Chapter 167: Living in Character
Thinking that he pressed Qiu Zichuan's wine glass just now, it was to let Qiu Zichuan say a few words, but he didn't expect that this topic had not yet been opened, Wen Qing asked Qu Mengmeng, and then ripped it away, seeing that Wu Weidong was silent, Shui Xiaolin hurriedly shouted to Wen Qing. @,
"But I found that every time we get together, Zichuan and Weidong, one of them doesn't open their mouths, rarely speaks and rarely eats; One is that the mouth is non-stop, talking and eating! But the two of them are still best friends, which is really interesting! ”
"This is called complementing each other's advantages and disadvantages, and if you meet a pair of ducks, you can still be good friends!"
Wu Weidong lit a cigarette and took a puff.
"And you're a duck?"
"You're a duck!"
Thinking about letting Qiu Zichuan speak, Shui Xiaolin accidentally Wu Weidong again!
"Ignore you!"
Glancing at Wu Weidong, Shui Xiaolin then looked at Qiu Zichuan and said:
"Thirty-six-year-old life testimonials are gone?"
"Let me summarize!"
But without waiting for Qiu Zichuan to speak, as if he wanted to speak solemnly, Wu Weidong said with a straight chest
"That's right! Let him speak! ”
Seeing Shui Xiaolin's face turning, as if he was going to ridicule Wu Weidong, Qiu Zichuan smiled! interjected.
"Xiao Lin is an inflection point, Wen Qing is calm and persistent, Zichuan is down-to-earth and awe-inspiring, in fact, many things in it are the same!"
"The same?"
Wen Qing looked at Wu Weidong when he heard this.
Seeing that Wu Weidong was speaking in a serious tone this time, Shui Xiaolin stopped making a sound, followed Wen Qing's question, and also looked at Wu Weidong together.
At this time, Wu Weidong was already like an associate professor and scholar, and continued:
"Xiao Lin's inflection point, although there are many so-called women's discoveries, awakenings, discards, and choices, but this is just a process of thinking and understanding before you and many women of this age. For the time being, I don't care what kind of situation will be the abduction of other women, and what kind of results will be obtained. But if you are at this inflection point, I think it is more of a kind of awe! ”
"I'm in awe?"
Shui Xiaolin pointed to her chest with her hand and asked Wu Weidong.
"Yes!"
Wu Weidong took another puff of cigarette and continued:
"Are you in awe of everything you have now, and are you not afraid of losing? You are in awe of what you need to cherish now! If there's a turning point in your mind or life right now, it's that you're starting to discover now that there are things in your life that you can cherish! Subconsciously you are in awe of them! Especially after the death of your aunt, you cherish family affection, you are in awe of family affection, and you don't want to lose them, this is your turning point! ”
After speaking, Wu Weidong turned his face and stared at Shui Xiaolin without squinting.
At the same time, Qiu Zichuan secretly applauded Wu Weidong in his heart!
If it is said that Wu Weidong and Qiu Zichuan have seen the changes in Shui Xiaolin for a period of time and are pleased with this change, then at this time, in Qiu Zichuan's eyes, Wu Weidong's words are undoubtedly summarizing and leading Shui Xiaolin's changes to continue to persevere.
"You may have a point!"
Shui Xiaolin nodded as if thinking!
"Now talk about Zichuan!"
Seeing that Shui Xiaolin seemed to accept his own analysis, Wu Weidong turned his head and said in a changed tone
Zichuan said that whether it is family and school education, the appreciation and cultivation of leaders, and opportunities, these are not for the time being. What he feels the most is that he is glad that he has been down-to-earth in this process! He can be said to have lived in adversity since he was a child, in that era when everything was about politics, and at that time, a family like his could be said to be never ahead, at least at that time, but he never rebelled against this society; And when he just stepped into the society, he caught up with a good opportunity, reform and opening up, family background is not mentioned, and his start can be said to be very smooth, and then he is even more prosperous, but he did not go to narcissism, let alone arrogance! I didn't care about the past era and was always indignant in my heart! Why? ”
Wu Weidong glanced at the whole table and continued:
"As he himself said, he was in awe, he was in awe of all the valuable traditions of this society, he was in awe of all the new and meaningful things that appeared in this society! And this kind of awe is closely linked with their own ambitions and responsibilities, which makes this awe always reflected in their own behavior, which is to be firm and steadfast! In other words, if steadfastness is a person's character and a person's temperament, then I would like to say that sometimes steadfastness is the result of awe, because once a person has a kind of awe in his heart, this awe will make him always think about being steadfast, and every step must be steadfast! Therefore, today he chooses to be down-to-earth, he chooses awe as today's emotion, and it is also for the continuation of the future! ”
"Good brother!"
Qiu Zichuan didn't look at Wu Weidong, but nodded very seriously!
"As long as this guy doesn't talk nonsense, wouldn't it be good to get down to business!"
Wen Qing, who had been listening quietly by Wu Weidong's side, looked at Wu Weidong affectionately and teased at this time!
"People who study medicine are logical!"
Shui Xiaolin also nodded approvingly.
"Now talk about you!"
Speaking of Wu Weidong, it seems that he doesn't want to pay attention to Wen Qing's jokes at all, or Shui Xiaolin's praise!
"Wen Qing's calmness and persistence, to put it bluntly, is also awe, what is she in awe?"
Wu Weidong turned his face to look at Wen Qing, then turned around and continued:
"She's in awe! Her so-called calm, her so-called persistence, is not how noble the love she has ever had, how earth-shattering and crying ghosts and gods! It's not a legend that is beautiful through the ages! Moreover, it is far from what she herself once promised! In fact, she herself felt in her heart that she couldn't do anything to be sorry for people, it's as simple as that! That's what she's struggling with! even did not hesitate to sacrifice the so-called happiness in the eyes of others in the second half of her life to insist on the intention that she believed should not be violated in this kind of affection. You could also say that she made herself a martyr! But as long as she thinks it's worth it and she is willing, it's not a kind of happiness! And this is firm in her heart, and she is calm! And in my eyes, this is a kind of character, a kind of character from traditional culture! ”
"Is he right?"
Shui Xiaolin quietly looked at Wen Qing and asked.
"I'm not as good as he says!"
Wen Qing also replied calmly, but at the same time, Shui Xiaolin found that Wen Qing, who was still joking with Wu Weidong just now, was already a little moist in his eyes at this time!
Although this is contrary to many modern people's concepts, it is even more bizarre! But in the realm of morality, as long as you think it is right and valuable, persistence itself is a kind of beauty! ”
The wetness in Wen Qing's eyes seemed to give Wu Weidong greater encouragement to praise Wen Qing!
"You are the same as Wen Qing, just a word difference!"
Retracting her gaze from Wen Qing, Shui Xiaolin looked at Wu Weidong and said word by word.
"What's the same?"
Wu Weidong, who had summarized it like a generous statement, saw that Shui Xiaolin suddenly said that he didn't know how to react for a while!
"Wen Qing is in awe of affection, your awe-inspiring morality, so you will never abandon Lan Lan!"
Looking at Wu Weidong, Shui Xiaolin still said every word!
"Don't!"
As soon as he heard Shui Xiaolin praise himself like this, Wu Weidong lowered his head at this time, but he suddenly became a little shy! But then he raised his head, swept the whole table, and said not without self-deprecation:
"It's good not to praise me, praise me, tonight we will not become a princess selling melons and boasting about herself!"
"Huh!"
"Haha!"
The three ladies at the table all laughed in unison!
"Come!"
Seeing that Wu Weidong was about to start joking again, he felt that tonight was about the same, as soon as Wu Weidong's voice fell, Qiu Zichuan picked up the wine glass in front of him and continued:
"Thank you, Xiaolin! Thank you Weidong and Wenqing! ”
After speaking, Qiu Zichuan looked back at Qu Mengmeng again.
Qu Mengmeng, who had laughed and thought about Wu Weidong's words just now, looked at Qiu Zichuan as he looked at himself, and hurriedly picked up the wine glass in front of him.
"You're welcome!"
"Come!"
"Come!"
Shui Xiaolin, Wu Weidong, and Wen Qing all picked up their wine glasses!
"Happy tonight! Everyone is saying what is in their hearts! ”
Qiu Zichuan looked at everyone with sincerity in his eyes, and continued:
"Come on! For Xiaolin's cherishment, for Wenqing's calmness, for Weidong's morality, and the awe we all know, for our future friendship, cheers! ”
"Cheers!"
"Cheers!"
Then all five of them stood up and raised their glasses high!
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"What do you think?"
On the way back to the waterfront, seeing Qu Mengmeng get into the car and say a few words without saying anything, Qiu Zichuan turned his face and asked.
"Didn't think about anything!"
"I just think that Sister Wen Qing seems to be very quiet and weak, but she is a very firm person!"
Qu Mengmeng followed and said.
"It's a realm for people to be able to do this!"
"You classmates are really good!"
"That's it!"
"Huh!"
Hearing that Qiu Zichuan was very proud, Qu Mengmeng, who wanted to joke with Qiu Zichuan again, thought that there was a driver in the car, so he looked up at Qiu Zichuan and smiled innocently!
"I'm a little tired, sleep for a while, call me when you get home!"
Saying that, Qiu Zichuan picked up his arms and leaned back, and was fascinated by his eyes!
"Okay!"
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When he first received a call from Shui Xiaolin, Qu Mengmeng was stunned, and Shui Xiaolin said on the phone that he was going to hold a birthday banquet for Qiu Zichuan, and Qu Mengmeng felt a little awkward in his heart!
Because over the years, whether it is his birthday or Qiu Zichuan's birthday, the two of them are alone together, or go to a hotel, or go to a foreign resort to have a double flight, and it has always been a separate festival for the two of them. Even though Qiu Zichuan has been particularly busy in the past two years, the two of them have never delayed celebrating each other's birthdays in private.
But I heard Shui Xiaolin on the phone saying that she wanted to thank Qiu Zichuan for the birthday dinner she held last year, and said that she had called Qiu Zichuan, and Qiu Zichuan asked her to tell herself. Hearing what Shui Xiaolin said was reasonable, and he also cared about his own opinions, in an instant, Qu Mengmeng's heart was also happy, and he felt that his classmates were very happy together, so he happily agreed to Shui Xiaolin!
And tonight, listening to everyone talking about their thoughts and feelings at the table at the age of thirty-six, Qu Mengmeng felt quite intimate and interesting.
Especially Wen Qing, Qu Mengmeng has always liked to think about what kind of woman this should be after hearing Wen Qing's attitude towards life at the beginning. Although I met a few times later, I also heard Qiu Zichuan say that Wen Qing was determined to be celibate, but in Qu Mengmeng's heart, Wen Qing still looked like a mysterious woman!
And today, when I heard Wen Qing's faint words about his life, I couldn't help but feel that the woman sitting opposite me had a fragrant float, as well as that seemingly weak appearance, but in the calm, it made people feel that there was an unshakable power, and I felt that Wen Qing in front of me was really a different kind of woman.
Usually, I accidentally thought that Qiu Zichuan had said that Wu Weidong had always had a crush on Wen Qing, and then thought about the current situation of the two, and I also thought that the two of them could not be together! But immediately after, Lan Lan's face would appear in his mind, and he felt that he was too ridiculous for a while, and even thought that if he had this idea, how would he go to see Lan Lan again in the future.
There was another time, talking to Qiu Zichuan at home at night, and when chatting with Wu Weidong, he inadvertently said this idea again, Qiu Zichuan immediately looked at his face and said "ridiculous"! But then there was a light sigh!
At this time, looking at Qiu Zichuan beside him, he was already snoring lightly, and then thinking about Wen Qing, Hu Li's conversation in his office that day couldn't help but ring in his ears again.
Oh, yes! Why is there such a big gap!
Thinking of Wen Qing's persistence, thinking of Hu Li's wantonness, and thinking of Lan Lan once telling herself that she really wanted Wu Weidong to let go of her ......!
At this time, Qu Mengmeng felt that this world, this life was really a lot!
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