Chapter Thirty-Eight: Xu Jing of Sorrow
"Xu Jing likes you!"
"Huh! Who doesn't like me! ”
Xu Jing and Qu Bin's engagement was over, and on the way home, Qu Mengmeng, who was driving, said to Qiu Zichuan who was sitting in the passenger seat. The child followed him to his grandmother's house, saying that he would let his grandfather send him to school tomorrow, and it was convenient for the two to talk.
"I'm not kidding you!"
"I'm not kidding you! You said that from the university to Tanchi, to the Municipal Construction Committee, and now to the current Fangyu Group, who do you say hates me! ”
"Stinky beauty!" Qu Mengmeng looked ahead and smiled happily!
"But it's you who like me the most! You say yes, right? Qiu Zichuan teased.
"That's it! If someone else likes you the most, you're in trouble! Qu Mengmeng pretended to be hypocritical and turned his face and glanced at Qiu Zichuan!
"Don't worry, I haven't found it yet!" Qiu Zichuan said softly.
"What? You'd love to find out! Qu Mengmeng stretched out his hand and hit Qiu Zichuan.
"Huh! Even if there is, I'm afraid I haven't been born yet, so don't worry about it in this life! ”
"Hey! Let's stop kidding! What I'm saying is true! Qu Mengmeng turned his face and glanced at Qiu Zichuan.
"Remember! Don't talk about this topic in the future, it's also a topic that can't be said! ”
Qiu Zichuan's face tightened slightly, and his tone suddenly became very serious! Pick-up:
"Besides, whoever has a crush on whom, it's all normal, how can you be amorous!"
"I understand!"
Listening to Qiu Zichuan's tone change, Qu Mengmeng was very happy in his heart! Qiu Zichuan is not only a principled person in communication, that is, the two of them discuss things together, what can and cannot be said is also principled, Qiu Zichuan has said some things nonsense, which will invisibly cause trouble, and will pull out some things that are not in the first place.
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"I don't think much of them!"
Back home, sitting on the sofa, Qu Mengmeng continued the topic just now.
"What's the crap! Whether you are optimistic or not is optimistic is someone else's business! ”
"Hey!"
Qu Mengmeng, who was about to lie down on the sofa, was about to put his head on Qiu Zichuan's lap and got up again, stretched out his hand and patted Qiu Zichuan's face twice, and said:
"I don't like to hear you say that, how can it be someone else's business! Qu Bin is my brother! ”
"Good! But can you live in place of Qu Bin? ”
Qiu Zichuan grabbed Qu Mengmeng's hand, smiled and stretched out his other hand to pat Qu Mengmeng's face.
"Yes!" After lying down again, Qu Mengmeng looked at the ceiling and said.
"But I don't think Xu Jing is someone who Qu Bin can control!" Qu Mengmeng is still entangled.
"What are these words? Husband and wife live together, how can you say who controls whom! ”
"Let's not sing high-pitched, okay! It seems to be a big truth when talking about others! ”
"What's wrong? Am I not right? ”
Qiu Zichuan teased himself with words in Qu Mengmeng's words, and then reached out and patted Qu Mengmeng's face, and asked with a smile.
"What do you say yourself? What did you tell me when we were about to get married, I remember you said at that time that if a man can't control his wife, then he is still called a man! ”
"The two of us are different from others!"
"How is it different!"
"What is the relationship between the two of us!"
"What relationship? It's different from other couples! ”
"Of course it's different! You grew up holding hands since I was a child, and I used to hold you when I was a child! ”
"Hmmm! That's right! Qu Mengmeng, whose head rested on Qiu Zichuan's legs, squinted his eyes, as if recalling the situation when he was a child, and his face was sweet.
"At that time, if you fell down or suffered any grievances, as soon as you saw me, you stretched out your two little hands, shouted Brother Chuanchuan, cried and grinned and threw yourself into my arms!"
"Haha! I remember that! Listening to Qiu Zichuan talk about these things in the past, Qu Mengmeng was very happy!
"And in college, as soon as I got angry with that classmate, or was ridiculed by that male classmate, or didn't do well in the exam, I didn't always run to find me, and then without saying a word, just let me follow you, not behind the cafeteria, or behind the library, anyway, it was all stupid, and then let me sit down, and then lay on my lap and began to cry! Ha ha! ”
"Haha! You badass! "Qu Mengmeng is embarrassed!
"But it was also fun at the time! I wanted to cry when I had all those things, but I was afraid that people would see me, because they always said that I looked like a child. It's uncomfortable not to cry, and I don't know what's going on, I want to go to you when I want to cry! Hehe! It's really interesting to think about it, I'll let you follow me, and then see if there is anyone and no one, no one is there, rest assured! Hehe! Lie on your lap again and start crying! Ha ha! ”
"Then I'm miserable! That time, I didn't have a big snot on my trouser legs and knees! Ha ha! ”
"You scoundrel! You badass! ”
As soon as he heard Qiu Zichuan talk about his troubles, Qu Mengmeng began to reach out and scratch Qiu Zichuan even more embarrassed.
"Not to mention, as soon as I returned to the dormitory and looked at my trouser legs, my brothers deliberately opened their eyes wide to hurt me: Brother! How to fight~ Hit your own leg? It can't be that the shells fall as soon as they are discharged, which is also blinding! Hahaha! ”
"You rascal! You rascal! ”
Qu Mengmeng, who had just put down his hand, shouted loudly, and at the same time stretched out his hand to scratch Qiu Zichuan, Qiu Zichuan dodged happily!
I heard Qiu Zichuan tell this story after Meng Meng got married, and I was shy and wanted to laugh at that time! I also think the boys' dormitory is really funny!
"So! You say we're just like everyone else! ”
"Hmmm! It's different! ”
Qu Mengmeng turned over and began to put his face on Qiu Zichuan's lap, his heart full of sweet past.
"So, you've been controlled by me for a long time, no! You were born to be controlled by me. Qiu Zichuan stretched out his hand to Qu Mengmeng's nose for a moment, and continued:
"I don't have you in control! You will feel that life is empty and unhappy! Hehe! ”
"Nonsense! Fallacy! Qu Mengmeng clenched his small fist and pounded it on Qiu Zichuan's leg, but continued:
"But I love to hear that! Hehe! ”
"That's, being controlled by me is a kind of dependence, that's a kind of happiness!"
"Huh! I believe it! What about you? ”
Qu Mengmeng stopped, with a smile on the corner of his mouth, quietly waiting for Qiu Zichuan to answer.
"Huh! It's the same! Harnessing you is my joy! Like caressing~ loving his beloved little sika deer walking on the grass under the blue sky! The white clouds in the sky are long, and the breeze is gentle on the grass! We are free, you give me happiness, I don't let you get lost, how good! ”
"Haha! I love to hear that! ”
"Then I'll tell you for the rest of my life!"
"Huh! Then I'll listen to it for the rest of my life! Qu Mengmeng happily clenched his little fist and gently slapped it twice on Qiu Zichuan's leg. But then he changed his tone and said:
"The more you say that, the less optimistic I am of them both!"
After speaking, Qu Mengmeng seemed to hold back his smile and think about something.
"Why are you still thinking about this!" Qiu Zichuan was noncommittal.
"What do you think of Xu Jing?" Qu Mengmeng turned his face to look at Qiu Zichuan, Qu Mengmeng has always recognized Qiu Zichuan's accuracy in seeing people.
Qiu Zichuan pondered for a moment and said:
"Xu Jing is very professional, very smart, and very serious in her work! Although I have not been in the Municipal Construction Committee for a long time, I have taken her down several times, and I am very impressed by these aspects. She's also very cheerful, but she's not ostentatious, which is good! Qiu Zichuan never likes to talk about other people's shortcomings, even in front of Qu Mengmeng.
"I mean her consciousness, her perception, and her character."
"Huh! How do I know this. I've had any personal contact with her. However, after eating together at your house a few times, I feel that she cares more about some impetuous things in society at the moment. Listening to her speech, she seems to envy those who are successful in the agency or in the shopping mall. But there are too many girls like this now! ”
"Yes, I feel this too, she seems to be very envious of those rich and high-ranking men!"
"How can I say this, it is a good thing for Qu Bin, and it can objectively promote Qu Bin. But at the same time, the wife pays too much attention to these, sometimes the pressure will also make the man rebel, and sometimes it may not be a good thing for the relationship between the husband and wife! ”
That's what I want to say! If her character is no longer good, I am worried that she will hurt Qu Bin in the future! Qu Mengmeng felt that Qiu Zichuan had finally said what he wanted to hear.
"But I think if there is any problem between them, it is mainly on Qu Bin's side." Qiu Zichuan glanced at Qu Mengmeng.
"What's wrong with Qu Bin? Qu Bin is worse than her! Hearing that Qiu Zichuan suddenly pointed the question at his younger brother, Qu Mengmeng was a little unhappy.
"Let's not do this, okay! Pay more attention to improving yourself, ask others less, and do a good job and become stronger! Don't worry about anything else! ”
Qiu Zichuan stretched out his hand again and hung up his nose.
"That's good!" After all, Qu Mengmeng still agrees with Qiu Zichuan's point of view in his heart.
"Qu Bin has two shortcomings, or shortcomings, that need to be solved." Qiu Zichuan was stunned.
"Those two?"
"First, Qu Bin is ambitious, enthusiastic about work, and has a certain ability to work. But Qu Bin likes to complain, complain about the leader, complain about the environment, and even complain about the subordinates, which is not good! Qiu Zichuan glanced down at Qu Mengmeng, as if asking: Did you say it?
"Hmmm! You go on to say. Qu Mengmeng listened very carefully.
"As a leader of a department, you have to believe in your superiors, superiors are directions, superiors are requirements, and superiors still understand. Be loyal to your superiors, maintain your superiors, and dare to take responsibility for your superiors. This loyalty, preservation, and responsibility should be reflected in the sense of responsibility in words and actions. Besides, which superior doesn't want his subordinates to be his own believers, and which superiors like subordinates who complain all day long, then what do I want you to do! There must be an understanding, an understanding with faith as the core, and this is very important between superiors and subordinates. Again, it's a quality. Of course, except for leaders with questionable character, that should keep a good distance. ”
"I know that!" Qu Mengmeng nodded seriously.
"You can't complain about your subordinates, if your subordinates' abilities are higher than you, then what do you want to do! As a leader, even if your subordinates are fools and fools, but even fools and fools have a certain amount of energy and advantages. And because some subordinates are not strong, they have to respect them more, people have self-esteem, you look down on them all day long, complain about them, and after a long time, they don't turn you over! ”
"Then you talk to him about this, he admires you very much!"
"What I just said is just a phenomenon, the root of the problem is that Qu Bin is too arrogant, which is easy to create a gap between goals and abilities, and the bigger this gap, the stricter the attitude of complaining about objectivity."
"What then?" Qu Mengmeng felt that what Qiu Zichuan said made sense.
"This is also a matter of personal cultivation, as I said earlier, I don't pay attention to improving myself, I always like to ask others. People think too big of themselves, and in the end they only equal to zero. I'll talk to him about this later. ”
I still like Qu Bin and Qiu Zichuan very much.
"Good! And what about the second point you just said? ”
Qu Mengmeng is very concerned about his own growth and future.
"Through some of his and Xu Jing's talking and jokes, as well as complaints, I feel that Qu Bin may sometimes say too many big things in front of Xu Jing. Of course, when young people are in love, in order to be eager to get the favor of girls and their own recognition, they always like to say some words of prospect and promise, but this must be moderate, appropriate, and it is best not to tell lies. Once it's been a long time, you can't achieve it yourself, one can do, two can, but there are too many failures, do other girls still look up to you? Even if I marry you, will I still believe you in the future? Why are some men very afraid of their wives, and they are always too undignified in front of their wives, that is, they have talked too much in the past, and they can't fulfill their promises, so they can only hold their tails in front of their wives, and talk about dignity! Don't say what you can't do if you don't know what you can't do. Besides, the two don't need these false big words and promises to really love each other! ”
"Hmmm! I can see that, too! Xu Jing said several times that Qu Bin could only blow, and Qu Bin could only laugh dryly on the side! ”
"Therefore, as we said just now, Xu Jing has some impetuous things, which obviously has a materialistic concept, which requires Qu Bin to be strict with himself from the beginning and not blindly cater to him. Otherwise, Qu Bin will be very passive in his future marriage. But I'll talk to him about what I said earlier, and you talk to him about this! Brother-in-law and brother-in-law are not good at talking about this topic! ”
"Hmmm! Good! Although he was talking about his younger brother, Qu Mengmeng felt that Qiu Zichuan made sense.
"Alright, my little wife, it's time to rest! There's a lot going on tomorrow. After speaking, Qiu Zichuan wanted to get up.
"You're bad! You're bad! Say who's your big wife? Hearing Qiu Zichuan call himself a little wife again, Qu Mengmeng stretched out his hand and scratched Qiu Zichuan again!
"Haha! Worry about poverty like you every day! yourself old, it's my big wife! Qiu Zichuan dodged as he pushed Qu Mengmeng away and stood up from the sofa.
"Then you wash first! I'll wash it after you're done! ”
"Okay!" Spreading his arms, Qiu Zichuan relaxed and walked to the bathroom.
"I'll get you underwear!"
Qu Mengmeng hurriedly got up and went to the bedroom.
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"Can she really be good to Qu Bin?"
Returning to the sofa and lying down, Qu Mengmeng thought about his previous worries, and then thought about Qiu Zichuan's analysis of the two, and couldn't help but worry about his younger brother in his heart.
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