Yu Jinling said: "Say it quickly, we will all listen to it." "I still remember the fresh feeling of coming to Amsterdam three years ago, and I was immersed in the novelty of the unknown. I said, "When I first arrived in a foreign country, with the help of Princess Joule, I quickly entered the Royal Agricultural College in Amsterdam as an international student. However, that was just a name, in fact I spent most of my time traveling around HL with Princess Joth, and later Princess Jorose took me on a tour of Europe. In the process, our feelings quickly reached a boiling point. Four months later, we had a wedding at the largest hotel in Amsterdam, and in October of that year, Princess Joose accompanied me back to visit my parents. During the subsequent marriage, Princess Joules never came to Donghua again. ”

Yu Jinling said: "What you said is very good, in the eyes of others, it may be something that cannot be sought, why can't you accept it." ”

I said, "The real difference between us is not in the cultural differences, nor in the communication barriers. The main difference between us is that Joule is a feminist through and through. If you think about it, the days of the golden knife and horse are certainly not worrying about food and clothing, but that is not the life I want. I want to have my own career and my own space, but these princesses don't give it to me. I'm completely a vassal of Rousi, you know, vassals have a hard time. ”

Chen Shushan said: "Yes, people who have the ability to live have to do what they like, a big man doesn't count, and he doesn't have the life he wants, he doesn't have his own career, he is alone in a foreign country, and he really hasn't had such a day, just come back." ”

I said, "In terms of life, Rousse is still very good to me. The marriage has not been for a long time, probably less than half a year. Princess Ruth gave birth to a daughter. After this daughter was born, Princess Joules devoted all her energy to taking care of her daughter, completely ignoring my existence. ”

Yu Jinling said: "This is your fault, you are also responsible for taking care of the children, you don't take the initiative to share it for Rousi, why do you still complain that she dedicates all her love to your daughter." ”

I said, "It's also because we were immature at the time, and we usually communicate less and less, until we separated later." ”

Nie Xin asked, "Then you will return to China?" ”

I said, "It took half a year of separation for us to go through the divorce procedures. I didn't come back until the divorce was done. ”

Nie Xin asked: "Don't you miss this exotic relationship, don't you miss your daughter." ”

I said, "This exotic relationship was a mistake in the first place. My initial idea was wrong, I originally thought that as long as there is love, we can be happy together for a lifetime. As long as we have children, we can participate in the process of our daughter's growth and share the joy of growth. However, there are too many family backgrounds in the marriage. The royal power patriarchal stuff is in there, my little daughter Alice. Yang, I was born with aristocratic treatment, and I was just a colt. Such inequalities within the family. It made me feel very depressed in my life. ”

Nie Xin said: "What caused you to completely break off your relationship with Rousi?" ”

I said: "Actually, the reason is very simple, I want to take Rousi back to China to visit my family, and Princess Rousi has always prevaricated and shirked for various reasons. She didn't want to come to Donghua to see my family, let alone settle in Donghuaguo. ”

Chen Shushan said: "I can hear that your differences are actually differences between Eastern and Western cultures and humanistic spirits. Westerners pay attention to independent personality. It's about your own achievements. On the other hand, we Orientals attach more importance to family affection and affection, which seems to be something that Westerners do not have or strongly disapprove of. ”

Yu Jinling asked: "Through this wrong marriage, don't you realize where you are wrong?" ”

I said: "I examine myself, my initial idea is wrong, you must not exchange feelings and marriage for what you want, when this benefit is achieved or disappears, of course, feelings will become water without a source, a tree without roots." ”

Nie Xin asked, "Why did you go with Rousi at that time?" ”

I said, "Actually, it was very simple at the time, I just thought, the world is so big, I want to go and see it with Rousi." ”

Nie Xin asked, "Then what do you think now?" ”

I said, "What I think about now, the world is so big, after reading it, it's better to be home." Where there is home, there is warmth, because there is love and care. ”

Chen Shushan said: "Look at you making the continuation as if you were interrogating a prisoner, and then continue, ignore them first, let's drink first, drink." ”

I said, "It's okay, with you here, I said all the words that I had been holding in my heart for a long time, and my heart was much happier." Chen Shushan picked up the wine glass, I also picked up the wine glass, the two touched the wine glass, Chen Shushan said: "Drink a big mouthful and eat meat." "I took a sip of wine and ate shabu-shabu slices with Chen Shushan.

Nie Xin asked: "You don't have any nostalgia for your last marriage." I said, "To say that there is no nostalgia at all is also false." The one I miss most now is my daughter, Alice, who is not yet three years old. The little girl, with black eyes and blonde hair, is very beautiful and will call her daddy. ”

Yu Jinling asked, "Don't you want Alice to follow you?" I said, "HL law doesn't support the child awarding it to the father, I don't think it's useful." ”

Chen Shushan said: "Maybe more than ten years later, your daughter Alice will come back to Donghua to look for you." I said, "Those things are still too far away, and they always have to be repaid, so don't think about them yet." I'm just going to settle myself down now, and then I'm going to take my parents to me. ”

Nie Xin said: "The idea is very great, I support your idea." If a person is not filial, he is not as good as an animal. We all know that the sheep kneels and the swallow feeds. If a person is not filial, he must not be friends. ”

Yu Jinling said: "It's been so long to drink separately, let's take a sip together." The four of them raised their glasses together and took a sip of their drink.

Yu Jinling asked: "The wine is almost gone, continue, Nie Xin, let's see what kind of food we eat." I said, "It looks like I've eaten our mixed noodles here." Nie Xin said, "Let's have another piece of sesame baked cake for each person." Yu Jinling said, "Waiter." ”

The waiter came in, and Yu Jinling said, "Serve us a plate of mixed noodles and four sesame baked cakes." The waiter asked, "Good meat or no meat." Yu Jinling looked at Nie Xin and asked, "What do you say?" ”

Nie Xin said: "If you don't want to bring meat, you will eat too much meat tonight." Yu Jinling said: "Okay, 6 pieces of sesame baked cakes." ”

There was not much time, and the noodles came up, and the baked cakes were served. Yu Jinling said: "It's not early, let's dry up the wine and eat." ”

I said, "Okay, let's eat." "The four of them drank all the wine, I put two baskets of mixed noodles into the soup pot, and Yu Jinling and the three of them ate baked cakes. I tasted the shabu noodles, and the taste was still the same as in the past, and there was a strong nostalgia in that taste. (To be continued......)

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