I said, "Snakes are animals that humans fear and worship. There are many people who are afraid of snakes, but there are also people who are not afraid of snakes. I don't like snakes either, there are very few poisonous snakes in the north, most of them are non-venomous, so don't be too afraid of it. If you encounter a snake, it is said that it cannot run, and the more you run, the more it will chase you. Li Xiaomin said: "When I saw the snake, I felt uncomfortable, so change the channel." Li Xiaomin turned TV into a news program, an in-depth report on the re-employment of college students, and we watched and chatted.

Li Xiaomin picked up the teapot and made two cups of tea, one for himself, and one for me, and said, "Drink tea, and then continue." I said, "Well, okay." "Pick up the fragrant tea, smell it with your nose, and the fragrance is fragrant. I took a sip and the aftertaste was long. I said, "The best Longjing tea." Li Xiaomin said: "Well, yes, your tea appreciation ability is very strong." I said, "Occasionally, I just dabble in the tea ceremony." Li Xiaomin said: "Old classmate, you are always so modest. I said, "That's true." ”

Li Xiaomin said: "After a year of college, I feel that you are much more mature. I said, "Where do you see that I am more mature?" Li Xiaomin said: "You can feel it from all aspects of speech and demeanor, and you will continue to grow up." I said, "Yes, people always feel like a child at home, and when they leave home one day, they have to take care of everything by themselves, and suddenly they grow up." Li Xiaomin said: "Is college life stressful? ”

I said, "Some people say that college life is stressful, and some people say that college life is easy, and it varies from person to person." Some people go for the purpose of long-term ability and knowledge, and they always feel that the time is not enough, while some people think that they will be sure of the future when they are admitted to university, relax their studies, give up their progress, and have plenty of time for the purpose of messing around. In fact. It is necessary to learn all the homework well, and it is necessary to put in a certain amount of hard work in order to learn it well. Li Xiaomin said: "I see." I added, "University life is more about exercising students' abilities, and there is more time for independent learning, depending on whether you can take the initiative to learn." ”

Li Xiaomin said: "I heard that there are a lot of people in college, and you didn't meet the right one in the last year of college." I said, "I don't approve of finding a partner in college, and I haven't met a good fit." Li Xiaomin said: "Isn't it, your conditions are too high." I said, "I don't have any conditions for finding a partner." People look average, just be reasonable, people should be kind, and the key point is to be good to me. Li Xiaomin said: "There are no conditions for others." I said, "You can't be older than me, it's better to be two years younger." Don't be too short, I'm not tall, too short is not conducive to the next generation of eugenics. Li Xiaomin said: "This condition is not high, it seems that the probability of you being able to find a partner during college is not high." I said, "Why?" ”

Li Xiaomin said: "In the same grade, you should be younger, and the younger than you is is less. You're not too short. There are fewer girls who are taller than you, so the probability that you will be able to negotiate in college must not be high. I said, "Fate is something that can be met but not sought, and it will happen slowly." ”

After listening to what I said, I felt a faint unhappiness pass over Li Xiaomin's face. However, it was fleeting. Li Xiaomin said: "Borrow your English materials, and I will return them to you when I finish the speaking test." I said, "I don't need it either, you can use it first." Li Xiaomin said, "Okay." ”

I said, "I haven't asked you yet." How does it feel about this college entrance examination? Li Xiaomin said: "I feel okay, but I don't know what the admission situation is like this year." I said, "Yes, doing well in the exam is one thing." It's also important to report well. Although some students did not do very well in the exam, they went to a very good school because they reported well. Some students have a very high score in the exam, but because they are not good, there are also those who have taken several points in vain, so it is very important to fill in the volunteers. ”

Li Xiaomin said: "Tell me about any good experience and let me learn from it." ”

I said: "When applying for the college entrance examination, some experts always say: interest and hobbies should be the first choice for volunteering. For example, if you don't like to study medicine, don't choose medical school. While considering your interests and hobbies, you should investigate the major of the school and choose the major you like. Then choose the school by major, and divide the three grades of high, high and low. ”

Li Xiaomin said: "I like the English major. I said, "There are schools specializing in English, there are generally normal schools, there are also foreign Chinese language schools, if you want to be a teacher, you should apply to a normal school, if you want to be a translator, you should apply to a foreign Chinese language school." Li Xiaomin said: "Actually, I want to be an English teacher in the future. ”

I said, "Being a teacher, this industry is not bad." The job is guaranteed, the salary is guaranteed, there is no need to be exposed to the wind and rain, and there are two winter and summer vacations every year, what a good career. Li Xiaomin said: "Don't just see the good aspects of being a teacher, but also see the bad aspects of being a teacher." I said, "Tell me, what are the disadvantages?" Li Xiaomin said: "As a teacher, it is not easy to attend four classes a day, prepare for classes every day, study at night, get up early and stay late, and leave your family and business." ”

I said, "Actually, when you think about it this way, there are difficulties in doing everything, and there are relative benefits, depending on how you choose." Li Xiaomin said while refilling the tea bowl I had just drunk with new water: "Yes, before the watershed of life, the choice is very important, and you have to take a few steps at the critical time." I said, "Yes." In fact, going to college is just a part of life. No matter how high or low the score is, as long as you can be admitted to university. It is necessary to choose a famous or unknown university, meet a group of classmates of the same age, have a story of studying, and then go their separate ways after completing their studies. Here, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is an unforgettable memory of youth, which will affect us for a lifetime and will accompany us for a lifetime. ”

Li Xiaomin said: "I'll just say, you have changed a lot." Listen to this statement, it is so incisive. I said, "Old classmate, don't make me happy, I'm just talking about my own feelings." Li Xiaomin said: "The truth is a summary of practice, and you said it very well. ”

I said, "I'm still going to do something, I'll go back early today, and we'll get in touch another day when we have time." Li Xiaomin said: "Continue, what are you going to do?" I said, "In the past two days, my father has contacted me to learn to learn a driver's license to sign up, and I will go back to see if there is any result." Li Xiaomin said: "Okay, in this case, I won't keep you more." Driving is already a necessary skill, and sooner or later everyone has to learn it, so it's a good thing to learn it first while you're on vacation. ”

I got up to say goodbye, and Li Xiaomin sent downstairs. Downstairs we met Li Xiaomin's mother, who said, "Continue, don't stay longer." I said, "Auntie, I have something to do, so I'll leave first." "Open the lock of the electric car, ride the electric bicycle, wave goodbye to Li Xiaomin's mother and daughter, and start the electric car to leave the downstairs of Li Xiaomin's house.

Thinking about it on the way back, it turned out that Li Xiaomin's mother was afraid that the two of us would not be comfortable talking, so she deliberately hid downstairs. (To be continued......)

PS: Old classmates have a pleasant conversation......