Chapter 661: Swinging
Tidy up the house together and prepare breakfast together, although Xue Yanan had already said that he would be busy if he had something, but Shang Zichen still didn't choose to leave 'chic' immediately after 'finishing things', after all, he didn't really have anything to do anyway, he just knew that he had to go home.
As for when to go home, morning and evening are actually not so important to him now, everything that should be scolded has been scolded, and everything that can be explained has been explained 'clearly', and the rest is to try to prepare as well as possible before going home.
Another point is that although tidying up the house or something, it's just a little thing in daily life, but Shang Zichen still really hopes that he can 'try' it once before he can really live with Xue Yanan, and as for whether it will feel good, to be honest, Shang Zichen doesn't particularly care, he just wants to feel it when he dies.
Speaking of which, although in today's social climate, the ideal age for men and women to get married is often at an age like him, around thirty years old, and most of them do get married at this age, but for Shang Zichen, many objective factors around him have begun to interfere with him from a very early age.
First of all, the most important thing is to make Shang Zichen feel more practical, which is naturally the reality that old classmates and friends have become a family.
From childhood to adulthood, Shang Zichen has always been the youngest in the class and even in the whole grade. It's just that I didn't go to kindergarten when I was a child, but went to elementary school very early, plus my studies have always been okay, and I have never squatted in class or anything, so although my age was not too old a few years ago, just in my early twenties, but those classmates and friends who are two or three years older than him have all gotten married one by one.
In the circle of friends or in various contacts, Shang Zichen can always feel the happiness of them staying or speaking, and that is for her who has never even had a girlfriend. It's a very sad feeling for him.
This feeling. It's not just that he feels unhappy, but there are also unwillingness and even dissatisfaction, because for him, whether it's appearance, height or even conduct. Shang Zichen thinks that he should be much better than those 'scumbags'. But as a result, he was always single. Those people all had happy marriages, which was too devastating in Shang Zichen's view.
And on such a premise. Shang Zichen's heart has indeed begun to feel a little anxious, but it is not particularly anxious, after all, for him, marriage still seems too mysterious, and even makes him feel a little afraid.
There is no need to say much about this for the time being, because it is mainly related to family factors, but he still feels satisfied, and this can be understood from his mother's meticulous care for him.
Continuing to say 'hit', others got married, although he didn't want to get married so early, after all, he also knew that he was younger than others, so it seemed that there was still a lot of leeway in terms of time, but he didn't have a girlfriend, which really seemed a little' It's embarrassing, every time they are at a reunion with their classmates, they either say how their wives are, or how their children are, and when they ask Shang Zichen, he doesn't even have the experience of having a girlfriend, and he even has a girlfriend to say, so when he is embarrassed, he hopes to experience the taste of love.
However, if you want to feel love, the first thing you have to do is to have a girl, and if you want this love to be relatively perfect, then at least two people need to like each other, or love.
Shang Zichen can't decide whether others like him or not, after all, he has no experience in chasing girls, and he doesn't know what to chase girls or manipulate girls' moods and emotions, so as the saying goes, since you can't change others, you have to find a way to change yourself.
When he didn't talk about his girlfriend, or when he didn't deliberately care about the opposite sex around him, Shang Zichen didn't feel anything, for the good or bad of the opposite sex, to be honest, he didn't care and was not interested in pondering, but gradually he began to find that with the increase in the number of 'sisters-in-law' he had seen, although he hadn't even had his first love, the requirements for his love object were increasing little by little.
This kind of change that I don't fully understand, but I always improve my requirements, I have to say that although it can't be said to be wrong, but it can't be said to be fought for, because it is becoming more and more demanding to demand, and the most important thing is to hope that he can find a good object as much as possible, but this increasingly demanding requirements seem to make it more difficult for him to find a woman who is very satisfied with him.
said that he was very satisfied, in fact, when Shang Zichen began to pay attention to the opposite sex around him or the opposite sex he came into contact with, he was not without a liking, but after all, there are so many 'lessons from the past', so even if he likes it very much, but Shang Zichen will still unconsciously find fault with each other at the beginning, and the more critical he is, the more he can find the shortcomings, and the more picky he is, the more he will be dissatisfied, the more joy he will slowly be replaced by dissatisfaction, so before the love really begins, it has already ended.
has been wandering like this for many years, from the initial anxiety, to the later even more anxious, Shang Zichen has always been limited by his own subjective thoughts, and he has always been just by himself, except for his home and work every day, there is basically nothing else to go, of course, he has no interest in where to go.
Gradually, Shang Zichen began to feel disappointed again, not disappointed in himself, because Shang Zichen never felt that he had anything bad, but knew how to 'cherish' himself more, and when he began to feel melancholy for the longer he was lonely, another objective factor also came to him at the right time.
said that it was a factor, in fact, it should be said that it was 'pressure', and this pressure naturally came from the pressure brought by Shang Zichen's parents, after all, this is different from losing his temper, because even if his father rarely cares about what he interferes with, but only for marriage, the old man is still more concerned. (To be continued.) )