Regarding Ye Boting's attitude, Xia Xia was not unhappy, but he felt that he really had to grasp the degree of speaking in the future, and his blind kindness was easy to be misunderstood by others.

Ye Boting's face was already flushed with alcohol, and in the summer, in a few words, this person had already dried three cups of liquor in a row.

"What the hell is wrong with you? Pavilion, why are you grinding now? I also take wine to relieve my sorrows. If you don't babble anymore, it will feel like you are worried and can't speak. ”

"Because I really can't say it. Since I got married, a lot of things have happened that I could never have imagined. It's not just his mother and his younger brothers and sisters who are mixing in the middle, I think Qu Lei is also a lot worse than before.

But you want me to give me an example, right? I can't really tell. I was incompetent in all kinds of housework, and he took good care of me, and he did a good job of these aspects.

But I still feel more and more that he is a little bit separated from me, and I can't tell the specifics.

We were always noisy, and it was different from what I thought it would be in many ways. The point is that I often forget the origin of those little quarrels, and I don't care, unless they have just finished a fight, such as last night. ”

Summer scratched his nose, didn't understand but didn't delay the persuasion:

"Specifically, if you don't say it, I can't help you analyze it. But I know one thing, most of the conflicts between husband and wife are the responsibility of both parties, and the quarrels are inexplicable. Sometimes whoever is in a bad mood takes a step back and doesn't rush forward. ”

"You and my brother quarreled too? How many times? All because of what? ”

Ye Boting was puzzled, but his tone was urgent. She really can't understand why she can't wait to stick together 24 hours a day when she is in love, but when she is really married, why is it so annoying, and why is it not the same thing as she imagined.

Summer hurriedly took two mouthfuls of food, and after drinking a sip of water, he replied:

"Noisy, what are we doing more?! The number of times, in fact, according to common sense, should be more, within half a year of getting married, we could quarrel over the phone. This is normal. He's not a roundworm in your stomach. Men and women think differently, he can't guess, and you can't understand it. ”

"And then?"

"Later, after a long time, the run-in was almost over. I know what he does when he's in a bad mood. He also knows what to say that I don't like to hear.

Let's do it. It's the same as you. It's all small things, and there are no big things in life. If you ask me now, I know there was a quarrel a few days ago. But the reason is the same as you, I don't remember it too much. ”

Seeing that Ye Boting was not satisfied with the answer he gave, Xia smiled:

"I'm not a little more than you, and I haven't grown more than seven exquisite hearts. We are all new to the family, with no experience to talk about, and we cross the river by feeling the stones.

When he is angry, he will be disappointed, and when he quarrels, he feels that he has changed and is very strange.

It's not regret, it's discouragement, discouragement that he didn't find it right, he doesn't understand himself at all. But I would ask myself later, what about him? He felt the same way, did he doubt his choice the same?

The reason why I said that it is common sense to make a big fuss is because of the character of me and your brother. He has always been arrogant and rarely bows to people. As for me, I'm always not very enthusiastic about feelings. Some passive acceptance. In addition, we are women, especially those who are a little cultured, and those who are full and idle are in a panic, it is a bit hypocritical.

The daughter-in-law of a poor family is moved by her husband's lack of food in order to be full, such as my mother.

People like us who don't have to worry about three meals a day will compete to see who takes the initiative to bow their heads and who coaxes who first after getting angry, and who is wrong, in fact, there is no need to think about it.

Always let a person admit his mistakes to you, he will be decadent, is he really wrong a lot? You're also tired, and it's not a big deal.

We never quarreled to the extreme, just because I didn't care much about who bowed my head. Your brother is often angry with me, and he will ask other questions without words, just like that, people will give you a chance, it is a signal, and if you can't grasp it, you will have a cold war. I usually take chances. You can do it, but you can do it to a certain extent, and you can't be unreasonable. ”

Ye Boting pursed his lips when he heard this, and raised his chin again to look at Xia.

Summer shook her head helplessly:

"Tingzi, you think that my kind of concession is cowardice, no everyone's demeanor or no ego, etc., I admit it, because I don't want that, I just want to be happy. You don't get it wrong.

Let me tell you, with my trembling experience of just touching the stones to cross the river, to advise you, at home, just two people, cowardly, two people's home, what self do you want. Don't get married.

Why do men always bow their heads, even if you don't bow your heads, be soft, don't be old and Qu Lei, who is right and who is wrong, who bows his head, it's really useless compared to that real child. That shouldn't be the leitmotif of life. I love you, spoil you, and I'll see you in the real chapter. ”

Ye Boting lowered his eyelids, and kept turning the wine cup with his hand: "What do you mean, we have problems with both sides in any way?" ”

"Among these, you appoint. It's not that I said your pavilion, it's about eating, your brother said that day, you have to be able to cook, even your brother cooks for me like that, you can't let Qu Lei finish training every day, and you have to run home for your food and drink.

After a long time, outsiders, especially your mother-in-law, she couldn't see the sweet happiness and intimate words of the two of you when she closed the door, and she saw that her son had to take a trot to serve his daughter-in-law every day. Just this family home, you can know it after a long time.

It's not that I'm afraid of what others say, and I don't live with them, but people are terrible, some remarks reached Qu Lei's ears, once and twice, and often listened to psychological hints. Or maybe you can't do some other chores. ”

Ye Boting frowned: "I have to disobey my parents for him, I have paid so much, why are you the same as others, always cooking and doing housework, even if I don't do it, I must pay more than others." And his mother, you can stand it for you! Catch up with you to have a good mother-in-law! Just now you said that Qu Lei had bad intentions, and now you are standing on his side, where are you? ”

Summer raised her eyebrows, swallowed her spit, and said in her heart: When your mother was embarrassed for me, didn't you see what? Two ways to do it.

"Ye Boting, I'll drink too much for you. I took you as a friend and persuaded you, but you didn't say anything, how can you persuade me! Don't be ignorant!

Yes, no matter how close friends are, you can't talk about the little things between husband and wife, not to mention the educational constraints you are subjected to, etc., you can't be too specific, I understand.

You say I'm just swaying around like half a bottle of water, and I'm going to have to think about what to say.

If you don't, I have a way to persuade you, and if you do, I have to guess as a friend, and I have to persuade you both in a good way. What a thankless effort! ”

Summer looked at Ye Boting picking vegetables, and waved his hand very irritably:

"Don't eat it, annoying. Qu Lei and your mother-in-law were angry, and came to my house to be angry with me, a pregnant woman. In the first two days, I was angry and cried by your mother-in-law, and then I looked at your face and guessed in horror, saying that you were still annoyed and angry, and you wanted to transfer the unhappiness to me, right? ”

One was dizzy and unhappy, and the other was a month old with leg cramps in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep well, and their personalities were not soft.

Ye Boting glared sideways at Summer: "I'll go, I'll never come again!" You're also getting annoying, what friends! ”

The "drunkard" took his coat, put on his shoes, pushed open the door and left, and this conversation was not explained at all.

The pregnant woman was so angry that she knocked on the table with chopsticks, thinking, what will happen to your family in the future...... (To be continued......)

PS: Recommend a friend's masterpiece: "Hou Men's Wedding Marriage" was reborn as a scumbag, and he killed him by marrying him......