"yes!"

Qu Mengmeng was a little drumming in her heart, she was afraid that Qiu Zichuan would see that she was trying, after all, she had never had such a mind about Qiu Zichuan.

"Huh! Are you worried about me? Qiu Zichuan smiled, turned his gaze back to the computer, and continued:

"I don't know about others, there can only be one for me, after all, it is a lifelong partner!"

"Then why can't you accept a second woman?"

Qu Mengmeng mustered up his courage, but he lowered his head and knitted a sweater as casually as possible.

"Because my heart is not dead to you! Hehe! ”

Qiu Zichuan tapped on the keyboard and turned his face to Qu Mengmeng and smiled!

"Huh! I love to hear that! ”

All of a sudden, Qu Mengmeng felt that his heart had fallen to the ground! Instantly, I also thought that Wu Weidong must have been too worried! But in an instant, Qu Mengmeng thought of Xu Jing again. The heart that had just been relieved was slightly lifted again!

"And what do you say is the matter with women?"

"What's the matter with what woman?"

Qiu Zichuan's attention seemed to return to the information on the computer.

"As far as I just said Sister Wang, she usually swears that she will never have a second man other than her husband!"

"Huh! How do you say that? Qiu Zichuan raised his body and leaned back, and continued:

"Women have a characteristic, or rather nature!"

"What are the characteristics?"

Qu Mengmeng looked up at Qiu Zichuan.

"When looking at others, or saying that they are fine, most women are rational. But once they encounter something, women are often emotional! ”

"Huh! You know women well! ”

"When you don't have this kind of thing, women will swear as you said, and they are still very resolute! But once something really happens, women tend to forget all the things they said before! If you ask her afterwards, she will say that she didn't know what was going on at the time, her eyes were full of him, and she didn't think about anything else! Or they will say that they are hesitant, but their feet are disobedient! Therefore, women are still emotional in their bones, rationality only exists when there is nothing to do, once something happens, women follow their feelings! ”

"Yes! Ay! I remembered when you said that! Wenwen called me again two days ago."

Qu Mengmeng was talking about her good classmates in college, but she was wondering in her heart, did Xu Jing's recent actions make Qiu Zichuan think? Otherwise, how could he be so familiar with this problem! It's as if you've discussed it with someone else or observed it.

"What's wrong?"

"She called me last week, and it looks like she has a lover! Although she didn't say it explicitly. But she kept saying that there was a guy who was nice to her, and it seemed that she liked that guy too, and I said how can you do that! ”

Qu Mengmeng replied to Qiu Zichuan casually, still thinking about Xu Jing in his heart.

"What did she say?"

She didn't know, but I felt like they were already together! But when we were in school before, she always swore that she didn't understand women who had lovers. I asked her, don't you love your current husband? She said she still loves it, but prefers the current man! It's only been a few years since I've been married, and I really don't understand! ”

Qu Mengmeng thought in his heart, isn't Xu Jing also taking marriage as a child's play?

"How do you say that!" Qiu Zichuan raised his body, reached out and took a cigarette, lit it, took a puff, and said:

"A lot of the time the people who marry themselves are often the right people they meet when they need to get married. But people are changing, what was suitable in the past may not be suitable in the future, and there are scenery everywhere along the way! What's more, after feeling that it was suitable before, maybe there will be a lot of concealment or concealment, and it will be discovered after marriage. ”

"That's right, but shouldn't that woman stick to her chastity?"

Qu Mengmeng was thinking in his heart, is Xu Jing also in the same mentality as Wenwen's now, both of them love? And listening to Qiu Zichuan's tone of speech, it seems that this qiē is normal!

"How can I say that! The concept of chastity is actually a false proposition! ”

"False propositions?" Qu Mengmeng suddenly stopped thinking and looked at Qiu Zichuan puzzled.

"What's wrong with you today? How to care about these topics! ”

Qu Mengmeng was stunned! Busy making a boring look, said:

"Isn't this talking about Sister Wang!"

"If a woman is out of the wall, if someone finds out, even if she only has this time, she will be out of order for life! And some women have been out of the wall all their lives, but no one has found out, so she is decent all her life in everyone's eyes! You say that the so-called chastity is not a false proposition! ”

"It's true!"

"So, for a woman who has an extramarital affair, fate is not whether she has chastity or not, but only whether she finds out or not."

"Then according to what you say, a woman can not be chaste?"

Qu Mengmeng knew that Qiu Zichuan looked down on many things, but in Qu Mengmeng's previous feelings, on the issue of love and chastity, Qiu Zichuan should have always been very stubborn! Is he really starting to change?

Qu Mengmeng no longer thinks about Xu Jing, she wants to hear Qiu Zichuan talk about this issue.

"What, you want me to give you a lecture tonight?"

Qiu Zichuan shook the mouse, and then closed the page on the computer with one click.

"Good! Let's talk! ”

Seeing that Qiu Zichuan no longer looks at the information, Qu Mengmeng is very happy! One is that Qiu Zichuan can talk to himself today, and the other is that Qu Mengmeng wants to hear how Qiu Zichuan views these issues.

Qiu Zichuan lit a cigarette, took a puff, turned around, and said:

"If it is said that as long as chastity is not discovered, it is equivalent to not existing, that is from the perspective of the rational appearance of the appearance. Then, from the point of view of inner sensuality, if a woman likes her husband and is satisfied with her marriage, then she has chastity in her heart, and vice versa, at least her heart must move! From this point of view, isn't it also a false proposition for you to say chastity! ”

"Why do you say that?"

"Don't worry! Let's first analyze the nature of chastity! ”

"Huh! Good! Professor Qiu! ”

Looking at Qiu Zichuan's serious appearance, Qu Mengmeng felt very happy!

"First of all, the generation and existence of chastity are social attributes, while lust ~ desire belongs to the natural attributes of human beings, which is a contradiction in itself! Just like when people are extremely hungry, they always have to be tempted, and it is difficult to say whether they steal or rob!

Second, it is maintained by secular public opinion, not by human conscious behavior. If there are many women who are also consciously abiding by it, it is only an inertia formed by thousands of years of traditional culture at work, and it can also be said to be a conventional ingredient that makes it stand there! It's still the same metaphor, if a person is extremely hungry or hungry, and is only facing a wall of illusory shadows, he still wants to sneak over when he can't help it, of course, it is better not to be discovered! ”

Qu Mengmeng put down the sweater in her hand again, quietly raised her face and looked at Qiu Zichuan, since she was in college, she liked to listen to Qiu Zichuan talk about some cognitive problems in a tone similar to academic discussion.

Secondly, the requirements of traditional culture for women's chastity do not count love in a certain way, strictly speaking, only for marriage, only for men. The so-called is also for the reputation of women, which is also the name and content of men's dignity and men's likes and dislikes in a patriarchal society! Therefore, it can also be said that this one-way requirement of chastity is unfair to women! Where there is oppression, there is resistance! There are many such women! ”

"Hmmm! That's a good thing for you! Equality! ”

Qu Mengmeng began to feel that Qiu Zichuan had not changed again, at least, Qiu Zichuan was very calm when talking about these! Also, Qu Mengmeng has always felt that Qiu Zichuan's analysis of problems is always very reasonable!

From these three aspects, it is not difficult to see that it relies on coercion and restraint under the premise of unreasonableness and unfairness. Therefore, in the face of the real and sometimes even reasonable requirements of natural attributes, it is difficult for its vitality to exist everywhere. Moreover, the vitality of social attributes is not as strong as that of natural attributes! ”

"Makes sense!"

As far as a woman is concerned, when her marriage and love are in the same direction, she feels that she is willing to stick to this kind of compulsion, this kind of constraint.

But if her marriage and her love are opposite, when they are inconsistent, she will resist this kind of compulsion, this kind of restraint, and even rebel! ”

"This is the sensual side of the woman you just said?"

"Yes! This brings us to the natural attributes of a woman in the concept of chastity. ”

"The natural attributes of a woman in the view of chastity?"

"That's right! As we just said, when every woman does not have an extramarital affair, she will swear that she will never have it in this life. But even if there were, she wouldn't say it publicly. This is because the social attribute of chastity is placed there, since it is the moral high ground, and it is a flag that society cannot discard yet, then which woman will say that she can surpass it in front of the public! At this time, who does not say that he is good, and who does not want to stand on this high ground! That's the social attribute of chastity at work. ”

"You say that's how Sister Wang is?"

"Don't talk about people!"

"Didn't I tell you!"

Qu Mengmeng muttered softly.

Of course, there are many women in life, even if the marriage is unhappy, but they are determined to stick to the so-called chastity, because the traditional culture has been deeply rooted in her bone marrow. But in this case, such a woman is no longer chastity for her so-called husband, for her so-called marriage, she is only holding on to chastity for the morality of her culture, for the sake of what she thinks of her reputation! But this also has a premise, that is, it depends on whether she encounters external forces emotionally, whether the external forces she encounters are big, and how much determination she has! ”

"That's right!"

Seeing Qiu Zichuan take another puff of cigarette, Qu Mengmeng smiled and said:

"Go on! I found you pretty much researched! But I love that you can dissect and generalize any problem! Qu Mengmeng looked up at Qiu Zichuan and said.

"That's right, you said that when you were a freshman!"

"Pride!"

Qu Mengmeng smiled and teased Qiu Zichuan!

"Let's analyze the natural attributes of chaste women, not to mention premarital sexual relations! For women in marriage, sticking to chastity is actually more often just a pretext, an unhappy woman uses it to show her so-called morality, but only she knows the pain and suffering in her heart; And a happy woman uses this to express her satisfaction with her marriage to her husband! It's a rendering of your own feelings! ”

"Excuses? I don't agree with that! ”