is the greatest cause of mankind, and I must work hard for this ultimate goal." If you don't realize gongchan ~ righteousness, you will never have children. ”

Tian Qingqing was thundered!

In Tian Qingqing's memory of her previous life, Yi Fengjiao had no children in her life, and there was a lack of emotional ties between husband and wife, and later her husband cheated on her relationship and got along with other women, and wanted to divorce her. And the main reason for the divorce is that she doesn't have children. She couldn't accept this reality and went crazy.

At that time, people said that she had a physical problem, otherwise she would not have no children. After the incident, the aunt regretted it so much that she blamed herself for not taking her to the doctor.

The reason why Tian Qingqing agreed to her aunt's request to do her work was also because she relied on the memory of her previous life and sympathized with her future experience, and after finding out the situation, she persuaded the couple to go to the hospital for examination and examination, and solve the problem as soon as possible.

Now that she has crossed over and knows the cause and effect, she will use guò medical means to change her fate, let her live a normal life, and enjoy the right of a woman to be a mother. At the same time, she also saved her marriage.

Now, it seems, things are not like that. It's that her mind is too simple, and she is swayed by the big shì. Not having children is her own deliberate not to have children.

If it's really a matter of thought, it's better to solve it. As long as the ideological work is done, the child will naturally come.

So, he persuaded very tactfully:

"Sister Jiao, it is a lofty ideal to realize gongchan ~ righteousness, and we can work towards this goal.

"There are big goals that are commendable, but big goals are connected by countless small goals. To achieve the big goal, you must first accomplish the small goal. So before we reach the big goal, we still solve the small goals around us.

"You always have to eat one bite at a time, and you have to walk step by step.

"For us ordinary people, life still has to be lived day by day. Young people, get married when it's time to get married, and have children when it's time to have children. Life is just a few decades, and which stage you miss is a lifelong regret.

"I advise you to think about having a child sooner! Children are the bond of affection between husband and wife. Only with children can the relationship between husband and wife last. ”

Yi Fengjiao: "I don't think about this?" What kind of feelings are not emotional, isn't marriage just to live together? We've reached it. For the rest, let's fight wholeheartedly for the realization of gongchan ~ righteousness! ”

Tian Qingqing: "Isn't your goal too big?" Don't set your goals too big, too big to achieve them, but instead become a burden and pressure. ”

"I'm not burdened or stressed, am I?" Yi Fengjiao and Tian Qingqing argued, and both of them forgot the identity of "Tian Qingqing" now: "I pretend to achieve the big goal of gongchan ~ righteousness ~ life in my heart, and then walk steadily, step by step, and do my own work well, what's wrong?" If you make a child, the price of a day squeaks, then it is called burden and pressure? ”

Tian Qingqing smiled: "You also said just now that you walked 'step by step'." Then I ask you, what kind of footprints do you want to leave in your adult life? ”

Yi Fengjiao: "Work hard!" Strive for the realization of gongchan ~ righteousness! ”

Tian Qingqing: "I mean your life. For example, if you divide life into three stages: adolescence, adulthood, and old age. Adolescence requires adult nurturing; In old age, you need adult support. When a teenager becomes an adult, he or she must fulfill the obligation to raise the teenager and support the elderly. And so on and so forth.

"If you don't have children in adulthood and don't fulfill your obligation to raise a teenager, who will support you when you are old?

"If you compare the three stages of life to three steps, then if you don't have children in adulthood, you don't leave footprints. Don't you say? Sister Jiao. ”

Yi Fengjiao thought for a while and said, "What you said has some truth. However, at that time, the gongchan lord ~ righteousness will be realized, gongchan lord ~ righteousness is the on-demand supply system, people take what they need, supply according to demand, and the problem of maintenance will not be solved? ”

Tian Qingqing: "What if you can't catch up?" ”

Yi Fengjiao: "Impossible! ”

Tian Qingqing: "To tell you the truth, I heard that some people have calculated that by the next century and 14 years, that is, 2014, it will still be the stage of socialism, and people will rely on labor to get paid and earn money by instinct. The family lives one by one, and the elderly rely on their children to support them.

"This year is 1973, and to 2014, there are still 41 years. You're twenty-one years old, and in forty-one years, you'll be a sixty-two-year-old woman. You say, "If you don't want children now, who will support you then?" ”

Yi Fengjiao shook her head and said, "What you said is just 'extrapolation', who knows what the situation will be in forty years?" ”

Tian Qingqing shouted in her heart: This is my personal experience, do you know it!

Seeing that she was still bent on going her own way, Tian Qingqing said a little angrily: "I don't object to your big goals, but there must also be small goals." Start small, small goals are the accumulation of big goals. When the small goal is accomplished, the big goal is achieved. If you focus on the big goals and not the small ones, you may not achieve anything! ”

Yi Fengjiao disagreed: "Anyway, I don't change my original intention, you just said that I don't want children when I come to the next day." ”

Tian Qingqing was thundered again.

Seeing that she couldn't turn her around with such a bitter heart, Tian Qingqing suddenly remembered someone: Yi Fengjiao's mother-in-law - under normal circumstances, as soon as the daughter-in-law enters the door, the mother-in-law stares at the daughter-in-law's belly, always hoping that the daughter-in-law will try her best to get pregnant and achieve the goal of passing on the lineage. So he asked:

"If you do this, won't your mother-in-law urge you?"

At the mention of her mother-in-law, Yi Fengjiao's face immediately became intoxicated, and she said proudly:

"No, no. On this point, the two of us are very much on the same page. My mother-in-law was very supportive. Or she won't tell me to go up to that house." My mother-in-law said that some people are easy to get pregnant, and there will be a bumper belt. I never go into that house for this reason. ”

Tian Qingqing: "So, you haven't even touched his brake belt?" ”

Yi Fengjiao: "No. I won't touch him, what if I get pregnant? ”

Tian Qingqing was thundered again: it turned out that it was not only Yi Fengjiao's problem, but also the factor of the old woman.

But, no, what old woman doesn't want her children and grandchildren to be around her knees and her family to prosper! Could it be that there is something else to say about this?

Tian Qingqing was even more confused: "Why doesn't your mother-in-law want you to have a child?" ”

Yi Fengjiao: "My mother-in-law said that when a woman gives birth to a child, she meets with Lord Yama once, but she can't die, and she is in pain." She couldn't bear to get me pregnant. ”

Sky! Such words actually came out of the mouth of the mother-in-law! And the other party is also his daughter-in-law. How can a very refined person say such nondescript words? Does she want her family to be cut off!

Tian Qingqing thought so in her heart, and couldn't help but have another opinion about Yi Fengjiao's mother-in-law, and said a little anxiously: "She said that if she doesn't let you get pregnant, you won't be pregnant?" You just listen to her? You don't want to think about it, how can there be a mother-in-law in the world who doesn't let her daughter-in-law have children? Is there something wrong with her brain? ”

Yi Fengjiao was not in a hurry or annoyed, and still said proudly: "Qingqing, you don't know, my mother-in-law treats me well." I'm happier here than I am at my mother's house. The jealous old family and the second family are all blue-eyed. You say, I don't take advantage of such good conditions, but destroy it, won't I become someone smearing honey on my mouth, and I bite someone's finger? That way, I'm a real big fool. ”

Tian Qingqing glanced at her: "I think you are really stupid." ”

Yi Fengjiao said with a smile: "You say I'm stupid, and the second family also says I'm stupid, then I'll be a stupid successor of Wuchan ~ level, and fight to the end for the realization of gongchan ~ righteousness." (To be continued) R1152