Wei Lan didn't say anything about Qin Ya, Nie Zuo almost forgot that there was still her in the zài, Nie Zuo said: "This girl is still in the driving school, I have to go and see her." I'll get back to you. "Hang up.

Mai Yan glanced at Nie Zuo and said, "Man, the women in the family don't give it, the women in the company are very generous, will you not be able to control it one day?" ”

Nie Zuo replied seriously: "Even if I wear a dress, my heart is still Chinese." ”

Mai Yan was not angry, knowing that Nie Zuo was joking, and said after a long time: "Or, let's live together first, right?" ”

"Huh?" Nie Zuo was stunned.

"Whether you will dislike me in the future, whether you will be tired of me or not, is a matter for the future." Mai Yan knew that in order to sleep with a woman, a man would dare to promise anything, and she didn't want Nie Zuo to promise what would happen in the future. She knows that prolonging the time for two people to go to bed can effectively prolong the love between two people. For example, Nie Zuo is widely communicated, and has certain conditions that are liked by women, and when he loses his novelty to himself, he can only rely on responsibility to maintain his belt. Mai Yan has many advantages, but there are also disadvantages, that is, she is quite pessimistic about love and marriage. She can't be blamed for this, her parents have a great influence on her. In addition, many housewives now think that it is difficult to prevent men from cheating, so they lower their requirements, and their husbands only need to take care of the family, and they don't want to think about some details. Mai Yan sees that there are many more successful men over the age of forty around her, and there will not be only one woman behind them.

Nie Zuo thought for a long time and said: "Of course I raise my hands in favor of cohabitation, the big bad wolf has been staring at Little Red Riding Hood for many years. But...... Mai Yan, can you not look at the people around you? You look a little bit farther, for example, at a lot of couples abroad, they are loyal to each other and protect each other. ”

"Clinton is cheating, you're talking about Mars, right?"

"......" This is really difficult to refute, mainly due to the social atmosphere, values, and morality. Nie Zuo knows a boss who is very loyal to his wife, because when he was poor, his wife never gave up and worked out together. But when I go out to eat with customers and friends, my wife can't take them out, and everyone at the dinner table talks about meat jokes, chats about some wind and snow, and can't let go. Occasionally, I brought the yellow-faced woman out for entertainment, and I was complained by my friends in private: You brought your wife alone, and everyone brought Xiaosan, you made everyone too embarrassed. And then he had a mistress. This junior is a work-study student at A University, he didn't sleep with others, he just brought it out when necessary, this student is very good at talking, very suitable for the situation. The boss said to Nie Zuo that there was no way to do it, and he wanted to open a room with college students countless times, but he couldn't hold back. Compare and see, a youthful beauty, lively and cheerful. An old and decrepit face, in menopause, said that he didn't like to roll the sheets with the former, and he didn't believe it.

There are also many men who also struggle with their wives, and when they have money, they think they should do things that they were not qualified to do when they were young. With the development of social and economic development, the loyalty of couples is getting lower and lower.

Nie Zuo said: "Mai Yan, you attach importance to marriage and regard marriage as a lifelong commitment, there are many such people in City A, not only me." "You can't be left behind when you are reasonable.

"You're talking about unsociable or unsociable otaku, right?" Mai Yan glanced at Nie Zuo: "Are you sure you can do it?" ”

Nie Zuo nodded seriously: "Yes." "The boss said one: It's not difficult, just endure it and pass. Boss 2: It's okay to treat that college student as your daughter. Boss 3: Don't you still have a computer and a left hand?

Mai Yan smiled: "Then we don't need to live together." ”

"Cohabitation can have."

Mai Yan said: "If not, you can't keep your promise?" ”

“……”

Mai Yan sighed lightly: "Man, I shudder when I think of my dad. I also knew I was thinking too far ahead, but ......"

"I understand." Nie Zuo knew what Mai Yan meant, if Mai Yan didn't plan to be with Nie Zuo for a long time, she wouldn't think about it so much. Mai Yan is thinking too much now, coupled with the social atmosphere and her father's example, which makes her feel a little afraid of marriage. On the other hand, it is because she cares too much that she has a sense of fear.

What do you do when you're lost? Yu Zi gave Mai Yan the answer, find an excellent woman to seduce him and seduce him. If he wasn't seduced, it was reliable. Mai Yan asked rhetorically, if I was seduced away, did I do something to lure the wolf into the house? Yu Zi replied, anyway, sooner or later, he will have to leave, and he will be reincarnated sooner if he leaves early.

Mai Yan is still very confident in herself at present, she just has no confidence in her future marriage, especially her life after the age of forty. She went to see a psychiatrist, who told her that it was her parents' failed marriage that hurt her, causing her psychological fear of marriage. The psychiatrist told her that the only way to solve this problem was to talk to her parents face to face to find out the real reason why her father had left her mother and that there were people outside. The doctor told Sù Mai Yan that a slap does not make a sound, and the main fault of a man's cheating is the man, but there is a relationship that is more or less influenced by the spouse.

Mai Yan was not like this before, Nie Zuo gave her a very reliable sense of security, so that Mai Yan was always very confident, but with the contact with her parents, the shadow occupied her heart again. Mai Yan thought about it for a long time, parked the car aside, went to see a psychiatrist, and told Nie Zuo about her inner thoughts. Nie Zuo had already made such a judgment before, but after all, it was a judgment, and it could not be affirmed and determined. This time Mai Yan opened her words, and Nie Zuo thought for a while and replied, "I think you should sit your father and your mother together and talk about it." ”

Mai Yan glanced at Nie Zuo: "If they sit together, they will definitely quarrel within ten seconds." "It's so much more comfortable to talk about it.

Nie Zuo said: "Didn't you go to see a psychiatrist?" You falsify a medical record and say you have depression...... Oops! ”

Mai Yan bit Nie's left shoulder: "You're depressed, no, it's not you, others are depressed, no, no, no one is depressed." ”

"Cute girl." Nie Zuo explained: "I mean fake medical records, find someone to pretend to be your psychiatrist, and the three of you go to the psychiatrist together to explain it." ”

Mai Yan thought for a while: "This method is good. But how to fake medical records and impersonate doctors? ”

Nie Zuo smiled: "What a big deal, I'll handle it." ”

Nie Zuo understands mental illness, he used to have mental illness, anxiety, sleep no more than four hours a day, and have nightmares that lasted for half a year. He and Mai Yan have one thing in common, they didn't grow up in healthy and happy families, and their life trajectories are different from many people. Mental illness is sometimes not a disease, such as Nie Zuo likes Mai Yan's serious appearance, wears a picture of mild myopia, concentrates on copywriting, and has long hair with some waves...... Whenever this happens, Nie Zuo will have bad thoughts. After Mai Yan found out, she would often look at Nie Zuo with some smugness and say, you are a glasses. Of course Nie Zuo is not, but Mai Yan looks very intellectual when she puts on her glasses, which arouses Nie Zuo's desire to conquer. Some mental illnesses differ only from an aesthetic perspective.

Mai Yan's psychological problems are very simple to say, there is only one reason for Mai Yan's fear and confusion about marriage, she does not know the reason for her parents' marriage change, and no one is completely honest and unbiased to tell her the truth. Even Mai Yan's grandmother did not tell Sù Mai Yan the truth and let Mai Yan think for herself, but told the truth after thinking about it.

PS: If the word harmony appears in the book, please make up for it according to the number of words.