"First of all, the angry youth are dissatisfied with many social things and many social phenomena!"

"What is the reason for this dissatisfaction?"

Wen Qing asked after Qiu Zichuan's words.

"From their personal subjective point of view, that is, to look at any problem and anything, only one side of the problem and the thing, not the two sides of what we usually call things. Therefore, they all only start from their own feelings, and they all only start from their own interests! ”

"And what about the objective reasons?"

Since witnessing Qiu Zichuan's means and methods of dealing with problems in Qiu Zichuan's company, Shui Xiaolin has always been interested in Qiu Zichuan's thoughts and outlook on life!

"From an objective point of view, this generation of college students, this generation of young people, as soon as they enter the society, they will face the pressure of employment, the pressure of getting married and buying a house, and the injustice of society, which is a series of practical problems. And compared to my generation of college students, thankfully, these problems are almost non-existent! ”

"Makes sense!"

"But the problem is that you can't solve the problems of society, that is to say, you can't change the objective world, so you have to think about changing your subjective world. And once a young man becomes an angry youth, it is very dangerous for his own life! So, I'm glad I was in our time, and I'm glad I didn't become an angry youth! ”

"Why is it dangerous, it's normal for young people to have some passion and paranoia!"

Shui Xiaolin looked at Qiu Zichuan and said, Wen Qing on the other side nodded!

As I just mentioned, one of the main characteristics of an angry youth is that they cannot see the two sides of social problems and things, and the sign of whether a person is mature or not is precisely to see whether he looks at problems and things, whether he can look at them dialectically, and whether he can see the two sides of things. The ability has to be put back for a while! ”

"That's a fresh statement!"

"But it makes sense!"

Wen Qing and Shui Xiaolin echoed.

"And the age of twenty years old is the time when a person should mature, if he becomes an angry youth at this time, and he doesn't know how to turn back, then there can only be two endings!"

"Those two?"

Wen Qing began to be impressed by Qiu Zichuan's views.

"One is that he will postpone his maturity period, but when he really understands the truth, I am afraid that the golden period of his career start and struggle has long been missed! The second is that he has insisted on looking at society and looking at problems one-sidedly all his life, so he will achieve nothing in his life, and he will die paranoid that his lack of achievement is caused by society! ”

"Deep!"

Wu Weidong nodded with him!

"It's like you just said, the world is beautiful, but we haven't done enough!"

Hearing this, Wen Qing immediately thought of the topic at the beginning!

"Yes! It's all Qiu's theory, and it's in the same vein! ”

Looking at Wen Qing, Shui Xiaolin smiled, without losing a ridiculous tone!

"You two have something in common!"

At this time, Wu Weidong~ suddenly looked at Shui Xiaolin and said.

"The two of us? The similarities? ”

Looking at Wu Weidong, Shui Xiaolin was puzzled!

"Practical philosophy!"

"Start talking nonsense again!"

Shui Xiaolin immediately keenly felt that Wu Weidong was referring to his marriage, and glared at Wu Weidong as if he was about to have a seizure!

This is also the main reason why some young people start quickly as soon as they enter the society, and some always run into walls everywhere! Moreover, some people are very professional, but they have achieved nothing in their lives, and the reason for this is that they lack too much in understanding society and transforming themselves! ”

Looking at Wen Qing's thoughtful appearance, Qiu Zichuan added.

"It makes sense, I should tell the students about it! lest they enter the society in the future and affect their progress! ”

Wen Qing seems to have discovered a new continent of life philosophy!

"One more question, I wonder what you think?"

Qiu Zichuan's very thoughtful elaboration made Wen Qing want to discuss some campus issues with Qiu Zichuan again.

"You say!"

"What do you think of the current society, there is such a saying, that is, many college students now have diplomas but no education!"

"It's a simple question!"

Qiu Zichuan smiled lightly!

"Simple? How so? ”

Wen Qing stared at Qiu Zichuan.

"When we were in school, we all knew that mathematics had to be a sample problem, and what was the purpose of learning an example problem?"

Qiu Zichuan looked at Wen Qing.

"Draw inferences!"

Wen Qing replied without hesitation!

"Yes!"

"But what does this have to do with having a diploma and not being educated?"

Shui Xiaolin also looked at Qiu Zichuan in confusion.

"When a college student gets a university diploma, it only means that he has systematically learned a certain professional knowledge. As for what is culture, my personal understanding is that culture refers to a person's cognitive ability to understand the nature and laws of objective things. That is to say, even if a college student is proficient in mastering the professional knowledge he has learned, but he cannot apply the ability to analyze and understand problems he has learned in the professional field to the entire objective world, then he can only be said to have a diploma but no education! ”

"It makes sense that everything is inseparable from the combination of subjective kinetic energy and the objective world!"

Wen Qing nodded while thinking

"It's still Qiu's theory!"

Tonight, Shui Xiaolin's heart is more and more surprised and admired by Qiu Zichuan's profound understanding of the problem, especially the super inductive ability, but she still keeps her mouth light! Because Wu Weidong was there, Shui Xiaolin was afraid that she would be caught by Wu Weidong and ridiculed again.

"Then I'll ask you another question, maybe sharper!"

"Why do you have so many questions tonight!"

Wu Weidong looked at Wen Qing as if he was puzzled!

"It's better than drinking and smoking!"

likes to be with Wu Weidong against the dry water Xiaolin, looking at Wu Weidong yelling at Wen Qing impatiently, naturally he wants to stand on Wen Qing's side. What's more, Shui Xiaolin also wants to hear Qiu Zichuan talk about herself.

But in fact, Wu Weidong knew in his heart that Wen Qing was afraid that tonight's topic would accidentally return to the death of Shui Xiaolin's mother, which would always make Shui Xiaolin sad! Moreover, on the way here, Wu Weidong, who drove to pick up Wen Qing, also told Wen Qing that he would try to talk about some other topics at the wine table tonight.

"You say!"

Qiu Zichuan looked at Wen Qing calmly.

"Not to mention Xiao Lin and Wei Dong, they were all cadre families at that time, even if compared to me, the family environment and society you grew up in were worse, haven't you ever rebelled against society? And, in those days, there were many things that were unfair to families like yours! ”

Shui Xiaolin's heart sighed! She thinks the question is a bit too acute! She even felt that at this time, she didn't know whether to go to see Qiu Zichuan or Wen Qing!

Wu Weidong also glanced at Wen Qing, and he also felt that this question was a little unpleasant!

"How so?"

Qiu Zichuan's expression was not unusual, he tilted his head slightly, and then said:

"At that time, it was a lie to say that there was no rebellion at all! Especially when I was in elementary school, I saw that others could become red soldiers, and when I thought about it, they were all children, standing there in line in a class, everyone was wearing a red scarf, but my chest was empty, what was it like to feel in my heart! ”

After speaking, Qiu Zichuan raised his head, but then continued:

"Later, my sister went to school like this, and my sister secretly cried and asked me, but what did I say! Although sometimes I pretend to be inappropriate in front of my sister and pretend to be casual to comfort my sister, I have secretly shed tears in a place where no one is around! And when I was in junior high school, others could join the group, but I still couldn't join! ”

"Feeling aggrieved at the time?"

Wen Qing seemed to be a little infected by Qiu Zichuan's emotions, and her eyes began to be a little red!

"Yes! Very aggrieved! ”

Shui Xiaolin gently picked up a piece of paper and handed it to Qiu Zichuan, she saw that Qiu Zichuan's eyes were a little moist!

"Then how did you resolve these grievances, and then how did you eliminate these rebellions?"

Wen Qing, who likes to think about problems, became more and more interested in Qiu Zichuan's personal world at this time!

"Thanks to my mom!"

took the paper handed over by Shui Xiaolin, Qiu Zichuan gently held it in his hand, and continued:

"After all, my mother has read, how many years later, whenever I think of these, I feel that my mother's greatest strength, but also the most profound teaching that I have benefited, is that she has never let me and my sister to hate the society, to resist the society, she can always tell us from the perspective of history, the big vision, everything is only temporary, even if this temporary is ten years, even a hundred years still exists, it is also temporary! In other words, even if this temporary period is longer than our whole life, and there is no end in sight in our lifetime, it is only temporary! In fact, her purpose is very simple, I am afraid that we will not have a positive attitude towards life and give up on ourselves! ”

"Great! Your mom is great! ”

Wen Qing couldn't help but sigh from the bottom of his heart!

"This is the cultural lowness of a family, which is very important for a person's growth!"

And at this time, Shui Xiaolin was silent! At this time, she was shocked by Qiu Zichuan's last words!

Yes, during Qiu Zichuan's period, although he couldn't say that he was with Qiu Zichuan as a whole, at least, in the nearly half a year of his first love, he should be the closest person to Qiu Zichuan! But at that time, he knew that Qiu Zichuan was indifferent on the outside and stubborn on the inside, but he had never paid deep attention to Qiu Zichuan's inner world at that time; I only knew that Qiu Zichuan's mother was very strict with Qiu Zichuan's family education, but I never thought about the grievances and rebellions in his heart in Qiu Zichuan's growth experience!

At this time, Shui Xiaolin even vaguely began to feel that the reason why she failed to withstand the pressure of her mother at that time, and finally broke up with Qiu Zichuan out of desperation, was that she failed to really enter Qiu Zichuan's inner world at that time. If I knew at that time that Qiu Zichuan had been wronged, and there were countless tears buried deep in my heart, I would never break up with Qiu Zichuan at that time, but would definitely stand with Qiu Zichuan, accompany him through all the hardships and hardships of life, and share all the twists and turns of life! And never let the true love of this life be missed!

At this time, when I thought of my mother's toughness and my final submission at that time, especially the death of my mother not long ago, especially my mother's expectation of seeing Qiu Zichuan with lifelong regret before she died! Shui Xiaolin couldn't help but have a sour nose, and suddenly felt tears quickly surging up her eyelids, but she couldn't control it for a while, and the tears flowed down in an instant!

"What's wrong?"

At this time, Wu Weidong, who was sitting opposite, was the first to notice that Shui Xiaolin's face was full of tears!

"Nothing!"

Being asked by Wu Weidong, Shui Xiaolin was a little embarrassed, and her face turned to the side.

"Wipe it off!"

Hearing what Wu Weidong said, Qiu Zichuan saw that Shui Xiaolin's face was full of tears at a glance, and he was stunned! Casually, he handed Shui Xiaolin the paper to himself just now, and handed it to Shui Xiaolin.

"Xiao Lin is a person who values love and righteousness!"

Seeing this scene, Wen Qing didn't know what to say for a while! But I thought to myself, maybe Qiu Zichuan's words suddenly awakened some entanglement in Shui Xiaolin's heart!

"Don't cry!"

Looking at Shui Xiaolin, who turned her face backwards, her shoulders were still twitching after taking the paper, Qiu Zichuan stretched out his hand again and gently patted Shui Xiaolin's shoulder.

"No! Let Zichuan hug you! ”

Seeing that Shui Xiaolin was still crying, Wu Weidong, who was sitting across the table, stretched his neck and said teasingly to Shui Xiaolin.

"Badass!"

Shui Xiaolin turned around, casually threw the paper that had just been wiped from her tears and threw it at Wu Weidong, who was still looking at her with her neck stretched!

"It's fine!"

Then, Shui Xiaolin smiled at Wen Qing, who was still looking at her with concern!

"Why do you still look like a child!"

Seeing that Shui Xiaolin finally returned to normal, Qiu Zichuan smiled lightly.

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