But I really heard it with my own ears, and Xu Qinglong was not angry, but I just felt that the imagination of the students was so rich

"Qinglong, you didn't go to be a princess?" Yuan Qingshui looked at her in surprise.

Xu Qinglong was full of black lines, sat down in his seat, and glanced at the surrounding classmates, there were children from other classes at the door of the classroom, why did she want to be a princess? But this rumor is already good. It's ugly, there are really some things that even she thinks are ugly, but you can imagine how hard it is.

"I'm visiting on behalf of the country." Your Highness's country is a tourist attraction, so it's normal to visit it.

Yuan Qingshui sighed and believed it. Chang Xin Dai Cheng secretly rolled his eyes, how could it be!!!

"It's just right, you're back, I'm still worried, it's been more than a year since you left, I'm going to get engaged, I don't want you to not be able to participate" Yuan Qingshui let out a big thunder.

The shock made Chang Xin's children who were still thinking about Xu Qinglong stunned for a long time and couldn't come back to their senses.

Xu Qinglong was still the first to come back to his senses, "When will the engagement ceremony be held?" "It's with Zhang Yingrui, right? After the Zhang family separated, the part of the people who combined human experiments with myths and fables left the Zhang family. The current Zhang family is exactly the same Zhang family as in the past.

Yuan Qingshui was not embarrassed at all, and took out an invitation card with Xu Qinglong's name on it. "It's the 23rd of next month, my eighteenth birthday. When I was twenty years old, I got married. This is a family affair that my grandfather set for me. ”

Xu Qinglong took it, and the words on it were written by Yuan Qingshui himself. Yuan Qingshui took out many invitations from his schoolbag one after another, and gave them to the classmates in the class. The people she personally invited, in addition to the whole class, also included the class teacher Liu Jie and the principal. Everything else was invited in the name of the Yuan family and the Zhang family.

Ren Xiangnan looked at the invitation and didn't open it, "Do you like your fiancé?" ”

The girls all paused, Xu Qinglong didn't look up, still looking at the invitation, Ye Lan glanced at Xu Qinglong, and then also looked at Yuan Qingshui.

Ren Xiangnan's words are understood by many children. None of their children can escape the political marriage, but within a limited range, it is easy to find someone they like. After all, people whose status is not compatible with them are difficult for them to like. There are really very few things like sparrows turning into phoenixes, because the inheritance of the family is really important. It's not that people with bad backgrounds are bad, the point is that upbringing and vision. Marrying a star is a very rare thing.

This kind of marriage is basically happy, the husband and wife are working hard for each other, and some aspects involve the interests of both parties, so each other values and cherishes this husband and wife relationship. If you are safe and stable, you will have a happy life. Everyone is smart and knows how to live.

But even though it is such a marriage, they will also have stages of resistance when they are young. No one has ever seen such a thing as love, but everyone wants to go for it. To say that you don't want love is false. When you are young, who doesn't want to love vigorously at once. A qiē performed in a love movie, they will laugh when they watch it, but when they are alone, they will also think about it. But the intellect and the more realistic things, as well as their own true ideals, always stand on this ethereal feeling.

They have big ambitions since they were young, and they know exactly what they want and what they want to do from an early age. Compared with the pleasure brought by love, the happiness brought by success is much stronger. To put it bluntly, all of their efforts are devoted to achieving their life goals. Love or something, I don't have time or strength

Just like the boys in the school, they all dream of having a romantic love with Xu Qinglong, and few want to marry her. Xu Qinglong is very beautiful, very smart, everything is good, everything is perfect, but this qiē is just a beautiful dream. woke up from the dream, and in the end, they would still choose the best life, without Xu Qinglong's life, to continue to live.

However, until then, they will also enjoy being single as much as possible. For example, crazy showing love to Xu Qinglong and the like

Therefore, it is really rare to get engaged at the age of eighteen and get married at the age of twenty. If it weren't for love, the children really didn't know what would make Yuan Qingshui do such a dizzying thing.

What's more, as a relationship that is considered half a friend, Ren Xiangnan and these girls really want to know whether Yuan Qingshui is willing to accept this arrangement from the elders. Even if you are willing to accept it, then, do you love him? Will you be happy?

After all, it's still a young girl, and I'm still thinking about such an illusory question.

Mo Jingli sighed in his heart, this is clearly a political marriage under the clear exchange of interests. Where do you like it, where does it come from?

"I've actually just met him three times. Today I am going out on a date with him alone for the first time, and I don't have anything to like about him. However, the person my grandfather picked for me must be a very good person, and I will like him. Yuan Qingshui has always been very optimistic.

Ding Chong held the invitation, and she also knew that it was written by Yuan Qingshui herself, "A very good person may not be a good object." What age is it now, the era of blind marriage and dumb marriage has long passed, you always have to think about yourself, right? Whether the personality is suitable or not, whether there is a common language, whether you can get along happily, these are all very important. It's not that your grandfather said it was good, but it was good for you."

There is some truth to this. Wen Pianran patted Ding Chong and said to Yuan Qingshui, "We are not encouraging you to rebel against your engagement like a feudal marriage, it's just that this kind of life is really what you want?" Times have long changed, getting married and having children should not be something that women have to do, and women can also make great careers. Even if you choose to get married, it should be an equal relationship, not who marries whom, who is worthy of whom yourself, what do you think? ”

Yuan Qingshui lowered her head slightly, what did she think, in fact, she hadn't had time to think about it yet. She only knew that her grandfather would not harm her, and what her grandfather did for her was good for her. She hadn't thought about getting married and having children at all. What she always wanted was to become a calligrapher, a great calligrapher like her grandfather

But is this in conflict with marriage?

Ye Lan secretly waved her hand to the girls and asked them to stop talking for the time being. Yuan Qingshui obviously didn't think about anything, the jewelry library has always been brainless, he turned his head to look at Xu Qinglong, she had already handed the invitation to Long Yin to put away, ready to read, "Qinglong, what do you think?" Do you think the jewelry library should be engaged? ”

Chu Zhou sneered, "Do you still want to organize the whole class to have a live-action version of the princess's escape?" Save the poor girl who has no love, is destroyed and manipulated by her elders, and is persecuted by her marriage? In the end, the girl's true feelings touched the elders in the family, the marriage was canceled, and the girl was an old girl for the rest of her life, and she couldn't get married? A girl with a clear brain, who dares to marry into the door? Don't you be an old girl for a lifetime? ”

The white tiger poked him, don't say such things in front of Qinglong. Chu Zhou was poked and squatted down holding his stomach, it hurt so much!!!

After Ye Lan was sarcastically beaten by Chu Zhou, she was not angry, and looked at Xu Qinglong who put down the book, waiting for her to answer.

Xu Qinglong also felt that Chu Zhou's words were ugly, but it was not unreasonable. In this world, people who don't even want their lives for love have all of them, not to mention that they don't have clear brains. Mainly, "Is marriage important?" "She doesn't have any idea about marriage.

"It's kind of important." Xu Kuanmo said. The other children were speechless and half dead, and after talking to them for a long time, Xu Qinglong didn't understand it at all.

"Isn't it good that the elders help make decisions if it's important?" Xu Qinglong didn't understand why his classmates were so resistant to Yuan Qingshui's attitude towards getting engaged.

The crowd was silent. By the way, how did they forget, Xu Qinglong is a well-known good child, and when she goes out from school for a cup of coffee, she has to ask the super well-behaved child elders in the family to help make a decision, which is normal for her. But the problem is, Xu Qinglong is really not the kind of good child who will be completely obedient!!

"What would you do if you wanted to do the exact opposite of what your elders told you to do?" Ling Fei asked.

"Impossible." Xu Qinglong categorically denied it.

Well, it doesn't make sense at all.

Ren Xiangnan thought for a moment and spoke, "Then, if you are standing in Yuan Qingshui's position, will you accept the arrangement of this lifelong event?" Got engaged to a stranger. ”

Xu Qinglong is not very sensitive to the topic of ifs. But she has been assuming the past and future of His Highness these days, so at this time, it doesn't sound so repulsive.

"If I'm Yuan Qingshui?" After Xu Qinglong asked rhetorically, seeing that Ren Xiangnan and Yuan Qingshui both nodded, they thought about it seriously, and then spoke, "I will accept it." ”

"Why?" Dai Cheng was speechless, this is not scientific, okay, you are the one who will not accept it, right? Can you stand being at the mercy of others in your life?

"For me, my family is the most important thing. And since it was the husband arranged for me by the family, then they must think that this person is suitable for me and will be good to me. The point is, the family wants me to marry this person, then, I will marry this person. As for my own life, goals, ideals, these things are not in conflict. It's like doing addition and subtraction. I'm married, what will I get, what will I get if I resist. In this way, it is obvious that there are many things to get from marriage, right? Because I'm still me, I don't have anything to lose. ”

That makes sense. But the question is, it's so pitiful!!!

"Family is important, but you don't like this person, have you ever thought about how you will live with him in the future? Marriage does not mean that two people do homework together, read calligraphy and paintings, but completely intervene in each other's lives, even if they can divorce or separate, it will not be so easy to tear apart. That's what marriage is. There is much more to lose than to gain. Rong Lingzi said.

Xu Qinglong really doesn't understand marriage, she just thinks that life is herself, how she wants to live, whether it is good or not, it is her own relationship, and it has nothing to do with anyone else.

"When there is sun, bask in the sun, when it rains, when it rains, when you have an umbrella, if you live by the sea, you can see the sea, and if you live in the mountains, you can see the trees. Go with the flow and know how to enjoy, life is such a simple thing. Xu Qinglong stretched out his hand, "What I hold in my hand is my chess piece." How to manipulate these chess pieces and put on a good game of chess, it is in me, not in the chess pieces. There are light and heavy loose chess pieces, but it depends on where I put them, whether they are edges, corners or mid-belly, different people, with different positions, will have different important procedures. It's all up to me how to manipulate. In other words, whether my life is good or bad depends on how I live, not how others do. ”

"Besides, life is not as simple as playing chess. It is impossible for anyone to know what the chess pieces in their hands will look like in the next moment. So, why not be brave? Accept and live naturally, even if the people you meet are not satisfactory, as long as you work hard to manage your own life, you will never have a bad life, right? ”

Xu Qinglong has always been this kind of theory -- everything is his own business, and it has nothing to do with anyone in the outside world.

This kind of argument also completely made the children in the class unable to raise their heads - is it really good to always be so firm and brave, so positive

It's completely irrefutable, so it makes sense

Yuan Qingshui raised his head and looked directly at Xu Qinglong, "I want to be a calligrapher, this doesn't conflict with marriage, right?" ”

Xu Qinglong tilted his head, "No conflict" This country does not have any restrictions on women, it is the same whether it is married or unmarried, how can there be conflict.

Yuan Qingshui laughed, "Then, you must come to my engagement ceremony~~~~"

Xu Qinglong also smiled, "Okay~~~~" It just so happened that she had a lot of things in her hand that could be given to Yuan Qingshui as engagement gifts, and she also wanted to ask about something with the Zhang family

When Yuan Qingshui took the invitation card and went out to find the teacher, Ren Xiangnan pursed her lips, with an inexplicable love in her eyes, and looked at Xu Qinglong, "Will you also get married and have children?" ”

Xu Qinglong replied directly, "I don't know." ”

Ren Xiangnan suddenly smiled, glanced at Xu Qinglong deeply, and walked away. Ye Lan was just about to speak, but Xu Xiaomu covered her mouth and pulled away. Xu Kuanmo didn't say anything and returned to his seat. Chu Zhou deserved to be owed, looked at Ren Xiangnan's back and sneered, and said, "She is probably because you are the same as her, you are both extreme feminist people, unmarried and look down on men and are very proud." After all, you are much more domineering than her, more than anyone, any man. It's a pity, she's disappointed." R1152