Suddenly I remembered that I was so cowardly in junior high school, but I had a very good relationship with a female classmate named Xiaoqian, she treated people well, and she was usually very concerned about me in studies or other aspects.

We happened to be at the same table at that time, and this was the first time I felt friendship, looking at these snow scenes today, looking at Tong Xin, I don't know why I thought of her again.

It was a snowy night, and it happened to be Christmas Eve, and our class was going to hold a very grand apple distribution event, because if it was Christmas Eve, it was a very happy thing to be able to eat apples.

If there were many male and female students in high school who would express their love and give apples or chocolates to them, I bought an apple that year.

When I came to the classroom, I heard someone in the class talking about something, so I followed the crowd and walked in, who knew that it was right in the middle of the classroom.

You know what I saw, a few male students were bullying Xiaoqian, constantly plucking on her head, trying to pull her hairpins off, and a few boys threw books on her head, at that time I really couldn't stand it so I rushed to the middle of them, and put a fist on one.

Although my brain is not clever, but the body is still okay, just when I put the kid, several other boys noisily rushed to me, and the squatting in front of Xiaoqian turned out to be a girl, the girl was very ugly, full of pimples, but there were a lot of people behind her, I recognized that it was not the principal's daughter?

What's going on? At this time, the class leader walked in from the classroom, but was blocked by several boys in less than half a second.

At that time, the discipline in our school was very poor, and the school spirit of the whole school was very problematic, and even if those teachers saw something happening, as long as they did not kill most of them, they would turn a blind eye.

Because in an aristocratic school, if poor children like us are admitted with real grades, they will encounter similar problems, but they are not as strict as this school.

It was very painful to bear the beating of several students, because I was pounced on by almost 5 strong men just now, and I kicked two away, but there are a lot of them, and they have a lot of strength, they all seem to be practicing families, not ordinary students, right?

At that time, I didn't expect that buddies would encounter plots like those in underworld novels, but it was worth it for Xiaoqian.

Who knew that the ugly girl actually pulled Xiaoqian up and beat her in front of me, only to see that she was beaten in less than ten minutes, her mouth was swollen and her face was swollen, ahhhhhhhhhhh

When I woke up, I was already in the hospital, I heard my classmate say that it seemed that Xiaoqian and the ugly girl's boyfriend got involved, to be precise, the ugly girl's boyfriend was with Xiaoqian, so she would find someone to take revenge, I was confused by what this classmate said, the ugly girl's boyfriend? Is it an ugly man?

How could Xiaoqian fall in love with such a boy? It's impossible, isn't it?

At that time, I was discharged from the hospital in a daze for about a week, and the school didn't punish the ugly girl for this incident, not only that, Xiaoqian was also said to be the perpetrator, saying that she took the initiative to beat people and then the ugly girl fought back, and the students in the back also added salt and vinegar to say that the whole truth was completely distorted.

At that time, I was the most unworthy of Xiaoqian, and finally once I asked her to go to the bottom of the overpass after school, where there was a relatively secluded place to talk about the last time.

"Bai Wuwei, I know what you want to ask? Since we're all here today, I'll tell you everything! Before I could get to my feet, she spoke to me under the overpass facing the sea.

I was behind her, watching her beautiful appearance in a red plaid skirt and school uniform in the summer, and her long flowing hair, at that time we were already in the second year of high school, I don't know how many years I mustered up the courage to bring up the things of that year. At that time, she was very calm, as if it was not her who insulted her at that time.

"Actually, my dad was seriously ill that year, and I had no way to find him, although I gave him all the qiē, and he also gave me more than 300,000 yuan, but my dad's illness has never been cured, he has been born for almost a year, and I have thought a lot during this time, in fact, you have never understood why I didn't say it at that time!"

I didn't speak, I just came to her side and looked at the sea in the distance with her, that place was our school, Haiyang Yangning District Senior High School, I don't know how many years of construction, we already had that vast library at that moment, once my mother told me that she used to study in that high school, but the high school at that time was not as beautiful as it is now.

While thinking about it, Xiaoqian told me why she didn't tell the truth at that time, but she didn't tell me directly, but told me a story about a monk, I don't know why a girl like her would know this, she said to me a story:

There was a young girl in the town who was pregnant, and her parents asked the girl who the father of the child was. The girl was forced to be helpless, saying that the child's father was a monk in a nearby temple, and after the child was born, the family held the child and found the monk.

The senior monk only said, "That's it! Then he silently took the child. Since then, the monk has been begging for milk from house to house with the child in his arms. The town exploded, and everything was said.

The monks were pointed at and even insulted.

A year later, the girl couldn't stand the inner torment and admitted that the child's father was another person and had nothing to do with the monk. The girl and her family were ashamed to find the monk, and saw that the monk was very haggard, but the child was fat in vain. The girl was full of guilt. The monk replied lightly: "That's the case! And he gave the child back to the maiden.

The eminent monk was wrongfully discredited, but he never defended himself, why? The eminent monk said, "The monks regard fame and fortune as something outside the body. It doesn't matter if I'm misunderstood. I can solve the girl's plight and save a small life, which is a good deed.

When we are misunderstood, we spend a lot of time trying to defend ourselves. But it didn't work. No one will listen, no one will want to listen. People make judgments based on what they hear and understand, and everyone is actually very stubborn.

If he understands you, he will understand you from the beginning, from beginning to end, not just by listening to your argument. Instead of trying hard and painfully to reverse the judgment of others, it is better to bear it silently and give others a little more time and space. Save the effort of justification to realize your own long-term life value.

That's why I think it's like crossing oneself. The crossing has also been a ferryman.

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