Chapter 211: Distorted Self-Esteem
Zheng Xiuheng is a character who does what he says, and he will take Kim Hyun-ah home when he takes Kim Hyun-ah home, but it is different from what Zheng Xiu-heng imagined, the image of Kim Hyun-ah's father is not as strong as he imagined, and it is completely different from the image of Park Ji-yeon's father.
Kim Hyun-ah's parents look exactly the same as ordinary Korean uncles and aunts, if there is any difference, it is that Kim Hyun-ah's father should still be an office worker.
Kim Hyun-ah is still wearing yesterday's clothes and sitting with her head down, her mind is blank at the moment, to be honest, she doesn't know what this situation is, although she is very touched by the uncle who really took her home, but she doesn't know how her father will treat her, in fact, the two have not seen each other for almost a year, and when they return to this home again, there is only a sense of strangeness and discomfort.
Kim Hyun-ah's mother was in the kitchen, looking at the three people in the living room with some concern, as an ordinary housewife, her status in this family is really not high, and she can't even intervene in this situation, and she is also very helpless in the face of Kim Hyun-ah's father's extreme machismo.
"What kind of brothers and sisters are you, and what do you do!" Kim Hyun-ah's father asked with a frown, looking like he didn't agree with the relationship between the two righteous brothers and sisters.
Zheng Xiuheng didn't mind, and still replied with a smile: "I met when I was in JYP!" â
"JYP, you're also a trainee? Or a clerk? Father Jin's brows furrowed a little deeper, and a faint sense of disgust rose in his eyes.
Zheng Xiuheng smiled and didn't answer this question, but said very seriously: "Mr. Jin, I brought Jin Hyunya back today just to talk to you about her future!" â
"The future? I don't feel the need to talk to you about her future, and unless she gives up the humiliating idea of being a singer, she is definitely not welcome in this family! Father Jin's expression was cold, and it seemed that even if the two hadn't seen each other for a long time, his thoughts hadn't changed at all. This made Kim Hyun-ah's head lower on the side.
And Zheng Xiuheng was also extremely surprised in his heart, but he didn't feel embarrassed but said in a deep voice: "Can Mr. Jin tell me the reason, Hyuna's age is not too young." I'm sure if you really have any reason, she must be understandable. As a father, I think your attitude is too mean now! â
"Who are you, and who are you to judge me? And I don't need to explain anything, she is my daughter, if I can't even listen to my father's words, then there is no point in raising such a daughter! A trace of anger appeared on Father Jin's face, and his eyes were very unkind when he looked at Zheng Xiuheng.
Zheng Xiuheng shook his head and said, "The mouth is not right, from the time you are willing to let us in." It proves that you don't care about Kim Hyun-ah, you are willing to talk so much to strangers like me, it seems that it is also because you are worried that I am a staff member of JYP or a bad person, if you really don't like her, you should just turn us away, right, and look at Mr. Kim's appearance, he should have hurried back after receiving a call from his aunt! â
"I don't know what to say, in that case, just do what you want, get me up and get out of here now!" Father Jin stood up and pointed to the door, exclaiming with some annoyance.
Kim Hyun-ah raised her head in surprise. glanced at his Abba, and his eyes, which had some brilliance, became a little lost again.
Did Jung so-hyung bring Kim Hyun-ah home to settle their family disputes?
Of course not. Zheng Xiuheng didn't think that he had that ability, in fact, Kim Hyun-ah misunderstood from the beginning, Zheng Xiuheng did have the idea of meeting her father, but he definitely didn't come to help their father and daughter, if there was such an opportunity, of course it could, but if not......
Zheng Xiuheng stood up, looked at Father Jin and said very seriously: "Mr. Jin, for your position and ideas, outsiders like me have no intention of finding out. There is also no idea of understanding and came here today. All I want to say is if you don't want to identify with your daughter. I will take good care of her in the days after that, of course, as Kim Hyuna's father, you may doubt my motives, but you can show my job and identity certificate, which can prove my identity very easily, and I don't mean to take your daughter, but to be willing to take care of her and be responsible for her future, such as what she wants to do, what she should do, will help her! â
Jin Hyunya on the side looked at Zheng Xiuheng beside her, her eyes turned red all of a sudden, just a sentence that she was willing to take care of her was enough to move Kim Hyunya, it was not that Kim Hyunya was fragile, but someone who had never been towards her.
"What are you kidding, why are you responsible for her, who are you, what qualifications do you have, do you want me to call the police directly?" Kim Hyun-ah's father looked a little excited and angry, glaring at Jung so-heng and yelling.
Zheng Xiuheng really doesn't understand the thoughts of many Koreans, especially for the kind of people he doesn't know or see at all, he has to be respectful when he meets for the first time, if he doesn't talk about relatives, elders, colleagues, etc., this is understandable, but if he is like Kim Hyunah's agent, how can Zheng Xiuheng have respect.
The same kind of machismo of Kim Hyun-ah's father is also something he can't understand, it's not that he can't understand machismo, but he can't do this, in fact, after meeting today, Zheng Xiuheng really can't understand Kim Hyun-ah's father's thoughts, maybe he really has any reasons and opinions, but he just doesn't say it, because he is the head of the family, his words should be holy decrees, and as a daughter, he needs to obey unconditionally.
Like Zheng Xiuheng himself, although he also has a bit of this personality, the difference is that he will give reasons, and then he will not reason with you...... Well, no matter what, Zheng Xiuheng seems to be very open-minded.
Fortunately, he never thought about being a family mediator.
Looking at Father Jin, who was about to get angry, Zheng Xiuheng looked at him with a trace of contempt, and even a look of contempt, and then said coldly: "It's not that you don't want to recognize this daughter?" If you can't fulfill your obligations as a parent, why should you prevent others from caring about it? â
Zheng Xiuheng didn't deliberately stimulate him, and he really looked down on this Korean man, if Kim Hyun-ah had such a conflict with his parents at the age of eighteen or nineteen or now, and then the cold war for two or three years, Zheng Xiuheng probably wouldn't have such thoughts.
But Jin Hyun-ah became a trainee and had a conflict with her father two or three years ago, when she was only about thirteen years old, and she had such a cold war with a child, and she was so indifferent, which gave Zheng Xiuheng the feeling that this baby was not his own.
Okay, this is just Zheng Xiuheng's imagination, but he does look down on this man, not only because of the above reasons, but also because you are so resolute, but in the end, didn't you stop Kim Hyun-ah from becoming a trainee and didn't stop her from making her debut?
Therefore, what kind of mentality is this man, while Zheng Xiuheng is curious, he is also very disdainful, and at this moment, he is even more heartbroken Hyunya.
And Father Jin was stumped by Zheng Xiuheng and rhetorical questions, and looked at him in amazement and couldn't speak for a long time......
Zheng Xiuheng suddenly thought of something, looked at the speechless father Kim, and suddenly said: "To be honest, Mr. Jin, I came here today, I also have a little hope, maybe I can help Hyuna and her father reconcile, but at this moment I finally figured it out, you are just like most Korean men, you need to rely on women to maintain self-esteem, show your status of the man, maybe this is the reason why you are entangled, the distorted self-esteem is greater than the daughter of the blood relative!" â
Koreans have a strong sense of self-esteem, which is related to the history of long-term oppression, and it is undeniable that the formation of this self-esteem has indeed promoted the development of Korean society in the post-war period, and has also formed a strong national self-esteem.
But it is also undeniable that there are too many negative effects of too much self-esteem in Koreans, for example, such people like to boast, love to show off, or are not good at listening, and do not change their opinions lightly.
Especially in the cultural atmosphere of South Korea, there are many cases where men like Kim Hyun-ah's father live in social life, and a few people can only find a sense of zĂ i in their wives after encountering pressure and setbacks at work.
Zheng Xiuheng seems to have suddenly understood Kim Hyun-ah's father's problem, this kind of mentality is really ridiculous and pathetic for his relatives. (To be continued)