I have never denied the saying that "love is a possession". Love is a kind of possession, but from the moment of possession, you must become a guardian, otherwise, you only possess something called "love", not a sincere emotion.

We have all had longing and imagination for love, but unfortunately, we always see fragmented love from the pen of writers, because their sentimentality has created the most poignant love in their impression. I don't want to make any rebuke or refutation of this, after all, their duty is to "tear up good things for the world to see". But what I want to say is that if you see that the river of love has been muddied by the mud and sand of the riverbed, and you start to abandon the river, or even complain or lament her uncleanness, then it only means that your vision is only so, and your vision is so short-sighted, that you never realize that you need to cleanse your heart and exercise your patience. If you don't have patience, you're in a hurry, and you can't eat hot tofu if you're in a hurry, and everyone understands this truth. As long as you wait for a while, the sediment and water will be separated, and it is guaranteed that the cleaner will clear itself.

All in all, we should not weigh the weight of love by the pain we have suffered, and we should not underestimate the value of love with the only bit of ability we have.