There are always many inconveniences for people who keep filial piety, not to mention living in the Jia family with the Lin family sisters and brothers. Regarding Jia Jiu's cautious behavior of sending someone to notify and agree on the time in advance, whether it was Lin Daiyu himself, his younger brother Lin Yu, or the mothers-in-law around him, they were all relieved.

They obviously have to live in the back garden of the Jia family for a long time, if the Jia family is the first and the last, they will always have a lot of trouble for these fatherless and motherless children, whose oldest is only twelve years old. It's just that no matter how capable the descendants of the Lin family are\ how much work Lin Ruhai has done before, when he encounters some trivial and disgusting things, he still has trouble.

Even if Shouxiao didn't come out, Lin Daiyu still knew a lot of things about the rough girl below. So when it came to the appointed time, he was also dressed and waited at the door in person, and after a while, he watched Jia Jiu come with people from a distance.

It is said that it is neatly dressed, and the clothes of the filial piety keeper are all regulated, and the linen and filial piety are cut off, which is the serious dress of the maid after the death of her biological father, and even the jewelry worn by the guest has very strict regulations.

As for Jia Jiu, he is wearing a full-breasted skirt with a royal blue shirt and a moon white background with ice blue flowers, a lake blue cloak with folded branches and flowers, and old silver jewelry inlaid with green agate on his head.

This is also a serious etiquette to visit the filial piety family.

Although it is said that the two of them are cousins of the in-laws, although it is said that the Lin family sisters and brothers live in a house in the back garden of their Jia family, although it is said that people will hang "Liduo is too outside", but. Etiquette is a thing that has an identity in itself, and it is the final outward manifestation of the compromise reached by the various forces after a fierce struggle. That kind of big grin. It seems to be close to others, but in fact it is a very disrespectful expression of others.

What's more, whether it is Jia Jiu or Lin Daiyu, even if one has been friends with each other for a long time, and the other has heard a lot of things about each other from the mouths of elders, they are not familiar with each other after all, and they follow etiquette step by step. That's the right way to socialize.

Especially in this era when filial piety is very important.

Seeing Jia Jiu dressed in plain clothes, wearing silver ornaments, and a group of girls who were also dressed plainly, Lin Daiyu also breathed a sigh of relief.

It is not easy for them to send people under the fence, if the host family does not even give the minimum number of courtesies. So what about their siblings? It's just his sister, after all, she is a girl, she can't get out of the inner house, and she won't be embarrassed and thrown outside. But his younger brother is going to take the imperial examination. If it is a bad reputation. The future of a lifetime is over, and maybe it will drag down the following three small ones.

Lin Daiyu has not heard the following rumors, at the beginning, he had never thought of Mrs. Wang so badly, but in fact, in the past few days when Jia Jiu was not at home, Mrs. Wang had come to Xiangxue Villa several times, and every time she came, she was crying poor. It's not easy to complain about Jia Yuanchun in the palace, and complain that no one in this mansion takes Jia Yuanchun seriously. The two eyes stared at the clothes on their siblings, as if they couldn't see their filial piety for their biological father.

Even the three little ones below felt that Mrs. Wang's attitude was wrong, not to mention Lin Daiyu and Lin Yu.

It's just that their sister and brother are new to the city, even if they are wronged, how dare they talk more before they find out the situation?

Lin Daiyu knows very well that Jia's mother treats him well, that's because he is Jia Min's daughter, and Jia's mother doesn't have a good face for his younger brothers and sisters; Jia Yu is a man again, and he can't talk to this uncle about a lot of things in the house, so he can only endure it.

Lin Daiyu knew that when the provincial villa was repaired, the matter would come to an end, and maybe at that time, he would be able to breathe a sigh of relief.

While her thoughts were flying, Lin Daiyu came over to greet Jia Jiu, greeted each other, and made a humble concession to each other, and then they entered together.

In the main hall on the third floor, Jia Jiu sat down with Lin Daiyu as the guest host, and when he turned his head, he saw that in the east room, Lin Daiyu's ten-year-old brother Lin Yu was sweating profusely taking care of his younger brothers and sisters, one of them was obviously not very honest, and he actually kicked his brother's face, and the other two, one sat honestly, and the little person actually learned from the adult with a tense face, without any air conditioning, but it was cute and cute, and the last little girl sat next to the third brother, holding the third brother's hand, It didn't seem that he noticed that the third brother was pretending to be strict, but his eyes widened and he looked at the main hall.

Jia Jiu sneered and laughed: "I remember that my sister's second brother and third brother are almost two years old this year, right?" I thought that the child's bones were soft and his spirit was not very good, but now I am relieved to see that Second Brother Lin is so energetic. Are the second brother, third brother and second sister still breastfeeding? Are there any complementary foods? ”

For many years, the Lin family has been thin, not because the men of the Lin family can't give birth, nor because the daughter-in-law of the Lin family is not in good health, but the infant mortality rate in this era is really too high.

Lin Daiyu has a deeper understanding of this than others.

He himself almost didn't survive the three-year-old level, and his eldest brother almost died at the age of three. It can be said that three years old is a hurdle for most children in the Lin family. Now, the three younger brothers and sisters below are about to enter the three-year-old mark, and the strings in Lin Daiyu's heart are also tight. Fortunately, the three younger brothers and sisters looked a little frail, but they were considerate and had never been sick, Lin Daiyu was secretly happy for a long time.

Hearing Jia Jiu praise her younger brothers and sisters, Lin Daiyu was happier than anything else.

It's just that Jia Jiu's last sentence made Lin Daiyu feel bottomless.

It is about his younger brother and the heirs of the Lin family, whether it is reasonable or not, it is good to listen to the opinions of others.

Lin Daiyu said: "Aren't all children breastfeeding? How can I still eat complementary foods? ”

Jia Jiu said: "This is the experience I gained from myself and Cong'er. That year, when Cong'er was less than a year old, something big happened at home, our wife lay down, and even Cong'er's grandmother was calculated by others, and she was worried about the children in the family. At that time. The house was a mess, and I didn't know which one to believe, and I didn't dare to let people in. I had to feed Cong'er with egg custard and thick porridge. This is a method I made up when I was a child, my lazy grandmother, who fed me rice porridge and eggs, but gave her own milk to her own child. It's strange to say, I'm good, and Cong'er is good, I didn't get sick much when I was young. It's not as good as Baoyu. I don't know if this thing is really good, or if it is in response to the old saying, children are easy to feed. ”

I have to say. Jia Jiu is a very good talker, he is not familiar with Lin Daiyu, and he doesn't know the other party's preferences, plus Lin Daiyu is keeping filial piety. Topics such as clothes and jewelry that girls are used to are not easy to talk about casually. Speak with Lin Daiyu's younger brothers and sisters who care about the most. It's a good breakthrough indeed.

Children should be raised cheaply.

Lin Daiyu also heard the elders say this, but now the Lin family can't afford to lose any of their heirs, and Lin Daiyu herself is only twelve years old. Age determines his experience. Even if Lin Daiyu has a heart, he can only listen to the opinions of others, or take care of his younger brothers and sisters according to the way he received care back then.

However, Lin Daiyu also felt Jia Jiu's kindness. From beginning to end, Jia Jiu didn't say anything wrong with the way the Lin family took care of the children. He was just sharing about their siblings' childhood.

If there is a change, if there is none, it will be encouraged.

This may not be the right phrase, but it is okay to use it here. Now. There are only two boys in their Lin family, both of whom were exchanged for his stepmother's life, and he can't afford to lose either of them.

Lin Daiyu said: "What kind of complementary food should be used?" Is there only eggs and rice porridge? ”

Jia Jiu said with a smile: "Many things can be used as supplementary food, generally when children's teeth are good, you can add supplementary food, what steamed tender egg custard, boiled thick rice porridge, as well as clean fish soup, fine minced meat." These foods can't be too big, and if they are too big, children are easy to get stuck in their throats. That's easy to choke. Also, you can't force feed. If he doesn't eat it, he can't force it to eat. Actually, when we were two years old, I let him eat it by himself. ”

Lin Daiyu said: "Second sister is saying that the third cousin ate by himself when he was two years old?" ”

Jia Jiu nodded and said, "It should be said that when he was twenty-one months old, I specially prepared bamboo bowls and spoons for him to sit on the edge of the table and eat by himself. Don't look at our Cong'er's serious appearance now, when he was a child, he was naughty for eating. When he saw me holding the dishes and chopsticks, he thought it was easy, but when it came to his own hands, the porridge couldn't be scooped up, but he spilled a lot, and he got angry and threw the spoon away. I didn't pay attention to him, he flattened his mouth, he wanted to cry or not, and the girls and grandmothers around me couldn't help but intercede for him, but I still ignored him. In the end, he was still choking back tears, pitifully drinking directly from the bowl little by little. However, this kind of thing only happened once. Later, he learned that if he was angry during a meal, I would not care about him. So he didn't make much noise when he ate, but later he had more strength in his hands, and he liked to do it himself more and more. ……”

Speaking of Jia Cong, Jia Jiu was full of joy. This younger brother was raised by him. Jia Cong is healthy and has never been sick, and Jia Jiu is also full of pride when he talks about it.

Lin Daiyu also listened with relish. He also has a younger brother now, so naturally he likes to hear this.

Whether it's Jia Jiu or Lin Daiyu, they didn't find it, and in the other room, a few little ghosts heard it with their eyes lit up. The eldest of them stretched out his hand to the fruit on the table, and called out in his mouth.

Lin Daiyu hurriedly confessed, entered the east house with Jia Jiu one after another, and also sat on the kang in the east house, and gently hugged the eldest brother, but the child didn't care about the ground, and still screamed at the fruit on the table.

Two blush flew on Lin Daiyu's face.

He felt a little embarrassed.

He always thought that his younger brother was very sensible, and his three younger siblings had always been very easy to lead, and nothing like this had ever happened.

Jia Jiu smiled: "Oh, this kid is eighty percent greedy." When Cong'er was young, it was the same, when he saw me eating, he would also make a fuss about eating, and if he didn't give it, he would make a fuss. It is estimated that someone has eaten these fruits in front of this child, so he will always think about it. ”

Lin Daiyu thought for a while and said, "Second sister, can you eat these fruits?" ”

Jia Jiu replied: "Why can't you eat it?" You can't just eat it. For example, if you say that you can choose the kind of powder, gently scrape it off with a silver spoon, little by little, and feed it to him little by little. If you change the juicy fruits such as oranges and pears, it is best to peel them, cut them into small pieces and squeeze them into juice, then strain them with fine gauze and let them drink them in a cup. ”

When Lin Daiyu heard this, she immediately ordered the girls to prepare. It's Lin Ren, who obviously understands it, and doesn't make a fuss anymore.

Jia Jiu chuckled and said, "Oh, Second Brother Lin is really smart." He understood it and knew that he had to eat, so he didn't make trouble. ”

Lin Daiyu was stunned for a moment, looked down at her younger brother, but saw that her younger brother buried his face in his chest, and he didn't know if he was coquettish or really understood.

Jia Jiu laughed unkindly.

The children of the Lin family are obviously not in the calculations of the police fairy, but they are afraid that like Jia Qian and Jia Qing, they will either cross over or be reborn.

Jia Jiu has heard that several children of the Lin family are very easy to bring, except for the second son of the sister-in-law and the eldest son of the eldest son, I have not seen them make any trouble. Jia Jiu knew at that time that these three children were afraid that they also had memories of their previous lives.

Jia Jiu had personally taken Jia Cong, so he naturally knew how difficult it was for children to bring. They are like a blank sheet of paper, they don't know anything about the world, they don't know what is right and what is wrong, and they don't even know whether what they do will be dangerous to them.

When Jia Cong was young, Jia Jiu didn't know how much thought he had put into him. He doesn't like to move, and Jia Jiu is afraid that he will be sick; He crawled everywhere, and Jia Jiu was afraid that he would be in danger. During those days, Jia Jiu was worried, if he couldn't rest for huàn time, Jia Jiu at that time would definitely not be able to hold on.

Jia Jiu had no intention of exposing the matter, at least when Lin Daiyu looked at him suspiciously, he said this: "Sister, don't worry, don't look at him as a little bit old, he can't speak, in fact, he understands it in his heart." ”

Lin Daiyu said: "But second sister, I heard that many children can speak before they are even a year old, but they have never spoken, I ...... in my heart."

Jia Jiu said: "If you can call, it means that there is no problem with your voice." As for not talking, some children do speak a little later than others. This kind of thing is different from person to person. Some children will jump out word by word before they are a year old, and some children will not speak until they are three years old. This kind of thing can't be rushed. Just let it be. ”

As soon as Lin Daiyu wanted to speak, she heard a commotion from the stay, and soon a girl came up to report that Mrs. Wang was here. (To be continued......)