My marriage and love life 43 in my troubled youth
On the afternoon of September 29, 2050, the K7117 train ran between the white mountains and black waters of Hei Province, and Nie Xin's mood was immersed in the joy of going home. Along the way, she told me interesting stories about her past experiences, classmates, friends. I asked, "Xin'er, your family is in Hei Province, why do you have to work in Binhe City, Central Plains Province?" ”
Nie Xin said: "There are many opportunities in life that come very suddenly, so that we are caught off guard. It was also a chance that I worked at Binhe Xingyi Hospital. In the winter of the year I was about to graduate, Xingyi Hospital went to our school to recruit workers, and I went to see it with the intention of giving it a try. Learn about it on the spot, this hospital is a private hospital jointly operated by China and South Korea, and the treatment is not bad. At that time, there were a lot of students who signed up, and I was not sure that I would be able to enter this hospital with better treatment. ”
I asked, "Why did you end up in Xingyi Hospital?" ”
Nie Xin said: "When I signed up, I met a fellow villager in his 30s, her name is Zhao Zining, and she is from Xiangfang, Hei Province. After a long drought, it is a rainy day, and a foreign country meets a familiar one. We were both very happy to meet our fellow villagers in Binhe City. I asked her if I could pick it up if I signed up. ”
You asked, "How did Zhao Zining reply to you?" ”
Nie Xin said: "Zhao Zining said, as long as you sign up, I can keep you." In this way, I filled out the registration form and came to work at Xingyi Hospital after graduation. ”
I said, "It looks like you always have a noble person to help you." ”
Nie Xin said: "I always think that opportunities are equal to everyone, and people can only help for a while, but they can't help for a lifetime." In addition, sometimes the opportunity is in front of you, and it is also in your choice. ”
I said, "There's some truth to what you're saying, but I think that successful people can always mobilize all kinds of positive factors." For example: time, place, people. You should have taken advantage of the time and people when you came to work in Xingyi Hospital. ”
Nie Xin said: "You are right to say that. ”
I asked, "What is your fellow countryman Zhao Zining doing now, do you still have contacts?" ”
Nie Xin said: "Sister Zining, I am now the director of the plastic surgery department of the hospital. ”
I asked, "It's amazing to be the head of the department in your 30s." ”
Nie Xin said: "Sister Zining is very good and her work is also very good. After I arrived at the hospital, I had a good relationship with her, and I often attended some of the small parties she held. It's a pity that Sister Zining had a bad life and divorced her husband last year. ”
I asked, "Do you know why you got divorced?" ”
Nie Xin said: "According to the villagers' private words, it seems that his husband has a mistress outside. I asked, "What does her husband do?" Do you know. ”
Nie Xin said: "Do real estate. ”
I said, "In this life, there are always a lot of storms and rains, and we need to deal with them together. There are always many temptations to resist, and there are always times when people do the wrong thing. It's not terrible to make mistakes, it's terrible to be obsessed. According to you, Sister Zining should be a very good woman, why would his husband cheat. ”
Nie Xin said: "If a woman is too good, maybe she is a little strong." is a little strong, maybe her husband has low self-esteem. This mindset drove him to find a sense of fulfillment and self-esteem in other women. ”
I said, "There may be some truth to what you say." However, I think. Is it too hasty to divorce after one cheating, and what happened to that man. ”
Nie Xin said: "After Sister Zining caught rape on the spot, she didn't give that man another chance, and then divorced. That man is now with that junior. Sister Zining herself took her son who was almost 7 years old. ”
I said, "Looking at what you said about Sister Zining's experience, I feel that she has made strategic mistakes. She didn't give his ex-husband a chance to correct it at all, it was she who pushed her ex-husband directly into Xiao San's arms and made Xiao San and her ex-husband successful. And he ended up in a situation where he was a lonely goose flying alone. I see it this way. No matter what the circumstances, people should be good at maintaining the family and put the maintenance of the family first. As long as it's good for the family. It can be put on the table to talk, and one party cannot decide the fate of two people and the future of a family with its own will. ”
Nie Xin said: "Don't say it, it's all over, when we go back, I'll take you to see Sister Zining." ”
I said, "Well, I'm looking forward to meeting this legendary sister." ”
As we chatted, it soon got dark outside the car window. As the train passed a twinkling railway bridge, Nie Xin said, "Ready, it's time to arrive." ”
I said, "It's finally time to get there." ”
At this time, Nie Xin's mobile phone rang, and Nie Xin said while looking at her phone, "Second sister's." ”
Nie Xin answered the phone, and Nie Xin said, "Hey, second sister." ”
Nie Fang's voice on the other side of the phone was very small, but it could be heard. Nie Fang said: "San'er, your brother-in-law and I have already arrived at the parking lot of the train station, let's go to the exit to meet you, and we will wait for you on the left side of the exit." ”
Nie Xin said: "I know, we are about to enter the station, and we will see the second sister in a while." ”
Nie Fang said, "Okay, I'll see you later." ”
Nie Xin hung up her phone and stood up with me to pack her luggage and packages, I was afraid that something had been left behind.
The train whistle blew, and the train entered the station and stopped on the platform of Smujia. I carried a bag and a trolley suitcase. Nie Xin carried a backpack, a handbag, and put on a windbreaker. We followed three or two passengers to the platform and walked towards the exit along the exit mark.
On the left side of the exit, I saw two young people, a man and a woman, looking into the exit. I realized that these two were Nie Fang and Cao Dapeng who picked us up.
At the exit of the station, Nie Xin and Nie Fang hugged each other, and Nie Xin introduced me and said, "This is the second sister, and that is the second brother-in-law." ”
I said, "The second sister is good, the second brother-in-law is good." ”
Nie Fang said: "It's all good, it's all good, you just continue." ”
I said, "Yes, I'm Yang Zaixu." ”
Cao Dapeng came over to shake hands with me and said, "Welcome to the third brother." ”
I said, "Second brother-in-law, you have to be closer and closer in the future." ”
Cao Dapeng said: "I didn't say it, my old father-in-law and mother-in-law are waiting for us to have dinner at home." ”
I said, "Okay." Cao Dapeng took the suitcase in my hand and led us towards their car with a quick pace.
Nie Fang took the backpack on Nie Xin's back and carried it for Nie Xin. Nie Xin asked, "What about the Yiren?" ”
Nie Fang said: "Yiren is playing at home with our father and mother." ”
Nie Xin asked, "Are the eldest brother and sister-in-law back?" ”
Nie Fang said: "The eldest brother and sister-in-law will be home at noon tomorrow, and the eldest brother will go to work today." ”
At the edge of the parking lot in the west square of the railway station, we found the FAW-Volkswagen sedan of Sister Nie Fang, put the luggage and backpack into the trunk, the four of us got into the car, and Cao Dapeng drove the car to the northwest of the railway station.
Cao Dapeng asked while driving the car: "Continue, where are you from your hometown, and what relatives do you have at home?" ”
I said: "My hometown is from Yanshan City, Liaoning Province, I have parents at home, and I have an older sister, who has been married and is currently developing in Beiping." ”
Cao Dapeng said: "The family is very humane. ”
Nie Fang asked, "San'er, are you going to spend a few days at home?" ”
Nie Xin said: "Let's take it for three or two days, we still want to go to the house to see the parents of the second family." ”
Nie Fang said: "It's not easy to come back, you two will stay at home for a few more days." Our father and mother often talk to us, how long have you not been home? My mother often cried to me, saying that it was better not to let you stay in Binhe City to work. ”
Nie Xin said: "Fortunately, you are by your father's side, your parents' affairs, brother-in-law and sister, you can worry more about it." The eldest brother and sister-in-law may not come back twice a year. ”
Cao Dapeng said: "We should take care of it, the key is that your father and mother always talk about you." ”
While the four of them were talking and chatting, the car had already driven to a community called Parkson. The car stopped in the parking space under the three-unit building on the D-4 floor.
After the vehicle stopped, Cao Dapeng said, "It's here." ”
Nie Xin and I got out of the back of the car, and I looked at the high-rise Parkson community and said, "The flower and bird garden community has a very good environment." ”
Nie Fang said, "Go upstairs." ”
We took our luggage and packages out of the car and took the elevator upstairs. I saw that Nie Xin was on the 7th floor. The elevator stopped, we got off the elevator, and Nie Xin went to knock on the security door of the east door.
The door was opened by an old man with gray hair, followed by a little girl. Nie Xin shouted, "Dad, we're back." ”
The old man said, "Come into the house and talk." (To be continued......)
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