Chapter 186: Intent
Only one child in the city, all count on the economy, when the old people are right, look at those paralyzed, the old people are also daunting, raising children is to prevent old age, parents' dedication to their children is investment, think about it carefully, there are few children in later generations, and it is naturally expensive.
There are also those who dare not offend, and they are afraid of the ending of no one to care about when they are old, and the daughters of later generations are not only children, and their parents are not harsh, and sons are not as willing as daughters to dedicate themselves to their parents, and people have changed the concept that feeding their daughters is a loss of money.
In modern times, those who have raised daughters have made a lot of money.
It's no wonder that sons and daughters-in-law are not good to their parents, thousands of years of concepts have made the consciousness of sons think that they have a very high status in the hearts of their parents, every qiē of their parents is their son's, these generations of sisters are contributing to them, who puts their aunts and grandmothers in their eyes, you should do it, you should give more, your parents raised you, you should do anything, you should take your sisters for your daughter-in-law, and what else should not be.
Parents are raised by their daughters, and sons are desperate, let alone give some money.
Everything is a habitual ending, the daughters of the past are despised, the daughters of modern times are exploited, and it is not easy for women to live a good life.
Parents spent hundreds of thousands of yuan to build a house for their son to marry a daughter-in-law, and when they were old, they were paralyzed on the kang and only their daughters were right, and some old people hated and only hated their daughters-in-law, and there were few who hated their sons, so was the son right?
It's all a woman's fault, being a daughter-in-law is hated by her mother-in-law, being a daughter-in-law is exploited by her mother-in-law, daughter-in-law is good to her mother, and her daughter is good to herself.
In fact, Gu Shulan is that kind of person, and her son is always good.
When she collapsed on the kang, Yang Tianxiang asked her daughter to live in pairs. Gu Shulan asked Ershan to stay for a night, Yang Tianxiang hurriedly sent his son away, I am afraid that his son will not be able to hold his daughter-in-law for this night, and Yang Tianxiang is more partial, afraid that his son will not sleep well overnight.
As for the girl, she should be divided.
Yang Liu didn't want to. Walking out of the yard, Zhang Yaqing was on the street, he was looking forward to Yang Liu coming out to say a word, they were eating when it was dark, and there was no one on the street.
When Zhang Yaqing saw Yang Liu, the corners of his mouth raised: "You can't read like this." Tired eyes are a big deal, a combination of work and rest, you know. ”
"What kind of book did you read, I was upset." Yang Liu was really upset, what did Gu Shulan say when she stared at the bully? It's also hooked up. It's so ugly, what's wrong with the elders, should the elders have self-esteem and take scolding as self-esteem?
Upset? Yang Liu will not be upset for no reason: "You are going to stay here for a long time?" Zhang Yaqing looked at Yang Liu's bitter little face, and couldn't help but feel distressed.
"I can't bear to make a big show." Yang Liu said this, and Zhang Yaqing was stunned: "What kind of drama?" ”
"Five women fight for a husband!" After speaking, Yang Liu smiled.
Zhang Yaqing instantly understood, and pretended to be angry and reprimanded: "Nonsense! ”
Yang Liu smiled: "The young age of the glorious eyes is very proud. ”
"You robbed me. There was no one to fight. Zhang Yaqing was very angry when she saw Yang Liu like this.
"I don't dare, they're going to have to tear me to pieces." Yang Liu joked that he was not strict at all.
"I don't have the guts." Disdain flashed in Zhang Yaqing's eyes. But soon disappeared.
Yang Liu doesn't look at people carefully, so naturally he can't find it.
"People are terrible, I shrank in a shell like this, and rumors are all over the sky, who knows what the subsequent conspiracy is?" Yang Liu's expression became solemn.
"Let's go, get out of here. It's good to go to Chengguan or my grandmother's house. Zhang Yaqing said solemnly.
"I don't dare elope with you." Willow is joking again.
Zhang Yaqing was angry: "Accuse ourselves of indiscriminately, we just avoid these people." Go to a quiet place. Zhang Yaqing said sincerely.
Yang Liu knows Zhang Yaqing's heart, and he doesn't hate this person. can be an ideal partner, but her mother can't accept it herself. She can't stand that person's temper, and if she is with such a person for decades, it is impossible to have a long life.
"We are all young people, not when we were students, we don't have the opportunity to be together, walking with you, nothing will make people say that something is wrong, how can I afford such a big hat?" Yang Liu said more strictly, and let out a long breath, as if he had fallen into a thousand catties of burden.
"Let's go, let them talk, do you think I'm an irresponsible person?" Zhang Yaqing's face was bitter. Why can't she wait for the words that she has to rely on him.
"Do you want me to be doomed, you are responsible? You don't know your mother's heart, do you? I don't have the courage or the courage to come to your mother, and I'm telling the truth, not against your mother.
Do you want to be caught in the middle of the gas later? Do you want me to be spurned, insulted and bullied, my identity is not worthy of you, we are destined to be inseparable after all.
Do you want to grind for a long time, can you be consistent with me? I don't know what your family is, though? But I have self-knowledge, and I also have a feeling that we are not suitable.
Even if we are strong together, with your mother's temper will eventually tear us apart, how can she allow someone she doesn't like to be with his own son?
Therefore. Your marriage must be in the hands of your mother, you can only have a daughter-in-law she likes, you have no other choice. ”
How did Yang Liu know this about his mother? Only one side, it was determined that this was not in line with Yang Liu's age, Zhang Yaqing was shocked, maybe he shouldn't pursue Yang Liu, maybe the Zhang family didn't have the blessing to get such a smart daughter-in-law.
She's not just smart, she's as experienced as she has been through life, she's a real genius, not only does she learn well, but she doesn't have any unexpected aspects.
Zhang Yaqing sighed: "I don't want you to suffer such grievances, my grandfather is the master for us?" Are you still afraid? ”
"Big brother! …… I'm not afraid of your mother, I'm not cowardly to death, or I can't live if I collapse.
What I value is lifelong happiness, and there is no happiness in a marriage that is not accepted by my mother-in-law, disliked, and looked down upon by the family.
If you have been in conflict with your mother for a long time because of me, you will also grow old and decrepit, you will be annoyed by long-term torture, I will also resist, and if you can't withstand the pressure, you will collapse, our marriage will fall apart, and you will seek another life.
No matter how deep our relationship is, it will eventually be smoothed out, and you will want a happy life, and the thought of everyone being happy will completely lose my color in your eyes.
Because long-term torture will lose interest in each other.
I can't be beaten and insulted and be able to endure nothing, I just need to be with your mother, you are the closest blood relative, and after listening to it, you will feel that your mother is right.
There is no real love in the world, and when the contradictions are formed, there will be no love for them.
What if your grandfather is in charge, I get along with your mother the most, if I have a strong mouth to your grandfather's ears, the charge of disrespecting his mother-in-law has become the focus in his mind, the old people are like this, the most like the junior to obey orders, only promises, distinguish a reason will also be said to be disobedient.
The old people are all old ideas, and even if I am reasonable, I will become unreasonable.
Even if your grandfather can control your mother for the rest of his life, he still has to go ahead of your mother, what will he do in the future? Such a marriage is not for us.
Don't think that if the marriage is autonomous, you can really be the master of the house, no one's marriage is out of the control of the parents, even if the consent of the two must have the permission of the parents, otherwise it is impossible. ”
Yang Liu said that Zhang Yaqing has no way to live: "Then your marriage will be at the mercy of your parents, and if you sell you, you will do it too?" ”
"How could they sell me? More than 100 yuan is not uncommon for them, let me make it clear to you, the current daughter is not as good as the old society, it is easy to resist marriage, find someone you want to marry, and hide away from her mother's house.
But if the mother-in-law does not agree to enter the door, it will be a big trouble, and the daughter-in-law will live with the mother-in-law, and if she is on the mother-in-law's blacklist, she will not be able to do any good.
You don't know about the Blue Bridge, right? ”
Zhang Yaqing was silent and let out a few breaths: "My mother won't be so stubborn, she is also from the countryside." ”
"You're wrong, people from the countryside know the hardships of the countryside, the more they dislike the countryside, few people will want to go back to the countryside when they go to the city, and they can't wait to avoid 108,000 miles.
The more rural people are, the more they look down on them. ”
Zhang Yaqing thinks what Yang Liu said makes sense, it's really like that, grandmother is a genuine old Shanghainese, and her parents are in love in the army, although her grandmother doesn't like her mother, she doesn't stop her like that, she just doesn't like this person, she never mentioned that her mother is a rural person or something, but what about her mother, the letter is that the soil bun is long and the soil bun is short. Probably because Yang Liu held a grudge against her unkindly, then it was not wrong for you to insult Yang Liu.
Mother probably deliberately insulted Yang Liu to arouse her anger, so that Teacher Lu and he saw Yang Liu's pungency, and they had a reason to object, and she told her that it was not about Yang Liu, and she still did that.
Her intention was to fall out with Yang Liu, and Yang Liu would have no face, no steps, and no reason to enter her house, so that the road would be blocked, and the daughter-in-law and son, who was disrespectful to his mother, would have no face to marry into the door.
It turns out that her mother's mind is so meticulous and pervasive, which can be compared to Zhou Gongjin's resourcefulness.
If the son wants to marry a disobedient daughter-in-law, the mother does a lot of things, and the son has no right to blame, the mother is not destroying the son's marriage, but the daughter-in-law is not qualified, she is a mother in maintaining the lifelong happiness of her son, and the daughter-in-law who disobeys her mother-in-law is a woman with lack of morality, how can a woman without virtue be good to her husband, and a perfect woman is suitable for entering a high gate like the Zhang family.
Zhang Yaqing thought about it carefully, her mother's resourcefulness was not shallow, as long as Yang Liu was determined to disrespect her elders, Yang Liu would be completely disqualified.
No wonder my mother's letter repeatedly repeated the topic of Yang Liu's disrespectful eyes, why can't people refute you when you insult a little girl who doesn't want to do anything with you?
There is no one else's business at all, so I heard a few rumors, and I came to look for trouble, your son has not yet expressed his position, you come up with five horses and spears, it is strange if you don't damage you, anyone will do this. (To be continued) R580