Chapter 234: A Good Woman Is a School
There are two tables in the dining room, separated by a screen, Mrs. Zhao and Lin Yu Xingzi Ling'er sit at the inner table, Lord Zhao and Yan Gu Qi'er sit at the outside table, and the maid next to them helps to set the tablecloth dishes, but there are no other family members, Lin Yu does not dare to arbitrarily believe that Lord Zhao has no concubines and children, just thought that Lord Zhao ordered not to come out, but who knew that Mrs. Zhao saw the doubts in her heart, and came over with a mysterious chuckle: "I wonder why there are only two of us in this house?" ”
Lin Yu was a little embarrassed in an instant, and only smiled and said, "It's nothing, Madame is too careful."
Mrs. Zhao was sitting on the top, and Lin Yu was on her side, so she whispered sweetly and said: "Don't be shy, your three sisters are not young now, and it is not a bad thing to know this, when my mother was in the past, she also told me about the way of getting along with husband and wife, the art of husband, so adults will treat me as old now, wholeheartedly."
Although Lin Yu is the eldest in her heart, she really doesn't understand this, she thinks that if she really has a higher emotional intelligence like Mrs. Zhao, she will not be able to fall to the point where she even laughs at herself, so she also has the heart to listen, let Apricot Ling'er learn a little, and she can learn some ways to behave in the world, after all, people get along with others, although they are not as close as husband and wife, but some truths are figured out.
Seeing that the three of Lin Yu were excited, but they looked at themselves shyly with their children, Mrs. Zhao got up with a smile and looked out of the screen, and saw that Lord Zhao was holding Yan Gu Qi'er, and the three of them were talking and laughing, drinking and having fun, so they sat back with confidence. first smiled and beckoned the three of them to eat vegetables, and then learned from Lord Zhao and a few people to touch a glass of rice wine, and then said slowly: "As the saying goes, women are water." Men are mud, and if you want to build a house out of mud and water, you need to mix evenly, although it can be more or less than half a point, but it can't go beyond that degree, so you can build a house to be strong and strong! And the same is true of the way men and women get along. The water of a woman is to reconcile a man, and if you want him to stay away from you, you just need to control him too much. Nagging, unkempt, domineering, then he will definitely grow tired of you. And then he doesn't find you attractive anymore, and if you want to, he puts all his body and mind on you alone. Then you have to advance and retreat with him, and when he is down, he needs to encourage him and explain him, but he can't blame him, let him lose his fighting spirit, and when he has his ambition, he can't praise him and make him lose his normal heart, this degree. It's a little hard to grasp, and it's too much. It's also a careless way to keep him away from you, so in the days with him, we need to understand his joy hobbies, and slowly let yourself like it, so that when he is depressed, he can be unraveled to his heart, and when he is happy, he can be happy with him, he regards you as a confidant, and naturally he is willing to talk to you about something, and inadvertently takes you more and more, and at this time you are more intimate, often do things that move him, and take care of himself and his home clean and tidy, he returns home and feels down-to-earth, Without so many worries, you will no longer be able to be inseparable from you, and it is impossible to feel that other women are more understanding, gentle and virtuous than you."
Mrs. Zhao didn't have a shelf at all to give the three of Lin Yu vegetables, although she was talking, she kept beckoning them to eat vegetables, not like other noble ladies, she looked high and unrestrained, but such a person made Lin Yu Xingzi and Ling'er feel very warm, just like the mother who had become the wife of the county. When Lin Yu saw her talking, there was no resentment in her eyebrows and eyes, and she kept smiling, and she couldn't help but suddenly compare her with Mrs. Zhixian, and found that the two were really similar, but Mrs. Zhixian was more gentle, while Mrs. Zhao was much more cheerful, but the two had the same thing in common, their other half had no concubines, and they didn't dislike them when they were old
She suddenly remembered a sentence she had heard in her previous life: "It is said that a good woman is a school, and a man is good or bad, and it is taught by women" When she heard it, she felt a little sneering, but now, seeing two women who are happily married, Lin Yu was extremely shocked in her heart, and couldn't help but guess in her heart, could it be that she had done something wrong before, so she would let that person get farther and farther away from herself?
She shook her head violently, trying to shake this idea out of her head, even if a woman is a school, then there must be good students? When he encounters a bad student, even if he tries his best to teach him, not only will he not appreciate it, but he will have to frame the school, so it's not that she is at fault, but that she didn't look for the student!
She was distracted, and after shaking her head, she suddenly reacted to the position she was in now, and instantly looked at Mrs. Zhao with some blankness, and Mrs. Zhao asked anxiously and with concern, "What's wrong?" Is it uncomfortable? ”
Apricot and Ling'er also looked at Lin Yu at a loss, Lin Yu glanced at the two of them, and really couldn't find a reason, so they had to follow Mrs. Zhao's words and smiled shyly: "Maybe I was a little anxious when I just came out, I froze a little, and now my head does hurt a little."
"Does it hurt badly? Why don't I have someone call the doctor? Listening to Lin Yu's words, Mrs. Zhao's worried eyebrows furrowed.
"Madame don't have to worry, it's not very painful, if you want to come for a while, you'll be fine, don't bother to ask for a doctor" I'm afraid that Mrs. Zhao is really too worried and someone went to ask for a doctor, Lin Yu hurriedly smiled.
"Doesn't it really hurt? But don't pay attention to those false courtesies, adults and I are not people who pay too much attention to etiquette, so I don't need to think that it is not good to be a guest here to find a doctor! Mrs. Zhao thought that Lin Yu thought that it was not good to find a doctor, and she didn't have to let the house get bad luck, so she was concerned again, and she was afraid that Lin Yu would think like this.
"It's really not strict, madam, Lin Yu also doesn't like to talk too much about etiquette, if you finish this noon, your head is still hurting, you will definitely talk to Mrs. to listen, even if Mrs. doesn't ask me for a doctor, Lin Yu will not follow" Knowing that Mrs. Zhao was very hearty, he laughed teasingly.
"You girl, this moment of work is making fun of me, you should fight! But it's really good if you don't have strict words, so as not to eat those bitter medicines" Listening to Lin Yu's words, Mrs. Zhao was relieved, and couldn't help but smile and say angrily.
"Madame can forgive the sin, the folk girl will not dare" Lin Yu deliberately collapsed his mouth, said pitifully, and led Mrs. Zhao to smile and pat her lightly. (To be continued......)