Chapter 182: Husband and Wife Love
"Huh! I still have to ask about it! I've told you that before! ”
Qiu Zichuan raised his hand with a smile, patted Qu Mengmeng's shoulder and said.
"So you're going to tell me you've ever liked water, and which one is your favorite?"
Qu Mengmeng began to say to Qiu Zichuan with a coquettish look.
"It's not good! It's not good for people to say that! ”
Qiu Zichuan looked down at Qu Mengmeng and shook his head very seriously!
"Just tell me what you think! I won't think about it anymore! ”
"Huh! Good! ”
Qiu Zichuan returned his hand and lifted the pillow against his back again, and then said:
"As for the women you have talked about, you say that they are all interesting to me, and I do not deny that! But that doesn't mean that every single one of them has to be nice to you, I mean that relationship! It's normal to be interesting to me, or very fond of me, or very eager to be close to me, and like to be with me, but it can't be said that each of them has a purpose! ”
"Not necessarily!"
Qu Meng pursed his mouth, shook Qiu Zichuan's shoulder with his hand, and muttered coquettishly!
"You said that in Tanchi, you said that little song of the Science and Technology Commission, she is very educated and measured, she will become close friends with you, but she will not be without measure. She is different from Zhang Mei of the Construction Committee at that time, Zhang Mei is a hot girl, she doesn't read much, and she is very simple, but when she gets close to her, she will be chaotic! ”
"Yes! I thought the same thing when I was calm! ”
"You said that Li Xuewei of the Municipal Architectural Design Institute, she should be the same type as Xiaoqu, but the difference is that Li Xuewei's overall level is higher than Xiaoqu, but they all belong to women who know how to respect themselves and know how to measure themselves. Especially Li Xuewei, she has a very high level of cultivation in all aspects, and she has a very high attainment and cultivation in both architecture and art! ”
"Yes! Sometimes I am most worried about her, and sometimes I feel that if she is with you, whether it is image and temperament, or life interest, she is very suitable for you in any aspect! ”
"Huh! You really know how to relate to it! How is that possible! ”
"Tell me the truth, do you have a feeling of seeing her late?"
Qu Mengmeng suddenly raised his head and looked at Qiu Zichuan seriously.
"Want to hear the truth?"
"Hmm!"
Qu Mengmeng nodded seriously again! Li Xuewei is the woman who Qu Mengmeng has seen Qiu Zichuan's side, and the woman who feels the most weighty!
"If you're disobedient and mess around with me all the time, then there will really be! Ha ha! ”
"You're bad! You're bad! ”
"Haha! Ha ha! ”
"What about Pan Xiaolu?"
After making trouble, Qu Mengmeng raised his face again and asked.
"Xiao Pan's girl looks quiet, but she is also very naughty, and she looks like a very light girl, very pleasing! But that's all! ”
"She has the characteristics of a Jiangnan girl, but it's a pity that her cultural level is low!"
"Yes! It's just a pretty nice girl, and she doesn't have any bad intentions! ”
"Hmmm! That's right! But sometimes such a girl is the most worrying! ”
"Why?"
"If Li Xuewei is a boutique among women, then a girl like Pan Xiaolu seems to be the easiest to arouse men's pity! On the contrary, let those beautiful and scheming women are not inherently opponents! ”
"Hmmm! Makes sense, mercy! Pity! ”
Qiu Zichuan seemed to think a little, and continued:
"Yes! This is sometimes really a characteristic of men! ”
"How? I'll look at people too! ”
Seeing that his words were affirmed by Qiu Zichuan, Qu Mengmeng raised his face again and looked at Qiu Zichuan and smiled happily!
"Haha! There is progress! But think about the Zhao Xiaoqi you talked about today, you don't have to think about anything at all! ”
"You seem to be disgusted with her?"
Qu Mengmeng raised his head again and looked at Qiu Zichuan and blinked!
"It's not disgusting, but this girl doesn't talk much, but sometimes she says something suddenly, like last night's text message, it's very inexplicable, she sometimes often makes people feel like they know each other very well, and it makes people feel like there are still a pair of eyes behind her eyes! I don't want to deal with this kind of girl, so you don't have to worry about it at all! ”
"And what do you say is her pregnancy this time?"
"I have a feeling that there seems to be a very complicated relationship behind her, and I have heard that she has an unusual relationship with some bosses and some leaders in the city! So don't mention this in the future, I've always been polite to her and keep this kind of distance! She also gives people a feeling of not offending her! ”
"Hmmm! I understand what you say, then you should also be careful, don't let her affect you anything! ”
Hearing Qiu Zichuan say this, Qu Mengmeng seemed to be very worried!
"But about Xu Jing, I told you before that we can't discuss with each other, but I still want to say something to you today!"
"Hmmm! You say, I was just about to talk about her! But I'm afraid you'll be angry again! ”
"Xu Jing is a very high-quality and excellent girl! By that I mean her ability to work and how well she can do things! ”
After speaking, Qiu Zichuan looked down at Qu Mengmeng as if he was very serious, and then continued:
"But she is scheming, and she is very open-minded, although she also has principles, but sometimes women are terrible because she is a woman who understands principles!"
"Why? Don't you say that people should be principled? ”
"But the problem is that she has her principles under her three views, and when such principles are combined with her scheming, sometimes you will think she is terrible!"
"How so? I'm a little confused! ”
"Don't think about it too much, you just have to do what you should do as a sister, you just need to do it, which in itself is a deterrent to her! Do you understand? ”
"Hmm!"
Qu Mengmeng nodded as if he didn't understand!
At this time, there was another sentence that almost reached Qiu Zichuan's mouth, but in the end Qiu Zichuan swallowed it. Qiu Zichuan also wanted to say that he was very worried that Xu Jing would hurt Qu Mengmeng in the future, but Qiu Zichuan still felt that the weight of this was too heavy, once he said it, it would cause Qu Mengmeng's disgust and vigilance towards Xu Jing, and even panic, so if he didn't say it well, it would give birth to some crises in the current family's peace! Therefore, Qiu Zichuan feels that he still can't say such a thing now!
"Now I've told you everything! You won't have to worry about it anymore! ”
As he spoke, Qiu Zichuan raised his hand again and patted Qu Mengmeng's shoulder.
"Hmmm! In the past, when I said this, you were always impatient, so I was also annoyed, and when I was annoyed, I was angry, and I wanted to mess with you! Now, if you tell me everything, I don't have any worries at all! It's all your fault! ”
Qu Mengmeng reached out and twisted Qiu Zichuan's nose again!
"As for Shui Xiaolin, then you don't have to worry about it! And she's been very peaceful! ”
"Hmmm! I'm never worried about Sister Shui! I know this, you only want to keep the purest things in your heart! So to her, I never ask you! ”
"Hey!"
Listening to Qu Mengmeng say this, and thinking about Shui Xiaolin's various actions when he first came to Binshui, as well as the fact that he never told Qu Mengmeng the inside story of all this and his own analysis, Qiu Zichuan couldn't help but sigh lightly from the bottom of his heart!
"What are you sighing for?"
Hearing Qiu Zichuan's tone change, Qu Mengmeng looked up at Qiu Zichuan again in confusion!
"Also, how many times have I told you!"
Qiu Zichuan did not answer Qu Mengmeng, but continued to change the topic and said:
"How can you keep secretly checking my call logs! I told you last time, and the first time I found out, my brain exploded! I was thinking that this was my wife? How can my wife be so uneducated! How can you even do such a thief's thing! At that time, I even thought that my wife was such a wife, although no one else knew, but this didn't need others to know, and it made me embarrassed! ”
"I don't know what's going on, they say they supervise their husbands like this, and they say it's the right of the wife!" "What kind of husband and wife are that! It's like a cat and a mouse! Not to mention mutual respect, is there still a little bit of trust between each other? So since there is no mutual trust at all, why are you still living together! ”
"Isn't it a popular saying now?"
"What a statement! Isn't it just those who run marriages and defend marriages! ”
"That's right! Hu Li: They all say that! ”
"What is a relationship? Marriage is the most perfect, pure and beautiful love of two people! Don't you think that the word management has completely become a utilitarian relationship! What else to defend, human dignity and personality need to be defended, and people's legitimate rights and interests need to be defended. And the bond of marriage is affection, it is love! And a truly foundational relationship, a love with vitality, does it need to be defended? ”
Thinking that Qu Mengmeng and himself were very harmonious again tonight, Qiu Zichuan wanted to tell Qu Mengmeng some of the truths between husband and wife and his own thoughts, and then continued:
"What's more, feelings and love are things that come naturally, and what does it have to do with defending them! And once this marriage has no feelings, once there is no love, what do you defend it? What can you defend it for? Just defending a virtual shell? Fighting for a virtual shell? Isn't that interesting? The marriage that needs to be defended is first of all a sign that what is inside it is no longer strong, or even no longer exists! It doesn't even have to be attacked by anyone else, its interior has already collapsed! So what else do you want from such a marriage! Of course, there is nothing strange in this world, but I don't care about others, our marriage is vulgar if we use the word management, once our marriage uses the word defense, then if you don't leave, then I will already walk away by myself! ”
"And what do you want?"
"I'm going to be unconscious!"
"Unconscious! Philosophical unconscious, natural activity, not a pejorative term in the popular sense? ”
Qu Mengmeng raised his head again, blinked and asked.
"That's right! If managing a marriage is a conscious and conscious act, defending the marriage is more of a forced and conscious act. Then I choose unconsciously, we are inseparable unconsciously, we trust each other unconsciously, and we unconsciously maintain each other in action! Because first of all, only unconscious emotional relationships are the basis of love in the true sense! I think that as long as both parties in a marriage have a utilitarian and conscious behavior, it is not a pure marriage! ”
"I'm really not conscious! I just felt angry at the time! I didn't consciously do that! ”
Qu Mengmeng looked extremely pious, looked at Qiu Zichuan and said!
"That's not good! You know what I care about most is the upbringing of women! I never doubted you in my upbringing! ”
"I won't be in the future! Not really! I didn't think it was good afterwards! I really regret it! I think it's really like a thief! ”
After speaking, Qu Mengmeng pressed his head tightly on Qiu Zichuan's chest!
"We've been together for so many years, and you know that I never touch your diary, your computer, your drawer, or your phone! This is first of all respect for you, but also respect for my own personality, and secondly because of the trust in you! ”
"I know this, I also said that you are like this in front of my colleagues and friends, but they don't say that, they all say that you are like this, it means that you don't care about me!"
"Nonsense! Vulgar! Parochial! ”
Qiu Zichuan raised his hand and slapped Qu Mengmeng's body violently, and continued:
"No matter how much you care about a person, your behavior must first have a personality, and your approach must first know how to respect the other party, which is the basic upbringing of being a human being, and this is also respect for yourself!"
"But women are like that!"
"All women are like that! The first thing is that she doesn't see herself as a personality! ”
But women always don't think about this, they only think about what they suspect and think about how they should do it! Besides, women say it's for their homes! ”
"Yes! Women always like to explain behavior in terms of motivation, but they never care about the consequences of such behavior. Like the last time you asked, why did you go and peek into my call logs, you said you were for this family! But do you know what I think? ”
"What do you think?"
Listening to Qiu Zichuan's tone a little stern, Qu Mengmeng asked a little timidly.
"Later, when I was a little angry, I was still thinking, if my wife continues like this like a thief, then I would rather not have this family!"
"You said that last time, I remember it!"
"But I got angry that time, why did you go to check it again?"
"Can't help it! In fact, to tell you the truth, it is only one thing to know who you are talking to, but what you want to know more is that those women often call you, this is true! ”
"That's it! It's all in the past! Let's not do this in the future, okay? ”
I also felt that what I said just now was a bit harsh, seeing that Qu Mengmeng was very well-behaved in his arms all night, I couldn't help it, Qiu Zichuan took Qu Mengmeng's body into his arms again, and gently stroked ~ rubbing!
"Are you sleepy?"
Enjoying Qiu Zichuan's caress ~ love, Qu Mengmeng, who was happy, suddenly raised his head and looked at Qiu Zichuan and asked.
"I'm not sleepy! What about you? ”
Qiu Zichuan seemed to suddenly know what Qu Mengmeng wanted, and deliberately looked at Qu Mengmeng and asked with a smile.
"Huh! You're bad! ”
Qu Mengmeng laughed embarrassedly, but then looked at Qiu Zichuan and whispered:
"I still want to ......!"
"Haha! You're really my little kinky~ baby! ”
Saying that, Qiu Zichuan hugged Qu Mengmeng into his arms!
"No! Isn't it! It's been a long time since you've asked for someone twice! ”
followed Qiu Zichuan to turn over, and Qu Mengmeng shouted in a coquettish voice!
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