h2> Liu Yamin is worried about this matter, he knows the temper of his parents, the temper of his grandparents is even more so, the marriage of children is at least three generations, grandparents, parents, and themselves must be decent and kind, and the same is true for brothers and sisters.

Just one Ershan ruined their marriage, and their elders didn't want to pass on their bad behavior to their offspring.

"Eldest sister, I will solve those things, as long as your father comes to our engagement ceremony alone, there will be no problem." The simplest solution is this, he can't think of the best way, how can he tell the family what Ershan did, they will desperately disagree, only drag, the engagement proposed by his parents, take a step at a time.

"Yang Min won't agree, as long as your parents are very taboo about a family's badness, they will definitely send someone to inquire, even if they don't inquire, sooner or later they will know, after all, it's a thing.

And the actual situation of your family, you are still hiding it from us, you still don't say it at this time, Yang Min will listen to the truth and turn his face with you, don't hide it anymore, what can't be said, there won't be any spies in your family who are anti-**, right? Yang Liu made a joke, and Liu Yamin was not so nervous.

"Actually, our family is nothing, I just didn't tell Yang Min about the situation of other people in our family, my mother is a professor, and my father is just a retired public security officer, nothing surprising." Liu Yamin said.

Zhang Tianhong knows the details of his family, Zhang Yaqing and Zhu Yalan don't know, Zhang Yaqing has been in the countryside since he was a child, Zhu Yalan doesn't know if he doesn't know, Zhang Tianhong, Zhang Conggu will not say this to Zhang Yaqing, they are entrusted by others.

Some high-ranking officials hide the identities of their descendants for the safety of their children when they are not around.

Liu Yamin's grandfather's official position is not small, but the governor of a province, Liu Yamin has been with his parents since he was a child, but he didn't tell his true identity, and he went back once during the New Year's Day, and he was very unfamiliar with there, but if he was married, his grandmother would arrive, and the first-hand family materials of the woman's family situation had to be considered by his grandfather first.

They don't arrange marriages, they just audit, and the audit is very strict.

With the grandfather, the parents let it go, they went to the worry-free one, the grandfather was very meticulous in doing things, and he wouldn't listen to one-sided words, he would figure it out.

I didn't expect such a situation in Yang Min's family, Ershan became a fool, and suddenly became a murderer again.

At that time, when the second mountain was rectified, he didn't think of such a consequence, if he wanted to get it, he wouldn't have sent them to the public security bureau, so he concealed it, outsiders didn't know, and he fooled this person.

All in all, Ershan is a real trouble, grandpa is genetic, and now this matter is difficult to do.

"Do you only have parents? Uncle and aunt, social relations, you also have to explain, Yang Min can't marry you in a daze, so you want to get married? Too sloppy, right? Yang Liu saw that he was thinking about things vigorously, he must have a lot of things on his mind, but he didn't want to say, what can't be said, if he doesn't tell him honestly, how can he be harmonious?

Liu Yamin said: "Only parents are crucial, and it doesn't matter if others don't get along." He was still worried, Yang Min said that she was only married to an ordinary family, a family like Zhang Yaqing, she would not step in, she didn't want to be looked down upon, she didn't want to be bullied, her sister had not yet entered the door of Zhang Yaqing's house, she had been assassinated so much, and the powerful family was really a big conspiracy, she couldn't bear it.

He was worried that as long as he told the truth, Yang Min would not turn his face and leave him, after all, she had said such things many times, Xu was intentional, she never told the truth, Yang Min would definitely be brain. He continued to worry.

Yang Liu smiled and said teasingly: "Are you embarrassed?" What a big secret, don't worry about Yang Min's reaction, your family's reaction is what matters. Yang Liu looked at his embarrassed appearance and thought that this kid was funny, he was a Congolese person, how could he twist and pinch it?

Liu Yamin thought: The ugly daughter-in-law also has to see her in-laws, and she will bite her teeth and say, if Yang Min is not adaptable, she will take her time, but she is just facing two problems.

Liu Yamin first talked about his closest relatives, and then talked about distant relatives, and said that Yang Liu was stunned, Liu Yamin's social relations are really close, seven or eight aunts and uncles, all of them are officials, his grandfather is such a big official, Yang Liu doesn't understand the problem of position, and he also thinks that his grandfather's official is not small.

How could such a prestigious family accept a person from a family like Yang Min, a family that is either rich or noble, and his identity like this is even more unattainable, Yang Liu has no words for a long time, Yang Min is brushing dishes in the field, and he is holding a stack of bowls, or a trembling, his hand is so trembling, "Click!" "There was a crisp sound, and the stubble bloomed all over the ground.

Liu Yamin and Yang Liu ran out: "You didn't hurt your hands, did you?" The two of them asked together.

Yang Min's face was colorful in an instant, he stomped his feet and left, and when he got to the bed in the side room~ he started crying, Liu Yamin wanted to go in, but was stopped by Yang Liu, not when she spoke, let her cry enough.

Yang Liu thought, Yang Min is not only sad that Liu Yamin concealed his identity, but also sad that his own family, his own family is like this, people will not accept it, the identity is very different, and the family is still so angry.

Yang Min's mind Yang Liu understands, Yang Min's heart is not high, reading is inspired by her sister, her mind is plain, a harmonious in-law, go to work to earn money, live a good life, so that she is not looked down upon, it is her pursuit, Yang Min's self-esteem is the strongest, not like her world.

Little experience, quick temper, can't hold things in her heart, complicated family is not suitable for her, she likes simple families, social relations are so complicated, Yang Min can't cope with it, she will definitely be sad when she listens, and it is useless to persuade at this time.

Liu Yamin was very frightened: "Sister, will Yang Min break up with me?" Liu Yamin's first thought was this.

"It depends on your fate, even if Yang Min doesn't regret it, a family like yours won't accept Yang Min, this is my prophecy, you can see." Yang Liu thinks it's impossible, Zhang Yaqing has a father and grandfather in charge, Liu Yamin's grandfather may not be able to help him, and people who are taboo in family etiquette are destined not to accept Yang Min.

With their descendants of this status, and so many of his relatives, how many people will arrange his marriage?

Thinking of it, Yang Liu asked, otherwise he would forget: "Does your family allow you to deal with your own object?" ”

"Our family is very democratic, and we all handle our own partners, and my aunt, parents, and uncle's marriages are all handled by ourselves." Liu Yamin was asked by Yang Liu, and his heart was a lot more relaxed.

"Find it yourself, and the elders won't participate in the opinion? Don't check it? Don't ask? You can't everyone do it themselves, right? "How can it be realistic? No matter how enlightened the parents are, there is no one who does not intervene in the marriage of their children, and if it is not suitable, how can the parents not care?

A big family like Liu Yamin's family will definitely have the conditions for choosing a son-in-law and a daughter-in-law: "Tell me what your grandfather is most taboo about the marriage of future generations?" Yang Liu asked.

When it comes to this, Liu Yamin can't hide it anymore, the problem is solved little by little, Yang Min and their age is not too old, they can wait for two or three years, and they can smooth out a qiē in two or three years, I don't believe that grandpa will not agree.

He is still a little sure of Yang Min, Yang Min has fallen in love with him, otherwise she wouldn't cry, she would resolutely reject him. Although I can't bear it in my heart, there is no way to do it, who makes herself love her, I have to let her suffer some grievances, and I will compensate her well in the future.

"Eldest sister, I'll go see Yang Min." Liu Yamin heard Yang Min crying, but he couldn't help it, and his feet had already moved.

"Stop! ......" Yang Liu stopped him: "Don't go and make her anxious, let her fall asleep, and I'll persuade her tomorrow." Liu Yamin had no choice but to stop.

"Yamin, go and rest, you must be very tired." Liu Yamin left, Yang Liu saw that Yang Min was already asleep, his face was still full of tears, Yang Liu sighed, if he hadn't followed Chen Tianliang, he wouldn't have had much contact with Liu Yamin, and he wouldn't have had a chance to fall in love with Yang Min, and Yang Min wouldn't have such pain.

The requirements of the powerful family are too high, not as good as a civilian family, as long as the two of them are willing, the average rural family will not participate in the opinions of the children outside, if Deng Zuomin takes the initiative, or Yang Min wipes his face, it will not be such an ending, he is very worried about Yang Min's marriage setback, her mind is simple and very serious about marriage, and her temper is a little drilly, I am really afraid that she will delay her studies because of this.

Yang Liu didn't ask her to go back to her room, let her sleep quietly, covered her with a thin sheet, and Yang Liu went back to her bedroom.

The next morning, when Liu Yamin left, Yang Liu asked Zhang Yaqing: "Do you know Liu Yamin's family?" ”

"What's the matter, Yang Min, what's wrong with them?" Zhang Yaqing asked, Yang Liu did not inquire with him about Liu Yamin's situation: "I don't know about his family, I only met his parents, I asked how many people there are in his family, he didn't say, is there a problem with his family?" ”

"There's a big problem." Yang Liu said: "The situation of his family is too complicated, it is not suitable for Yang Min, and it is not a family that Yang Min likes, because of my business, Yang Min is even more afraid of such a family, I haven't slept for half the night, I am really worried that Yang Min will suffer for this for a lifetime." ”

"Just his grandfather's official age. He's a professor, Yang Min can also be a professor, it's not that he doesn't deserve him, there's nothing. "Zhang Yaqing thinks that what does the official university have, his grandfather still accepts Yang Liu, they still can't accept it?

"Their family doesn't care about status." Yang Liu said.

"That's even better." Zhang Yaqing said, looking at how good people are, they are not powerful at all, I am really envious.

"However, his family attaches great importance to etiquette, and families like ours do not accept it." Yang Liu said.

"His parents have known for a long time, when did they say such a thing?" Zhang Yaqing wondered: "Did his parents think it was inappropriate and regretted it?" ”R1152