Chapter 91: Bomb Disposal
After arriving home, Xu Mengtong quietly asked Grandpa Xu to ventilate, and Xu Xiantong heard it and added a lot of words. In fact, he asked yesterday, worried that Xu Qinglong also felt that Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter were pitiful, and that the Xu family was excessive. But the Xu family's excesses will not start until Liu Wenchang arrives in prison. Not to mention that this is really not too much for the Xu family.
But apparently he was also worried in vain. In the concept of their children, it seems that Liu Wenchang's crime and Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter are pitiful, these are two completely unrelated things. Tangtang cared about Liu Wenchang, who set the fire, but Liu Wenchang had been locked up, and she felt that this matter was over. And Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter are not in the scope of the child's attention at all, let alone pitiful. And obviously, Tangtang seems to like Liu Wenchang's daughter
Grandpa Xu listened carefully to his son's and daughter's words, pondered it carefully, and said that he knew, and he would deal with this matter. When the two children went out, Grandpa Xu frowned. It's normal for Tangtang not to care, she can't understand why Liu Wenchang set fire to his house, let alone the root of Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter's hatred and the purpose of what they did. But now she is facing the unwarranted blame coming from all directions, and why she is blamed is Tangtang's question. The child felt aggrieved
But this question, how should he answer it, saying that hypocrisy and use it is not good, saying that jealousy and blackmail are not good, saying that it is not okay to vent helplessly, and Grandpa Xu is also in a dilemma.
Fortunately, when Xiaoshan came back, the child's mind was transferred to his mother, and Grandpa Xu sighed, in the end, the child left his mother, and it was almost a problem
Xu Qinglong took Xu Shantong to visit her study, but the small box in her warehouse contained the clothes she wore and the jewelry she had brought and toys that she didn't play with. Then he took Xu Shantong to see her bookcase, calligraphy and paintings. Xu Shantong was shocked when he saw the child's painting, so much so that he didn't think about talent, but thought that the child could paint the scene so carefully, and when he looked at it with a magnifying glass, the lines were very clear. It's really a good seedling for drawing drawings
Then Xu Shantong also picked up the pen and began to draw the simple drawings he had designed to Xu Qinglong, and by the way, he also gave Xu Qinglong popular science physics and mathematics knowledge. Xu Qinglong took the pen and followed the study stroke by stroke, very happy, "Mom, what is this?" β
"Cannon"
"It's so beautiful~~~"
"Then mom will draw more for you."
Outside the door, Grandpa Xu supported his forehead, in fact, if it is a mother like Xiaoshan, sometimes it is better to stay away
At noon, Xu Zi promised to come back and was very happy to see Xu Shantong. In school, they are not much easier than Xu Qinglong. But they didn't pay any attention. Grandpa Xu called Xu Zinuo to the study and asked some questions. After Xu Zinuo came out, his face was very cold, and he knew that something must have happened to Qinglong in the preschool class
Xu Qinglong kept sticking to Xu Shantong until the next night, when she practiced calligraphy, Grandpa Xu guessed that there was a chance to talk to her alone. Xu Zi promised to let his younger brothers out, and he stayed. Although the younger brothers won't really go away, there are fewer people in the house, and it is convenient for Grandpa Xu to speak.
"Why don't you want to go to school again?" Grandpa Xu took this question as a starting point.
Xu Qinglong teased Huahua with a brush, his smile became smaller when he heard it, he put down the brush, and said a little sullenly, "My classmates ignore me and say bad things about our family" Grandpa Xu touched her head lovingly, "Then do you think what they said is right?" β
"Of course not!!" Xu Qinglong said very simply, "Grandpa, you are all very good people, why should you be said badly?" They can't speak ill of you!! β
This is the source of Xu Qinglong's grievances. Grandpa, they are obviously so good, and the classmates keep saying those ugly words, even if she doesn't understand what it means, but when she hears it, it's a bad word!! The classmates don't know anything, they don't know their grandfather's goodness, but they can say as if their classmates know everything, as if the classmates are her children, in short, why do you say bad things!!
Grandpa Xu's heart was sour, his throat was blocked, and his eyes were slightly closed, before he smiled and said, "Do you feel wronged, feel wronged for grandpa?" So why aren't you angry? β
Xu Qinglong shook his head, "Don't be angry, I'm a little happy" After speaking, he blinked, stretched out a meat claw and firmly grabbed the hem of Grandpa Xu's shirt, "Grandpa's good, only I know, others don't need to understand, there is no need to know." I'm the only one in this family, and my classmates aren't" Thinking about it, she wasn't angry at all, but she still felt that her family was very wronged and was said so by her classmates
Grandpa Xu and Xu Zinuo couldn't help laughing, be careful, domineering to this extent, I really don't know whether to say that the child is optimistic or that the child is thinking weird
"You see, when you hear people say bad things about your family, you feel very aggrieved and don't want to go to school. But Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter have lived in Xuefang Village for many years, which is their hometown. As for your classmates and villagers, they and Liu Wenchang's family are one. And our family is not. And our family called the police, so that Liu Wenchang was arrested, and later his wife and daughter came to make trouble again, and the villagers said bad things, and they were all wronged for their family. But after all, they are not in the same family as Liu Wenchang, so they will feel angry."
Grandpa Xu took out a map of the world, "Come, look, the world is so big, the land is so big, and there are many people living in every place and country." Most of these people have lived together for generations, and if a foreigner suddenly comes and is excluded, it is normal"
Xu Qinglong found His Royal Highness's country at a glance, but after she heard the xenophobia, she raised her head and asked, "Is our family excluded?" β
Grandpa Xu nodded, "You can say the same." The main thing is that people like to live a happy life, and if someone suddenly takes the lead in breaking this happiness, but instead of bringing more happiness, but instead brings turmoil and unrest, then this leader will naturally become the target of public criticism. Grandpa doesn't want to tell you how complicated the human heart is, after all, you can also see that only why the human heart is complicated, you don't understand, and I actually don't understand either. But I know that selfish desires are the cause of people's complicated hearts, both good and bad."
"You're also a person with aspirations, you want to paint more and fill your bookcase, don't you? Then others naturally have all kinds of wishes. For this wish, others will also make a lot of efforts, even if it is scolding people and causing trouble."
Xu Qinglong listened quietly, but she didn't understand why Grandpa Xu said this, but she could understand it. So it's understandable for students to say bad things? But she still felt that they shouldn't have said bad things. At least she shouldn't think she couldn't hear it
Grandpa Xu put the map away, "What do you think of Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter, that is, your classmate?" β
Regarding this sudden change in topic, Xu Qinglong blinked his eyes a few times, and then replied seriously, "Liu Xiaoyue, I think she is very good." But her mother is not good, and her mother is going to poison her. Her mother didn't mean it, and she didn't just want to poison Liu Xiaoyue, "Why is it not, Xu Qinglong can't say it well, anyway, in Liu's mother's eyes, what Xu Qinglong sees is not a good thing."
"Don't you think they're pitiful?"
Wretched? Xu Qinglong has heard this word many times, but she really doesn't know why the word pity is used on Liu Xiaoyue However, "People are different from lions, they are poisoned by their own mother, it's still quite pitiful"
Grandpa Xu shook his head, "Others think they are pitiful because they have lost their husbands and fathers, their family is going to break up, your classmate is now going to prison for his father, it is very likely that she will also lose her mother, then, she has become an orphaned child, don't you think she is pitiful?" β
Xu Qinglong tilted his head, "No father and no mother, is it pitiful?" "Doesn't Liu Xiaoyue have a father and mother?
Xu Zinuo couldn't bear to ask Grandpa Xu again, Qinglong grew up like an orphan since he was a child, but Grandpa Xu's eyes showed a kind of firmness, and he continued to ask, "Yes, everyone thinks that without his father and mother by his side, it is pitiful!" β
Liu Wenchang's matter, since the root of the child's grievances is not in himself, then Grandpa Xu has nothing to say. Children don't understand, better. The Xu family has not done too much, and the villagers have not done too much, so there is no need to discuss it at all. Right and wrong are at ease in people's hearts, and people's hearts are changing with selfish desires and positions. As long as the child does not develop a dislike for the Xu family, this is not a problem.
After listening to Xu Mengtong and Xu Xiantong say so much, Grandpa Xu's final decision was not to mention it again. The child didn't care about it at all, but they couldn't let go of their hands because they were nervous, originally Grandpa Xu was also nervous, but after Tangtang said the reason for her grievances, Grandpa Xu was not nervous. Then as the conversation deepened, Grandpa Xu discovered a more important problem - the child did not take the source of the blame to heart at all. And the root of the blame is Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter.
Grandpa Xu was very keen to find out that Tangtang was talking about her classmate, just in his usual tone. There is no affection, let alone pity. Previously, they were all glad that Tangtang didn't feel that Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter were pitiful, which was a good thing, which showed that she understood things and stood on her family's side, and there was no overflow of kindness. In fact, Tangtang has always been a very principled child. But because the family often can't find her way of thinking, they will become nervous. But Grandpa Xu suddenly found out now that this was not the case
The child doesn't know where Liu Wenchang's wife and daughter are pitiful and have lost their relatives and have no parents, in her opinion, it doesn't seem to be the pity in the heart of the poor child, what is Cheng dΓΉ? Grandpa Xu knew that if he asked this, it might make the child think of herself, it would make her recall bad things, and it would make her resent that their relatives didn't find her earlier, but even if he was resented, Grandpa Xu wanted to know how pity was defined in Qinglong's heart
If she uses herself as an example to describe her pity, even if the child has no resentment in her heart, Grandpa Xu will apologize to her in a gesture of atonement This is a time bomb that has been buried in the hearts of everyone in the Xu family since Xu Qinglong returned to the Xu family. No one dared to mention it. Most of Xu Shantong's guilt stems from this. In the five years when a child was the youngest, in the five years when she needed them the most, they were not there, and they didn't even know that there was still Xu Qinglong's existence in this world
This is probably the most pitiful thing in the world
"Parents are not around, they are also parents, and it is not that Professor Zhang said that everyone is born by a mother, as long as a child is born, it is a mother, as long as it is born, there is a mother" Xu Qinglong looked at Grandpa Xu questioningly, "Liu Xiaoyue was also born by her mother, she has a father and mother, why do you say she doesn't?" If you don't have it, you don't have it? Just pitiful? So many people in the world, many of them have parents who are not around, they are all poor people? β
"The Xu family inside and outside the house is a little out of tune. Sugar Candy's words sound particularly reasonable, but it's not right there. It's not the first time I've felt this way. Grandpa Xu coughed, and first popularized it with Xu Qinglong, without the concept of parents. Either you have a child or a mother, and if you give birth to a child and throw it away, then you don't call it a mother
Xu Qinglong blinked, don't you throw it away, isn't it a mother? "But she also gave birth to a child, in this world, there is a person who was born to her, for this person, she is a mother. This is a natural test, not a thing that can be thrown away, this is determined by the natural test, from the perspective of biological genes and genetics, she is the mother, and this person is her child."
It doesn't make sense. Grandpa Xu didn't expect that the words would be unreasonable. The child's words are right, but he is talking about moral feelings, she is talking about natural inheritance, and he can't make sense that Tangtang's thinking will always turn to a very strange but completely irrefutable angle.
Well, Grandpa Xu decided to put it another way, "You see, your classmate is the same age as you, but she may face being an orphan, living a hard life, not having food, no clothes to wear, freezing in winter, and heat stroke in summer." As for you, your little uncle and aunt love you, prepare clothes for you to look at, keep warm in winter, cool in summer, have a cook at home, you can eat whatever you want, and you can play whatever you want. Is she pitiful compared to you? β
Xu Qinglong thought about it and nodded hesitantly, but, "She's not me, I'm not her, she won't live my life, and I won't live her life."
Still doesn't make sense. Grandpa Xu was a little depressed, and Xu Zipromise was already depressed. Why are you so rational at this time? You can't be emotional
Xu Qinglong was also depressed, what did grandpa want to say? What is pitiful? Liu Xiaoyue was poisoned by her mother, which is quite pitiful, but grandpa doesn't seem to want to get this answer, so what should she say and ask for guidance
A conversation that began with tension and fear in the middle and now becomes absurd, and it is about to reach an impasse. Mrs. Xu pushed the door in from the outside, glanced at Grandpa Xu speechlessly, sat down, and then looked at Xu Qinglong, "Don't pay attention to your grandfather, he is idle." Mrs. Xu said to you, "Mrs. Xu thinks that the matter has come back for more than a year, and she is really stupid to ask this question." He is teaching the child to be addicted, and he has to talk about it at this time, what a big deal, the child doesn't want to talk about it, and he keeps asking!!
Xu Qinglong looked at Mrs. Xu like a savior, "You say what you say?"
Mrs. Xu spoke, "You appreciate your classmate's ability to steal your things, right?" But she hates you more now than your classmates in school, she is instilled and influenced by adults, and she will feel that it is you and your family who have ruined her and her family. Aren't you uncomfortable being cursed and hated by so many people? Do you think that if our family hadn't called the police in the first place, it would be good to assume this? β
Xu Qinglong shook his head, "At that time, someone set the fire, you should call the police, uncle." Isn't Liu Xiaoyue's father a villain? The wicked people who have done a lot of bad things should be locked up, this is determined by the law, the little uncle said. I was cursed and hated by many people" thought about it, "If I say, don't scold me, don't hate me, will they listen to me?" β
Probably not. Xu Qinglong hummed, "I can't even talk about it, I can't control it, I can't manage it, I shouldn't take care of it."
Okay, Liu Wenchang's question can really be turned over. Old Mrs. Xu nodded, "You think so yourself, and there is no need to be wronged for our family." Our family is the same as you think" Xu Qinglong laughed and hummed happily, in fact, she also found out. At first, she didn't dare to ask, but later found that everyone in the family seemed to know, but they didn't care, but cared more about her. So Xu Qinglong actually didn't worry much about grievances.
Then, Mrs. Xu asked directly, "Before your mother took you back, in those years, when you were alone, did you think you were pitiful?" β
Xu Qinglong was in a trance, she hadn't been alone in the past few years, she had always had someone by her side If you have to say a pitiful thing, "When I was very young, I remember that there were many children around me, big and small, but gradually, they all disappeared one by one Xuanwu said, they are all poor children, born to be a waste"
The Xu family's breathing almost stopped, this is the first time for Xu Qinglong, so specific, speaking of her previous life, Xuanwu Qinglong, someone named them after the four divine beasts of Huaxia, so there must be Vermilion Bird and White Tiger, is it that Professor Zhang? Xu Xiantong looked at Xu Shantong, Xu Shantong shook her head slightly, she didn't know R1152 either