Chapter 613: Accept a Man!
Wu Tian took the opportunity to teach Liu Renai not only to act as the other party's boyfriend, but also to act as an uncle, he lay comfortably on the sofa, and indirectly asked Liu Renai to massage him. Although it can't be compared to a professional masseur, it's better than nothing. What's more, the body fragrance on the beautie's body has fully made up for the unprofessional massage, which makes Wu Tian's heart very comfortable.
Although Liu Renai is a mental illness and a love idiot, he is also a diligent child, and he has not complained at all for Wu Tian for a long time, and he serves Wu Tian diligently, for fear of making Wu Tian angry again. It is said that diligence can make up for clumsiness! If Liu Renai can persist in this diligent spirit, I believe she will not be far from the society. The most feared thing is laziness, lazy women are hopeless.
"What was the first thing I said?" Wu Tian asked while enjoying Liu Renai's massage. He really wanted to enjoy it for a while, but he always felt that it was a bit of a bully to treat Liu Renai like this by taking the opportunity of teaching. In general, Wu Tian is a very soft-hearted man!
"Pay!" Liu Renai said, "The first thing you said is to know how to give and be good to your boyfriend." ā
"Well, now I'll tell you the second one, by the way, what do you think the second one should be?" Wu Tian asked Liu Renai. As before, Wu Tian didn't expect Liu Renai to answer correctly.
I saw Liu Renai tilting his head and thinking seriously for a long time, and then asked Wu Tian tentatively, "Is it a tacit understanding?" ā
"I have told you just now, tacit understanding requires long-term cultivation of feelings between men and women, and it is not the way to get along between men and women."
"What should that be?" Maybe he felt that what Wu Tian said before was very reasonable, so Liu Renai couldn't help but ask Wu Tian curiously.
"The second one is actually very simple, it is trust!" Wu Tian said to Liu Renai.
"Trust?" After Liu Renai heard this, he began to ponder the meaning of the word trust.
"Do you know what trust means?"
"To know is to have a high degree of confidence in things and to trust others!"
"You're talking about a literal translation of it. Trust. It is to believe and dare to entrust. It is a feeling of life, a noble emotion, and a bond between people. The most important thing between people is trust, and its meaning is to be able to make both parties relaxed, honest and happy! For example, one day, you see your boyfriend walking with a beautiful woman on the street, what will be your first reaction? Wu Tian opened his eyes at this time and looked at Liu Renai, he wanted to know what expression would appear on the other party's face.
Liu Renai thought for a moment. Said to Wu Tian, "Go over and say hello to him?" ā
Wu Tian was defeated by Liu Renai's answer, is this the difficulty of treating a boyfriend? This is the attitude towards ordinary friends! However, this is not the first time, Wu Tian's heart has long been prepared, and he can now accept any outrageous answer from Liu Renai, even if he doesn't say anything.
"I'm asking you what you think, not what you're going to do." Wu Tianbai glanced at Liu Renai, it seems that he is very correct in teaching Liu Renai to conduct actual combat at the same time, but it seems that he can't understand the actual battle for the time being. After all, they are not really boyfriend and girlfriend, and Liu Renai doesn't care about him in his heart, and he doesn't have feelings for him, so he told Liu Renai in this situation. With Liu Renai's character, her reaction will be that she doesn't know what to do, because she doesn't give her feelings, so she won't care at all.
Sure enough, it was as Wu Tian thought. Liu Renai thought for a long time, and finally shook his head at Wu Tian and asked. "What should I think in my heart?"
"That man is your boyfriend, and you care about him very much, isn't it indifferent, understand?" Wu Tian said in a very heavy tone, seeing Liu Renai's appearance of not understanding, Wu Tian suddenly felt that if he told Liu Renai like this, Liu Renai must still not understand, he thought about it, changed his way, looked at Liu Renai and said, "You are engaged in drug research, you should know the importance of real records, right?" Let me tell you this, one day in the future, you suddenly see that the real yĆ n record of a real yĆ n project you presided over is in the hands of your company's competitors, what will you think? ā
This time, Liu Renai didn't think about it, and said directly, "Why is the real record in his hands?" Is it the competitors themselves who steal it, or is it the collusion between the people of the real yĆ n group inside and outside, and the collusion with the competitors ......! Liu Renai was very excited when he said it, as if something had really happened. It seems that Wu Tian chose this way to explain to Liu Renai, which is still very correct.
"That's right, that's the mood." Wu Tian said to Liu Renai, and then slowly guided the other party to convert, "Now change the real yĆ n record to your boyfriend, they are all things you care about very much, and no one can take them away." Replace the competitor with the woman who stands next to your boyfriend, theoretically speaking, all the women in the world are your competitors, maybe whoever has their hearts thinking about how to seduce your boyfriend and take your boyfriend away from you. Now, say what you feel in your heart! ā
"How do you feel in your heart...... Doubts, doubts, anger...... There are also some indescribable feelings. Liu Renai said to Wu Tian while thinking.
"yes, that's how it feels. You will be very angry when you see your boyfriend with other women, coupled with some gossip you usually hear, at this time you will have doubts about your boyfriend, and this doubt will make you very angry and lose your cool. You will walk over to your boyfriend with a cold face and question her, or maybe you will rush up and beat the woman up, these are all expressions of distrust, and they are contrary to the trust I proposed! ā
"But why would the actual record of my project end up in the hands of a competitor? Isn't that doubtful? Liu Renai asked Wu Tian suspiciously, "If your actual record of Project A appears in my hands, won't you doubt me?" ā
"I won't!" Wu Tian smiled and shook his head.
"I don't believe it!" Liu Renai also shook his head.
"Because it's not possible at all, and even if it does, there must be a reason."
"What is the reason?"
"What is ...... reason!" Wu Tian thought about it and suddenly found that Liu Renai actually wrapped him in, is he lecturing to the other party now? And the analogy is a bit bad. After all, the real record is a dead thing, and the boyfriend is a living thing. Wu Tian thought for a moment and said, "It may be that the boss of the company has made some kind of deal with a competitor. The real yĆ n record only appeared in the hands of competitors. Or, your boss wants to impress your competitors with this record and invite them to join you. There may be all of these. ā
"My dad wouldn't do that, and if he did, he would have informed me in advance." Liu Renai said seriously.
"If you're so honest with me, then I won't be able to teach you." Wu Tian spread his hands, looked at Liu Renai, who was very serious, and said, "Let's change the analogy." Let's say you're on the street. What do you think when you see your dad walking with a beautiful woman and behaving very intimately? ā
"My dad wasn't like that." Liu Renai said.
"Isn't it a pole lift? Raise the bar? Didn't I tell you all the analogies? ā
"Then please put it another way, I respect my father, and please respect my father!"
Wu Tian looked at Liu Renai, this woman was standing in front of him, and she didn't give him a massage, and her serious expression was as if Wu Tian had said something rebellious to her father. Wu Tian shook his head helplessly. Suddenly laughed again, and said to Liu Renai, "Your reaction now is because you have enough trust in your father. Even when you see your father and the beautiful woman walking intimately, you won't believe that there is some kind of special care between the two of them, right? ā
Liu Renai was slightly stunned when he heard it, as if this was indeed the case. Because she trusted her father not to do that kind of thing. That's why she resolutely doesn't allow others to slander her father. However, there was still a question in her mind.
"Can a boyfriend be the same as a father?"
"Then you think you'll be with your father for a long time. Or spend a lot of time with your future husband? ā
Liu Renai thought about it, this is really hard to say. This question mainly depends on the lifespan of both and also depends on when she has a boyfriend. This is a math problem, not an emotional problem.
Seeing that Liu Renai didn't speak again, Wu Tian continued, "Of course, the trust I am talking about is not blind trust, and I don't doubt it at all. Trust between people is a boundary, beyond which suspicion is very legitimate. You see your boyfriend walking with a beautiful woman on the street, you don't have to be suspicious, but if you see your boyfriend kissing a beautiful woman, then you have to be suspicious. Come here, I'll play a little game with you. As he spoke, Wu Tian pointed to the sofa beside him.
Liu Renai sat beside Wu Tian curiously, not knowing what game Wu Tian would play with her.
"As I just said, trust between people is a boundary, and what is this boundary, I will let you understand it through a little game. Now, let's sit down face to face, and then I'll slowly approach you and see how far you can handle! As he spoke, Wu Tian began to approach Liu Renai, and the distance from the original face to face was forty centimeters, and began to slowly shorten.
As soon as Liu Renai saw Wu Tian slowly approaching her, it was nothing at first, but as the other party got closer and closer to her, her heart began to get nervous, especially when she thought that she had been robbed of her first kiss by the other party before, this nervous love became more and more strict, because the other party was not close to her somewhere else, but her face, if she continued, then the lips of the two people would meet together.
Forty centimeters, thirty-nine, thirty-eight ...... When the distance was shortened to about thirty centimeters, Wu Tian could clearly feel that Liu Renai's body was tense, the expression on his face became stiff, and his eyes were still staring at his lips. Wu Tian knew that Liu Renai must have thought of the scene when he kissed before, so he was so nervous. However, Wu Tian did not stop, he risked being slapped by the other party, and continued to approach Liu Renai, shortening the distance between the two.
"Don't worry, I won't kiss you!" Wu Tian said to Liu Renai, but he didn't seem to be smiling on his face, how could he think he was lying.
Wu Tian didn't say that it was okay, but when he said it, Liu Renai became even more nervous. Not dear? It's strange to believe you! Didn't you say you wouldn't do anything before? Didn't you take away his first kiss in the end?
As the man continued to get closer, Liu Renai could even feel the other party's breathing, and when the distance between the two was still twenty centimeters, Liu Renai turned his head and stopped playing the game.
Wu Tian slowly retreated when he saw it, and the distance between the two began to widen again. The nervous feeling in Liu Ren's love slowly disappeared, and the whole person was much more comfortable.
"I just now. It's a test of your trust in me. I said that I would not kiss you, but when it was about ten centimeters, you still avoided it, which shows that the boundary of your trust in me is twenty centimeters, and beyond these twenty centimeters, you will feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, and you will no longer trust me. If I keep getting closer to you, maybe you'll give me a slap in the face without hesitation. ā
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"You don't have to be embarrassed. This is quite normal. You trust me when I'm far away from you, but when I start getting close to you, you don't trust me more and more, and even after I say I'm not going to kiss you, you doubt me, you don't believe me, right? ā
"Well......!" Liu Renai really felt this way at that time, which is why she agreed with what Wu Tian told her! She admits to being a love idiot. But that doesn't mean she's a blind person. She still has basic sanity and judgment!
"So, trust is not absolute, it's relative. What is the scale of trust, you need to grasp it yourself. But, as your boyfriend, you stay out of the way when I'm twenty centimeters away from you. I'm upset! Wu Tian clasped his hands on his chest and looked at Liu Renai with a straight face, looking very angry.
Liu Renai was slightly stunned. It is estimated that she didn't expect Wu Tianjiao to suddenly change her face, and she was a little overwhelmed at first, but she quickly thought of a solution. I saw her come behind Wu Tian, put her hands on Wu Tian's shoulders, and began to massage Wu Tian again.
Hey?
It's progressing pretty fast! Wu Tian thought to himself when he saw it. It seems that he is quite a teacher as a teacher, and he actually teaches a love idiot like Liu Renai to care about people, and can take corresponding actions according to other people's feelings, it seems that this woman is not hopeless.
"Now that we've said that, let's move on to the third one. The third rule is respect! People should respect each other, and boyfriends and girlfriends should respect each other. Don't criticize a man just because he is the other party's girlfriend, let alone restrain a man's behavior just because he is the other party's boyfriend, respect other people's habits, life and privacy, and can't impose interference. Respect each other not only in thought, but also in action. Do you understand? Wu Tian said while enjoying Liu Renai's massage.
"Understood!"
"Understand what? Can you understand so quickly? What about the crooks? Wu Tian snorted coldly, and then continued, "Some women, who think they are men's girlfriends, interfere with each other in everything, and change other people's preferences according to their own preferences. For example, if you don't like someone next to a man, you don't let the man come into contact with that person. For example, if a man likes some landscape photos, he puts them in the house, and the woman throws them all away and replaces them with her own, which is also wrong. For example, if I want to drink cold water, but you don't pour me a cup of hot water to drink, this is also disrespectful to my expression. ā
āā¦ā¦ļ¼ā After Liu Renai heard it, he thought of what he had done before, and his face turned red unconsciously.
However, caring is caring, respect is respect, some women often confuse care and respect, and feel that some of their actions are caring, but in fact, it has affected men, which becomes disrespect, so women often do bad things with good intentions, which mainly stems from possessiveness. Men are possessive of women, and women are possessive of men. A man's possessiveness towards a woman, usually refers to the body. And a woman's possessiveness towards a man usually refers to all, and it is this strong possessiveness that often turns into disrespect, and finally leads the two to separate. Therefore, giving each other some respect and giving each other some space is also the main point of getting along between men and women. ā
"I see." Liu Renai nodded seriously, this time she really understood.
"In addition to the above three points, there is the most important fourth point, if you can't do the fourth point, then you will be in vain to achieve the first three points." Wu Tian said, revealing an unfathomable look.
"The fourth point? What is it? Liu Renai asked. She didn't understand why such an important point was not placed in the first, but in the fourth. Under normal circumstances, the most important thing should be put first!
"The fourth point is acceptance! Try to accept the pursuit of others, give yourself a chance, and give others a chance. If you always refuse, then you are destined to die alone in this life. ā
"It's that simple?" Liu Renai didn't expect that the fourth most important point that Wu Tian said would be so easy to do. Isn't it just accepting other people's pursuits? What's so hard about that?
"It's that simple, but that's what you're missing the most. Otherwise, you wouldn't be single until now! Wu Tian said to Liu Renai seriously, "And I think this is also the most difficult thing for you to do." Don't look at what you're saying now, it seems to be easy, but it's not easy to break your own habits for so many years. Are you ready to accept men and get along with them? ā
āā¦ā¦ļ¼ā (To be continued......)