Chapter 337: Eight Characters
Yanran's Nangong family knows about it, but in fact, for the marriage of his children, Master Nangong is not such a conservative person.
Moreover, the Nangong family has family rules for the marriage of their children, one of which is "not for profit".
Never do some business and political marriages because of the interests of the group, the Nangong family believes that such a marriage is as unreliable as a sand castle, if the family members have to take care of the interests of each other, if even the people next to the pillow have to be on guard and calculate from time to time, and cannot establish real trust, how can they join hands in this life and spend all kinds of difficulties in a long life together?
Therefore, the Nangong family has always despised the marriage of their children the most, thinking that although such a means can solve temporary worries, it will also make people fall into a more terrifying abyss.
Therefore, compared with other famous families, many daughters-in-law of the Nangong family are from ordinary families, and even the lady who is currently in charge of Nangong's family room is said to be just an ordinary family whose parents teach.
But it is not entirely correct to say that the Nangong family does not care about the woman's life experience at all, because this second article is "chasing fate"
As a century-old family, the Nangong family adheres to etiquette and religion, and has also inherited some rules for hundreds of years.
One of the most traditional is to and both sides of the eight characters, generally the two sides of the eight characters will be handed over by the clansmen of each vein to the long house, for divination, and together with the woman's parents' birth date and the woman's family status, emotional experience, academic performance, and the detailed life experience of their relatives, etc., and the matter is sent by the long house to investigate. The content is hidden and never made public.
In fact, if it weren't for the orthodox branch of the Nangong family, the Changfang side wouldn't have time to take care of so many things, and it wouldn't be examined one by one, but the vein of the old man Nangong can also be regarded as an orthodox lineage, and only the son of Nangong Xuanmu has reached the marriageable age, and the old lady of Nangong loves him so much, his marriage will definitely be calculated by a special person.
It's just that this custom of divination has been passed down to this day, but it is not very strict, even if the result of divination is not good, it will not be made public, and it has never opposed anyone's marriage because of this.
However, Yanran's situation is still a little special. Yanran's eight characters are basically in a state that cannot be reported. She was abandoned since she was a child, and she didn't even know who her biological parents were, so how could she know her birth date!
Even if Xuan Mu intends to create an eight-character report that is very compatible with him, I am afraid that it will not be long before it is found out that there is something strange in it. Instead, it will be self-defeating.
Although the Nangong family doesn't care whether the background is noble or not. It's just that I've never married a daughter-in-law from a family like Yanran.
Parents are ominous. Abandoned since childhood, he grew up in a small county town, and his adoptive mother remarried. The adoptive father not only committed a crime and went to prison, but also a drug addict gambler, who grew up in such an environment, but I am afraid that it has already imperceptibly affected her personality and outlook on life.
The most fearful thing is to grow up in an environment without love, and if you don't know how to love, you will have to spend more energy than others in your later life to know how to love others.
Obviously, Yanran is indeed flawed in this regard, but whether it is the painful experience over the years or the perception of life, it has indeed changed her a lot, which is the truth that she spent more effort and pain than others to understand and cherish.
But no matter how kind and lovely she is, just such a background, not to mention the Nangong family, even ordinary people are afraid that it is difficult to accept.
This is also what Xuan Mu is worried about, especially after he told his grandfather about Yanran, his grandfather, who has always been extremely fond and tolerant of him, openly objected, which was really unexpected to him.
Although he has been busy outside all these years, he has only come home a handful of times, and his relationship with his grandfather is no longer as intimate as when he was a child, but he has the impression that grandpa has always been a reasonable person, and he thinks that if he tells his grandfather the story between them, so that grandpa can understand Yanran's way of life, he will definitely like Yanran very much.
It's just that he never thought that his grandfather would react so violently before he met Yanran, and even said that his marriage was definitely not something he could decide alone.
Master Nangong is indeed not a cold-blooded person, and he will never judge the noble and lowly by his background, no one in the industry knows that he is committed to charity, and he is as wise as a torch to identify talents, and many middle and high-level people who are committed to Nangong Group have been funded by Nangong Master.
And one of the most famous is Lu Qishan, the head of the Lu Group (Lu Yunhai's father), I think he was just an ordinary migrant worker working on the construction site of the Nangong Group, and he owed usury because his mother was sick in bed all the year round, and was later rescued by the Nangong master, starting from the driver, all the way to the Nangong group executives, and even supported him to create his own brand, so that there is today's Lu Group, and Lu Qishan Nangong is not only a Bole who discovers his talents, but also his mentor and savior.
This is also the reason why the relationship between the Lu family and the Nangong family is so close, Lu Qishan once said that everything he has is given by the Nangong family, and the great kindness of the Nangong master is unforgettable, if he has the opportunity, he will definitely repay him, even if he is asked to deliver everything he has, he will not give up.
It's just that an old man like Master Nangong, who has been up and down in the business world for many years and has seen the vicissitudes of people, how can he be so old-fashioned and stubborn in Xuanmu's marriage?
If Xuanmu was an ordinary child, he wouldn't have to worry so much about it.
It's just that this child was ordered by his cousin Jingchen to be the fate of "Tiansha Lone Star" when he was young, and he has been worried about his good grandson almost all the time over the years, for fear that something will go wrong with him.
Cousin Jingchen has even retreated many times to study specifically for his strange fate, but he has not yet found a way to crack it.
Over the years, Xuanmu has experienced too many disasters and small disasters, the so-called cause must have effect, mortals are afraid of fruit, and Bodhisattvas are afraid of causes.
For this Gu Yanran, Master Nangong has long heard that the accident in high school made Xuanmu sick for all these years, and he has experienced so many hardships and pains, the most direct cause of this evil fruit is that girl, and Master Nangong's impression of Yanran is naturally not good.
And this is only one of the reasons, and another important reason is that about last year, he read the newspaper and accidentally saw a news that the protagonist turned out to be a photo of his own good grandson and Lin Shushu, the granddaughter of the Lin family, hugging each other.
Looking at it this way, Master Nangong found that these two people were really a very suitable couple, and after thinking about it, Xuanmu had also reached the marriageable age, so he secretly asked people to inquire about the birthday of the girl of the Lin family and sent it to his cousin...... (To be continued.) )