On the afternoon of September 27, 2050, I woke up, touched it with my hand, and found that Nie Xin was no longer by my side, and when I opened my eyes, I saw that Nie Xin was sitting at the end of the bed and putting on makeup. I said, "What's wrong?" ”

Nie Xin said: "When I woke up and saw that you were sleeping in Zhengxiang, I didn't disturb you." ”

I said, "What time is it?" ”

Nie Xin said, "It's probably almost 4 o'clock in the afternoon." ”

I said, "Oh, I've slept so long. ”

Nie Xin said: "Maybe you're too tired, you didn't wake up when I got up to wash." ”

I said, "Now that the train ticket has been booked, you should ask your medical office for leave." ”

Nie Xin said: "Well, I'll ask the director of our department for leave." ”

Nie Xin took out her mobile phone and dialed the mobile phone of the director of their department, and Nie Xin told the director about going home with me to visit my parents, and told the director that she would be off on the 29th and 30th, and that she would not be on duty during the National Day, and Nie Xin's director of the department agreed.

After asking for leave, Nie Xin let out a sigh of relief and said, "I can finally go home." ”

I said, "Hehe, is that an exaggeration?" ”

Nie Xin said: "You don't know, with you going home with you, you don't have to worry about your family forcing you to meet each other." ”

I said, "I see." ”

Nie Xin said: "You can get up too, let's go out to have some food, and then buy some special products from Binhe City for my parents at the supermarket at the door." ”

I said, "Okay." "Get up from the bed and go to the bathroom to wash, put on your coat and clothes after washing, and walk out of Nie Xin's dormitory with Nie Xin, who has already put on her coat.

Nie Xin and I walked on the cement road leading to the entrance of the hospital, the afternoon sun was very good, and there was no cloud shadow in the sky. Nie Xin took my arm and walked leisurely in the shade of the tree. Butterflies fly, flowers laugh. Birdsong. The branches are noisy. Nie Xin said: "Brother, the weather is so good today. ”

I said, "As long as I'm with you, it's good weather every day." ”

Nie Xin said: "Yes, the day with you is the most beautiful." ”

In the snack bar across the road from the hospital, Nie Xin and I ordered two meat and two vegetarian dishes. Two cold and two hot dishes, I also asked for two bottles of beer. Nie Xin asked, "Dear, we don't have to spend so much." ”

I said, "I'm happy with you, so I want you to have a drink with you." ”

Nie Xin said, "Okay, since you're happy, then I'll have a drink with you." ”

In fact, a pair of young men and women with the purpose of marriage are together in a process of seeking common ground while reserving differences, and a process of running in with each other. They don't necessarily have to ask each other to change anything for themselves. It's a process that fits each other as long as there are no major problems, because their goal is to get married and have children together and live together.

Nie Xin and I chatted while eating, and Nie Xin asked, "Dear, do you like boys or daughters?" ”

I said, "I've been shouting about equality between men and women for many years, but in fact, I don't think there's much difference between having a boy and a girl. ”

Nie Xin said: "I don't think so. I think it's better to have girls. ”

I asked, "Why do you say that, the family planning policy has long been liberalized." It's better to have a son and a daughter. ”

Nie Xin said: "I think it's better to have two daughters. ”

I said, "Is there any special reason?" ”

Nie Xin said: "I read a small article in the circle of friends, and I feel that it is very well written. ”

I said, "You might as well tell me, and I'll listen to it." ”

Nie Xin said: "A woman, if you love your husband, you will give birth to a daughter for him, and wait until he is 60 years old." There can also be a daughter who hugs his neck and says coquettishly, saying that she loves him, beats his back, and washes his feet. If you love your husband very much, you will bear him two daughters. When he is 60 years old, he can still have two daughters who accompany her and say that they love him, one beats his back, and the other washes his feet, so that he can enjoy a lifetime of comfort and happiness. If you hate your husband, you give him a son, and when he is 60 years old, a son pats the table and says to him, give him a house, give him a car, give him a daughter-in-law. If you hate your husband very much, you will give him two sons, and then two sons will ask him for a house, a car, and a daughter-in-law, and let him work hard for the rest of his life, and he will not be at ease until he dies. ”

I said, "Actually, it is the duty of children to have a boy or a girl, to go with the flow, and to honor the elderly." I don't think the concept of Donghua is very good, not to encourage young people to start businesses, but to let children gnaw at the old. I've been thinking that it's not easy for my parents to bring us up, and I have to make my parents worry about our marriage and life. I don't want to be such a person. ”

Nie Xin said: "Actually, I think that the mountain will fall, the water will dry, and it is better to rely on no one than on your own wisdom and hands." ”

I said, "Yes, our goals are the same, and I think so, although we may not necessarily stay by their side to fulfill our filial piety, at least don't add troubles to their old age, so that they can spend their old age calmly." ”

Nie Xin said: "Okay, let's not talk about this topic, it's too heavy." Let's dry up the wine and eat. I said, "Okay, a toast to our good life." Nie Xin said, "Well, cheers." The cups clinked in the air, we finished our beer, and Nie Xin and I each ate a bowl of rotten pork noodles.

After dinner, I settled the meal fee, and the two of us left the snack bar and came to the Guyuan supermarket to the east of the snack bar to buy souvenirs and gifts for Nie Xin's family.

Nie Xin purchased iron stick yam products and peony flower cakes for her family, and the two gifts were packed in two large plastic bags. When I was choosing a gift, Nie Xin said, "You don't have to buy very expensive liquor, just buy mid-range liquor." We can't go the first time and get the good ones later, and we have to think about the future. ”

I said, "What kind of gifts do you want besides liquor?" ”

Nie Xin said: "According to the rules of our Northeast, it is a box of fruit to take two boxes, in my opinion, it is not affordable, it is better to change two bags of donkey meat or beef, which are also vacuum-packed." ”

I said, "Okay, everything is up to you." "I took two bottles of high-quality Du Kang wine, and two boxes of vacuum-packed donkey meat in sauce.

When it was time to pay the bill, I said, "I'll forget it all." ”

Nie Xin said: "What's yours and mine, I'll count it together." Nie Xin drew her salary card and paid for these souvenirs and gifts.

Nie Xin carried two large bags of souvenirs, and I returned to Nie Xin's dormitory with white wine and donkey meat. Nie Xin took out the suitcase and stuffed these things into the suitcase, and after the second time, Nie Xin found out the change of clothes and the things she carried with her, packed them up, and put them in the backpack. After everything was cleaned up, it was already half past eight o'clock in the evening.

After packing her bags, Nie Xin knitted a sweater for me while watching TV, and chatted with me from time to time about some blueprints for my future life.

Sometimes the two can have nothing to say, sometimes they can be distinguished, but when dealing with the object, these two situations will not cause embarrassment between the two, in fact, at this time, the hearts of the two have been tightly attached to each other, and a community of feelings and interests has been initially formed.

At half past ten in the evening, Nie Xin kissed and hugged me separately, Nie Xin said, "Good, let's sleep alone in this room, I'm going to sleep in Xiaomei's room." ”

I said, "Dear, can't we sleep together at night?" ”

Nie Xin said: "It's different from the daytime, I can't sleep in the same room with you at night, I don't want others to gossip, and I don't want you to see me as a very casual woman." ”

I said, "Okay, good night." Nie Xin waved her hand and said, "Good night." "Walked out of her dorm room and locked the door for me. (To be continued......)

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