Chapter 284: Above Friendship, Love Is Not Enough!
Although HAHA had heard that Lee Jun-hee and Shen Eun really had a good relationship, he never expected that these two people would be so good, hooking shoulders and laughing, and teasing each other from time to time, without taking each other's gender seriously at all.
HAHA LOOKED AT IT, AND COULDN'T HELP BUT FEEL A LITTLE ENVIOUS, A MAN, IF HE CAN HAVE SUCH A CONFIDANT, HIS LIFE WILL BE COMPLETE.
"Brother HAHA! What about your opinion? Don't keep talking, this is the stage of cooperation between the three of us, you are also a participant, not a bystander, and you can also express your opinion! ”
After a long while, Lee Jun-hee remembered that another collaborator, HAHA, was still here, and asked with a smile.
It's okay that Li Junxi doesn't speak, but when he asks like this, HAHA is a little embarrassed, originally, the atmosphere of the two relatives is so good, but he has to act as a super big light bulb, and whoever it is, it will be embarrassing.
"It's okay! I have no opinion, how to say, in this regard, Jun-hee, you are the expert! ”
HAHA laughed at himself, although he made his debut as a singer, his career as a singer was not smooth, from preparing for his debut to his debut, he had been preparing for three years, and finally released a new album, but it happened to hit GOD and Mythology Fire, and the group he was in didn't even splash a little water, and disappeared without a trace.
Over the years, if he hadn't accumulated good contacts and switched to the variety show circle, maybe he would have completely disappeared from the entertainment industry.
HAHA said this, Lee Jun-hee couldn't ask for anything more, so he could only continue to discuss with Shen Eun-jin, they could indeed do the same-minded, although Lee Jun-hee is a recognized gold medal composer in the Korean music industry, and Shen Eun-jin has never tried to create alone, but after all, he is a person in the circle, and Shen Eun-jin really has some ideas. It also gave Li Junxi a lot of inspiration, and after listening to Shen Enzhen's construction, Li Junxi is often surprised to find that he originally thought so.
"Eun Zhen! Looks like you've really gotten into my head! ”
Shen Enzhen smiled and said teasingly: "What do you mean to get into your brain!" Then I ask you, when will I be able to get into your heart! ”
Lee Jun-hee leaned back, opened his arms, and said with a smile, "Welcome at any time!" ”
After saying that, the two of them laughed, and then continued to discuss the song, and HAHA on the side watched. I wish I could disappear immediately.
Feed! Don't you know that there are others here? Don't you know that filming is still going on? Don't talk so ambiguously, okay!? Take care of my mood a little too, I'm really embarrassed like this!
HAHA regretted it, he really regretted it, he regretted why he sang seriously in the first place, if he was like Yoo Jae-seok and them, just fool around, how funny and how to come, maybe he wouldn't have been selected by Lee Jun-hee as a partner, and now it's good. Not only did he not interject at all, but he also had to endure the endless ambiguous behavior of the two guys in front of him.
Speaking of which, though. Aren't you two really a couple?
Regarding this issue, Li Junxi and Shen Enzhen really thought about it seriously, and almost all of their friends thought that the two of them were a match made in heaven.
Sometimes. The two of them will also assume that the other party is their other half, but if they really think about it, they will feel very awkward.
Lee Jun-hee can be tempted by Kim Tae-hee. That's because the friendship between the two people hasn't reached that point yet!
But for Shen Eunzhen, Li Junxi really can't do anything!
It's so familiar, there's really no way to start!
Even sometimes, when the atmosphere arrives, two people will hug and kiss, but when it comes to the last step, the two people will definitely step on the brakes in unison, and then tacitly forget that qiē and continue to be friends.
This may be the so-called friendship above, the love is not full!
Some people may think that there is no real friendship between men and women, and when it reaches a certain point, it will always deteriorate, but Lee Jun-hee and Shen Eun-jin told everyone with practical actions that in fact, the friendship between the opposite sex really exists.
It is a very noble emotion, it is beyond love, but it is not sexual. It is heartwarming, but not emotional, warm, but not passionate, pure and sweet, plain and long.
There is a metaphor that is most apt: stand not far away and not close, and admire each other.
This kind of affection lies in the understanding of each other's hearts, and it is an innocent emotion between love and friendship.
This kind of feeling itself is not a lover, not a lover, but beyond the average friend, this feeling is the blending of pure spirit, is the intersection of beautiful hearts, two people are close to each other, but the body is far away, this is a spiritual level of "Plato", only rational people can make it, only rational people can get.
When two people are together, they have a tacit understanding of the spirit and the unity of the soul, they can talk about love, marriage, ideals, and the future, and they can talk about all the problems of life without taking care of it.
It feels like a lover, but there is no greasy taste in the world, it feels like a brother and sister, but it does not have the solemnity between brothers and sisters, casual but solemn, intimate and rational, knowing each other and selfless, that feeling is very wonderful, that taste is very sweet, evocative, and indescribable.
Of course, the attraction of the opposite sex is not denied, and occasionally there will be a moment of uncontrollable affection, quietly revealing a little admiration, which is indeed inevitable.
He felt it, she felt it, it was a slight feeling at the moment of shaking hands, it was the faint urge of an intimate embrace, but when they looked up at the clear blue sky and looked into each other's selfless eyes, they would know: there are things that last longer than love, are more worth pursuing, and know how to preserve.
This kind of feeling will also have pain and helplessness, but also happiness, happiness, and indescribable infinite enjoyment, because after all, this kind of relationship exists between the opposite sex, not love, but it is close to love, and it can surpass love.
Opposites attract, it is an eternal truth, and the relationship between men and women is very variable, the most difficult to grasp, what is relied on is the reserve and respect between each other, and the last line of defense is to be firmly guarded.
Because of this feeling. There will be people who are most affectionate and sexual, only people who are wise and wise, and people who are smart and icy will be, because they understand that love is extravagant, as beautiful and fragile as a glass bottle, and to have this feeling, you must stay away from sex. Love, and therefore tacitly, knows, a thin layer of paper. This relationship has infinite charm and tenacious vitality.
There is distance to be beautiful, there is distance to appreciate, there is distance to be forever.
Only rational men, only intelligent women, are worthy of this affection, can maintain this emotion, red men and green women, vulgar men and women do not and do not deserve to have this kind of affection.
This kind of true, pure, and good, which is difficult to find in the world, needs to be deliberately alienated, and must be carefully cared for outside the private feelings of the opposite sex. It's a wonderful feeling, natural and chic, long and far-reaching.
There is an emotion that you may never encounter once in a lifetime. It is a blessing to meet, this kind of emotion is to meet but not to seek, it transcends family, friendship, and love. It is better than friends, lovers, confidants, this is a new term called "heart friend".
It has nothing to do with marriage, maybe marriage is like spinner. It needs to be cared for slowly, it needs to be managed with heart, and the emotions of friends are a real expression, you don't have to know each other, and you don't have to deliberately figure it out, this kind of emotion is alive, without a little utilitarianism and distractions.
The first sign of the beauty of heterosexual friendship is to stay away from "sex" itself, and the first taboo of heterosexual friendship is to revolve around "sex" itself.
Of course, perhaps over time, this feeling will also change, but not deterioration, but sublimation.
The first kind of relationship between men and women is called family affection, after the man and the woman love, the men and women become one, form a family, become a whole, and the feelings between them are plain and harmonious, and the highest level is to have common children, usually respect each other, or noisy enemies, maybe feel that between the two is like this, dispensable, when the other half leaves, there is a kind of regret, a kind of pain.
The second kind of relationship between men and women is called love, after you chase me, men and women hold hands and embrace each other, become a pair of karma, become a pair of mandarin ducks, and save the feelings between them. Usually shyly and smiling or romantic, maybe I feel that the two of them should be like that, vigorous, and when the other half approaches, there is only one kind of possession, one kind of sweetness.
The third kind of relationship between men and women is called friendship, after a chance encounter, both men and women go together selflessly, become a kind of partner, become a kind of acquaintance, and the feelings between them are true and innocent, and the highest state is to have a common hobby. usually talk and laugh or express heartfelt feelings to each other, maybe they feel that the two are not like this, which makes people misunderstand, even if the two are together, it is just a kind of communication, a kind of collusion.
The fourth kind of relationship between men and women is called temperament, after the clouds and rain, both men and women are happy, and they have a bad fate, which becomes a satisfaction, and the feelings between them are pulled and pulled, dodging and dodging, and the highest state is to have common needs. Usually, if you leave or talk about it, you may feel that it is not normal for the two to be like that, even if the two are together, it is just a kind of hair. Catharsis, a desire. Hope.
Family, love, friendship, and temperament are the four most basic emotions that maintain the relationship between men and women, among these four emotions, temperament is the nature of men and women, friendship is the hope of men and women, love is the ideal of men and women, and family affection is the harbor of men and women.
The temperament is shallow and vulgar; Friendship is sincere and simple; Love is deep and noble; Family affection is plain and calm.
Temperament is the most primitive low-level in emotion, friendship is the most simple intermediate level in emotion, love is the most sincere high-level in emotion, and family affection is the most transcendent and highest level in emotion.
Family affection, this is the highest state of male and female emotion, when the emotion between men and women is sublimated to family affection, it is a kind of responsibility, is the heart and heart of the constant concern.
There is no need to investigate the weight of love and affection, love in the end, it becomes family affection, and love has already been sublimated unconsciously, and what is left in the end is only family affection.
It doesn't matter whether love still exists or not, but each other has long adapted to each other, and this family affection is regarded as love, who can tell whether they and their other half are love or family affection?
The coolest feeling in the world is definitely love, there is only one feeling left in the world, and that is also love, but what is love?
It can be a meteor in the night sky that flashes but shines, or it can be a grain of sand in the wind, light and thin but tearful. It can also be a gust of wind that comes and goes.
Many times men and women wonder why not let themselves have a thrilling love affair and then let themselves sink into a romantic experience forever.
However, life does not always come true, perhaps it is to test the love of both parties, it always sets up some obstacles or creates some flaws so that perfection is always out of reach. Let the dream be far away from reality, and even add some mutilations, just like the Venus with a broken arm, which always gives people infinite fantasies.
Of course, the sublimation of love in life is family affection. Family affection can also be said to be the closest thing to you, like air that permeates your surroundings, even in your corners.
Family affection is an umbrella, when it rains in your heart, it holds up a clear sky for you, family affection is a sunshine, looking for light for you when you are in darkness, family affection is a brush, brushing away the dirt in your heart when you fall, family affection is a window. When you are most depressed, you will be full of freshness, family affection is a jar of honey, when you are happy, add a trace of warmth and a little warmth.
This is the true meaning of affection. Everyone is surrounded by family affection, and in the face of family affection, you can get tired of it, because in the mind. Of course, gratitude has long been substituted for gratitude.
In the face of family affection, you can be sad, because it is like a string of pearls falling to the ground. When I put them on again, I found that they were dressed with a string of teardrops.
The feelings between men and women have become family affection, there is not much passion in life, and over time, the days have become as plain as water, in fact, the feelings between each other have continued in the way of family affection.
The most beautiful and bitter feelings in the world must be love, the light in the world that people can hardly feel, but the heavy ones that you can't bear, that must be family affection.
In fact, any relationship plays a non-negligible role in people's lives, and their importance cannot be ignored.
It is precisely because of the cruelty of love that Lee Jun-hee and Shen Eun-jin wisely chose to avoid it, they are unwilling to maintain each other's feelings for each other on that delicate feeling.
Moreover, since any relationship will be sublimated into family affection in the end, they would rather tacitly cross love, from friendship to the level of family affection.
HAHA doesn't understand this, their friends don't understand, and only the two of them can read it.
HAHA feels embarrassed precisely because he doesn't understand, although he has been in the variety show industry for several years, he still feels restless when facing this strange man and woman.
"You two, since the relationship is so good, it's better to date!" HAHA FINALLY COULDN'T HOLD BACK, AND HE REALLY COULDN'T HOLD IT BACK.
THE TWO PEOPLE WHO WERE DISCUSSING WERE STUNNED FOR A MOMENT, LOOKED BACK AT HAHA TACITLY, AND THEN CONTINUED TO DISCUSS, OR ARGUE.
WHEN HAHA SAW THIS, HE ALMOST CRIED: "PLEASE, DON'T IGNORE ME SO MUCH, OKAY?" I'm human too! ”
Listening to HAHA's pitiful appearance, Lee Jun-hee turned to HAHA with a smile and said, "Brother HAHA! What did you just say!? ”
HAHA LOOKED AGGRIEVED: "I CAN'T UNDERSTAND THE TWO OF YOU, SINCE THE RELATIONSHIP IS SO GOOD, WHY DON'T YOU JUST DATE!" I don't see a better match than the two of you. ”
Li Junxi smiled when he heard this, looked at Shen Enzhen, and the eyes of the two looked at each other: "Enzhen!" What do you think? Otherwise, let's really try to get along! ”
HAHA WAS SHOCKED: BIG BROTHER! Can't I call you brother? This is filming a show! Don't explode such a fierce material, OK?
"Dead open!"
Shen Eunjin directly slapped Lee Jun-hee in the face, pushing him aside.
LI JUNXI LOOKED AT HAHA HELPLESSLY: "BROTHER HAHA! See? She refused! ”
HAHA felt that his nerves were about to collapse, and he was already nervous when he was working with Lee Jun-hee, a gold medal composer, but now he ~~~~~~~~~~
"You two, stop teasing me, okay!!!!!!"
Shen Enzhen didn't even look back: "HAHAOPPA!" It's your own self-inflicted goodness! ”
Lee Jun-hee explained with a smile, "Brother HAHA! The relationship between me and Eun Zhen, those who are familiar with us know that we can only be friends in this life, if we are lovers? ”
Li Junxi shrugged his shoulders as he said: "Our personalities are too strong, it's easy to lose each other!" ”
HAHA said that he didn't understand, if these two people didn't have a good impression of each other at all, he wouldn't believe him if he was killed, but these two people were really not a couple.
All right!
Actually, that's none of his business at all!
Since it's none of his business, people don't care, he has nothing to do when he is full, so he this unreasonable heart!
"No matter! No matter! Jun-hee! What did you just talk about with Eun Jin, let me participate in it! I'm also a collaborator! And when the time comes, I'll be the protagonist on stage! ”
Li Junxi was speechless, you didn't want to participate just now, okay!
HAHA no longer cares about the complicated relationship between these two people, and the filming of the show has finally entered the formality, and the little brother who is responsible for their group of VJs silently wiped his sweat.
Is it easy for me! (To be continued......)